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ok I've been going out with this boy for 2 weeks now and we always hang out together in the cafeteria in the morning. But he never says anything....and today, i sat next to him like i always do and it looked like he rolled his eyes....so i made conversation by saying "so i heard you were missing yesterday cuz his mom said he was gone for 2 hours (pathetic) and he just smiled and turned away to talk to his friend. So i got up and left. Then at the end of the day when we were going to the busses, i waited for him and i didnt see him look at me but i think he did and he ran. but then my friend alyssa ran after him and he turned around and came and talked to me. well he didnt say anything...but my friend jenna said "do you still wanna go out with her?" and i didnt hear him bc i was far away but jenna said he said yes and so then alyssa is like "come on kiss her you kno you want to" and he just looked like he was like "OMG I JUST WANNA GET OUT OF HERE!!" so i asked him for a hug and we hugged (he still didnt say anything) and then he walked to his bus.....does he like me still? or is he faking? Do you think he'll ever speak to me????? Do you think he'd ever kiss me too? Help... (link)
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ok first of all thanks for asking me a question... and second of all YOU BETTER DO SOMETHING BECAUSE YOU DESERVE SO MUCH BETTER THAN THAT!!!
sorry about that =)
but ok listen to the reasons
he is either...
1. Just major shy.
2. dont like you ... but just being nice...
but either way, you gotta talk to him and ask. why is he doing that? well more like not doing it. talking i mean.
his probably just doing that because he dont like you and i am sorry to tell ya that but you gotta move on and make both of you happy.
i know it will be hard first, but think about the reasons... do you really want a guy to just be with you when he dont like it and make all things negative?
if you just tell him, i think we should just be friends alright? he will understand ...even glad,,,sorry...but if you do that, you will have a chance to meet a new guy who will LIKE YOU FOR YOU! and you will never have to worry about him not talking because if he like you he will be interested in you so much, you will be so flattered and never ending talking of flirting and nice conversation...
so please do me a favor and do whats good for you. and TRUST YOUR HEART...
i just hate people being treated bad... so please dont get mad at me for the only advice i given you but there wont be other way, and you know whats right when you listen to your heart ok?
so hope it works out with him ...
and hope i helepd and if you need someone to talk to about it. email me =)
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Hello,I'm an over weight girl 13 years old, and I really would like to go out with a guy at my summer camp. But since I'm fat they only see that, and not the true me. I mean I've lost about six teen lbs total this summer. There are girls two - three times my size.... Does any one have a clue how to attract a guy to me, like flirting ideas, or just to get them to notice me???? Please I need tons of help for this????? (link)
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i totally know what you mean. i mean i am over weight too. but people cant really call me over weight because i am not really fat but i am not skinny because they dont know i am sucking in all the extras... and sometimes wear corsets...well but now i am exercising for it.
well anyways... to this date, i never had a boy friend. i mean i got a lotta GUY friends and they are all cool and major cute but no more than that. but you would to totally better than me.
anyways... to get a guy to notice you is to just say hi first. then just start up a conversation.
it all depends on "clique" of guy...
but most guys like guitar, red hot chilli peppers, Diablo, Runescape. i know i am totally tomboy so its kinda easy for me to talk to them. but thats not it.. i get all nervous all the time but you have to just relax around them and talk like you would talk to your just girl friends...
and well if YOU reLLy want to a guy to notice you is ... BE in Center of Stage... such as Singing, Playing guitar, etc...
and also to flirt, ( yea i do lot of that but what do i have to show for? nothing but no bf oh sorry about my sad life story) anyways
1. smile ...VERY IMPORTANT
2. ask him if his ticklish and if he says yes. then start poke him and tickle him ( i kno that sound stupid but its fun and it kinda works )
3. and ask him that you are going to do over his hair and start putting gel in his hair and do that (unless that guy is totally obssessed with hair and gets all mad about it then dont)
4. and oh yea ,,,when guy is standing, and not knowing that you are coming behind him. then sneak up on him. Jump by pressing on his shoulder and also surprising.
