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heyy im sara and i have this friend that is like my all time best friend but idk if i can trust her cus i want he to met my boyfriend but she stole my bf once from me and idk if she will do it again but ik she didnt mean to steel him i think abd she told me she was so0o sorry (( but idk if i can trust her i cant take my heart gettin hurt again what shold i do:-/??

please help??

tell her and him about what you think.. if he loves you he wouldnt have gotten stolen.. n if this guys is even worth it.. then ur friend cant even break u up!

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my bestest friend iz like OBSESSED wid my step-bro n she talks about him ALL the time wat should i do???????


~ AnNoYeD ~

Tell her how you feel.. that your annoyed.. and that it bothers you

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i've been friends with this girl since 6th grade. she used to live across the road from me, but then she moved away. Not far, only about 30 minutes. We used to talk on AIM but then we ran out of things to talk about. I mean, we don't have the same group of friends and we don't know who each of us is talking about. Now, I don't talk to her at all and I feel horrible. What am I supposed to do?? I want to be friends with her again but it's like we're complete strangers.

hang out with her.. try to get to know her friends and let her get to know yours.. if it duznt work out at least you tried

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me and my best friend got in a fight liek 4 months ago...we hav been best buds for 10 yrs...well we got in a fight bc her dad wouldnt pick me up and they just left me ther alone...after my mom gives her a ride to skool eryday so i got a little mad...but im such a hyper person i dont get mad like alot and so i juss wasnt really hyper around her nemore and hse got mad that i wasnt talking alot but it juss hurt my feelings bc she was hangin out with this new gurl and they would ditch me and then wen that happeend i juss got really hurt...well we stopped talking completely...she wrote stuff bout me on her xanga site n stuff and weve had arguments b4 that lasted like 2 days!! and they wer even WORSE arguments but wed get over them...this one is still going on...she is goin to another h.s nex year and stuff so we dont even c eachother..but i hav her sn and hav talked to her a few times and we juss apologize n she tells me "to remeber her as the gul who lived next door all her life, not the bitch who threw everything away" and we hav s0o many memories and pictures and i just really miss her and im starting to hav alot of bf's now and i juss wish i could share everything with her!! everytime she signs on aim i get really sad and wanna talk to her i htink of excuses like "o u left ur jacket at my house frum a while ago do u wanna come get it sumday" juss to talk toher and see how she is...shuld i tel her how i feel? wat can i say to her? its been so long and im scared tho...we wer BEST FRIENDS...help im so confused

2 of my xtremely good best friends moved away.. but right before i got in a fite with both.. but luckily one moved back.. but shes not tha same shes all slutty and bitchy i know how you feel.. you just want to talk to her but u dont no how.. jus i.m. her n be like i need to talk to u.. do u wanna come over..? we can hang out and talk bout the old times.. i miss you

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i have had a best friend for 3 years now...we have gone throught everything together...are 1st kisses..are ex friends...are heart breaks...u no all the best friends type of things...i recenetly got back with my ex...we have been togheter for 2 years on and off..but now its been 3 months str8..and i stil hang out with my best friend..just now i have less time since i have him and all..it seems like sometimes she gets jealous cause she says "come on u dont need ot hang out with him, he gets so annoying, how annoying u hang out with all couples" like i no if she got with the love of her life she would do the same wat should i do? i feel so bad

Try to have a certain time limit with your boyfriend.. and make sure you hang out with her maybe equal or a little bit more then him.. because she'll use the saying "chick before dicks" against you.. just try and tell her what you feel for him.. or even try to find her a boyfriend

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Sometimes I wish I wasn't born mixed I like having diffrent cultures. But I get sick and tired of people always judging me by my color. or say i am a certain race because of how i act. I hate it when i have no friends in school cause they think i act fake. I hate it when people say i am a certain person when they know NOTHING about me. I hate that everytime i get into a serious relationship with someone i care about. it get's flushed down the drain. Just cause they want to believe something about me they heard from someone els instead of trying to get to know me.

be proud of what you are.. other people of just doing what the know.. there philosophy is " if you dont know then make fun of " tell them how you feel.. just be like im not fake.. im me.. dont judge me just get to know me

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I'm 15 years old + a virgin. My best friend has had sex with her bf. My boyfriend isn't a virgin, either. I feel so left out since I've never done anything really 'sexual' with a guy. I'm so curious about it, but I don't wanna do it unless I'm totally in love and I'm ready. I really wanna know what it feels like. What should I do? I dont wanna be known as a little virgin girl for not doing it, but I've never been some1 to give in to peer pressure!

dont give in.. its good to be different.. sexual isnt always good.. n u need to no the consquences that could come..

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Is there a site or downloader I can download music but not have to pay to download it or get caught? There are so many songs I want but I won't download just to be careful.

sumfun4u.com

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i bought a thong but it's really uncomfortable! Do you have to get used to them? any tips?

just dont wear tite pants right away lol.. yea u get use to it

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well ive been dating my bf for almost 2 years now! WE R COMPLETELY in love.. the thing is.. is tat my parents dont noe.. my parents said i cant have a bf till i finish skool..and ill finish in 2 years so its not tat long.. my parents noe about him and i just tell them that we are really good friends.. but im scared tat if i tell them they wont let me see him.. wat to do?
xoxo angita

if they find out then just tell him how much he means to you.. they have to be just a little bit reasonible.. maybe they could meet and talk maybe then your parents wouldn't mind

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I'm pretty, smart, athletic, funny, happy and really fun to be around according to my friends. But is it true that alot of 14 year old guys dont pay as much attention to flat girls? I mean In my oppinion think im girlfriend material! Why dont guys like me as much as they like my skinny developed friends who have gone thru puberty? I know it sounds stupid but please help me!

