My parents and my friend's parents are not getting along at this current moment. ..and well ever since 2 weeks ago, the phone calls have stopped...and I guess I miss talking to her..usually, i would call her constantly..like everyday..and like my mom told me to stop to give her some time to herself..well it's been 2 wks..what more time can she have?? I have too much pride to call over now because it's been too long and it'd be awkward..she only calls me if I call her first..so idk what to do because I wanna talk to her..should I give it up and get over myself or wait for her to call or put my pride down? Thanks
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? pinkfairy1773 answered Sunday June 19 2005, 6:29 pm: ok i totally know what you are going through because that happened to me too. but i guess it depend why they are mad... i mean if it just had something to do with adults then tell her that she didnt do anything so let the adults work it out and that you shouldn't be FORBID to tlak to your best friend. i mean my mom is still mad at my best frien's mom but she doesnt make me not talk to her. she was like that at first but she realized that it wasnt her, i mean her only fault is being related to the mother. so we hang out and my mom even felt sorry to her so talk to her about it and hope it works out =) [ pinkfairy1773's advice column | Ask pinkfairy1773 A Question ]
karenR answered Saturday June 18 2005, 8:56 am: Call her now. Why should your parents not getting along right now ruin your friendship? Swallow your pride and call her. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
TakeItFromMeBaby answered Thursday June 16 2005, 8:21 pm: look...if you really like her (which it seems like you do...) then definitely put ur pride down. "look at me i'm way past pride..isn't there some way that we can try..to be 'us' again" --Lonestar.
OrangeChikn answered Thursday June 16 2005, 8:09 pm: You should indeed call her! She might not be calling because she thinks you don't want to talk to you.
Michele answered Thursday June 16 2005, 7:38 pm: Wow, usually its the kids who fight, and the parents feel awkward. The parents of you two friends are NOT setting a good example for you two. I think your friend misses you just as much as you miss her. Unless her mother has poisoned her mind against you. You'd be surprised to find out what adults can do to twist kid's minds so that they think like they do. I think you should call her. If she misses you too, you 'll know and she'll tell you, and you'll be glad that you called. If it turns out that her parents are going to interfere, well, there is nothing you can do about it, and just remember that it is not your fault. Good luck
Mengers answered Thursday June 16 2005, 7:25 pm: I've seen this happen before and it is very frustrating. My lil sister's (now ex)boyfriend's mother almost got my mom arrested. To make a long story short, they're still friends but they don't hang out as much because of the matter.
As for the phone call, just do it, what do you got to lose? Not calling would only guarantee an end to your friendship.
As far as parents go, I would think hanging out with group of friends (with your friend included) would be ok with them, but that really is up to them. [ Mengers's advice column | Ask Mengers A Question ]
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