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My friend amy has a boyfriend named Beau! They are what like 13 years old and 13 years old.. They havent been going out very long, but Beau wants to go n a shower with her n i dont want this to happen.. what should i do

Tell her how you feel and say you don't want her to do that. Say that she's too young to be doing things like that and that if she does do it then she'll probably regret it later. ((most people do anyways)) Hope I helped! Leave me one if I can do anything else for you! =c)

Love, RacheL

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Well ther is a boy I like at school who is really ugly but hez extremely funny and none of my friends know cuz they have crushes on him too! So this is a total secret but anywayz hez like my best friend thts a guy! Well Monday  he had a bee stinger stuck in him and well he hasn't been to school since monday.... i know this is really stupid but i'm scared hez allergic to bees and they couldn't get the stinger out...I am scared okay! I have his number cuz its in our school directory...but I wouldn't call him unless my friends were over n i'm havin one come over saturday..if he doesn't show up at school tomorrow should i call n see if hez ok? Also tell me if I should be scared!

Please Help Me I am soooooo scared!

Definately call him tomorrow if he doesnt show up at school. I'm sure he'd appreciate you caring. You don't have to call him if your friends are there.. I think he'd like it more if it was only you. Just take a couple deep breaths and dial his number and ask if he's there. It's normal to be scared if you're calling a guy you like, but after a while the initial scareness ((i dont think thats a word but oh well haha)) will wear off. Hope I helped! Leave me one if I can do anything for you! =c)

Love, RacheL

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Sorry its so long.. but u need to hear the WHOLE situation to understand..

OK.. My coach and I used to get along really well. I play setter and I have for almost 4 seasons. Well.. im now on the high school JV team.. and theres another setter. OK fine. Well.. coach just GAVE her the position of starting (she didnt have to work for it). I asked him why.. and he said its because i dont work hard enough in practice. I argued with him about it for a few minutes and he just wouldnt listen to me. He said I need to work hard to earn my position. But in practice, I go out there and work my ass off. And this other chik just goofs off and stuff. None of our hitters like her.. and coach dont realize im the better setter (sounds conceided(sp?) but thats what all the hitters tell me)

I guess what im tryin to get at.. What can I do to prove to my coach that I really am workin my ass off out there to earn my spot in a game? And to prove that im the better setter on the team

Omg my coaches were the same way with basketball and volleyball for me. A lot of times they're just watching the other people because they know you're really good and then they start to think that the other person is better. Just work your butt off during practices and work really hard.. your coach will pay more attention to you again. Work harder than you did before. Then he'll put you in the game as the better setter and the starting position. Hope I helped! Leave me one if I can do anything for you! =c)

Love, RacheL

Also, don't argue with your coach.. it'll just make it worse.

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ok my friend really liked this one kid Jordan but hers black and shes white..and he asked her out and she liked him but she said no? she tells me that its because they're to close of friends but me and her are so close that I can tell when shes lying and it seemed like she was lying..so I think that she turned him down because shes black and because supposly people would make fun of her but they wouldn't..I dunno what to do becuase Jordan told me to talk to her but I dunno what to say..and if I believe her? please help!

Just tell her that it doesn't matter what people think and if she likes him and he likes her they should just go out. If you're so close to her I'm sure you can tell if she's lying to you. Say they should just go out and if things don't work out then fine.. but she'll never know what will happen between them unless she goes out with him. Hope I helped! Leave me one if I can do anything for you! =c)

Love, RacheL

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my best friend is always singing this song and she really wants to put it on her tripod but she doesnt no what its called. its goes "Hey ya"..... "hey yaaaaa" "hey ya" "hey yaaaa"
thanx

It's hey ya by outkast

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Ok, so is it possible to get a buzz or be high after smoking cigs? Because I smoked 2 cigs when i was home alone, then my mom made me go to the store with her, and i felt so high, like when i smoke weed, I mean I was bopping and singing to the grocery music, couldn't help my self lol. and I was so nice to her and so happy. wtf? If it's possible I'd like to know, so i don't go sumhere with my mom afterwords, haha.

Umm.. why do you smoke weed and cigarettes? Thats soo stupid! Anyway.. no you can't get high after smoking cigarettes.. maybe you were just hyper! lol Hope I helped though! Leav me one if I can do anything for you! =c)

Love, RacheL

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ok well i really like(d??) this guy and hes like my bestish friend and i didn't want him to know and i would talk to him about him ahha and he wouldn't know....untill recently...he found out and i was soo pissed at him cause he wouldnt talk to me and all this stuff and i was jus mad and felt like are friendship was done for...and i dont want that and yea i like him but i dont want to lose him and see he knows know that i like him and i hate the fact that he knows i really wish he didn't! and he was talking to one of my friends and was like yea i jus want to put this awkwardness away and be reallygood friends...ugh i want that too but i'm really just to afraid to talk to him and i dont want to lose him and i jus want to get over him in that way cause its so retarted not to metntion hes my bestfriends EX!!! ahhhhhhhhh i have no idea what to do cuase i no he dosen't like me i mean yea he hasn't told me but i no for sure that teh feelin isn't mutual....ahh wat do i doo!?!??!?!?



