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Hi im 17 and i got my period when i was 15 but it hasnt been regular there are times when i dont get for 4-6 months whats wrong with me ?? i havent gone to the doctor... is this normal??
No, that is not normal. You should definitely contact a doctor. During the first 12-18 months your pediod may last 2-10 days on a 19-35 day cycle. After 18 months, everything should definitely be pretty regular. I would make an appointment with your doctor ASAP.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year. The first few months we started dating, he asked me the usual "virginity" questions and things like that.. I told him everything, BUT I added and took away things to make me sound ok. I still wasn't comfortable telling him everything.
After the drama of me being a "liar", I prayed, and realized that if I want this relationship to be the way it needs to, then I need to let him know EVERYTHING about me. Nothing should be hidden. So, at 4am (what a great time) I let him know.
8 months later, he has moved to my city for me, we'll be going to school together.. basically starting a new chapter. Everything is PERFECT.
I live in a VERY small town where everyone knows everyone and everyone likes to have something to say bad about someone. A guy that comes into my boyfriends store often came in to tell my boyfriend a handful of LIES about me. The things he said didn't derive from any truth.. they were literally made up off of the top of his head. My boyfriend knew this guy lies about a lot of things, but then someone I had never met before that was friends with the liar backed him up.
The liar is someone I went to highschool with, but never knew. I knew of him. The other guy I have yet to have ever met him, nor have seen in my entire life. Plus.. both guys kept saying to my boyfriend "don't tell her we said this.." That's pretty obvious to me that those were all lies.
I want to confront the liars without making a scene.
I feel like I'm 15 again.
Why can't people grow up, and why can't my boyfriend believe me??? I have been truthful to him since the one and only incident before.
I'm way past this nonsense drama. I'm ready for a future and I can't have this future here with people like that. I'm tired of people that I don't even KNOW stepping into my relationship and causing problems.
...I'm clueless.. Hopefully this will blow over.
Easiest way to confront them: Tell them you know they lied, you don't appreciate it, and you don't want to hear any crap from them again. Easy, simple, and straight to the point. :)
I am a pepper fiend. I put pepper on practically everything but sweets. My question is, could that be misconstrued as an insult?
My brother's girlfriend kindly made dinner for our family for the first time, a few weeks back. Chicken. Of course, I went nuts with the pepper shaker. The way she looked at me really hurt my feelings. I don't think she purposely shot me down. I think she was just more in shock that I had the nerve to do that. She eats dinner with us everynight, though. She knows my routine. It's nothing new. I still felt like a jerk. I didn't say anything then, but I probably should have. Now it's too late, and I would just like to gather multiple opinions for future reference. I'd hate to unintentionally put somebody (who so generously devoted their time and effort to please me) down.
So if you worked all day to prepare a meal for your guests (even family) and someone were to pepper the hell out of it, would you take offense?
Personally, I wouldn't take offense. Were you being a bit agressive about shaking the pepper out? Maybe she thought you were being rude by using up so much pepper. I don't know, if I were you I'd just forget about the incident and move on. But, here's a tip: next time you're over someone else's house, don't put *as much* pepper on your food as you usually do, and pour the pepper on lightly, not as if you were trying to stab your food, lol.
ok i have friends of mine that i grew up with and knew my entire life they soo sweet and innocent and everything and they were my best friends.. but now they are doing stuff that they would normally not do like one smokes pot now which is not like her.. and another one of my friends that i grew up with is not her self she drinks now to the point that she vomits and thats also not like her and all of this just recently started like a week before school ended.. i dont know what to do i thought that i would be friends wit them forever but i guess not.. and i use to chill wit them a lot but now we just act like strangers i still talk to one of them but the other one were not even really friends n e more. also this makes it harder because the one that smokes doesnt know i know she smokes so what should i do?
Tell the one that smokes that you know her secret. Sit both of your friends down and tell them that they are ruining their lives and not acting anything like themselves. Remind them of the dangers of what they are doing. Make it clear to them that you're not interested in doing what they are doing and the harm that they are doing to themselves could destroy your friednships forever. I think that may get them to realize what they are doing is wrong and they may loose you if they don't stop their destructive decisions.
Ok, I really like his guy and I think I'm going to dump my boyfriend for him.
I'm positive he likes me too by the way..
And we made this deal where we're saving our first kiss for each other, and I really want to kiss him. Should I make out, too?
Should I make the firts move, because he's shy.
Any help is loved =]
Yes, make the first move. As to if you should make out or not, it depends on how your kiss is. If you just didn't feel a connection, don't. If you liked the kiss and want more, yes, make out.
