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Ok so this boy is 13 and my best friend is 14.
They have been going out for 5 days now but I know something as my cousin told me. Her boyfriend is a flirt and I already knew that, he chats up anyone he can basically...
Last night my cousin was talking to him and he was saying that he loves her and wants to send pics to her and for her to send back (dirty pictures)
I really don't know what to do... Should I tell her?
How can I tell her? Should I give it time?
Help!! (link)
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You should tell her. Just tell her exactly what happened. She may not believe you. She may get angry at you. But, at least you will know that you did the right thing. Even if she does not appreciate the truth at first, at least you will know you were a good friend.
From Moi to you,
Miss Piggy
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I still love my ex and i dont know what to do. I thought i've moved on but i guess not. We broke up 1year ago .It's sad to say that i cant move on and its hard to be happy for both of them. Please can you help me on how to move on and get over to your ex. I cant get him out off my head! I want him back! I want him back! Oh ive missed his handsome face,the way we laughed,and the way we KISS,but its only a kiss and touch touch. I NEVER had sex with him never even though im super inlove with him. I dont know why.hmm maybe im afraid to get in pregnant. He's my first love..i wonder why he chose that bitch rather than me! But what?? Because i can only give torid kissing and touch not sex? If he really do loves me he should understand me because im a member of Mormon The Jesus christ of latter day saints. Im 20 years old and college graduate but im still VIRGIN. But tell me why i feel so lost without him? (link)
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Time will help you to get over him. A gut that ditches you for another woman after only one year is not worth keeping anyway. It probably is because you would not have sex. He obviously is a selfish guy. The reason you feel strongly about him is that you love him. But, he is too selfish to return the love. Even if he does love you, he loves himself more. This is obvious because he chose sex over your relationship. You can do better than this guy. Find someone who loves you unselfishly and is willing to wait to have sex. It may seem hard to find a guy like that right now. But, to some guys waiting is actually sexy. It means they have to work for your sexual love and attention. This can make them value you even more.
Believe moi. Moi has a charm that is lethal to men.
Miss Piggy
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Hi everyone,I'm 16/f.
There's a boy in my history class who I really like. He is just perfect for me. He's taller than me(I'm 5'9), has a loving family, is athletic, has a life outside of his sport, he's gentle, a good son, a good brother, soft spoken, has a really deep voice, has a lot of patience, very mature, I can go on and on.
My point is, he's a gentleman. VERY rare at our age. And I like him. I've always looked for boys like him to get to know. I didn't even notice he was in my class until he stood up to present a project one day. And then on a class field trip a while later, we had a gorgeous conversation on the bus, followed by an in sync nap. Also he accepted this girls flirting all day, and she walked with him when I was trying to talk to him. But either way all negativity aside, since that day, I just couldn't get enough. Months later, there were days when my history teacher was absent, and I somehow spent both periods talking to him. Then I started talking to him on Facebook, a few weeks later. Eventually(after 2months)he answered more frequently (from a MONTH later to a few hours layers to a few minutes later) & about a month ago, he asked for my number since it was easier for him to answer me there than on Facebook. (I was crying I was so happy) and for the whole spring break, we were talking all day every day, him texting me first, & throughout that time texting, he was flirting a lot, but it could have been taken as something else most of the time.
For example, he would give me really cute nicknames as he said good morning & good night, he would ask me questions like "describe your perfect relationship" (says aww to my description, then says everything I missed), he basically described me when I asked him what type of girls he likes & he comforted me one day when I was mad, saying "I'm always here" afterwords. He was just so sweet the whole time. He never suggested anything that had to do with sex, unless I asked him about it ( I asked what his favorite body parts were and what type of legs he liked and again, he described my legs) & he wouldn't object to changing the subject back to normal afterwords, unlike other boys I've talked to. I told him once that I haven't found a mutual liking with someone & he mentioned that maybe he already had, then he said "maybe one day we'll find it" (what does that mean?) & it had my head spinning every time he said something like that. He would call me "awesome" and said that he would miss me if I moved, use witty little lines on me, never tried too hard but still he was very subtle.