REALLLLLLLY CONFUISED AND HURT!!

Just go up and start talking to him. Things will be a little tense at first but soon it'll get better. Hope I helped! Leave me one if u need anything! =c)

Love, RacheL

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ok i no alot of people want to be in good shape but i really want to be thin liek a model do i need to be anerexic or elemic..shuld i? or does anyone no a way to get skinny liek i want to be please help thnx!!..x00x

You don't need to be skinny or be like a model.. it doesn't matter what you look like. I bet you're in good shape and skinny already. Do NOT go anorexic or elemic. If you want a good body just eat healthy things, no junk food, and work out and run. Hope I helped! Leave me one if I can do anything for you! =c)

Love, RacheL

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Hi. i like this boy that likez a cheerleader and she is so annoying she doesnt like him but he wont get over her. he doesnt know i exsist and i rele rele like him. wat should i do?¿? do i tlk to him. do i not like him ne more help me out please!!!




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Does he know you like him? Just go up to him and start talking to him.. the more you talk to him he'll start probably start liking you. Then you can rub it in the cheerleaders face ;c) haha. Hope I helped! Leave me one if I can do anything for you! =c)

Love, RacheL

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Hey everyone!! This is "xO.Carrie". Hey i was wondering if anyone knew any good research sites on modeling?! mY mom really wants to sign me up!! Thanks guys!!

xO.Carrie

No idea on sited for modeling.. you could probably just do a search for them on google or sumthin.. but I looked at your column and you are soo pretty! No wonder your mom wants to sign you up for modeling! =c)

Love, RacheL

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So for homecoming me and my friend are both wearing black cha-cha (they poof out at the bottom) dresses with red cherries on them. Mine is a tube top and her's is a halter.
I have a bit below shoulder length straight dirty blonde hair and bangs, along with pale skin and blue eyes. How should I do my hair and makeup, and anything else? Exspecially what should I do with my bangs for an updo thing.
She has a bit above sholder length frizzy/kinda curly light brown hair with thinner bangs then me. She's a bit tanner then me but not much and has brown eyes. How should she do her hair and makeup, and anything else?
P.S. We're going to a hair salon to do our hair.

Omg those dresses sound so cute!!! I think with both of your makeup you should just do silver eyeshadow with black eyeliner going all the way around your eyes and two coats of mascara. Go with a pink or "naked" or "bare" lipgloss (which is a sort of tannish brown color but soo cute!). For you I would go with a light pink or tan blush and the same for your friend except maybe a little darker tan. I can't really tell you what blush to use since I don't know the exact color of your skin.. it's hard to tell without seeing it. Sometimes though, people look better w/o blush so you could try that too =c).

For your hair..
Since your hair is straight and you're wearing a tube top I'm thinking you should pull pieces of hair from the top front part of your head to maybe a little before halfway on top of your head and make them into sections, about the size of your middle finger. That way, your bangs should be pulled back too if you want to braid it or use rubber bands. You could also just keep them down, whichever you think would look back. ((Also when you're pulling your hair up in sections make sure that the sections are pulled up not just from the front but all the way from your left ear to your right ear)). Then pull your hair half up and curl the ponytail. On the hair that's down curl random pieces of hair. I know all that was complicated but it looks soo adorable!! I tell other people that one too but I can't help it it's so cute =c). Also put some glitter in your hair. I also liked this hairstyle at http://www.bestpromdresses.com/hair/tipstricks.html
it's the third one down.

For your friend..
Since she has frizzy/curly hair I suggest you straighten it and if she's willing to, then get it cut in layers, and then just leave it down.

You can also look at haircuts and hairstyles when you go to the hair salon and they always have books with cute ideas.

Of course if you don't want to do any of this thats ok. Hope I helped though! Tell me how it goes! =c)

Love, RacheL

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see i dated this guy that we'll call david and it didnt work out.... but now he always smiles at me in the hallways and i always get chills in my stomach and i like run out of breath should i tell him how i feel?

If you like him you should tell him. Maybe he likes you too and wants to go out with you.. things could work out this time. Hope I helped! Leave me one if I can do anything else for you! =c)

Love, RacheL

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Ok so i asked you guys earlier about my bf problem....So im going out with this guy that my dad doesnt like and i feel guilty everytime im with him! its not so much fun! And i dumped this guy that my dad likes and thinks is a good guy to go out with him! Well the catch is that i still have feelings for this other guy! what do i do?

