Hey! My name is Kathryn and I am 14. I live in a suburb of Chicago.
I would say that I am a very friendly, loving, adventurous, helping, funny, crazy, outgoing, kinda person.
Some of my intrests include hanging out and talking to friends, helping people, playing soccer, playing basketball, playing ddr, going online, listening to music, drawing, going shopping, reading, and watching movies.
I just love giving people advice and helping them with their problems...I want to either be a counselor or social worker when I grow up.
I try my best with answering questions, and I hope that I can help you!
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ok i feel really dumb asking this but what exactly is "feeling up"? could someone explain this to me plz? thanks a lot! (link)
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Ummm..Feeling up is when a guy and girl both take off their shirts and touch each other.
I hope this helps
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hey! im 13/f
okay well theres this boy (we'll call him S) and this girl (my good friend.. we'll call her M) and theyve started goin out AGAiN.. and they tried keeping it a secret from me cuz they both know how much i adore/love S and me and S are BFFL and weve dated in the past. they both know how i feel but flirt RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME and go out anyways. i try being a good friend and not letting it bother me but S is being kinda mean to me lately but i still love him. alot of my friends think its stupid but i love him anyways.. and M is being a complete and total bitch towards me and acting all 'MY LIFE SUX EVEN THO I GOT THE GUY YOU LOVE' help i rele need advice on how to handle M and how to get over S i right high so thanksss hun! (link)
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Hey! I think that you should confront your friend M. Tell her how she's making you feel. Ask her to stop rubbing it all in your face that she is dating your ex boyfriend S. I don't think that you can really stop them from going out with eachother, but atleast they could be nice to you and stop flirting right in front of u. If you can't talk to your friend M, then talk to your ex boyfriend S. Tell him how both of them are making you feel. It will probably make them stop. But remember not everything lasts forever so they will eventually break up and then you might have a second chance with your friendship and relationship with M and S.
Good Luck
I hope this helps
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there is this guy at school i really like i told him once and he liked me to but would not ask me out beacuse he says he just got out of a long relationship. i waited like 3 months the n i tol dhim i give up im not ganna wait for you any more so i stopped likeing him now he always stares at me and looks at me weird i still like him i never really stoped my friendz are ganna try hooking him up with me how do i get him to see how much i like him? (link)
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Hey! Try talking to him yourself. I would suggest not having your friends hook you two up. Guys like it better when you ask him out yourselves...It shows him that you are more outgoing and bold and not shy or embarassed to ask him out. If he's still not ready after his long relationship, still be friends with him, get to know him better. Flirt with him and let him know that you still like him. It will build your friendship more, and you know that they say every great friendship builds into a great relationship.
Good luck
I hope this helps
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I'm the one who's boyfriend killed himself and it was basically my fault. Well, I've been getting help with that, I'm in counseling and I've been starting to go to school a little bit, but I only go like 2 days a week. I still go to his grave everyday and cry and just talk to him as if he was there. I also go to his house every wednesday and friday night to have dinner with his family, and we talk about things. Anyways..Last sunday on mothers day, my best friend killed herself. She had been suicidal and getting help for a while, and had tried to commit suicide 6 times before that..and I guess this time she succeeded. I really dont know what to do anymore. All this stuff is just wayy too much for me. I have no idea how I'm going to pass school, I just..dont know what to do... :( (link)
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Hey! I can tell that you're feeling really mad, sad, and depressed right now. You are going through some really tough times. Your boyfriend and best friend killed themselves. Try talking to friends or family about how you feel. If you can't talk to them, talk to a counselor or social worker or someone like that. They can really help you. I know it will be hard for you to talk about it, but trust me it will make you feel better to get some of your anger and sadness out. Try making some new friends or getting a new boyfriend to get your mind off of it....but just remember you could never "replace" them.
Good Luck
I hope this helps
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My friend had sex on January 20th. Is it possible for her to be pregnant without any weight gain? (link)
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Well has your friend had her period since January 20th?? If not then she might be pregnant. But you said that she has not gained any weight so she might not be pregnant because it has been like 3 and 1/2 months since she had sex. So it's kinda hard to tell. Try getting an at home pregnancy test to tell for sure.