guys suck.. they just want how can i put this nicely either "ass or tits" direct quote from all guys.. its pointless.. but dont worry hun! there are some nice sweet HOT guys out there who will love you for you! xox hope i helped

xox_ LiLbAyBe _xox

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ok i just got a cell phone, and my friend is going to the beach with my family so i figured her of all people would be happy for me since we can go do whatever while everyone else is somewhere else...and she wasnt happy or excited or anything she was just like oh ok cool. and shes normally never like that and then like the next day shes got invited to some special dance and she was all happy and kinda rubbing it in my face and all yeah so im going to the mall and stuff to shop for a dress. and she told me a while back that she would invite me to one of those dances but she never said n e thing about that. and like when i told her that i got a cell phone all i said was oh yeah guess what i got a cell phone! and she was like ok w/e...idk if i should tell her or what and now since this happend im not all THAT excited n e more about going to the beach together bc im afraid she'll be all talkin bout that dance...what do i do?

tell her how you feel.. shes just jealous.. and trying to make you mad.. jus tell her straight out.. n if she gets mad then she wuznt worth it.. hope i helped..

xox_ LiLbAyBe _xox

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k soo ..i kissed my best friend and i want to do it again but he gut a girll who is older than him ..but i dont like her that much..but still..its funn..and i think i like him..do i keep doing it?

do you really want to end up getting hurt? cuz thats wuts goin to happen.. hes gunna play you n tha other grl.. soo i think u shuldnt no until him n that grl break.. up.. hope i helped..

xox_ LiLbAyBe _xox

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ok im going out with this guy that i was TOTALLY in love with for a while i digged him so much and i was completly HEAD OVER HEELS for him but now i just dont like him anymore...we never talk and its not working out. its so hard though because hes been my BEST friend since 5th grade and now im in 9th im SO scared if i break up with him itll ruin our friendship thats so strong...what should i do?!?1 :(

tell him how you feel.. be like i dont want to ruin 4 years of friendship.. but i dont feel love for you nemore.. i love you like a brother not a boyfriend.. n i dont want to cause any of us more pain than whats already coming.. i hope we can still be friends n i know you need time to deal with this.. hopefully things will work out.. hope i helped

xox_ LiLbAyBe _xox

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Ok my boy friend iz at camp in maine he has been there since um.. the 10th of july n i love him so........... freak'n much ,but im scared he iz gunna meet sum girl there that's prettier funnier and all that stuff!!! i kno i should trust him cuz we have been togetha for almost 9 months n i trully ove him to death but im not to sure i can trust him cuz he iz a HUGE flirt!!! Do u think i can trust him not to do n e thing wid anotha girl????????

-X- Caitlin -X-

If you love him like you say you do.. of course you should trust him.. but hey if hes a flirt theres nothing wrong with worrying.. because at least you care enough to worry.. as soon as he comes back it will all be over.. hope i helped

xox_ LiLbAyBe _xox

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Hey theres this girl that im just dying to be with and she knows that I like her. Im 16 and shes 14 but her parents dont let her date guys my age cuz theyre more near her brothers ages. What should i do to get her parents to let her be with me?

Talk to them.. Tell them about yourself. your interest. tell them what you plan to do with there daughter. go out with her for short periods at a time.. if you have a cellphone number give them that. just try to make it easier on them.. hope i helped..

xox_ LiLbAyBe _xox

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How do I really know if i'm ready to have sex? My Boyfriend and I have been together for a lil over a month... and I feel conforable around him ... but im not sure if im ready to have sex with him yet... how will i know if im ready?

YOUR NOT READY.. DONT you'll ruin your life.. wait til you know eachother... ALOT BETTER

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i have this friend who has really bad breath all the time and she talks really really close to ur face. i wanna tell her but she is the type that would take it way too seriously .. she wouldnt get mad but she would be very paranoid and upset.

have her come over sometime.. and be like "i got this new toothpaste n mouth wash.. PLEASE try it.. you'll love it you should use it" hope i helped

xox_ LiLbAyBe _xox

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i like this guy alec alot.. ive went out with him in december, and then i dumped him for another guy. and then i liked him till about the end of may/ beg of june. (but he didnt know that, until i told him) and so i told him that.. and then we went out for like 5 days. and then he said i hurt him all the way back in dec. and that he doesnt wanna get hurt again, but i still like him =/ but he doesnt know that. and im afarid too tell him.. so should i tell him? or forget about him =/ cause i really dont know what to do. I miss him and i want to be with him really bad, but i do not know how to tell him. like i tried to be with other guys, but then i end up liking him again. and want to be with him.

thanks

Aww that happened to me too.. Just tell him but be like i dont want to hurt you i just want you to know how i feel.. and maybe when your ready to trust me n love me again we can go out again? because no matter what i do.. really and truly all i think about is u.. i made a huge mistake and i regret it everyday.. hope i helped

xox_ LiLbAyBe _xox

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ok i met this boy nick like in the middle of the skool year...and i hated him soo much...he was going out with my friend....and i dont know i just hated him...then one day i went skating and he was there and i started liking him...well a week later he asked me out and we were goin out for like a month then we broke up...we were on and off all year...well then a month before skool let out he moved....it was the hardest day of my life saying goodbye to him....he was my first love ever and thats the truth.....well now he still calls me and everything and we r still friends and he wants to go back out and i love him sooo much and wanna say yah but i cant cuz ill never c him cuz he moved what should i do~!?

Tell him you love him.. but u cant because you never see him. you guys can be friends but you have to move on, because if you dont your goin to end up getting hurt when he has a new girlfriend at his new place. hope i helped

xox_ LiLbAyBe _xox

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