i cant seem to ever be abt to devide my time to spend with my best friend and my boyfriend....if i dont spend all my time with my boyfriend he gets realy bitchy at me.... and my friend is the same shes bitching that i dont do something with her every night.... it feels like both of them are trying to isolate me from one another and others i dont know what to do or what to say????????
mrs_radcliffe answered Friday January 7 2005, 3:10 pm: Well why dont you and your mates meet up with your boyfriend and mabe you can talk about it? or if not meet your boyfriend on one day and your friends on the next roxie xxx [ mrs_radcliffe's advice column | Ask mrs_radcliffe A Question ]
blondebombshell33 answered Thursday January 6 2005, 11:35 pm: Hey hun! I've totally been in this situation befor! tRiCkY! aHh... try to do something with both of them. sounds like their jealous of eachother... talk to both of them and tell your boyfriend that you have a best friend.. that you love to spend time with and tell your best friend vise versa. you don't have to choose betewwn either of them... but making sure that you give them equal time and let both know how much you love them is all that really matters!
xOxO, aLeX
(gOOd LuCk!) [ blondebombshell33's advice column | Ask blondebombshell33 A Question ]
LipsAreForKissing answered Thursday January 6 2005, 10:13 pm: Sit them both down and talk to them. tell them how you feel. Then say if they dont realize that you only have a certain amount of time and they need to share you, then you wont hang out with either of them. Then for a few days chill with NEITHER of them. That way your not choosing, and your getting your point accross. It will give them a change to resolve their differences [ LipsAreForKissing's advice column | Ask LipsAreForKissing A Question ]
am4ric4ndr34mgrl answered Thursday January 6 2005, 8:42 pm: hmmm why don't you ask them if they want to do something together... if your best friend wants to be with you and so does your boyfriend then why don't you hang out with both at the same time... you know like go to the movies all together or go to a park and all of yall can play soccer or somthing... it might be different if your friends can't stand you boyfriend ... then thats a boyfriend problem ... and if that the case trust me i speak from experiance... go with your friends [ am4ric4ndr34mgrl's advice column | Ask am4ric4ndr34mgrl A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.