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iiM Ariella . iim 13 . uhmm i love qivinq advise so IM me or leave me 1 here ifu need anythinq. muuah! -AriiElLa* . oh and thanx ~*Annie*~ ur great!.








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OKay...well i have this frined and shes goin out with this boy ..and this boy seems to like me more becasue i trust him alot more and everythin and she dont ...but he wants to brake up with her and he is..but hes gonna ask me out..and then ma frined is gunna find out ..and me an her are like sistas it seems..so now i either have to say no or just to talk to him about it ..but idk i really like this boy too an i really wanna go out with him really bad..so plz help..ill rate you and write advice ..PLEASE HELp

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Boys Probs

omq no. there's this quote but idk if i can sey it here lol ne waysz ur friends will last forever! and this boy is just a guy. you would be hurting your frifn soo badly!
think about that

hope i helped.
Ariella*

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ok my boyfriend called at like 7-7:30pm last night and said he would call me back..at around 9-10 he normally calls to say goodnight an all that good stuff but he never called again last night and we only talked for like 30 sec. and today he had a f.ball game and he normally calls b4 then but we havent talked at all and if hes not gunna call b4 his game then he'll call in the morning and he didnt?!!.. whats does his "signs" mean???

it means he cant call u ALL the time.. listen no ofence but i know tah guys dont like to be attached or commanded to call tehre GF's or do things for the ALL the time.

hope i helped,
Ariella*

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I can't seen to find one great friend for myself. I really have no one to go to to laugh with and share my secrets with and most importantly, to dream with. Almost all of the people at my school don't seem to really want to hang out with me. Everyone that I've had up to this point has either gone away or betrayed me. It hurts. I consider a true friend to be someone that you would lay down your life for and they'd do the same for you any day and I used to have one like that, but he's gone now. What do I do?
Love,
Shana

well maybe you;re beinq to attachy . some epopel dont like that . idk srry

ii hope ii helped

Bye,
x ` O
AriiElLa*

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Okay during the summer i lost my virginity to this guy, well tonite i went over to his house and we are like best friends now but i miss him and i really want him.. it makes me sad to see him cuz he is always talking to girls and never talks to me about what happened should i tell him how i feel or not

YES! lol u lost your virginity to him! you must have obviouslt liked him a lot ..tell him how you feel. he prob feels thee exact same way but is shy or soemthing..lol

Hope ii HelpEd
qOod LuCk*
Ariella-

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I just heard of a friend that if you cut your pubic hairs it heightens the chance of getting lice down there. This has shocked me because I myself cut them because of their length, and I am getting concerned about this. I was wondering if anyone knew any information about this, or any good sites where I could find out some information. Im totally flippin out about this lol. I'm a 17 year old male by the way. Any advice would be good. Thanx :-)

omq tahts bull sh*t...srry she;s wronq..lol tahts wusz weird.

-Ariella*

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Well I like this guy and he said he liked me. He used to like this other girl too and they still like eachother I think.They claim not to but I know they really do. He invites me everywhere all the time, but I just dont think he likes me. I mean he never is the one 2 iniciate a convo[he's not shy!] or nething but he'll say hey or w/e and he invites me places all the time. What do you think?

ii ahve a feelinq thisz quy likes you . either that or he;s verry firnedly . lol

Hope ii helped
(ii would write more but iim hunqry sooo))
peace out
Muuah!
x` O
Ariella*

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I'm getting mysterious love notes.
On Monday I found one in my locker that says that "this boy" lovesme sosososososososo much. He also said that he's in two of my classes.

Then today (Thursday)I found another one in my locker. It said I was the most special, cutest, and sweetest person in the world. He said his love burns for me like the white hot embers of the sun.

What should I do about this?
I know all the boys that are in two of my classes, and I know none of them are guys that I'll never want to go out with. How do I handle this?

My Advise to you isz prob its just some1 playinq a prank on you . How do ui kno thisz you ask? (cusz iive done that to soem1 before. lol iim not mean hehe..just bored.lmao) . ne waysz iits eitehr a joke and if iits not just forget about iit thisz person obviously doesnt wnat u to kno who they are,

x ` O
AriiElLa*

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14/f I wasn't sure what category to put this under. My brother's friends (17 years old) are quite horny but more so towards me. Last weekend I was getting a piggyback ride from one of my friends and 2 of his friends spanked me! Is this normal? I don't think they're gonna try anything on me because my brother would freak out. It doesn't bother me that much, almost at all. Should I be worried about this?

well if it doesnt worry you at all then there's no problem at all .
and ii dun think your bro cares trust me..the guys would've been dead by then.

