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this is stupidddd.
Seventeen.Female//bestfriend is Nineteen.Male
okay so ive known my bestfriend since i was born. Like literally he's been around that long. Now he's only been my bestfriend for like 2 years but he's always been here for me. Well, him and his ex girlfriend broke up like a month and a half ago and ive been helping him through it, which has been going good for him and whatever. Well he's recently started seeing this one girl who he seems to really be into. well im extremely happy for him because he's no longer depressed and whatever. Well this is where it gets tricky. He flips out on his ex-girlfriend all the time cause he thinks shes going to find someone else, well he's finding someone else so its not fair for her. Another thing, me and him just recently began fighting a lot over the dumbest things in the world. Well now he is refusing to talk to me, and ignores me when he's at my house which is retardedd. Well this girl he's recently trying to get with, is a big time partier and a druggie, well he doesn't like that stuff in a relationship and i know she is for a fact. And i think if i tell him he wont believe me and he'll think im jealous and not wanna talk to me for even longer. Us not talking is killing me because he's the only person i can trust. And if he doesn't find out the truth about this girl, i know he's going to end up getting hurt and i wont sit around and watch him get hurt again. He's too good to get hurt and he's been hurt too much already. I don't know what to do =/ Should i tell him about this girl? I dont knoww, any input on any of this. Anything would be absolutely amazing. Thank youuu.
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I would tell him the truth. Even if he gets mad at you, he knows that he has been warned if he gets hurt by the girl. Also, if he finds out that you knew and didn't tell him, he would probably be upset so i would go ahead and tell him what you know. It will be better in the long run. Hope this helps!
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it seems to me that he cares more about the past then the future i think his trying to use the new girl just to get over his ex he probably know about how the new girl is but needs someone to care about him.as for you i would tell him anyways tell him you dont want him to get hurt and your just trying to help but i think he might come around his going through some hard times in his life he wants to feel love so remind him that he is .good luck
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Maybe you just tell him you think hes being rude or moody and you think the reason is because he isn't over his ex girlfriend yet. Getting over someone you care about takes sometime and can't happen in a little distant of time.
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