We agreed that he would tell me a story about the girl that he used to go out with & he insisted on telling me this as soon as possible for some reason. When I was going to go meet him so he could tell me, the same girl from the trip was keeping me from going over there, (I didn't want to ditch her and be rude) & he was asking me "are you coming outside or not" (it sounded like he was eager, but then he goes and does this...) Then I explained to him that I've been there, but I didn't want to be rude. I found a way to position myself and the girl where he could see us, front and center. This girl is also in our class, and he knows her for a while longer than he knows me so when he comes up to us, he starts flirting with her immediately. She flirts back (of course -.-, she's one of those.) She has a boyfriend. I'm not sure if he is aware. So this makes me extremely uncomfortable, considering. We were looking at each other this whole time, so I tried to show him with my face that this might be a bad time, but my face didn't say that, it looked at him as if I was sad and confused that he was paying attention to her & not me (exactly how I was feeling, but not what I meant to do at all) so he stopped & came to me and properly greeted me. I smiled & the girl got the idea & started walking farther in front of us, and soon we were alone and she was getting her face sucked. He tells me the story as normal, we flirt and giggle and I admire him as he talks. I notice he's a bit nervous... But he never gets to finish, so we plan another day later, & he asks me if he could call me to tell me, but I say no because I want an excuse to stare at him. So when this day comes, I watch him play, (this is outside by the way) and I'm waiting for the bell to ring so he could talk to me. It when the bell rings he's still playing. I get up, a little sad since this time he wasn't texting me, he was absorbed in the game. So as I leave, I feel a hand on my shoulder, it's him of course. I give a huge smile (can't help myself) and he continues where he left off. I can't help but notice he's a little antsy and nervous as he talks this time too. He tells me about this teddy bear that he gave that ex, and he says he has it now because her parents didn't like him so she had to give it back (don't understand why) So he's talking, and a bunch of people notice us in the halls walking together, and a handful of my stupid friends make things very awkward. Pointing and giggling at us, saying "ohhhhhhhhhhhh that's him" quietly but obviously, staring at him, & one friend even went as far as to say "hey, I know you like her because she's beautiful and everything, but you'll never get that" and I wouldn't dare to look at him so I couldn't tell you his reaction, all I know is he kept talking, while I struggled to listen and respond.(I swear, I want to listen to what he's saying with my FULL attention, but he's just so gorgeous sometimes I can't believe he's talking to me.) anyway, when we said goodbye, I think I caught a glimpse of him leaning closer to hug me, but I quickly turned away. I'm not ready for all of those eyes looking at us yet. Then again I'm not sure he did.
After that, we have been talking during and after lunch, and although I don't sit with him, I see a lot of him. We talk in the line, outside, and walk each other to class. We still text every day, there have only been about 2 days in total that we haven't been in contact with each other. But the thing is he answers and then stops, and goes back and forth a lot, he's always doing something, so I don't mind too much anymore
Another thing: he and I both call each other little names. He started it by giving me a nickname, and it was different every day, there are many nicks for my name, but not for his. So one day I just started calling him things like sugar plum, sweetie things like that, and he called me hun one time, my lady another time, and missy. But those aren't affectionate names, just hun. (I was jumping up and down at that by the way)
I told him that I got him something one day (a paper of his I magically ended up with) and I gave him three guesses. He guessed a poem, a baseball, and something else I can't remember. So I told him okay then I'll write you poem, because it sounded like he wanted me to write him one (this was when I knew that he knew I liked him) and I gave it to him the next day. He told me he was going to write one, and I'm supposed to get it tomorrow at lunch lol
Yesterday, I called him on accident with the worst timing. Me and my friends were talking about him, about how people that have light skin usually tend to like people with darker skin and vice versa. He picked up, and he heard everything. So I called him back, and he told me what he heard, and we would have kept talking, but he thought I hung up because he couldn't hear me, so he hung up. We just texted (a lot of flirting) after that.
So my question is that I don't know if this kid likes me back! He's so confusing, he flirts in my face with that girl (which is really nothing by the way, it's just a little confusing that's all) and then texts me when we get home and treats me like a princess.
*By the way, if it sounds like I'm jealous of that one girl, I'm really not. I used to be, but I stopped being dumb. I just wanted to illustrate my frustration with her cockblocking.*
I want to thank anyone who got this far in advance. If you think I don't want to read extremely long answers, you're terribly wrong :) you reap what you sow right? ^_^ (link)
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I normally do not give very long answers because many people just want to hear the bottom line. But, since you put so much effort into writing your question I will give you both a short answer and a long answer.
Short answer: It sounds like he is interested in you.
