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left in the dust
Me and this girl have been friends for like ever (well since like elementary school) anyways, we botth have made more friends, and we share alot of the same friends. anyways my real problem is that i feel that she would rater hang out with them than me. she invites them over like all the time. she hasnt invited me over since like the summer. i know this probablymakes me sound jelouse and selfish, but i just wish she would spend more time with me. what should i do. i dont want to tell her that i feel left out, cuz i iwll feel stupid. i reallyneed help please
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She isn't going to know unless you say something.You have to communicate.Not all your friends have to be friends with each other.Let her know you realize that but you would really like to hang out more often.Could be she doesn't realize.
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aw im sorry. well you cant like not tell her, then she wont ever know. my best friend does the same thing. but through everything we are still best friends. At school were with completely diffrent people. But yet our friendship never changes. If you REFUSE to tell her then just still be there for her, when you think your getting on her nerves just play it cool n stuff, sooner or later she will come around and you guys will hang out like before. Sometimes friends just need a break from their friends. its ok.
hope i helped<3
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I would just make new friends and stop hanging out with this girl because trying to talk to her is not going to help because she's just get mad and call you a leech. I think that you should just stop thinking about this girl, get her off your mind, and meet some other friends at school or anywhere. Make this girl jealous to where she'll be like you... wanting to have you back to where it's just you and her and no one else. Believe me, it helps.
Luv, Brittany~~~
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i had that happen to me but i just went up to her and told her that i felt left out and she said ok and she hung out with me at lunch and she calls me all the time it might not work for you but it works for me
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i think that she just wants to hang out with her other friends for a while and will start hanging out with you but it sunds liek she ditched you for them that sounds liek shes not a real friend you have plenty of other friends that probelly would never do that to you! think about it . . good luck! =) x0x
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Tell her how you feel. She probably doesn't realize that it has been bothering you.But you don't have to wait on her,ask the whole bunch to come over for a girl night or something. Good Luck! Hope I helped!
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If she's such a great friend, why would you feel so stupid talking to her about your feelings? She, being your friend, should respect your feelings. If she doesn't, it's time to find some other friends.
How about you invite your friends over rather than just watching her invite them to her place?
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