Good Luck
I hope this helps
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im selling this really nice toy machine deck (dark star wheels, ruckus trucks + some weird bearing i have never seen before called rocke) and i am not sure how much i should ask for it. what do u guys think would be reasonable?
ps. its in good condition. (link)
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Hey! Well my brother is a skateboarder and I asked him this question. He said it depended on what kind of shape the board is in. U said that it was in pretty good condition but I don't know what it looks like. He said that toy machines are pretty good skateboards but since it is used i think it should go for $10-$30 depending on what someone will pay for it.
Good luck
I hope this helps
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my hair is naturally black and i want to dye it brown so what kind of product would be good to use for my hair thats permanent ? (link)
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Try using an at home dying kit. L'OREAL is a good hair dye. For more information about picking a good color go to
http://www.beautytob.com/servlet/srt/hcs33oapca/dispatch;$sessionid$QYK2GBIAAAE4JVDZW0HG2UI?next=partner
It helps you with picking the right colors and types of hair dye for you.
Good luck
I hope this helps
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In my Humanities class, we are working on a paper proposal for a 4 page paper we need to complete by the end of the year. The topic is completely up to us as long as it is somewhat dealing with Humanities. I have 2 different areas that I would like to try researching and eventually writing my paper on, but I'm at a loss as to which one to choose from. The first is Abortion, and the second is Teen drug/alcohol abuse. My paper proposal is due tomorrow and I'm not sure which topic to choose and what I should write about in the proposal. Can you give me your opinion as to which topic I should pick and how to go about writing this proposal? Or, if you have any other suggestions as to a topic to use, that would be helpful too. Thanks so much! (link)
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Hey! I think that you should write your paper on abortion. With the past presidential elections there has been a big debate about abortion and about if its right or wrong. I think it would be great to voice your opinion. Also maybe you could include something about teen pregnancys and abortions. That might be interesting.
Good Luck
I hope this helps
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Does anyone know some of the symptoms of anemia, and how you can tell for sure if you've got it? Because one of my friends said that she thought I might, and I was wondering if I could find out more. Thanks in advance! (link)
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Hey! Check out this website: http://www.4woman.gov/faq/anemia.htm#3 It has a lot of good information on anemia like what it is, how you get it, how to check if you have it, how to prevent it...etc. I think that it will help you decide if your friend has it.
Good luck
I hope this helps
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I have this gigantic crush on this guy named bob, and i think he likes me too. But, theres also this other gut named billy who i also like.Now, i know for sure that billy likes me, he's even said so!I mean both guys are smart, funny, cute and nice, so who should i pick? (link)
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Hey! ummm....this a hard question. Since you know for sure that Billy likes you...I might go out with him. But you also aid that Bob might like you. I think that is up to you to decide. Try hanging out with both of them and maybe even flirt with both of them. Which ever guy you feel more comfortable around I think you should go out with. Just trust your heart and make a good decision.
Good luck
I hope this helps
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Ever since I started shaving I've always gotten pimples on my legs and thighs. It's really annoying because I don't get any on my face just my legs! What should I do? And why is this happening? (link)
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Hey! If you get little red pimple-like bumps on your legs right after you shave...I think taht these are razor burn not pimples. You can get rid of them by shaving with a mild soap or shaving gel. Also make sure that you are using a new sharp blade on ur razor. If it's a dull blade then you get razor burn more often.
I hope this helps
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ok every time i try to upload a pic (not really of me, just like, a cute one of a cartoon or something) it doesnt work...
i go on google images and find something and then i copy and paste it into paint, and then say upload pic, and i find it...and then every time i go and say submit...it says the file is too big, even tho the pic is like, really small...whats up w/ that?
someone please help!! (link)
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Hey!! Go to http://www.photobucket.com/ or http://www.tinypic.com/
www.tinypic.com may be the easiest. Just upload the picture and prss ok or whatever. It will give you like 4 urls for your picture. Copy and paste the first one and put it in "Url of a picture of you" in your proile settings. It will always work.