Long answer: At sixteen years old, relationships are very exciting. You are just at the age where you have grown up enough to truly connect with someone else. You are around the age where real love becomes possible and that is exciting. Congratulations on finding somebody who you feel strongly attracted to, and who you are ready to consider a serious relationship with.
That being said, I would like to caution you about something: you should not be so overwhelmed by him. You seem a little too excited. At sixteen, this makes sense and is part of the fun to some degree. You really like him and he likes you back. But, when you get a little older you will notice that the majority of single guys will be interested in you. Guys are not picky. They just want a reasonably attractive, nice girl to notice them. Judging by your post, you are both of those things. The guy that is not interested in you will be the exception, not the rule. Instead of hoping and praying that your crush is interested, recognize that he is probably hoping and praying that you are interested in him!
It is great that the two of you spend so much time talking. It sounds as if you have successfully establish a flirtatious friendship between the two of you. You probably want to progress to the next level. You probably want to establish a romantic relationship with him.
As the woman, you should not even think about asking him out. This isn't a sexist comment. I say this because guys in our culture are taught to be emotionally lazy. They are taught to let girls do the flirting, they let girls ask for a realtionship, etc. In the meantime, they just accept sexual favours where they can get it. I am not saying guys are only interested in sex. Guys want relationships, don't get me wrong. But, relationships are hard work. Rather than focusing on relationships, guys focus on the easy part: the sex. Sure, they want a relationship. But, they assume women will work that part out for them.
If you ask him out, you will set up an awful pattern for the rest of your relationship: he will assume you will do all of the emotional work. Believe moi. It was moi who asked Kermit out, and ever since then Kermit has left all of the emotional stuff up to me. As a woman, I wish I had waited to be asked out so that I was not in charge of planning all of the romantic stuff. I would like Kermit to woo me once in awhile, and I'm sure you will feel the same way once you establish a relationship. So, get the relationship started on the right foot. Show him that he has to put effort in if he wants to be with you.
I am not saying play hard to get. I am saying be yourself, but don't make the first move. Playing hard to get is a game that guys eventually get tired of. Guys like a challenge, but if you play hard to get you can come off as disinterested or hot and cold (which only confuses guys). Don't play games with guys. They are simple and direct. Be simple and direct back.
So what can you do in the meantime? Flirting is great. Keep doing that. But, if he asks you a direct question such as "Do you like anyone?", don't play coy. Be simple and direct back. This is your opportunity. Say "Yes, I like you". Don't ask him out, but don't be afraid to be honest about your feelings IF HE ASKS.
If he asks your feelings, then he has put the work in to find out and he deserves to know. Once he knows how you feel, it will be up to him to decide whether he is ready to put in the work for a relationship or not. If so, great! If not, don't worry. There will be other guys in college.
One last word of warning. If he does ask your feelings and you say you like him, be careful of the friends with benefits trap. If you tell him you like him and he says "we should hook up some time" you have to say NO. Women often think they can tempt men into a relationship through hookups, but this is not the case. If a man asks to hook up outside of a relationship he is essentially saying "I like you, but not enough to work for it. Would you give me sex/makeout anyway, without me putting any effort in?". Value yourself enough to say no.
If you follow these guidelines, I promise you will have an amazing long-term relationship. It may or may not be with this guy. But if you keep your standards high, you will find a guy who is crazy about you and who is willing to work for it. This is better than any short term/half a**ed relationship. Hold out for the real thing, because you deserve it.
These are all of my secrets.
Miss Piggy
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My friend is in a relationship. The guy she is dating is telling people that they are just friends but I know that they arent. He asked her to be his girlfriend and I witnessed this happen. Should I tell her that he is telling people they arent dating or not? Age: 16 (link)
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You should tell her, but only if the moment seems right. Do not drop this on her out of the blue. Wait until you are having a bonding moment.
Maybe have her over and bake cookies together and break the news to her then. Cookies make everything more comfortable.
Good luck,
Miss Piggy
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I have been feeling super jealous lately. I don't know why, I'm not usually like this. It all started when my boyfriend said he was going to get drinks with co-workers after work last friday. Most of them women. And I just didn't like that he was going without me. (I work late and couldn't go) What's more is that he didn't even tell me he was going until I asked him to do something after work. Also he carpools with this girl, who almost never pays him gas money, and I find out that she went to the bar after work two Fridays ago, and he bought her nearly $30 in drinks.
