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Ok...im 14 and i have been made fun of since 4th grade....everyday i get called gay and it just makes me feel terrible...and i dont know why they do it ...i make good grades and im a good person... i jsut would like to know what to do... (link)
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Did you ever think that they might be jelous because of your good grades? So next time just look them straight in the eye and say thank you then walk away. They will get sick of hearing the same response and stop bugging you. I may only be 13 but I had the same problem and it worked for me. Please rate. I love feedback good or bad so please help me out.
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im so sick of not having a bf. im 13, 5'1" 128 lbs. blonde perfect teeth, no braces. anything a guy would want! the thing is i have NEVER had a bf. my frend has and she is really really unattractive. she has hideous crooked yellow teeth and puffy frizzy hair. i dont mean to be mean but i really hate the fact that an ugly grl has had 7 bfs and i had none. please please help! (link)
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Maybe they are looking for a good petrsonality and not what's on the outside. (not trying to be mean). Please rate.
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how can i be more than friends with a guy who i think only likes me as a friend? (link)
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you can't. He could be seeing someone else or just might not be comfortable with you as more as a friend.
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i babysit this 11 yr old boy, max and i am 13/f he is taller than me and is quite mature for his age. the thing is latley he's been acting really strange. he asked me if i had my period yet and i tried to change the subject but he was persistant. oh, and the other night we were watching a movie at his house (lion king) and he is younger than me so he like layed down on me and pretended to be asleep. then i fell asleep too. when i woke up he was like all over me and touching my boobs. i dont know what to do. his parents pay well and i need the money badly. should i tell his parents, will they hire me agian? should i talk to him? HELP! (link)
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First talk to him but DON'T get mad at him just be calm and try to find out what is going on and tell him how you feel. Tell his parents but don't sound too freaked out if they won't higher you again don't stress it isn't your fault. If they are good parents they would understand and they would't fire you or blame you so just tell them. Please rate.
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okay big health project and the question is what turns a girl on about a guy? (link)
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One main thing is the personality and if you get into a relationship the girl likes to know that they arn't being pressured into anything they don't want to do. They need to feel comfortable or it would never work out. Hope I helped. Please rate I would also like feedback.
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This isn't really a sexual question, but it involves my genitals, so I figured this would be the best place to ask.
My labia is very irritated, itchy, and sometimes downright painful. I know it's not an STD, because I haven't done anything that could give me an STD. It's a bit like a rash, but I wouldn't call it one, it's more like irritation. Sometimes, I'll put vaseline on it, but it doesn't help much and not for long. It's a sharp, burning pain. It especially hurts when I'm forced to touch it, like after I use the restroom, or if I have to insert a tampon. Again, it's just my labia (inner and outer, mostly inner), not anything else, really.
Anyone know what it is/how to relieve it? (link)
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You probably have a yeast infection just eat plain yogert for a few days and it will go away. I get this all the time. Please rate.
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Im on my period right now and i am so angry for some reason and i get pissed off so easily right now and i dont know why? and today this girl told me something and i ended up cussing her out and every one thought i was gonna hit her in the face so please tell me how i can be nicer why im pmsing (link)
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It happens when you get your period it's horomones you can't control it but to relax yourself use aromatherapy or listen to soft music. Oh and don't rate me a 5 unless it's because my advice is good I want a fair judgement. Thanks!
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okay im going to my girlfriends house on sunday for easter and i want to know what exactly turns a girl on like what to do to her you know like kissing her neck. i need all the help i can get!! thanks (link)
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First of all nothing will turn her on if she isn't interested so until you know if she is don't bother. If she is start out slow unless she gives you a sign she wants to get in fast. Just start off by putting your arm around her. Note: If she pushes it off don't keep doing it or she might slap you outside the head. Please rate.