5. saying I love you ... i know that seem like a telling the truth, but one of my guy friend said that to me for just playing around and i said i love you too and all that and its fun to do that... just as playing . so if he gets like WHAT! say come on so and so! i was just playing around!
and also to get noticed... it depend on guys clique again... because they have all different interest
such as
prep guys - expensive clothings. DB & LV purse
goth guys - weird hairs and piercings and black
make ups and clothing
punk guys - guitar and skateboarding
and so on. so you gotta think in his perspective, what will he like? and trust me if your heart speaks it will be the right one.
so hope i helped =)
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I have a thing with the dark. At night if i go downstairs while everyone is asleep or upstairs in the rooms, im always scared someone is watching me. I dont go downstairs that often but i need help. Is it because im weird or am i going crazy. Please help.. 14 female..
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OK OMG you are so freaking me out because i am same age, same gender, and kinda same problem with you. well still do but its not that bad...
well i always couldnt go sleep and i could hear the little noises like car door slamming, it was my neighbor's car but i was really scared and all that and i still do that sometimes ,but you will eventually grow out of it. i mean my family couldnt affort a thearapy so i couldnt go but you should consider it if it gets worse. and i totally get what you mean by someone watching me... it got so worse, that i had to put blanket over my whole body when it was really really hot.
so i was drenched in sweat...
but consider that and hope i helped =)
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ok well i have stared my period once and that was 3 months a go i have not had sex soo i am not pregnet! it worries me! i havent told my mom that i haent started in 3 months! because she know i have origanly started! is my body going haywire or somthing? and i gett alot of discharge still!
Haywired Body?? (link)
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no dont worry. it will happen soon. i mean SAME EXACT thing happened to me...well i dont know if it lasted for 3 months but my mom even asked me why i am not having my period...but i never had sex so i was worried too... and i did have that discharge too.
but dont worry there is nothing wrong with YOU
your period is just irregular. and if someone else say that your body is weird, screw them because i went through same thing ... i still have very irregular periods. and it will be like that for long long time and even forever.
but DONT WORRY... i mean if you didnt have sex or anything like that.. then its all good
i mean not having period once everymonth is good thing ... i mean i was worried at first but now i am glad i dont get them like regularly...
but if you do get them, it might last little longer than a week but its nothing wrong...
so DONT WORRY~~
hope it helped =)
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so im thinking of kissing a boy by the waterfalls we hang out at..any suggestions on what i can do to make the move..anything to say or anything to do?
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oh thats so sweet, well it would be more romantic if it was kinda dark with only those headlights... and the right time would be, when you guys like talk sitting in by the waterfall and when you have some silent time, just call him and look him in the eye and THATS the right time and hope its romantic ~ =)
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ok, well all my friends have secrets. Everyone does.. right? well i dont know why but EVERYONE tells me their problems and secrets, sometimes it can be something really small that i can stand like "i like _____" but sometimes they're REALLY big like "i've been raped! dont tell anyone!". Now i'm really popular when it comes to friends so i'm holding ALL of THEIR secrets! one of these days i'm gonna combust and tell everyone all these secrets. I want to be there for my friends, but i dont want to go crazy holding everyone thought, secrets, and personal problems. What do i do?! (link)
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ok you have been born with those stuff... people telling you weird stuff that you dont want to hear. and let me tell ya. people do that to me too. i mean this boy told me about how ants got in his pants and his teacher had to scratch it out of his butt crack... i mean his a friend but what the heck is that!
and i DOOOO have big big mouth. but you gotta think before you open your mouth. and when they tell you something big. before they tell, that you cant promise not to tell if its something really bad such as RAPE! ok...
so make up your mind before you burst...
and tell your friends too...
hope it helped =)
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My neighbors enjoy loud music. They are generally good about turning it down when we ask, but lately they are obviously retaliating by being obnoxious in other ways (hollering, honking horns, etc.) One guy even came over and told my Dad that we should do our part and shut our doors and windows. Don't we have a right to fresh air? I don't want this to escalate, but I really find their loud music very rude. Does anyone have ideas of what to do without starting a neighbor war?
Thank you,
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ok do this and this will shut them up for good.