Anyways, I told him that I really dont like what's happening and I would prefer he doesn't go for drinks after work. Carpooling is one thing but alcohol doesn't need to be involved. And he said in a nutshell, too bad you need to trust me. Like, I do trust him but what he's doing makes me so uncomfortable, and he just thinks I'm overreacting.
Btw, I'm 21 my bf is 24. Together 5 years.
I need some advice here. Should I be feeling like this? Am I overreacting? Or am I right to feel this way? I just don't know. (link)
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You should be feeling like this. It does not sound as though you are overreacting. He should not be buying another woman drinks, and it sucks to have your boyfriend go for drinks without you.
Tell him you would prefer that he doesn't go out unless you are there. If he says you are overreacting and that you should trust him, tell him that you do not have to trust him in every individual situation. Even if you trust that he loves you and wouldn't want anyone else, people make mistakes in certain situations. This is especially true when there is alcohol around. Explain to him that you trust that he loves you, but that you are worried because mistakes do happen. Tell him it would give you some peace of mind if he didn't go out without you.
If he does not agree to this, you could also tell him to text you every 15 minutes while he is out without you. That way, you will be on his mind the whole time and you will also be able to see if he is getting too drunk. Then tell him to come over to your place as soon as you get off work/at the end of his night out. This way you have something to look forward to after your shift, rather than worrying about what he is up to all night.
Be firm in your position and he will probably respect your feelings. Believe moi. Moi has a charm that is lethal to men.
Miss Piggy
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I really wanna get into creative arts, such as art, acting, singing, writing etc... but my mom wants me in something involving academics because she thinks she needs someone to know what's going on and my dad wants me to do something athletic because he loves sports, and I like sports, to be honest, but not enough to put my heart into. You know, wake up 2:00am to practice, and I like sciences and politics, but after 30 minutes I'll get bored out of my mind. I know about the paparazzi, but to follow my passion I would deal with it. I'm afraid they won't support me. What should I do? (link)
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Listen to your parents. But, follow your dream as well!
There is no reason why you can't sing, act, etc. and do well in school. It is hard to become famous. You need a backup plan in case it does not work out.
I know how it is because I am a star myself. But, there have been periods of time where people forgot to cast me in movies and people ran out of money to buy my albums. During that time, I was really glad that I had kept up with my math skills because I was able to own my own business (a cake store) to make a little money while I waited. Being good at math gave me the smarts to handle money.
Tell your parents your dream. But, keep working hard at school. Learn as much as you can about every subject. You never know when it will come in handy.
Toodles,
Miss Piggy
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This guy is obsessed with me. It's been going on for years. I had a feeling at first that feeling was confirmed when he wrote a poem. This poem was about me and it was sexually explicit. So I got scared and stopped going to the same places as him etc. So fast forward two years and I stopped being scared. So, I wanted to see what kind of feelings does he have for me. He likes to keep our conversations short which frustrates me. Its really hard to tell what kind of person he is or how crazy he is from talking to him. My conclusion was he is really shy and has a big crush on me. I wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt. When I tried to make conversation with him I asked if he had a Tumblr. He said “No”. I later found out that he indeed does have a Tumblr. Some other guy gave me the address. When I first visited his blog I became intrigued. Its erotic and I loved it Then I began to read some stories that he wrote. And what do you know? They are about me. It’s like I’m his muse. At this point he will not receive anymore contact from me. Because he is obviously sick and needs help and I don’t want to fuel his obsession. Also I think he is cyberstalking me. There’s more however I will not share at this time for personal reasons. What do you think? Thanks. :)
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That is creepy. Find someone else. He does not seem to be in his right mind.
You could do better,
Miss Piggy
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I'm 17/f and about to graduate from high school. Although my culture does not allow dating, my bf and I have been dating secretly for 2 years. My family wants me to finish college before getting into relationships. About 5 months ago, my older brother and sister found out that I was dating and they were upset about it and told me to break up with him. If my parents found out, they would be extremely upset. Anyways, I didn't break up with him but I told them we did. I love my family and my boyfriend. My boyfriend is a huge part of me now and I need him in my life but my family would probably never accept him before I'm done with college. What should I do?
Please note that I'm from a different country and my culture is very different from America. In my culture your family choose when you can start dating. If I choose to stay with my boyfriend and go against my family's wishes, I'll have to face consequences. (link)
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This is tough. If I were you I would keep seeing him anyway, because love is always the answer.