x ` O
Ariella*

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ok me and my boyfriend have talked about making-out but never have..we have been going out 2 months now and I think its long enough..I cannot make the first move..I think that would be the weirdest thing..like he has asked me to make out with him when we go to the movies and stuff but we dont..I'm friends with his ex-girlfriend and she said that he wont just do it that he gets his friends to ask you or something..like I really wanna make-out with him but I dunno how to get him to make the first move..please help!

xo0 KelleY 0ox

juSt Fliirt Alot iDk . juSt lOok intO hiSz eyesz and lean forward tO kiSz hiim..trust me He'd be Fine Wid that! , lol

Ariella-

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ok well today i found out that my best friend has a third degree heartblock and soon will most likely need a pacer...all her life tho her doctor has been telling her she had a "heart murmur" but wut it realli was, was the echo from her heart not workin right..n me, her, her sister n her parents r havin a realli hard time trying not to cry n stuff bcuz eventually it can kill her...im realli upset cuz shes like a sister to me weve been neighbors/bestest friends ever since i can remember n have done everything..well my questions r

Can this kill her netime soon?
How can me n her sister help her get thru it?
And can her mom sue her doctor for telling her tha wrong information all these years??
Thanx ill rate u a 5~!

Oh. well you cant really sue the doc. cusz he didnt kno iits not hisz fault.that happnes a lot , he prob didnt catch iit in time . iic ant really help u wid anythinq else cusz ii dunno what a heart murmur isz (my aunt has it to . so IM me in like a day or two and ill tell u more)
AIM: MiSz x3 PiinK

x` O
AriiElLA*

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how can i make homecoming extra fun?

qet a qood D.j and dance.. the food and the other stuff doesnt make a party . the epople taht are there make iit fun on there own...if u dont undertsnad feel free to IM me at : MiSz x2 PiinK
MuUuah (tahst aim btw)

x ` O
Ariella*

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I know this sounds completely messed up, and might gross u out. but i need help. sometimes when im bored, ill just start scratching my head to the point where it bleeds and forms scabs (very little ones!) and now i cant help but pick at them and scratch them. theres no reason i do it, its just a realllllllly weird habit. i dont know whats wrong with me?! any tips on how i can make it stop?

here'sz my advise to you :
fiirst of all think about thisz .
iisz iit causinq you pain?? if soo u have to stop . plus another thinq.. soon ull be able to see it throuqh ur hair and it'll look qross AND ur hair MIGHT start fallinq out . and u dun wnat that!! , iilluu

ii hOpe ii heLpeD
qOod luCk

yOur AdviSe Came From - AriiElLa*

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Ir's weird. I always came to these websites to help people and give them advice but now I'm the one that needs it! lol. ;)
There's this guy named Michael that I've been friends with since our last year of elementary school. We were so tight back then but over the years, we both changed. Now, in high school he's the big popular jock and hardly ever talks to me but when he does, we both make eah other laugh and smile.
He's so cute and could probably get any girl he wanted and he knows that so when he sees a girl that he thinks is hot, he tells them and asks them out. I really like him and want him to ask me out. What can I do to grab his attention? I know I should be myself but is there anything else I could do to get him to like me?

Play . Hard . To . get
lOl My BriiliAnt AdviCe :)

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Ok. I like this guy (his name is Felipe) and I think he likes me back but I'm not sure because he comes over every single Sunday (to go to church at night) and we hang out (a lot), do stupid things together (climbing trees then jumping down), and basically have a lot of fun. He jumps on my back to give him piggy back rides (even though he's 18 [turning 19 in November] and I'm 13). But then when we go to church, he completely ignores me (not during church but after the mass ends and everyone talks). What's up with that? Does he like me or not?! Please answer quickly! !~*CoNfUsEd GiRl*~!

well im not so sure if he liked you bcusz he sounds a lil confusinq u kno. but he sure likes you as a friend for sure .
THERE IS 2 ANSWERS TO YOUR QUESTION:
1 . he likes you (more than a friend) but its either A. ellegal and he doesnt wanna go to jail..lol. or B. he just doesnt want his friends to know he likes a 13 yr old. (no ofence to 13 yr olds..lol im 13)

or......
2. that he just likes you as a friend and likes hanging out with you! and after church he gets quite lol

hope i helped
iLu

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ok... well theres this boy named dave. and he likes me. everyday in school he flirts with me and i flirt back nothing harmful. but today when he asked me about homecoming i told him i was going with some friends. he wanted me to be his date but didnt state that. well he asked me if i liked him b4 and i said jus as a friend and ijust got out of a relationship that im still upset about and im not over my ex nor do i want to be. so with telling him i jus want to be friends and that im not ready for anything and that maybe ill see him at homecoming... was it the right way to handle it? i felt bad bc i dont like to hurt ppls feelings and he is nice and everything.. but im not into him.. did i handle it ok?