Some nights i get these straining feelings in my calves anyway i get them every once in a while like if i work out that day and i didnt stretch enough...but i havent worked out in like a week and i have been getting them a lot more than usual...they really hurt...it feels like someone is trying to pull my muscle out, i have to stand on my leg squeeze my calf hard before it stops. there is an after ache and it lasts days later....does anyone know what this pain is, how it is caused and how to prevent or minimize it?thanx!
There are many different causes for muscle pain, so with just one symptom its heard to pinpoint one cause. I would talk to your mom or dad or whoever about it, just tell them its hurting. They might know something. Wait another week. If its still hurting, I would book an appointment with a doctor.
Every single time i go to bed, all my life i've had problems falling asleep. ITS DRIVING ME CRAZY. I CANNOT get comfortable, i toss and turn for hours before i can find a good stop, NONSTOP. Something is always bothering me, either my leg is not covred, or its covered too much, i'm bretahing on myself, y covers are itchy, tehres not enouhg covers, my leg is up too high, im falling off the bed, the lsit goes on and on! Most people ignore these thigns but tehy bug the heck out of me, i thought maybe i havr RLS (restless leg syndrome) but idk. does ANYBODY have any idea wat this is? or am i just like that and tehres nothing i can do about it
Does sound like RLS to me. But, are you that type of person during the day? Do you care a whole lot about the teeniest details? If so, you might have OCD, Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder. No, having OCD does not mean you're crazy, I know people with real OCD and they're nothing like how OCD is described on the television and in books. If you have any questions about it just ask. :)
whatwas the imickey mouse club
A television show in the 1960's-80's with a bunch of kids singing and dancing. Their theme song was popular, you might have heard of it- "Come along and sing a sing and join the jamboree ... M-I-C, K-E-Y, M-O-U-S-E!"
I really wanna look good in my clothes and wear designer stuff but it's expensive and I was wondering where I could get clothes that look like designer. but i don't wanna be called a loser for wearing knock-offs and stuff. please help me find some good shops.
What do you consider designer? Hollister is pretty high-class for me. If you want imitations of stuff like that, Old Navy is a cool place to go. You can get the exact same stuff (no joke) for 30 bucks less. Their tops and skirts are cute, but be careful about their jeans, you have to try every pair on b/c the sizes can be messed up. Oh yeah... boys stuff is kinda messed up too, so don't recommend it to any boys. :P
Is there anything that you can eat/drink/do to make your boobs bigger (that won't make you fat because I know gaining weight makes your breats larger)? Also, is there anything you can wear to make your boobs LOOK bigger, bras or certain shirts or layering or any tricks?
Stand up straight! It makes you taller, your boobs look larger, and you look more confident in yourself. Another advantage: its free!!!
My brother has been acting kind of odd lately...
... he thinks that he's a rubber ducky, according to him. When we call him Tom (which is his name) he says "No, Duckie!". My parents think it's just a stage, but he's ten, and I think he should know better...
He won't let anyone in his bedroom, but his rubber duckies, and won't talk to anyone but them. He also won't eat our food, only bread crumbs. I'm really concerned about this, as mental problems tend to run in our family....
Treat him exactly how he wants to be treated: like a duck. Tell him he has to always wear yellow clothes and orange shoes like a duck. Make him do everything like a duck, including all of the things you know he wouldn't want to do. (Bathing in lakes?) He'll grow out of it. If he doesn't stop in a month, take him to a psychiatrist, but for now just wait it out.
ok so i just started going out w/ this guy but i REALLY like him and we talk every night unti like 2 in the morning on the phone. so i always have the urge to say i love you... but i know htat i don't. but i don't want to say "I like you" because that doesn't sound quite right and he already knows that. what is an alternative to saying " i love you" to someone you REALLY like but don't exactly love yet. cuz i still want to mean what i say.
Say what you feel. Do you care about him? Tell him. Do you feel closer to him than anyone else? Tell him! Don't worry about feeling stupid, just say what's in your heart.
i don't like health food. i want to be healthier but im more into snacks. i don't eat them all the time though. i went on a diet for the past week and my weight stayed the same. also i exersize at a fitness gym too. what my question is, is what foods would help me and what kinds of workouts should i do or some type of schedual should i have. thanks.
***NOTE*** I am 13, weigh 135, and am 5'3''.
Wow, you're describing me, lol! I am those exact same measurements and I hate fruits and vegetables. I only like a few. Alright, I'm not going to tell you my long story, but I was overweight last year and I've been dropping aprx 2-3 pounds per month for a year and a half. (Yes, I lost over 30 pounds.) This is what I do:
**Do a 45-minute cardio at least 4 times a week. I use the work-out tapes.
**Those other days, take a 15-minute walk. Walks are healthier than jogs, you know.
**Also on walking days, 3 sets of 20 crunches broken up throughout the day.
**Food requirements: (AT LEAST/PER DAY) 1 fruit (drinks count, but not the energy drinks with fake flavorings); 1 veggie (drinks count, again, has to be natural); 1 glass of milk; 3 glasses of water (but you can break it up throughout the day)
Don't overdo it. Also, don't go on a starvation diet, it SO does not pay off. Don't expect to loose a lot all at once. A steady 3-5 pounds a month is healthy for someone our age.