But, I understand that it is risky. It is up to you whether you think that the risk is worth it or not. Maybe it is, because you love him. Or maybe you love him, but you want to put your safety first.
Take time to make this decision. Take a bubble bath and decide. I do some of my best thinking in the tub.
Toodles,
Miss Piggy
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Alrighty so I'm a junior (17 and a girl) in high school and I previously attended another high school for about 2 and a half years, but recently transferred into this new school. I've been in the school for about 4 months or so and haven't gotten too involved into social circles because I'm a pretty shy person... So, here comes the problem, I have this huge crush on a guy in one of my classes. I don't know too much about him, but from what I've seen he seems like a very laid-back, funny person. I noticed that we make frequent eye contact multiple times throughout the class. I try smiling at him to leave a good impression, but he usually gets flustered and walks away. Occasionally we make off-handed good-humored comments about each other (to each other) and I always find that we usually end up very close together even if we don't talk. We always end up paired up, using each other's equipment, or just general situations where we get stuck together. Now, I'm a bit helpless because I really like him but I don't have the confidence to actually start up conversations. I also have two friends (who are guys) who I'm very friendly with (physically- hugging, etc) in the class as well and I've noticed my crush always looks upset when I'm with them. What should I do? (link)
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Talk to him. Staring at him won't lead to anything.
Just be yourself and see what happens. Believe Moi. Moi has a charm that is lethal to men.
Miss Piggy
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Recently i got a new teacher and i find him really odd(not sure if he is flirty). the way he talks to me is different. He stares at me while taking class. He even comes and sits near me if the desk is empty. And i usually sit in the first bench so he pulls his chair and puts it near my bench and sits. he also stares at me. Mostly i dont look at him i put my face down when he is near. He doesnt look at my face alone while teaching or clearing doubt. i feel very uncomfortable. even if i have doubt in the subject i feel uncomfortable to ask him. he is married and 30+. (link)
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He has not done anything wrong.
That being said, trust your gut. Avoid him when possible.
From Moi to you,
Miss Piggy
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Ok so I'm just gonna summarize everything.
1. There's someone that texted my ex's girlfriend something really foul and she thinks it was me.
2. I barely know her so why would she accuse me.
3. She's stupid for not analyzing the situation and jumping into conclusions and start a fight.
4. She recently posted a status that really offended me. I was tagged in the post.
5. She's really popular so I don't know how to deal with her.
6. But she's only strong when there are a lot of people with her.
7. She's stupid for not finding out who it really was texting her.
8. (Not related to topic but my ex looks like Rango)
I'm so sorry if you don't get that but, here is my one specific question. If she tags me in another post(there'll probably be millions more) or tries to embarrass me in public at our school, what are things I can say to tick her off and let her 'embarrass me' plan backfire? (link)
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Tell her to grow up.
Don't get embarrassed. You have nothing to be embarrassed of. She is the one who should be embarrassed for her behaviour.
Girls like that are the reason that I learned karate.
Miss Piggy
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I work at a buffet restaurant as a part time employee and I am interested in a guy that works there with me. He's a tech there and he is a smart guy. I think he is a really great guy and not a lot of other people think he is. Others think he is an assss because he can be really mean with them but with me he is not. If he ever acts up with me I just tell him he should just calm down and he does. We talk about our families a lot together. It's weird he told me "We're pratically family!" Hopefully he doesn't see me in that way.
Since he is a tech at the place we work he teaches me so many things. Everytime he does something new that I don't know about he teaches me.
I would like to go out with him as friends outside of work to get to know each other, but I don't want him to get the wrong idea.. I guess you can say I have a crush on him, but I want to become really good friends with him. What can I do? Do you think he actually sees me as family? (link)
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Ask him to hang out in a group to start out. Find some other people from work and you can all go out together. Once you are all hanging out, focus on talking with him in particular. After doing this a couple of times, go ahead and ask him to hang out alone.
And no, I do not think he sees you as family. Believe Moi. Moi has a charm that is lethal to men.
