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its my bfs first reltnshp with a gal and he is immature to some extend.. we have been together for 1 yr 5 mnths.i always knew he wanted a breakup because we fight a lot and he is fed up of those fights. its our possessiveness that is causing those fights.. i knew he wanted to breakup so i only told him that lets breakup because i know you want to be free. he asked me whether il be his only after a breakup so i replied that i wont be anyone's after this breakup then he got sad.. he wants to come back but he says its not the right age. so that day itself he told me that i want to continue this relationship. what should i do? we go through many breakups n those breakups hurt me. should i give it a last try?
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Get back together and stay together. It's okay if you fight a lot. Many couples do!
For example, Kermit and I fight all of the time. Our biggest fight was on Christmas Eve. I had tried to hang his stockings by the chimney with care. Unfortunately, he was still in them.
But, despite our fights, Kermit and I love each other. And at the end of the day, none of our fights matter.
Love makes people crazy. Have you ever heard of the expression "Love at first fight?". Well, it's true. You don't know you love someone until you let your guard down. And letting your guard down means you show each other the best and worst sides of yourselves. This can obviously lead to fighting. Nobody is perfect, and there is always going to be something about the other person that ticks you off and vice versa. That doesn't mean that you are in a bad relationship. It just means that the two of you are very close, so close that you see all of each other's flaws. Ever seen 'The Notebook'? Those two characters fought all of the time, but that's because they cared about each other. Be that couple.
Just make sure you make the time for a little romancing in between all of the fighting. And then you can officially stop calling it a rocky or bad relationship. You can start calling it a passionate one.
Toodles,
Miss Piggy
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If you have a different plan in place, in attempt to heal whats wrong with the relationship, then go ahead and try again. If you have no plan to do anything different but just get together, then no it's not worth the time because the results will be the same as before.
If you want to go into more detail and give some examples of what you see going wrong like the 'possessiveness" you mention and whatever else, I just might be able to come up with suggestions of what to try to do differently if you do choose to get back together again. Cant promise anything dear, but if you feel its worth a try, let me know.
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I don't think you should. If it keeps happening than maybe you both need to go your own way. It already seems to be going in a circle already. I can relate to this I was in a similar situation. We went our ways, its been almost 2 years and a lot has changed. You can't close your self up to future relationships. But just give yourself time to grow. Focus on yourself, things you love to do.
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