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me and my bf broke up last month. and i still really like him, he says he doesnt like me and when i try to get him to like me by like being all like touchy feely with him he is like stop i dont wanna like you again. but i want him to like me agin i cant find some1 i like just as much. we still talk on the phone for hours and we still hang out but what do i do?? i cant get over him but i dont really want to. how can i get him to like me again? (link)
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Hey I know how you feel and all I can say is give the guy some distance. For all you know he could be seeing someone else now. You are lucky he is still your friend most people don't want anything to do with their ex. (Not saying you are a bad person by the way) In a while you will start to get over him and you will see you won't be that interested anymore so I say just keep busy. If you need anything else just ask would love feedback as well.
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i cant seem to ever be abt to devide my time to spend with my best friend and my boyfriend....if i dont spend all my time with my boyfriend he gets realy bitchy at me.... and my friend is the same shes bitching that i dont do something with her every night.... it feels like both of them are trying to isolate me from one another and others i dont know what to do or what to say???????? (link)
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Get some thime to yourself and no offence but your boyfrien sounds like a total jerk if he won't let you spend time with others and your friend sounds the same way.Hope this doesn't hurt you.If it does let me know.
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okay so my 2 ex best friends are comming to my house...and 2 of my other best friends house's to T.P. us BADLY!!! i know this for a fact because ive got resources...ANYWAYS...me and my 2 friends who are supposedly getting t.p.ed too are gonna call the cops on them...they have put us through so much crap the past few weeks so this is just our lil pay back!! do you think its to much? if you think that maybe it IS beecause i might want them to be friends with me again one day...trust me thats NOT gonna happen!!
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It depends on their age and if the cops wuold belive you so you could call the cops if they are old enough to be charged or you could just wait for them to show up and bust them your choice.
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I am 14 (soon to be 15 in march)
well I have a stupid crush. Its not that the guy is stupid its just me having a crush. Feeling this way is of no use to me. I mean I was perfectly fine walking by a hot guy and thinking now he is "FINE" but when I get around my crush I get this weird tingling thing in my stomach and feeling kinda warm in my face. The weirdest thing is when ever I am around him I feel pretty. Stupid I know. I just want to be normal again. Its not like I act silly with Alex its just that I don't want to have any crushes. Crushes are stupid in my case...they never work out.
The problem is I know how to give myself advice and its some pretty good stuff its just that my crush's acts of kindness toward me makes the feeling in the pit my stomach increase somehow...I just want to be normal and to have a clear mind. (link)
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He could have the same feelings as you and belive me I used to feel the same way about crushes I thought they were useless but the fact is they arn't it helps build up courage. Oh and I know what you are going through I have had 10 crushes and I'm in grade8. None of the crushes ever worked out because 9 of them I didn't have the courage to ask out and the tenth one I asked out and after a month he showed his true colors and turned out to be a total jerk.
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My bestfriend and I... dont really get along... we can't be around eachother for more then 10 minutes or we'll start fighting.. n i have 2 other bestfriends (all four of us are bestfriends lol) and they think it gets annoying but me and my friend are trying to work it out but we cant.. n i just wanna kno if u think this is a good friendship.. so tell me wat u think.. thanx a bunch! (link)
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To tell you the truth no I don't think so if you can't stand being around eachother for more then ten minutes.
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SORRY ITS LONG
There's this guy I've known for a really long time. We were best friends when we were babies, toddlers, all the way up to second grade. He came to my house every day and we were almost inseperable. But in second grade he moved away. Not far away, just the other side of town. But I didn't get to see him as much because we didn't really hang out as much at school as we did at home. And then summer came, and I didn't see him at all. So comes third grade...and we just....aren't talking. We didn't fight, nothing happened, we just seemed...apart. Since then I haven't talked to him much even though the memories I have of him are really strong and really wonderful.
My question is....why did he forget about me? And since we're apart, how can I become his friend again? And why hasn't he thought about becoming my friend again, after all the good times? (link)
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He might not have forgotten about you he just might not be interested in the same things that he used to be and he might think that you are. Time can change people alot.
