about

name's chelsey.
i'm 16,i'll be 17 in a little over 3 months.
i've been through a lot,and i have a lot of wisdom in different areas.
i'll try my best to help you in any way i can.
just ask :]

advice

i have these jeans that i want to put rinestones on. what kind of glue should i use???

super glue

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Have you ever thought that you liked someone when you were going out with a different someone (that you love soooo much!) and sometimes wonder what it would be like to be with the other person?

I know its wrong, and i told my boyfriend {of 1yr and almost 2mos.} but i dont know how to stop. because I don't truly like these other people. I Love my boyfriend tho. I hope this isn't too confusing!!

Anyone experienced this?

Help me to stop please!

Oh, I would never cheet on my boyfriend or break up with him. So your probabaly wondering, "whats the problem them?" well I still dont want to think these things. i mean i know im a teen (freshman/female) but I have a great boyfriend and I know this isnt right! so, anyone??

Thanks In Advance!

-*KeLs*-

p.s.=if this doesnt make since { how i worded it or if you need to know something else}, say so in your answer, and i'll re-ask the question to you differently!

Thanks!! :)

It's normal to like other people when your going out with someone, even if you love them, but you need to make a decision on who you want to be with more. My friend was in the exact same situation, but she decided to break up with her b/f for the other guy, even though she doesn't even know if he likes her, which, in my opinion, wasn't a smart move. Just try to focus on your b/f more than other people.
Hope I helped!

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Ok, about a month ago I noticed a small lump around my crotch.. I have just noticed it getting bigger.. Its about 5mm long, and 2mm high.. what do you think it is? could it possibly be cancer? if so.. what sort?

17/m

It's probably nothing to worry about, but you should go see your doctor and get it checked out. Good Luck!

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i need some help on what eye shadows and liners to wear. i have brown eyes and i want to be able to bring them out. any suggestions? thanx 4 ne help in advance.

light prurple eyeshadow with dark liner or brown eyeshadow with dark liner would look good! Hope I helped!

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When I walk in my bathroom, theres always poop on the toilet. I think my dad does it because my pets don't use the toilet. LOL. I know it's gross but how can I find out who is doing this. (It's not my sister or my mom either.) HELP!!!!!!!!!!

Ask who's doing it and politely tell them that it grosses you out and to please flush next time.
Hope I helped!

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Me and this girl have been friends for like ever (well since like elementary school) anyways, we botth have made more friends, and we share alot of the same friends. anyways my real problem is that i feel that she would rater hang out with them than me. she invites them over like all the time. she hasnt invited me over since like the summer. i know this probablymakes me sound jelouse and selfish, but i just wish she would spend more time with me. what should i do. i dont want to tell her that i feel left out, cuz i iwll feel stupid. i reallyneed help please

Tell her how you feel. She probably doesn't realize that it has been bothering you.But you don't have to wait on her,ask the whole bunch to come over for a girl night or something. Good Luck! Hope I helped!

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is it normal to every so often not have your period for a month? i have never had sex and im 14 thanks..

When you've just started sometimes your periods aren't regular and skip around, After awhile they will start becoming more regular. Hope I helped!

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OKay...i am 15....I had my first period in Nov of 2004....and i started my period yesterday...this has never happend to me before...but...When i go pee...i bleed too....why is that???? like...i bleed more than i pee...and the blood is all gooey and chunky...i hope non of u think im weird...im just really nervous...because this has never happend to me before..
thanks girls

Don't worry. It's completely normal. If you need any info or pointers about your period though, you can go to www.beinggirl.com. Good Luck!
Hope I helped!
*-*x0oLoViN'iTo0x*-*

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ok look i kno this chick and we've been goin out for about 9 months and she wants to do stuff really bad and dont get me wrong i do too but i am not done with puberity and i am shy about it i dont kno what to do what do i do? what do i say? should i just go for it and see what happens or should i just wait?

P.S. we love each other VERY much!! :)

Wait until you're married.

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ok i have had this boyfriend for 3 months almost 4 months now. and you see everyone is like at 5 or 6th months you should have sex. but i dont want to. i mean i'm only 14. i love him alot. alot. alot. but i mean all we do now is really is talk and make out which is enough for me but i mean should i do other stuff? and everyone says that me and my boyfriend are gunna get married. we barly knew each other before we started going out and now were like best friends and always over each others houses. its great. but latly everyone is asking why we dont do stuff. hes kinda shy and i've never done anything like "that" before. sorry its soo long. but please what should i do?

Don't let anyone push you to have sex, your too young. Save yourself for your husband and I promise it will be worth it.
*-*x0oLoViN'iTo0x*-*

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What is a good way to ask a guy out? I really want to, but i'm not sure what a good way is.

like Nike says: just do it.

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For health class i have to pick an anti-drug..like yeah kno...sports.. my anti-drug, but i can't think of any. I don't wanna use sports cuz sum1 already has it? does any1 hav some ideas? thnx

love, faith, hope,family, aspirations..
Hope I helped!

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Ok, this one girl keeps saying stuff about me that isn't true. I don't know what I should do!!!!!! I don't want to hit her I just want her to leave me alone!!! Any advice would be great!!

Talk to her and ask her what her problem is. If you don't resolve the issue by talking to her then she wo'nt stop. Good Luck!

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14/F. Next time my dad goes to the movie store I get to pick a few movies. I prefer scary movies rated pg-13 or R. Movies I like were Saw and the Ring. I personally thought the Grudge was stupid. Any ideas? (I will take suggestions other then scary movies if they are good)

Yea, The Grudge was really stupid! But anyway, have you seen white noise or lost? Those are supposed to be good. Good Luck!

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Hey again! He always talks to me during class like asking me things! would that considered flurting?

signed,
Confused

It could be..just depends on the way he's saying it and stuff. Just because he's asking you questions about school and stuff doesn't mean he's flirting, but it is possible! Just start talking to him more!
Good Luck and God Bless!

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Hey! I like this guy alot!He is really nice and fun to be around! I want to tell him I like him, but i am afraid he doesn't like me! How do I now?

signed,
Confused

If he likes you he'll give you signs, like flirting with you or just going out of his way to talk to you all the time. If he doesn't talk to you yet and you want to get something started, just talk to him! I f he likes you he'll ask you out. Good Luck!

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Okay I have like a ton of art stuff but I am starting to run out of ideas of what I should make.I was wondering if you guys have any ideas on what I could make.By the way I always rate a five for anyone who helps me!!!

You could make picture frames. Hope I helped!

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my family owes the bank alot of money and i wanna help them. i'm only 13 so what can i do to help them get money? please help, this is important

You could babysit,clean houses, wash cars, that's all I can think of right now.. Hope I helped!

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whats a good name for a female chihuahua? I rate 5s for really cool and creative names :)

Bella would be a cute name..

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theres this really annoying ugly ignorent kid at my school saying stuff to me and id like to give him some good comebacks because im sick of his attitude and the way he talks to girls... anyone have any good comebacks?

"That's alright, that's ok, your gonna pump my gas someday!" lol...

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