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i have a friend that gets mad so easily..one day he called me and said he was gonna work on his car, and i said that was fine. he gets online and says hey, and i was like hey then he said he had to go and puts up an away message. well, i had to tell him something so i was like "wait.." and he goes, "i told i had to work on my car why are you still talking?" and i said "i just wanted to ask you something" and he goes "well thats too bad" then he left again..and he came back and apologized and told me he was so sorry..and he has this big problem with being all mad and stuff and he just gets like that. He said i was the only one that could help him get out of it..what do i do? im so lost:(
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It sounds like something else is wrong, not just a "problem with being all mad and stuff." People like this usually,
A) like the person they're bitching at
B) have a problem they haven't let out, and are trying to get you to pay attention to them and notice that something is wrong, so that you will take interst and question them until they tell you what's wrong
C) like conflict, or like to fight, even with their friends - this people do exist
I think your comment, "the only one that could help him out" defiently points to problem B.
I think you need to take action and call him out, whatever it is, if your friendship is valuable to him, he'll stop being such a bitch. You just gotta help him!
- MILKcaRton08
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Talk to him and ask for more detail on what's eating him befor you agree to help him because for all you know maybe you can't help him but he just thinks you can.
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Just sit down with him and see what seems to be making him get so frustrated, my great friend tori helped me get out of my phase during 4th and 5th grade. Her username is LiLQTPiE8505, so ask her, shell really be able to give you some great advice=) ♥ Julia
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