well i know how you feel . i think you handled it greatly, you told him the truth you arent ready yet , when you are just tell him maybe you'd like to qo on a date or somethinq (just a suggestion..lol)

good luck

hope ii helped
x ` O AriiElLa*

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i have been with a girl for the last 18 months and she cheated on me and got with another guy, and on out year and a half anniversary she told him she loved him after knowing him for a week. can she love him? and he dumped her and said he doesnt like her anymore, and i know we cant get back together but sometimes she says i love you and is it wrong for me to say it back, i mean i resent her for cheating on me and breaking our trust and relationship but i love her, help please

well she cheated on you , nobody's perfect, but if u still love her then qo ahead and stay with her , but if she does that one more time even if you love her say to her kindly that you dont think it's going to work out

hope i helped
qood luck
x ` O AriiElLa*

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I'm not sure but how can you tell the difference of love and like.Because i like or love this one boy but i dunno if i love him and most my friends tells me i do even one of my teachers! so my question is how do you know when u love someone and how do you know if they love you back?thanks in advance for even concidering to read this.

ok . when u like someone you prob like them either for there looks or for the way they act sometimesz . but when you love someone you most likely lovew trhe way he is and the way he treats you . love doesnt just haooen in two sec'sz u kno?

hope ii helped
qood luck
AriElLa*

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Hi I Have A Question. ((Duh!)) Umm, Although I Lover Her ALOT, My Mom Is The Most Irresponsible Immature Woman I Know, And I'm Not Saying This Because I'm Mad At Her Or Anything, I'm Saying It Because She ****'s Up Everything!! Everyday She Forgets To Do Something Or Whatever. Example: I'l Ask Her Nicely To Wake Me Up In The Morning For School, And She'l Do So, But 5 Minutes Before School Even Starts. Here's Some Other Things That Really Bother Me.
-She'll Forget Her Keys In The Car.
-She'll Yell For Me Really Loud In The Store When She's Too Lazy To Walk To The Next Isle And Tell Me To Come.
-She'll Blame Her Problems On Me. i.e.= She Doesnt Take The Wet CLothes Out Of The Washer, Then They Smell Really Bad, And She'll Say, "Well If You Didn't Keep Me Up All Night Makin Me Help You Study I Would Have Remembered" And I Wouldnt Even Keep Her Up All Night. Having Her Do Something With Me Like Helping Me Study For 5 Minutes Is Something That Happens Only Maybe Once A Year. She' Be Too Busy Sleeping.
-She Wears Clothes That Dont Fit Her, And She Dresses Like A Hooker With A Mental Disability. MANY Disablities Actually.
-She Got Her Hair Cut Like A Guy, And It's So Embarassing. Her Whole Appearance Is Embarassing.
I've Been Dealing With Her...Awfulness For Quite Some Years Now, And I Can't Take It Anymore. So Much..Ughh.....I Can't Handle This Anymore, And Sometimes I Even Contemplate Suicide Because My Life's Not Worth Living When She Messes Everything In It Up. SHe Will Go Buy Me Candy To Make Up For What She Did, But That DOesnt Help Me With My Tardy To School, Or My Label "The One With The Retarded Mom." I Hate It, I Hate This. Will You Be My Mom?

o.m.q hehe i have the EXACT same problem with ym mom. and ii hate it!! and if i compain to her sh'll take it as a joke!! i hate it!! lol well here all u ahve to do iis ignore her (i also love my mom. i just dont love how she is sometimes) . dont ignore her in a mean way but just ignore what she does.. u have to learn that no everyone cares if she yells int he supermarker.. i used to be embaressed with EVERY SIGNLE little thing she did but then i learned taht everyone else cares about what otehr people think. they dont even realize our emmbaressmants .

hope i helped
Muah qood luck
*arella*

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Okay. As you all know Halloween is coming up and I have a problem. Halloween is on a Sunday, and my mom set a curfew of 9:30. (that aint cool!) What can I say to make her let up on the lame curfew?

HELP ME!!!!!!!

Oh thatsz Sad.
tell her tahtsz iits reeeeally impt to you!
and you'd doo anything to make your curfew a lil higher like 10,11 or 12 . sh'll prob. agree

x ` O Ariella*

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I need some help in planning a 21st Birthday Party!!! It doesn't even have to be a party,just something to do with a best friend,or a small group of friends.Please don't say "Go get drunk!!" cuz that's not my style,I mean I may have a drink or two but not get wasted!!Thanks in advance! And I will rate all answers!!

well if u have enOuqh Money than Takiinq her someWhere Like CancOon (sp?)..lol Omq that wOuld be aWsome.lol ..ANywaySz iiF not she;s 21 she kEn dOLike anythinq now! lol JuSz taKe her tO a dAnce Club wIth sOme fRiends!!

Hope i helPed!
x ` O AriiElLa*

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