LAW! tell them you will report them to the autorities and make up all those fake stuff
such as ...hello ...i have let you slide off a lot of times with those blaring music, but this has gone far enough. and as the book says, on secion A paragraph 14. that we have right to report you to the authorities...
it will work and if they dont...then do really report them,.... hope it helped =)
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I have medium brownish red hair that is very straight and longish and layeredy..i want to do streaks of color throughout my hair---i mean crazy color, such as pink or purple or blue or red or SOMETHING..what would be the best color to do with my hair color? i have pale skin and light brown eyes (link)
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oh thats awesome well if you have red ish brownish hair you should go with shocking pink or hot pink or just pink...because if its kidna red, it will match your hair lol
hope i helped =)
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how do i find my perfect look? i mean one day im wearing baggy pants a tee shirt and converse hightops then the next day im wearing a skirt and some heels. should i choose one style? or do i just wear what i want? i dont wanna look weird... im going into highschool next year and i dont want to get made fun of cuz of the stuff i wear.... thanx so much i rate high (link)
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ok this is soo awesome because i am going for fashion major in colleage and i really love doing those stuff so can you please email me???
and i so know what you are talking about because i am going to high school next year too and well when i look back, (such as 6th grade) i thought i dressed so cool but when i think now i was such a loser its good thing no one made fun of me how i dressed well not to my face at least...but now people compliment on my clothing frequently...
and i gotta know how you are like ...so i know what clothing looks good on you depending on your shape so please write me an email for it ~
=) hope you email me because i would help you like all the way and it would be so awesome if i can~
so please consider it
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My parents and my friend's parents are not getting along at this current moment. ..and well ever since 2 weeks ago, the phone calls have stopped...and I guess I miss talking to her..usually, i would call her constantly..like everyday..and like my mom told me to stop to give her some time to herself..well it's been 2 wks..what more time can she have?? I have too much pride to call over now because it's been too long and it'd be awkward..she only calls me if I call her first..so idk what to do because I wanna talk to her..should I give it up and get over myself or wait for her to call or put my pride down? Thanks (link)
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ok i totally know what you are going through because that happened to me too. but i guess it depend why they are mad... i mean if it just had something to do with adults then tell her that she didnt do anything so let the adults work it out and that you shouldn't be FORBID to tlak to your best friend. i mean my mom is still mad at my best frien's mom but she doesnt make me not talk to her. she was like that at first but she realized that it wasnt her, i mean her only fault is being related to the mother. so we hang out and my mom even felt sorry to her so talk to her about it and hope it works out =)
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Hey me and my best friend have been friends for about 4 years nearly 5. But now its all changed and i miss her so much i just want things to go back to normal but my other friend is very jelious if we do anything together help!!
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what do you mean specifically by going back to normal and stuff? did you have a fight?
so more info and write me an email, i will help best as i can~ =)
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ok, well my friend got raped by her dad and is abused. I dont know if he does it alot, or if he did it just once, but still, my friend is in deep shit if she dosent tell anyone. Fortunatly she told me cause we're really close, but she didnt tell the social worker *she was adopted* cause she said she dosent want her world to turn upside down and change. She told me to keep it as a secret and when she told me i was half asleep *i'm awake now* so i promised i wouldnt tell anyone that could arrest him or anything. Should i tell my parents and make her suffer but have her world the way it is and how she wants it to be? or should i break my promise to my friend and tell my parents? Please help, it's a big problem! i'll rate high!
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ok you better tell someone. i mean if it keeps going like that, it will eventually lead to suicide. i am dead serious... so please please please tell one of the trust worthy adult whom you can trust, and take your friend with you when you tell that adult, i mean she might get mad but talk to her reasonably...
about how you dont want her to suffer anymore, and you cant bare to do nothing when she's hurting like that and that you are trying to help her. and if she gets help, there wont be no more physical and sexual abuse. but only love and new parents who will love her as if they were her real parents... or even better, i know this usually dont happen but if your family is financially ok and stuff, talk to them about making her their foster kid.
so you go and do that As soon as possible and hope this helped =)
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Hey ive liked this guy for like a reallllly long time and he has supposedly liked me in the past but we never actually went out. well i still like him but im waaayyyy to afraid to just tell him plus we're friends so it would change a lot of things. im even to afraid to tell my bestest of friends. HELP please!
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ok first of all THANKS FOR ASKING ME! i know this was like all of sudden thing but i really love giving advices =) ok anyways...lets get back to you =)
i know what you mean by that. i mean i have lotta guy friends and it sucks because i am not the pretty girl, i am average girl who is plump and trying to lose weight over the summer so i can really surprise my guy friends =) and well this is hard for you i know. i wasnt able to admit my feelings for long time but you gotta do it sometimes or you will never know! i know everyone says, just tell him he will like you too and such right? if not then sorry =) but its not always like that and i will be the person to tell you that
but it is on the other hand has a good chance...
