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My name is Devin Lindsey or Vinny as my sister calls me! I am 17 years old and go to Bethel Park High school. I loooove swimming along with dancing, singing, and playing softball. I also run varsity track with is alright i supose too.


My favorite colors are orange, pink, and blue. I love to be crazy and have a good time

I've had a job working for 15+ monthes so I can answer alot about that

and I know alot about relationships in general so I can be helpful with that sometimes

especially with parent child relationships


I am a very observant person and tend to know more and care about more than most my age


and I really believe in volunteering to help animals especially at shelters. Usually its not their fault that they have to live their and its usually horrible cercimstances that bring them there and I feel terrible that they can't speak for themselves and people are too caught up in spending like $500 on this cute little pure breed puppy from a breeder just into getting rich instead of giving one of these dogs another chance at life (there are usually a handful of dogs under a year old so the i want a puppy excuse doesn't work with me)

My baby is named Lainey Mae... we got her from a shelter about 2 hours away from us when she was 7 weeks old. she is now 2 years old and the center of our family. unfortunately someone was cruel enough to go down and drug up and shoot (but luckly not kill) most of the dogs plus rob the owner (just like someone did at the shelter where I volunteer) and its now shut down

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Ok wel my one freind has rely big boobs. Sometims i like to tuch them becasu im on the smallr side and they feel nice sometims she letsme sometims she just laufs it off. I like it wen she lets me tuch them. THen wit some of my othr frends we experimen nd stuff nd lik tuch each othr. Dos this mean im a lez? Dos anyone else do this kinda stuf? Wen i do it i sometims get horni. PLsz help me! I lik guys but experimentin is fun?? IdK! help!

well 1 learn to spell and 2 it depends on your age. if yuor over the age of 15 i would say prob and if not its normal when you are younger to like that stuff and you will prob grow out of it

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Well , i really like this guy in 7th grade, but the thing is I'm in 8th grade. I don't really know him that well but i really like him.
I know him well enough to like ask him out, but i dont want to yet.
I know some of my friends would give me a hard time about it but i know his friends wouldn't.
Should i ask him out or not?
I rate high for help
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if you like him go for it! what if he is the man of your dreams. its not like your are going to see half of your friends after highschool anyways. do it!

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Im 12 && Female.
My boy friend is 13. Me and Him have been dating for 2 years. We've had the best relationship ever. He doesnt get Jealous easily, I dont either. We buy gifts all the time, and Hang out alot. We "study" together. We've only gone as far as making out.. But a few days ago on the phone, he said he wanted to go a step further, but I told him, Im too young && not ready for that. He told me, if i wanted to be with him any longer I'd do it. Then i hung the phone up on him. i dont want to do it. Im not going to, But i feel so empty inside, Its crazy. I never heard him talk to me like that. We havent talked for 2 days. I dont know if i should call him, Im scard to call.

well why should you go out with him if he wants to be controlling like that. dont call him until he apologizes to you!

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i heard, from a friend on myspace, that there is a virus spreading on xanga. i dont know if its true or not, but i'd like to know. it could be just myspace people who want more people to be fully myspace people, and no xangas. but im not completely sure. does anyone know?

i havent seen any viruses lately but i do know of a few sites that if you visit them they will hack you website and maybe your comp so be careful. your best bet is to stay away from peoples myspaces that you dont know

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What is really good for pimples !
That works the best !



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well i use oxy pads twice a day and wash my face everyday with that nutragena deep clean stuff and my face is usually pretty clear

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ok well i have FINALLY narrowed it down to 3 songs to sing for my musical audition. my options are "At Last" (by Etta James) "Killing Me Softly With his song", or "A Dream Is A Wish Your Heart Makes," from Cinderella. Which do you think would be the best song choice? please let me know! I really want to do good on this and get a good part! thank you very much and i rate!

im not familiar with the first song but i think the 3rd one would be good because the 2nd one isnt really a musical song its more like a popish kinda song and thats most likely what they arent looking for. i sang the song belle from beauty in the beast if you need more ideas (i only sang a small part) just try to pick songs from a musical if you can or even the cinderella is more of a musical kinda idea


i hope i made sense!

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i am 13 female and i think that i am lesbian. i dont want to be lesbian and i want to stop. how do i stop being lesbian? i havent make out with a girl yet but here are the things i like: 1)girls kissing. 2) "perfect" breast. 3) cute faces. and 4) hearing girls moan during sexual things. i think that the cute face and perfect breast thing is just me being insecure about myself but what about the other things? anyway how did i become lesbian in the first place? is it in my genes or something? i need help!!!!!
i rate 5"s for good answers!

well you cant stop it really. i think it is in your genes but chances are you arent a lesbian. it happens to most girls during pubery because its from a rush of hormones. its just part of your curiosity and most girls grow out of it. if you ahve the same feelings in 5 years maybe you are but for now just let it go. maybe talk to a counsler or someone who is not against lesbians and tell them how you feel

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im 15 years old, i no im not old enough to have sex yet, but if the opprotunity comes i have a question...im really worried, im not big enough to wear a tampon. and its been that way ever since i started my peroid. i flirt with guys a lot, and i want to do more then just flirtin somtimes, but im afaird, that if i start doing more than just flirtin suck as fingering or actually sex that it will hurt me a lot, bcuz im not big enough.. i was wondering if maybe someone could tell me if it would hurt bcuz im not big enough or if im just worring for no reason?! please help. thanks a lot.

