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Here are some things about me.

A lot of people judge me on what they see but never really know whats going on. I'm not close to perfect and I'm not afraid to show it. So many things have happened to me that it seems surreal sometimes. But now I'm finally happy with myself and my life. So haters keep hating because I realized how blessed I truely am.


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hi im just wondering, i seriously think im kindof on the pudgy side, but my friends always tell me not (but i mean theyre friends, come on!)
but im 5'8 and i weigh 110 or so and i just constantly wish i were skinnier. am i?

You definitely aren't fat. You are actually on the skinny side. The ideal weight for a woman 5'8'' is 124-168.The ideal weight for a man 5'8'' is 124-164.

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k, there's this (really hott) guy in my class. I don't care what guys look like all that much, his hotness adds to it.. a lot of other girls like him, but I'm not sure if he likes me or not. Another guy in my class shouted to the class that I liked him, and he didn't say anything but my friends said he blushed more than I did. so, do you think this guy likes me? I'll rate 5's for any sensible answer! 14/f

Yes it sounds like he does. But this is one of the many signs. You can write me back if you think he has done anything else to hint that he likes you.

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13/f. i have hair thats to my shoulders. it sits right on them. its dark dark brown, almost black. and everyday i either wear it in a pony tail or straightened down [i have a chi straightener]. could someone please, please, give me more hair styles so i wont be so plain. thanks!

-Spiral Curls
-Krimps (Just braid your hair and after some hours/overnight just take it out)
-Pony tail in the front and hair hanging down in the back
-two ponytails on each side then braid them or just leave them hanging

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Have you seen the movie "But i'm a Cheerleader?"

No, why? Is it a good movie?

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so people say not to eat after 7pm
what about if its healthy foods such as grapefruits, applesauce or yogurt?

the website is mypyramid.gov
my health teacher says that mypyramid.com is a knockoff

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ok umm...this is kinda weird...but is it like totaly wrong to think that my cousin is like INCREDIBLY hott? like...he came to vsit for christmas and iwas practicallly druling over him and like...is it bad that i would totaly want to go out with him if i was older and not his cousin?

sorry its kinda akward

~*me*~

Nothing is wrong with thinking that he is hott. But that's it. Since you'll are cousins you'll shouldn't go out. I don't think you should go any further than thinking that he is hott.

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ok well for school we have to write journal entries and i am way behind i have only written 2 and we need like 15! we can write about anything. i need some topics that are easy to write about and i can write a lot on because the more you write the more points you get. thanks!

Christmas (which ever holiday/holidays you celebrate)
Hanukkah
Kwanza
New Years
What you enjoyed the most
What you disliked the most
Most exciting moment

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wats a good website to get cheap and good snowboards? such as burton or gnu

www.DogFunk.com
http://www.wintersportx.com/browse/c/1/
http://www.surreycentral.com/snow.html
http://www.wiredsport.com/
http://www.the-house.com/boardshop.html

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what would you do if the love of your life walked away, is never coming back, and you didnt get to say good bye?

I'd let my emotions out and cry. I would try to get over him since he isn't coming back though.

If he died then you can write me back and i'll try to give some tips on getting over a death.

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From a female,
When you are sexually active is there supposed to be hair uhh "down there"? or do you shave it off or what? sorry if this is like a stupid question or whatever but i'll rate.

It is all up to you. If you are more comfortable with no hair then shave it. If you are comfortable with hair then keep it. If you have a boyfriend/girlfriend then ask him/her what he/she prefers;hair or hairless.

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when someone says theyre sprung..what does it mean?

When you are extremely attracted to someone. Maybe even obsessed.

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whats your opinion on a freshman dating a junior?
Please Help all i want is opinions
I RATE!
kthnkxbye

I don't think that there is anything wrong with that. Age is just a number (longs as it is legal lol)

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okay well im thirteen + i masturbate like once a day.

its weird though because ill masturbate to anything, but idk why i really want to do it with someone else [not sex, masturbating] a girl in paticular, any ideas how to get one?

lol. i really need help on this.

oh and btw, you said you liked experimenting which is why i asked you.