first i have seen it happen ... and it was very surprising (not to me because im fat but my friend) i told her to just let it out or she will never find out so she wrote him a letter ( and you should to ...so you can save turning red and stuff and blabbing like a weirdo just in case you freeze up in front of him . )
so write a letter that will make him that you realy like him and make him feel good about him self like saying , i think you are really nice and cute and all that good stuff and speak from heart. and
go for it !
and i know friend to more than friend is a big step but it will be more awkward if you dont tell because that conscience of yours will play a trick on you if you dont tell that guy...
so just get it off your chest and hope it works out and if he says just want to be friend say Ok Great ! and be cheerful because if you show a little bit of distraction, things might not go back to same way ...
and well like i said, you will never know until you give it a try right? so write him a letter, really speaking from your heart. and even if he doesnt say anything right away, just give him some time. but do ask him when he dont say anything for 3 days.
hope this helped =)
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what can I do to make my bf feel like I really love him when he moves away. We agreed to have a long distance thing but I dont know how to show affection from this distance... (link)
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aww thats so sweet of you. ok this might not be most expensivest or even the coolest but most meaningful and romantic can come out of HEART not the money... you of course knew that =)
get together with him one day. and prepare a special HANDMADE heart that you will make ...
just go to michels or any store and make a cute heart and stuff
and if you are good at cooking, make a romantic dinner. you know just go set up the light dim and candel =)
and just being 2 of you and speak from heart. and he will understand it... trusting your heart and talking from heart can be the biggest gift that a person can recieve~
=)
and if you need more idea about what to make him then contact me and i will be glad to help you!
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okay, so i'm really confused because there's this guy i really like. but he has a girlfriend. see most people would just be like oh, he's taken whatever, ya know? but the thing is, me and him have been friends for a long, long time so we talk even more than him and his girlfriend talk. so that wouldn't be a problem in most cases but the confusing thing is, he knows that i like him and he says that he likes me back and hes ALWAYS flirting w. me like crazy. so then when i asked him about if he liked me why was he dating this other girl, he said that he liked her too but that when they broke up that "you never know what might happen" so at first i was like okay ill just wait but now they've been goign out for a long time and it doesnt seem as though they are gonna break up anytime soon. but he still continues to flirt and i flirt back but now im beginning to feel like his girlfriend, Kristen knows that somethings going on. should i tell her? and should i continue to wait for him? please help!
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OK you gotta tell him he better make up his mind. if his going to lead you on like that, then he better do it straight. i mean i know his not a player type and all, because its true that sometimes that person can like 2 people at a time and i totally repect your perspective and his and his girl friend's but this triangle has gone too far girl!
if he keeps leading you on and dont do anything after wards it will end up hard...
1. his girlfriend wants revenge on both of you
2. your friendship with him breaks up
3. you three will loathe eachother
i mean you dont want that do you?
so sit with him one day, and tell him all the things you want to say to him.
how hard its for you to watch him with girlfriend but him still flirting with you.
set the record correct so if his going to be in that direction, then you gotta just be friend and find some new guy who's totally in to you and only you
because that is part of self repect.
so keep your head high and hope things work out for you and remember trust your heart and speack from heart!
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ok so theres this guy named kevin who i've liked since 2 years ago. We dated for like 6 months and i honestly have to say i loved him. I miss him alot, its so hard to realize were actually over. He says he misses me too, and talks about driving down to see me. but it never happens. My birthday i didnt even have a party because he was suposed to come and take me out. And he didnt even show up. He called the next day and told me he couldnt that he forgot. It was really upseting. He does live like 2 hours away or so, and i know it really shouldnt be worth it, but for you girls who know what love is actually like , its hard to try n "forget about him". I used to have so many problems at home and he was the one i could talk to. At one point he was the only person i trusted with anything. He knew it all. and now its diffrent, but i havent told him yet how much i still love him and care about him. I just need some help on how to tell him. I wanna do it while i have the chance, so if someone could just give me an idea on how to tell him, if i even should tell him or what they think.
i rate good for good advice.
thanks,
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ok this is going to be hard either way. i mean if he loved you too, it will be hard because things he did that isnt good.
and if he didnt like you then it will be devastating for you... im sorry its a no win situation...but even if its that situation, you should try to make the best of it
first, tell him all the things you wanted to say to him... good things, anger, love and all that
and see how he reacts, and if he appologize then look him in to the eyes, and see if its one of those sincere ones,,, you will know if you listen to your heart.
and if he says he dont like you or anything like that, then tell him ok. you understand, and you have to try to move on, i mean if you are under the blankets all the time, the perfect guy wont be able to find you
so go out to the world and be your self and see what the world can bring to you and if you need someone to talk to, i will be here to listen and all that so be your self and listen to your heart!