well when you have sex if your acually horny or whatever i know your vagina will open up a little bit. and your hymen breaks creating more room

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Ok I am a 16/f I need to know how to lose a lot of weight. I weigh about 198 (I had a baby) and I am 5'6". What can I do to get down to about 130 lbs? Any advice? Things I can do in my living room or around my house? Please help! Like I also need it not to take like forever! HELP!

i would recomend getting like those yoga and aerobics tapes. they accually work well and even most movie rental places have them to rent. crunches a squats work well too. try going out for a walk on a nice day. i was reading a magazine and a was a nifty tip! like get rid of laundry baskets so that you have to acualy take trips halling laundry and stuff.

and i was wondering if you could answer my question about having a baby which is currently on the first oage (as of 1:15) or im me at xsweetxpeax88 and talk to be about having a baby and what not

thanks

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Tonight is New Years ! & i don't know how i should make my hair should i put it up, put it down & straighten it, or put it down and curl it ?



Thnank you !



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well f your going out to party and dance and that i would do something up because if your jumping around and that curls tend to get messed up but if its just dinner or whatever i would say go curly

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Okay, my hair is naturally very wavy, but like..ugly waves. I've tried the scrunching thing countless times and I can't seem to get my hair to look the way it does on other ppl. My hair's very thick, this may be the cause of that, but idk. I use Brilliant Brunette Gel, and Spray. I've tried other sprays, but they left my hair sticky and messy.

Can anyone maybe tell me how LONG I should scrunch my hair for? And how MUCH gel should i use? After I'm done scrunching I usually use my diffuser in about an hour or so, and it dries my hair, but it never looks as wavy as I want it. It just looks like my natural hair, which I don't like. If you think you know what I'm doing wrong, please tell me.

well what i do is i wash my hair then towel dry it. then i get like 2 big blobs of gel in my hands and just scrunch it for a few seconds and it usually looks pretty good. every once and a while while its drying just run your hands through and rescrunch some of the parnts that are straighter than others

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ok there is this guy that i like but he is like 2 years younger than me cause im 15 and he is 13 and i dont know if i should go out with him cause it would be kinda weird cause we go to separt schools and the age difference so should i give him a change anyway ??

i prob wouldnt but if hes worth it go ahead. most boys at that age are kinda imature thats the only reason i would say no

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i was wondeirng if i could aim you and you could help me on there. i have 2 confusing situations i need help with. if so , whats your aim?

hey mine is dlr jazz machine and i would be more than happy to help you

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For Christmas, I got a bunch of money and im pretty sure its enough for a digital camera. My mom says to wait till this weekend when there will be a buch of sales, because its the weekend after Christmas. So should I wait, or do you think it would be sold out? And, when I do get one, what's the best one to get thats affordable but yet a really good one? Thanks in advance =)

eitehr way they should be the same price mine was like $150 and its a fuji film from walmart and its amazing! i think that price includes the $40 memory card i bought but im not sure. the camera is amazing (perfect quality) the only bad thing is it eats through batterys.. you can only get like 1 hour max of use with 1 set of batters so i recomend buying the rechargable battery set by fuji film. ive heard kodak is good but for the most part they only start at $200

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whats this song called. and who sings it ? it goes a little like this

here we go again now your telling me shes just a friend

i'll rate 5 for you

i know what song your talking about but i dont know either! if you go to azlyrics.com and type in some of the words to the song they will give you the name and artist

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i was just wondering how old do u have to be to be able tolike get your own apartment? because i dont wanna live at home anymore and like could i go on welfare or something??

14/f

you have to be 18 to get all that stuff unless i think if you a child or if you married or if social services thinks you deserve one. and besides welfare would barely pay for your rent. what about school? food?clothes?furniture?

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I was at my friends birthday party which was in an indoor swimming pool. I was wearing a Tiffany ring that my mom had gave me for my birthday last week. I forgot to take it off and when I got home I realized it was missing. What do I do if my mom asks me about it?

well first do whatever you can to get it back. and if your mom asks i think you have to tell her the truth because the sooner you tell her the faster she can help you get it back trust me

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My best friend Rachel and I are in this thing at school where we help new students. A new girl came and she was really cool her name was Ashley. She always hangs out with Rachel now and Rachel always avoids me and now they are best friends and always exclude me in activites. Should I talk to Rachel? Ehh

well if you don't talk to her do you think things will magically get better? if she doesnt know how you feel about it they wont!

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I was shopping yesterday and I bought a shirt and my total was 17 dollars and something cents. Well I grabbed into my wallet and thought I pulled out a 20 and gave it to the casher.


I don't know if she wasn't paying attention or what but after she put the bill into the register, she asked me what I gave her. I said it was a 20 because I thought it was.


When I was at home I was looking through my wallet and I REALIZED THAT I GAVE HER A 100 DOLLAR BILL!


Now I don't know if it's too late to go back tomorrow and see if I can get my money back. Would they give it to me??

i would not think so. but you might get lucky. go back there and tell them and they will look at security cameras and look in their $20s to see if there is a $100

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What's a good muscle relaxer liquid (you know, spread it on the stiff, sore muscle and the soreness goes away) that doesn't stink? I tried Tiger Baum and it worked wonderfully but it also smelled very strong and very bad.

icey hot i heard works but if you are sore i recomend drinking tonic water and eating bananas i heard that from a pro dancer..she said it was amazing

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