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i have a friend that gets mad so easily..one day he called me and said he was gonna work on his car, and i said that was fine. he gets online and says hey, and i was like hey then he said he had to go and puts up an away message. well, i had to tell him something so i was like "wait.." and he goes, "i told i had to work on my car why are you still talking?" and i said "i just wanted to ask you something" and he goes "well thats too bad" then he left again..and he came back and apologized and told me he was so sorry..and he has this big problem with being all mad and stuff and he just gets like that. He said i was the only one that could help him get out of it..what do i do? im so lost:( (link)
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Talk to him and ask for more detail on what's eating him befor you agree to help him because for all you know maybe you can't help him but he just thinks you can.
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ok, about a week or two ago i was at my friends birthday party. there was about 15 or so people there. we were all in her basement dancing and eating ext. her parents keep all the food on shelves down there and their alcohol too. well a few people decided to put some rum in a few of the soda cans. we hadnt known her parents marked those bottles. we all got busted at about 3 am ish. as soon as i found out her parents knew and they were going to tell our parents i was so upset. i didnt even have any. my parents were talking to me about it because they wanted to know what was going on. i told them that it was all lauras fault and she was drinking alot. it really wasnt but i was very very mad at her because i thought she was going to go out with the guy i like because he likes her and i thought she might like him too. now my parents hate her and im not ever allowed to see her again because they think shes a "bad influence" on me. how do i get my parents to forgive laura and like her again and let me be friends with her again??
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Tell them you lied and as for you doing it to get revenge wrong way to go talk to your friend about it think of how you would feel if she had done that to you.
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well there is this boy in my class lets name him john and for some odd reason he always goes out with everyones best friends and he just went out w/ my bff so im next in line. The only problem is that every1 just went out with him because they knew of wut he was doing which they thought was so retarded but i actually do like him and if my friends no i do they'll prob. laugh so what do i do (link)
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If you like him go out with him if your friends laugh (pardon the cliche) then there not your friends because if they laugh it means they can't respect your feelings for him.
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Sorry about the length..and I hope this makes sense.. Okay, i have this friend..lets call her C...anyways, she will be really rude to me at school and it gets really annoying because i don't do anything at all so I ignore her or something. But then at home on IM she's like "I never say anything mean to you! Or im always just kidding! You are always so mean to me!" and she like doesn't get that i hardly ever do anything to her at all! Then she'll be like well you were calling me a bitch and a slut all day (which is NOT true, i don't!) but she will constently bother me about this guy i like and make fun of us when im with him and stuff and say she never did anything! It's soo annoying!!! what should i do to get it through her head???? thanks for any help! (link)
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Sorry to say but it doesn't sound like this person is a very good friend so get rid of her if you don't this could go on for months I should know I had this happen to me.
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I've been friends with my best friend Kristen, for about a year or two. Recently I got with this guy, and him and I got into a conversation the other day about what we would give up for each other. I then realized, that I would give up my best friend Kristen, for this guy. Does that mean that I'm an awful friend? The way I look at it, it seems that my boyfriend has replaced my old best friend.. and he is now not only my boyfriend, but my best friend as well, which is why I feel I could give her up for him. Let me know. &heart; (link)
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No you are not an awful friend! You are just so in love with this guy. He hasn't even taken the place of your friend friends and boyfriends are in two different catigories the reason you feel this way is probably because the time you used to spend with your friend is now time you spend with your boyfriend. To solve this cut down a bit on the boyfriend time and spend some time with your friend. Talk to your boyfriend about this first. If he's a good guy he will understand. I hope I helped.
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I have a best friend.. let's call him.. Bob.. Bob has been my best friend since even.. kindergarden. We haven't every been really close though because he's always wanted to fit in with the "in" crowd. He's changed himself from how I used to know him.. and it kills me inside knowing that he wouldn't even think about going out with me. It's funny though.. because he's always hanging around with me, and he acts really cool, and like himself when no one else is around, like if we're talking on AIm. Then when we get into class.. he's this rude, abnoxious, wannabe.. do I just forget him? *sigh* I rate answers. (link)
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No don't forget him.(not yet) Tell him how you feel first talk to him. You have been close for a long time and it sounds like you would be there for him when and if his new friends drop him so talk to him. Or you could support his new lifestyle it's really up to you. PS please send feedback.
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