Find out what works for you and run with it. (No pun intended :P )
to start a career in acting would it be best to get an agent?.. if so.. how much are they and where can i get a good one? are there any other ways to get started? thank you!
Yes, it would be best to get an agent. I don't know exactly how much they cost, but I know they are VERY expensive. To hire them it would probably be at least $2,000 (since you want a good one). As to where you can get a good one... you're not going to like my answer, but Los Angeles, CA. New York also would probably have experienced ones. If you want a local agent, you should do some research in the newspaper and online. Other ways to get started? There are always local auditions being held for commercials or small guest spots on TV shows. Again, just look online, and there should be some results for your area.
im 16f and all my friends go out with lads...but i seem the only one not 2...i havent had my first kiss yet and that makes me feel more down and like that no one would ever want me (yes i no its sounds stupid but thats how i feel) i talk to lads but they dont seem interested or anyone who does like me are ugly and i dont like them or there too young...
is there a way too make lads like me or talk to me more often so they start to like me ?
(sorry if its confusing) xox
Don't feel bad. Everyone feels like you at one point in time. You deserve someone that will break apart from the crowd of boys that like the "hottest" girl or the "most popular" girl just to be with you. And, honey, let's get something straight: you are NOT ugly. You are absolutely beautiful the way you are and nothing will change that. You are a unique individual and there is some boy out there that thinks you are the prettiest girl in the world. So, the answer to your original question: Every single guy is different. Therefore, there is no one way to get them all to like you. But, the best way to get guys to *notice* you is to BE YOURSELF. Be brave and start a conversation with a cute guy. Be confident: hold your head up high and look people straight in the eye. Any guy will fall in love with a person like that, trust me.
lately ive just been so FED UP with my appearance i hate looking in the mirror because its not what i want to see =( everyone else is so much prettier than me or thats what i think. my hair bugs me it never stays right i wish i was tanner i wish i was everything else..
i know im not DEPRESSED or i dont think so but maybe just jealous of every other girl. and i really like this kid but he has a girlfriend and it kills me everytime i hear her name because i know that i cant have him
also my parents have been telling me that i need to go do other things rather than come home go on the computer go to my cousins (my best friends house) and then when i get home get back on the computer! they are telling me i need to get out of the house and go with my other friends but the only problem is i dont have many OTHER close friends i can hangout with..
my life just seems to be going completely wrong.
ahh! what do i do? i cant live like this anymore..
First of all: I'm sure you don't look as bad as you do. Learn to accept your appearance. If you really feel strongly about the way you look, try to change something. Frizzy hair? Straighten it. Hate your eyes? Put some eye shadow on or mascara. These little things can help a lot. But, trust me: even if you do nothing to your appearance, you are beautiful the way you are.
Second: Get to know the person you like more. Be his friend. Then, when his current girlfriend breaks up with him, be ready to ask him out. But you have to know that if he turns you down or if you start to go out with him that he is not your everything and you can live without him.
Lastly: Try and make more friends in school. I know its hard, but just be a nice person and open to other people and you should have more friends in no time. Although for the time being, tell your parents you like doing what you are doing and don't need to go out with other friends.
HEY PEOPLE
I need your honest opinion, is kissing with lipgloss or without better??
If WITH - what flavor??
Everyone will give you a different answer. Every guy has a different opinion. Do what you like, and if a guy doesn't like that they should tell you.
What do most people define as "hooking up"?
It really changes for every person. Some define it as becoming boyfriend/girlfriend; others by having sex. Those are the two main definitions that I know of.
Ok this might sound stupid but i wanna know if this is normal. sometimes if i hear a song that i really really love it makes me want to cry, i think just becuase its so beautiful and i feel so deep, its kind of disturbing. for me its enjoy the silence by depeche mode, and lacuna coil covered it, i like that one just as much.
So is this normal? It might be becuase music is such an important part in my life? Thanks.
That is definitely normal. At one point in time, everyone finds a song that really touches them, whether it makes them cry or smile. Just go with it. It may lead you to open new doors of creativity in your life.
Is your period 28 days from the beginning of your last period or the end?
28-31 days after the end of your period your next period will come. I assume that you just got your period? If so, periods can fluxuate for the first 6-18 months. They can come every 21-35 days and its normal. After the first year it should be pretty normal, 25-33 days, but if you still can never predict when your next period is going to come after a year and a half ask a doctor next time you see them. If there's no urgency, there's no need to book an appointment.