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Making love Vs. Sex
So my boyfriend loves sex, i mean what guy doesn't don't get me wrong i love sex to hah, a lot. Lately i have been thinking though i mean i love sex but i watch these movies and shows and stuff and the movies have the people 'making love' not having 'sex'. I've been thinking about it more and more and i want to make love so bad. My boyfriend is the kinda guy that talks dirty and stuff during sex, i don't know how to explain what im trying to say but i guess i just want to be more romantic then it is i mean the sex is great its just i want to feel that romantic connection that i see on movies and such with making love. My boyfriend likes doing everything and anything and he just doesn't seem like he would be the romantic kind during sex he's more like the 'porn star' kind. IM sorry i don't know how to explain this.. i love my boyfriend and i know he loves me i just want to feel more connected when we have sex instead of just fucking and then thats it, like we don't really say much after we just put our clothes on and thats it hah. How can i get my boyfriend to be more connected? What should i do about this? Any advice?
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Well to tell if he means it when he is having sex or just wanting to have sex. Does he lay there with you for alittle while after having sex. My boyfriend and I have sex all the time and it doesn't get boring because we don't do it in the same places. its hard to explain but Afterwards hell hold me and tell me he loves me and sings to me a stuff. i find that romantic. in the begining we kiss and play first instead of getting right into the "sex" part. those are some ways i know he really cares about me and it makes me feel loved and like its romantic.
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you need to tell him. trust me hiding this emotion will only lead to breaking the relationship. all you need is a little tender love and care from your man. and you need to tell him in a way that would let him know the sex is great but you want that connection. that sometimes you'd rather make love, than just fuck. make sure you tell him the sex is great..they like that haha. just dont hide your emotions. its funny cause my cousin just broke up with her boyfriend for the exact same reason. he just didn't get it. theres more to having sex than ''the motion in the ocean'' . tell him to not talk during sex hah..unless you like it. haha and make sure its on a night where he can sleep over(or someplace you can sleep over) and actually TELL him he's spending the night, just the two of you. i dont know, make it seem romantic.
i've seen too many love movies :/
Jill :]
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I know what you mean and you explained it correctly you should explain it the same way to him .it seems like you want it slow and you want to be told i love you and your beautiful while having sex and after that lay there and just talk fall asleep in each others arm.
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