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is she races?


Question Posted Thursday October 7 2004, 6:39 pm

ok my friend really liked this one kid Jordan but hers black and shes white..and he asked her out and she liked him but she said no? she tells me that its because they're to close of friends but me and her are so close that I can tell when shes lying and it seemed like she was lying..so I think that she turned him down because shes black and because supposly people would make fun of her but they wouldn't..I dunno what to do becuase Jordan told me to talk to her but I dunno what to say..and if I believe her? please help!

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Mercy_x_Me answered Friday October 8 2004, 6:32 am:
tell Jordan its too hard for you to get in the middle. Just leave your friend be. The oppurtunity will come up again to test her whether or not shes racist but if you ask straight out she probably wont say "yes i cnt go out with black people" or ne thing like that.

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OxSeXibloNdexO answered Thursday October 7 2004, 8:33 pm:
If she likes him then she should go out with him. It doesnt matter what other people say/think. It's none of their business anyways. I doubt people would say anything, unless they were jealous or something. I have a boyfriend of a different race n people dont talk. Try talking to her about it. Goodluck. xOx

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xokaylanicoleox answered Thursday October 7 2004, 8:10 pm:
well i think that if she does like him then thats all that matters ... it shouldnt matter what other ppl think and if she cares that much then she obviously didnt like him that much ... talk to her about it and tell her to be str8 up with you bc you know when shes lying. GOOD LUCK! i hope i helped! -kayla

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tbdrays17 answered Thursday October 7 2004, 7:36 pm:
tell her that a lot of close friend relationships turn into great couples. explain to her that if the reason she turned him down is because of the race differences, she doesn't need to worry about people making judgmenents about her. tell her that there are a lot of mixed-raced couples now. it would be nothing unusual or weird. good luck

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xoRachel answered Thursday October 7 2004, 7:18 pm:
Just tell her that it doesn't matter what people think and if she likes him and he likes her they should just go out. If you're so close to her I'm sure you can tell if she's lying to you. Say they should just go out and if things don't work out then fine.. but she'll never know what will happen between them unless she goes out with him. Hope I helped! Leave me one if I can do anything for you! =c)

Love, RacheL

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AsweetGoodBy answered Thursday October 7 2004, 7:00 pm:
shes probably telling you the truth tell her it could make the friendship and love life more special if she gets with him and if she likes him she juss needs to go for it!

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