I'm not sure if you are a girl or boy.

Anyways, just ask them would they ever "whatever you want to do" with you. If they say yes then just be like well do you want to.

example:
me:Would you ever make out with me?
friend:Yeah, i guess so
me:Well do you want to?
friend:okay

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my freind thats is a singer are always singing,playing,concerts,acting.
we only have sleepovers once every two weeks.
i new him WAY before he got famous.
and now that hes big I DONT EVEN GET TO SPEND TIME WITH HIM.
its sad.
were like bestfreinds.
and used to always rent scary movies every friday night..
we didnt go to partys and that..
AND we would play truth or thuth.
jesse well.. i call him jmac lol..
he was always there.
17F
what should i do?

I recomend not putting his name. Because I'm sure that since you are 17 people will assume you are talking about Jesse McCartney. Eventhough you may not be.

Anyways since he is big, he has more of a responsibility to his career. Meaning less time for friends. I think you should talk to him try to come to a compromise. Let him know how you feel. Try to be there for him. Let him know that you miss how you'll used to be.

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Well, ok, here's the deal. I'm fourteen and i have a group of really close friends. I don't get crushes on girls, but my one friend has really nice, larger breasts and I like to touch them. This is because I am on the smaller side. Occasionally she lets me feel her, but sometimes she laughs it off. I enjoy it when I'm able to touch her. But, I just get turned on by things like this and horny.. Does this happen to anyone else? Also, there's this girl that touches me alot in those areas and it gets me really horny. I jsut like experimenting. Can someone please help me out? Thank you; I'll rate all fives.


I am like that to. I like experimenting. Nothing is wrong with that. If you enjoy it then keep on.

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13/f

one my friend(girl) and me took off clothes and touched each other . we didnt finger each other. we just licked and sucked each others boobs. is that bad or something?

No!Your hormones are kicking in. There's nothing wrong with experimenting. If you enjoyed it then there is nothing wrong with you.But your religion should play a role in it.

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i know the how the saying goes " don't judge a book by its cover ", but i'm still wondering what is it about 'reality' shows that make them so popular. i don't really see anything so special about them whatsoever. im a guy, and i even hear other guys talking about tv shows like its the latest gossip or something. i really don't have time to watch any tv though... ive asked around and everyone always says " because of the drama ", shows like laguna beach, the oc, etc. is that all there is too it or is there more? thanks, will rate.

Well I like reality shows because of the drama but it makes it even more dramatic just knowing that it is real life, there is no acting.

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is there a way to learn how to rap?

Rapping is a talent you can't learn how to do it but you can get better at it. If you want to learn how to be a better rapper you should practice, practice, practice. Practice makes perfect.

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14f
my bf and i started going out on dec 31. i went to my bestfriend's house later on that day to have a sleepover, but my bestfriend got mad cause he called my cellphone and she started asking me why i gave him my number. then she started calling me a whore and slut because i went out with "19652" guys (i only went out with 4 including my current bf). then, she asked me why i didn't tell her that i liked him and she started to accuse me of pretending to like him when i liked him months ago (i never tell her who i like because she would always give me an attitude). then i had to hang up on him. the next day, i didn't get to talk to my bf cause i knew my bestfriend would get mad. i finally talked to him online when i got home, but he didn't sound as happy or close as he used to. he used to joke around, but he barely even talks now.

why does my best friend get so angry whenever i like a guy?

is my bf just being shy, uncomfortable, or is he mad or something?

Its sound like your best friend is jealous. Jealousy isn't a good quality for a best friend to have.

I think your bf is disapointed and mad that your best friend controls the flow of you all's relationship.

I think you need to have a talk we both your best friend and bf. Try to come to a compromise.

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okay i gots a boyfriend I got 4 days ago. We kissed on new years eve and that was my first kiss ever but i felt nothing. No spark or anything. I find myself wishing hed break up with me sometimes. I dont know why though its like I stopped liking him. There is just no chemistry. Please tell me what I should do
Ill rate high
thanks

If there is no chemistry then you should move on.

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