Do you like the guy you're going out with? If you don't then I would dump him. I mean if you're feeling guilty all the time then dumping him would take a lot of the weight off your shoulders. Does the other guy still have feelings for you? You might want to find that out too. Hope I helped! Leave me one if I can do anything for you! =c)

Love, RacheL

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ok i like this guy named jamie who is kind of a dork but he used to like me and a lot of people still thing he likes me. i used to think that he was really weird and annoying but now i figured out that i like him...a lot! anyway he is moving to Hong Kong in January so i'm not sure if i should tell him how i feel or not. he's kind of like a geek in my grade so if we were going out i would be thought of as a loser for the rest of my school life. i was thinking that i could tell him on his last day of school but then if he liked me too then i would feel really bad that i didn't tell him sooner. i'm worried that if i tell him that i like him now he'll either a. not like me and tell all of his friends or b.tell me that he does like me but then he would still tell all of his friends and i would be thought of as a loser.please help soon because i really dont know what to do!

I had pretty much the same problem, except the guy decided not to move. I really liked him and he liked me but he was considered a loser. I told him I liked him and we were gonna go out but decided not to because he was going to move. Anyway, everybody found out about it and they talked about it for like 2 days. People would come up to me and be like eww you like Chris? And I would say yes I do and I don't see why it matters so much to you I mean you must really like me if you care so much to ask me. After a little bit it got old and people didn't care anymore. Just because you like somebody who is considered a loser doesn't make you one. After a while people won't care so much anymore. I mean I know it'll be tough because people will be saying things, but it doesn't matter what people think. I would tell him that you like him a week or two before he moves that you like him and you can tell him not to tell anybody. People might find out though, so you'd have to be prepared for that and be able to ignore them if they say things or say something back. I hope I helped! Tell me how it goes! In the long run it won't matter what people thought of you in school or what people said about you.

Love, RacheL

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Ok..ive liked this guy for awhile now and he finally asked me out. But the thing is he goes to a different school and i barely see him. We dont really talk much either in person that is. So i turned him down. And plus ive been goin thru alot of stuff lately w/ my family. is that bad that i turned him down..my friends think it is..

help

If you barely see him and you're going through a lot of stuff with your family then I think it's ok that you turned him down. You would barely see him or talk to him anyway. Maybe in a little bit when the things with your family quiet down or whatever then maybe you should go out with him. Hope I helped! Leave me one if I can do anything for you!

Love, RacheL

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What should I do? Me and my best friend let's call him Harry, are no longer friends, because I have a big jealousy issue, I hooked him up with my friend, while liking him. So it bothers me when they are together and I can't stand being around him knowing he's not mine. So I have been mean to him alot, and as a result of that, we no longer friends cause I kinda blew up at him with all my fustration and stuff, cause it was all built up inside... but now I feel bad know that our friendship ended up on bad note, and now I feel like we'll never be friends again. What should I do?

Just tell him you're really sorry and you've been in a bad mood lately. I wouldn't tell him that you were jealous and you liked him though, because that might make things harsh between you and the friend you hooked him up with. I hope he understands and I hope I helped you! Leave me one if I can do anything for you! =c)

Love, RacheL

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i used tO like this bOy and now i dont like him anymore but NOW he like me,and iam goin Out wiith him but i dont feel nOthiing for him,and i told him but he said to lets try to see what happend but i dont want tO fall in love wiith him again cuz he hurt me... iam confused..!!what should i do

Go out with him for maybe another week. If you still don't like him then break up with him. If you don't have feelings for him then you shouldn't go out with him anymore. People get hurt a lot and it's just a part of life. If you don't still don't like him after about a week then dump him. Hope I helped! Leave me one if I can do anything for you! =c)

Love, RacheL

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Well. Everyday I seem to like somebody new, And I don't know what's wrong with me, Say one day I like Jason, but then I wake up the next day and think okay I don't like Jason now i like Charles. And Everyday it changes. I seem to like anybody whos nice to me. Is this normal? How can I stop it. Please Help! I rate very high, even if u respond --thanks

Yes it's normal. You're just a flirt ;c). In a little while you'll start liking just one or maybe 2 guys more than the others. The people you hang out with the most are generally the people you start to like. Hope I helped! Leave me one if I can do anything for you!

Love, RacheL

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ok me n my bestest friend had a stupid fight about her having a boyfriend and i don't/my mom is stupid and i can't hang out with her alot/she's moving to another state in a lil while... geez! n then we stopped talking for like 2 weeks n i miss her alot... i mean she is my bestest friend in the whole wide world!!! what should i do!?!?!

Talk to her. Say you're sorry about everything and you don't want to get in a fight.. especially if shes moving. Tell her that you're sorry for yelling at her and she's still your best friend. Hope I helped! Leave me one if I can do anything else for you!!

Love, RacheL

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OK well, I have two friends. Recently one of my friends has been hanging out with another group who me and my other friend dont like. Well, My friend who is hanging out with the other group always acts like nothing is wrong, but it feels like she is drifting farther and farther away out of the friendship the three of us have. I want to ask here not to hang out with this other group. But how, and how can i do it w/o hurting her feelings? Well I'm looking forward to advice! Thanx in advanced.

You can't just ask her not to hang out with the other group. They're probably all friends now and there's really nothing you can do about it. Just go up to her and say it feels like she's drifting farther away from you guys and then make up a date where you can all spend time together. After that it should get easier. Hope I helped! Leave me one if I can do anything else for you! =c)

Love, RacheL

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