Miss Piggu
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23f I was in a relationship(1yr) in which both my ex and I changed. Jealousy came into our lives and pretty much destroyed the girl I was. I became chaotic, suicidal, angry all the time. He became cocky and felt superior to me. One day I decided to stop all contact, because I knew it wasn't healthy to be that way. I left and never looked back, it was the only way I could leave, I felt I couldnt do it if I told him, and he would try to stop me, I would give in, and we would be going at it again. Its been over 2yrs and in moments I remember, and it breaks my heart that I left with out a word. But I feel like I am still in love, and that I won't feel that special feeling we had once. Ive have bf before and didnt feel this way after we broke up. But I havent been in a relationship ever since. Im scared that I will be the same way. Become chaotic, jealous and suicidal. Am I obessed? Could I still be in love? Or does this always happen when you break up without closure? Is there anything I could do to help move away from this feeling? (link)
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I think you are in love. Have you ever heard the expression "If you love someone, let them go"?. You did that. You loved him so much that you were willing to be alone so that you did not hurt him.
You don't need closure. What you need to do is take some time for yourself. Take bubble baths, learn to cook interesting desserts, etc. Take some time to center yourself.
In time, you may decide to contact your ex. But, don't do it for closure. Only do it if you are interesting in getting back together or if you would like to become friends. Contacting someone else for closure only confuses the other person. And it would confuse you too.
From Moi to you,
Miss Piggy
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its my bfs first reltnshp with a gal and he is immature to some extend.. we have been together for 1 yr 5 mnths.i always knew he wanted a breakup because we fight a lot and he is fed up of those fights. its our possessiveness that is causing those fights.. i knew he wanted to breakup so i only told him that lets breakup because i know you want to be free. he asked me whether il be his only after a breakup so i replied that i wont be anyone's after this breakup then he got sad.. he wants to come back but he says its not the right age. so that day itself he told me that i want to continue this relationship. what should i do? we go through many breakups n those breakups hurt me. should i give it a last try? (link)
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Get back together and stay together. It's okay if you fight a lot. Many couples do!
For example, Kermit and I fight all of the time. Our biggest fight was on Christmas Eve. I had tried to hang his stockings by the chimney with care. Unfortunately, he was still in them.
But, despite our fights, Kermit and I love each other. And at the end of the day, none of our fights matter.
Love makes people crazy. Have you ever heard of the expression "Love at first fight?". Well, it's true. You don't know you love someone until you let your guard down. And letting your guard down means you show each other the best and worst sides of yourselves. This can obviously lead to fighting. Nobody is perfect, and there is always going to be something about the other person that ticks you off and vice versa. That doesn't mean that you are in a bad relationship. It just means that the two of you are very close, so close that you see all of each other's flaws. Ever seen 'The Notebook'? Those two characters fought all of the time, but that's because they cared about each other. Be that couple.
Just make sure you make the time for a little romancing in between all of the fighting. And then you can officially stop calling it a rocky or bad relationship. You can start calling it a passionate one.
Toodles,
Miss Piggy
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i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and whne hes with me he can be nice he can be mean he does buy me things and takes me out. But he refuses to drink when I'm there but he'll go out to parties with his freinds when my friends are there and drink with them! It's just wierd hes started lying to me about my friends being there and they post pictures I know they are there! I don't mind him having a night with his friends but hes out drinking with my friends he never invites me and he refuses to drink when I'm there. Why? Is he hiding something. Next weekend we are going out with his freinds from work but hes willing to drink then? Its just i get anoyed when he goes out partying with my friends he never invites me and it isolates me i'm not bothered that my friends are girls but I am bothered that hes drinking and having a laugh with them and he doesnt with me. He says I always get mad but he lies to me how can I trust him when he lies to me and he isolates ,e from his friends. I'd be happy for him to have a lads night but if other couples are going why can't I come. I've not spoken to him since last night when he went out he says I'm in the wrong for being upset by that but I know I'm not its wierd him going out drinking with MY friends like wtf. Ant advice on what to do here? (link)
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One thing to consider is that maybe he only drinks to please his friends. Maybe he prefers not to drink, but when he is around them he feels pressured. Maybe with you he prefers to chill without alcohol and just relax or be romantic.
But more likely, it sounds as though he is flirting around with other girls behind your back. He probably doesn't want you to know about this because he knows it would make you upset.
He is acting inappropriately. You should insist on him inviting you if other girls are there. Like you said, a guys night is fine, but if other girls are there he should want you there too! Do not let this go. He needs to understand that what he is doing is hurting you.
It's guys like this that made me want to take up karate.