=) hope this helped
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I asked this question about one year ago. I moved in my 8th grade year. I miss my friends terribly and I still see them and talk to them almost on a daily basis. My grandmother who lives in the town I moved from said that if I really wanted I could live with her. Now that sounds so easy but my parents are the problem. I get in fights with my mom about almost anything and she has thrown things at me in the past. And my dad only listens to what my mom says. My dad lies to me so I won't move back to my grandmother`s. When we talk about it he always tells me family is more important then I think. It's just that it is no fun for me were I'm living. But I wonder if I could live without them.A part of me wants to go to my grandmother's with all my friends I think right now I just need to convince the other side. It's the summer now and if I'm going to move back I have to make a desicion soon. Please help me I need it. P.S I am 13,female (link)
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ok well i just read the book of the sisterhood of the traveling pants, and this girl spends summer with her grandma. but she goes back later because of her friends. and well i dont know what you should do, because i had never seen you or anything. but if you really think about it ... alone. quietly..and close your eyes and REALLY think. you will know what you really want...
i mean if you want to go, why do you need to convince the other side?
Just trust your gut and go with the flow. it might not come out right. but give it some time and if you really want to go back to your parents later, you know you are always welcomed to them right? so
Go to your grandma's (i mean they may be old but they are good listener and very wise...) and spend some time there, and if you enjoy it then very very great and stuff...but if its not same as you left it, then go back to your parents...
hope this helped
and remember, all things happen for purpose...and trust your heart!
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anyone have any quotes about love and friendship they can give me? thx
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this was in the book of "the sisterhood of the traveling pants - the second summer of the sisterhood"
"What is that you express in your eyes? It seems to me more than all the words I have read in my life"
i thought of not much at first, but i read it couple more times, and thought it was true. so i hope you liked this one~ =)
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me and my boyfriend have been going out for more than a week now and hes so shy and i KNOW he wont try to kiss me...*super shy* so i decided to make the move. how should i do it? I dont even know where to do it. We only see each other on school days in the morning for like 4 minutes at the school breakfast. sooo how should i kiss him? help mmeeh (link)
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first of all thanks for trusting me to answer your question =)
ok well i have a friend who's bf is like that too... well they both are my friend (the girl and the guy) well actually they are my close friends, and they BOTH are super mega shy...so they have been going out for 3 months and still didnt hold hands... i know... how shy...
there is a few "plan" you can do...
---------fist, using movie's kissing scene-------
invite him to the movies, and if you have the NOTEBOOK(movie) and at your house, with out an adult, it would be cool too.
and when there is a kissing scene, turn and look at him. and if he dont ... go aww thats so romantic so he will look at ya (sneaky =)
well if he dont do anything, lean closer, and if his still not doing anything, then just stay close but dont attempt anything.
but if he lean to you, then it means that you can go for it..
if that didnt help, try this one, but it wont be a lip kiss from the start, but it will gradually change to cheek from lip
======= thank you kiss to love you kiss =======
ya know when he give you stuff, or you want to thank him, or like after date, you just say thanks, well stop that and say thanks and GIVE him a subtle kiss on the cheek.
and do that for a week, then you can move to lip but if you feel like his pulling away from you, then you should seriously ask that guy why wont he kiss you.
and last but not least
====== im desperate kiss ========
this one is the lamest and embarrasingest of them all gettin kiss plan but it actually works.
get a die ( you know that says, kiss, hug, etc.)
on each side of die. and another die that says (lip, cheek, etc.)
and you ask him to play a game and you roll it and it will eventually come out as kiss & lip
so there ya go =)
i kno that was so lame but i will think more later and i will get back with you.
ciao~
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Hi, I just read advice you gave to a girl and you mentioned that you were about to lose a friend. There's still something you can do about it. Don't let this person take their life away. Tell a a parent, or another adult you trust and get this person help. It's not to late to change their life around. If you don't do anything you'll regret it for the rest of your life. Please, do your friend a favor and help him help himself. (link)
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thanks but uh... i alredady told my teacher about it, and talked him to not smoke... and got him to play computer games to put his minds out of drugs...
well but thanks for your concern, its so awesome that someone cares for it
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you are awesome!
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