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2 afraid 2 admit ur feelings!!!
Hey ive liked this guy for like a reallllly long time and he has supposedly liked me in the past but we never actually went out. well i still like him but im waaayyyy to afraid to just tell him plus we're friends so it would change a lot of things. im even to afraid to tell my bestest of friends. HELP please!
ps. im 15 and a girl
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ok first of all THANKS FOR ASKING ME! i know this was like all of sudden thing but i really love giving advices =) ok anyways...lets get back to you =)
i know what you mean by that. i mean i have lotta guy friends and it sucks because i am not the pretty girl, i am average girl who is plump and trying to lose weight over the summer so i can really surprise my guy friends =) and well this is hard for you i know. i wasnt able to admit my feelings for long time but you gotta do it sometimes or you will never know! i know everyone says, just tell him he will like you too and such right? if not then sorry =) but its not always like that and i will be the person to tell you that
but it is on the other hand has a good chance...
first i have seen it happen ... and it was very surprising (not to me because im fat but my friend) i told her to just let it out or she will never find out so she wrote him a letter ( and you should to ...so you can save turning red and stuff and blabbing like a weirdo just in case you freeze up in front of him . )
so write a letter that will make him that you realy like him and make him feel good about him self like saying , i think you are really nice and cute and all that good stuff and speak from heart. and
go for it !
and i know friend to more than friend is a big step but it will be more awkward if you dont tell because that conscience of yours will play a trick on you if you dont tell that guy...
so just get it off your chest and hope it works out and if he says just want to be friend say Ok Great ! and be cheerful because if you show a little bit of distraction, things might not go back to same way ...
and well like i said, you will never know until you give it a try right? so write him a letter, really speaking from your heart. and even if he doesnt say anything right away, just give him some time. but do ask him when he dont say anything for 3 days.
hope this helped =)
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