Miss Piggy
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She is obsessed with the media and the life of celebrities she almost forgets to live her own, and thinks I don't know about much, just because I'm not as obsessed as her, such as Katy Perry being illuminati or whatever, I found out when I listened to dark horse backwards because of cousin. Also she's really stuck up and calls the entire group,“ buetafull, gorgeous, intelligent, amazing (her name) and other girls. She also calls me racist ALL THE TIME. For example, when this freakishly pale girl said she is Spanish,I said that's weird since most Spanish people are tan, and the annoying girl I'm writing this because of said,“what are you saying?" And I said,“nothing, just Spanish people are tan." And she responded,“don't be racist!" WTF? I wasn't saying anything bad about Spanish people, or tan people. I'm Italian, that's pretty close to Spanish. And another time I was arguing with a boy and said,“there is no difference between white and colored skin!" And she told me I was racist for saying 'colored' but I was saying something completely UNracist. OMFG WTF? She's also defensive in other areas like when I asked her why she is so into romance books, and she started saying,“don't judge me if I like romance!" And starts a fight with this one table at lunch everyday. She steals people's food, breaks their stuff, and throws it. And I'm just supprised she had the nerve to call ME racist when she shouts the N word across the room. But my friends are friends with her so If I leave her I leave the entire group. What do I do? (link)
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Saying "Spanish people are tan" is racist because not all Spanish people are tan. There is nothing wrong with the word "coloured" though.
Anyway, it sounds as though you and this girl clash, but there is not much you can do about it if you are unwilling to leave the group. The only thing you could do is try to make some new friends, but still stay friends with your old group. That way you could spend time with your friends, but when that girl gets annoying, you could go hang out with a different group for awhile.
From Moi to you,
Miss Piggy
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so i met this guy int he beginning of the year and hes graduated now. We had a thing for a while maybe a month or so but i cant help but to think i pushed him away because i might be afraid of my feelings. after a few weeks have passed we stopped talking and he eventually got a new girlfriend but he kept staring at me waiting for something to happen and he does this all the time. i tried talking to him on facebook but he didnt message me back so i just gave up and thought maybe this is when i need to give him some space or would it be better if i talked to him in person or is it just no use at all? (link)
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If he has a girlfriend you should not be talking to him. The entire point of calling someone your "girlfriend" is committing to the person.
If he's not single, he's probably not looking to mingle.
Miss Piggy
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I'm 14 years old.I liked a boy that was 15 but as soon as he liked me back i stopped.So he stopped too.When i realized he stopped i liked him again.. so he did too and then again i stopped.He thought i was playing him but i really wasn't.This happens to me all the time and because of that now he hates me.He likes another girl now and i don't really wanna admit to myself that i like him because i know he will never like me again and if he does i will stop liking him.I played him for like 4-5months and i feel really bad now.I don't understand i even cried for him i thought that i really like him but i quess i didn't.This happened with my ex boyfriend too..What should i do.. i really want a boyfriend but as soon as they like me back i stop..Please help. (link)
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You shouldn't do anything. Maybe you aren't ready for a boyfriend yet!
Take some time for yourself. Have a bubble bath, eat a nice dessert and enjoy some "me" time. There will be plenty of time for frogs later.
Miss Piggy
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I'm almost 17 and he's 15. one day he just comes out and says that he likes me and I didn't know how to tell him I didn't like him back so I kinda just went along with it but then he asked me out and I said I wasn't ready to go out or have a boyfriend. All of a sudden I have some feelings for him that I've never had before and he doesn't talk to me much. I don't know what to do??? I kinda like him but don't know if he still likes me or not. (link)
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Start by being friends with him again. See if the spark is still there.
This could be the beginning of love!
Miss Piggy
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i am on my third day of periods but the flow is very low.. on the first day it was high on the second day it was less. i took regestrone sandoz 5mg to postone my periods as i was going out on a vaction. i took it for 8 days.are these the ill effects of regestrone or am i pregnant. also on the second day i felt like vomiting but didnt. before going on vacation i and my boyfriend went to his home there i gave him a handjob but he was not wet. then he fingered me. i asked him whether he touched his penis before fingering me so he said no i didnt. but im still scared. also it pains when im in washroom and the flow comes out. please help. can the vomiting feeling be because of the weather change or am i pregnant? (link)
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It is likely because of the medication you took.
The chances of you having a bun in the oven are very small!
Miss Piggy
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