Good Luck
I hope this helps
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im fat {mostly in the winter}. ive tried crunches and deits and all i do is feel more hungary. at one time i was 131lb, i was good with that, now im 164lb then 159lb then 165lb. it keeps fluctulating. i want to be 131!!! please help me!!! (link)
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Hey! My best advice for you is not to go on a fad diet or develop an eating disorder just because you want to lose weight. Just try eating healthier. Cut out more of the junk food that your eatinbg and replace it like with a piece of fruit or sometinhg. It may help to keep track of every single thing that you eat in a day so that you can get used to your eating habits. As for excercising, check out http://www.toneteen.com and click on excercise.
Good Luck
I hope this helps
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I was thinking it would be cute to have a yearbook each year that has pictures and memories of my friends and i. We have so many pictures, and I'd like to keep them all together in a cute book. My question is, where can I publish a yearbook thats not designed for school, and that I can order in a small amount (like, 7 yearbooks) (link)
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Hey! Try scrapbooking! It's really fun and a good way to llok back at all of the good memories when it is finished. You can buy them at basically any craft store.
Good Luck
I hope this helps
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Is there a site on the internet (like cdzinc.com) that provides free listening music to everyone? I don't mean one of those illegal downloading sites, just a site where you can listen to the music but not download it. (link)
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Hey! If you have AOL then you can just click on Music Search, but if not check out www.aolmusic.com They have great songs that you can listen to online. If you can't find anything that you like there, try going to www.launch.com cuz they have some good music that you can listen to online also.
Good Luck
I hope this helps
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Does anyone else have a problem with clicking on links? Im pretty sure i have spyware and i dont know how to get rid of it. every time i go to click on a link, daosearch.com pops up with a search for what i clicked on. how do i get rid of it? i cant even look at shirts on hollister.com because i cant click on the links. (link)
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I had this problem to! Our computer had so much spyware on it that it would barely work anymore. Try downloading a virus scan on your computer (like McAfee VirusScan) and search your computer for viruses. At the end if there are some, make sure you delete all of them. If your computer still has spyware on it, try using Spybot or AdAware. They get rid of the extra viruses and spyware that may have gotten saved on the harddrive of your computer.
Good Luck
I hope this helps
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i want to no were you get shirts that have the cookies monster on it,and on the butt it says yummy! Or something like, care bears but its totally hott! anyone no any places? [[ps--i dont have any mounds yet,so i need smaller sizes,]]
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Hey! Try shopping at Kohls. I shop there and I know that in the juniors section they have tons of awesome tees with all different charachters on them...and they're not that expensive!! I'm pretty sure that they have some with the cookie monster on them.
Good Luck
I hope this helps
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What do you look for when you make someone your favorite columnist? (link)
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Just check some of their advice. If it's good or you like what they say, make them a favorite. Also, you may have some friends on advicenators or some people you may want to be friends with, make those people your favorite columnists too.
Good Luck
I hope this helps
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This may seem like a weird question to ask, but sometimes i get vaginal discharge. It is like gooey white stuff in my underwear. I read in magazines that is normal when you are about ready to get your first period, but its been along time and i havent gotten my period yet! I wash around there every night and i wear pads to keep it from not killing my underwear but it still smells bad and keep coming! What should i do? (link)
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It is completely normal to get this kind of discharge...every girl gets it. You may get vaginal discharge for a couple of years before you get your first period...Only time will tell when it's your time. Try wearing pantiliners so that you will feel more comfortables and so it doesn't get all over your panties. And about that smell...discharge may have a mild smell, but if it starts to smell really strong and almost fishy, then you will have to see a doctor because you might have an infection.
Good Luck
I hope this helps
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There's this guy at school who I really like a lot. I met him about a month ago, and the only problem is that he's really quiet. I've started to talk to him, and we're kind of friends, but he's pretty much a loner. The only people he will talk to is me (for no reason I can figure out) and his older sister, who actually wants us to go out. The only problem is he's really shy, so I don't know if he likes me or not. And I'm not exactly that close to his sister... so I don't want to ask her. I'm wondering if I should tell him now, or wait a little longer, because I haven't known him very long... and when should I tell him if I have to wait? (link)
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Hey! You said it your self...He's very shy and the only person he talks to is you and his sister. That probably makes you pretty special to him. I think that you two would be perfect for each other. I think you should just go right out and ask him out yourself. Because he is really shy I think that he will appreciate this a lot so he doesn't have to ask you.
Good Luck
I hope this helps
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