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yeah so only seventeen, but ive got a pretty good idea about giving decent advice. anything from serious relationships, not-so-serious relationships, friends, family problems, what looks good & what doesnt, and how NOT to be a bitch! i love to have fun, but im not an idiot! im just your typical clowner and i pretty much know it all - well, kinda : D ask anything!!

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Ok well theres a fair in town.ive been goin every nite. Well Neways. Theres this really hot guy that works at the ferris wheel. Whenever im theres hes always staring at me n smiling and talkin to me does he like me?. I wanna tell him that i like him n stuff but i dont wanna sound stupid. Thing is hes also older i heard him talking to his friends and he said he doesnt mind dating younger girls. What should i Do?
x0`confused

well it depends on HOW MUCH OLDER he is. if its only like 1-3 years it would probly be ok. but no matter the age difference, get to know him first.

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Okay my best friend just told me shes bi..And im a girl to.I dont know what to do, should I still be her friend or should I like not be..Im kinda creeped out cause I dont want her to like hit on me or nething.What should I do? Im only 14 to what should I do

DONT STOP BEING HER FRIEND. thats just mean. i would be creeped out too, but u should still be her friend. +plus+ since shes bi instead of homo, u can still talk about hot guys but when she brings up hot girls just keep your mouth shut lol

i know this advice kinda sucks-hope it helps!

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ok, so u hear about these girls who have guys as best friends..well im one of those girls. any ways, brandon os my best guy friend, and i love him..but not like that. well, it turns out he has the biggist crush on me...and he told me he loves me more than anyone else. but the prob. is..is that i just like him as a friend. Hes the sweetest guy a girl culd have..but im just not really ready for a relationship. and hes really hard on himself, and i would do anything to keep from breaking his heart. But if i do end up having feelings for him...i would definatly go out with him. but hes kinda dorky...and i kno i kno it shouldnt matter, but wut if people tried to make fun of us as a couple...so what should i do??

the reason your not going out with him isnt because hes dorky is it?? you shouldnt care about looks if you really like him. maybe you do like him but you are trying to convince yourself you dont because you are too embarrassed. but if you REALLY dont like him like that, tell him how you feel. make sure you let him know that you love him (as a friend of course) and that you really have fun hanging out with him. tell him your not ready to be in a relationship and you just want to be friends. hope this helps!

x*o*x*o
ami

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I've a had crush on this girl for a few months and i think she might like me too. We are like best friends, but we flirt with each other all the time. We tell each other everything. She tells me everytime she likes a new guy. But last night was different. She told me that she liked my best friend. I can't say i blame her, cuz my friend is a nice guy (that's why he's my best friend). I don't know how to feel. I'm kinda disappointed, but at the same time, i want her to be happy. What should i do?

i think you should talk to her about it. well, find out if your best friend likes her too and if he doesnt, then tell her how you feel. speak whats on your mind. most likely she wont be mean about it and be like "eww no way man. i would never date you!" you guys could end up together. just talk to her. hope it helps!
x*o*x*o ami

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I have a really good friend (thats a guy) and well we have gone out a couple times. And i like him again and he told one of my friends he kinda likes me. i wanna just grab him and kiss him one day but im scared he'll push me away. what should i do.


*female 15*

hey*
omg totally go for it-just dont do it out of the blue ya kno. wait for the perfect moment and BAM!! go in for the kill! lol* yes totally do it, andi doubt he would push u away and if he does say something like "what do i have cooties or somethin?" hope it helps!
x*o*x*o ami

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how long should i wait b4 i tell a girl how i feel about her after she breaks up with someone she really loved.the only reason they broke up was because he was moving to another state. thanx
dan

well tlak to her and get to kno her as a friend, then when she seems to be fine, ask her out and tell her how you feel. you could even mention u didnt kno if it was ok to ask her out because you didnt want to rush her. she wont be mean about it.

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My name is Leah....

Me n my boyfriend have been going out for 1 month.. but we went out before 4 four months...
Me n hym are in love like so much!! n we r perfect for eachother b.c we know everything about eachother... but
LAST NIGHT... I was on the fone w/ My friend Adam n then My friend who was sleeping over...((Lisa)) wanted to talk to ((MIke, my boyfriend)) b.c. they r tight... n i was like go head idc.. cuz i wus on the fone w/ Adam n he was leaving tommoroe...

Well i wusnt flirting w/ Adam... but to all my friends (( guy n girl )) i say I love you... but not the same way i love Mike...

Well since my friend, Lisa was on the fone... w/ mike... He heard me say i love you to Adam... he started getting pissed at me cuz he thought i was flirting w/ Adam....

So wen i talked to hym later that night im like Wait, r u mad at me..?? Mike is like ya... u were flirting w/ Adam.... i wus like no i wasnt!! hes like YeaH! im like no!! im like w.e . since u dont belive me i gues im a liar....
well i broke up w/ Mike that night b.c. i though that since we r going into jr. high this year... n since he thinks that i was flirtng by saying I love you to adam.. then i thought.. we needed a break....
do u think i was right to take a lil Break... n do u think i shoudl go back out w/ Mike.. b.c i rly love hym n hes the sweetest guy i have eva known n he treats me like a queen... n he loves me soo much!! n i love hym.. but sumtimes i like being single.. but every time i think of Mike i am always liike omg i miss hym i love hym soo much!!

PLEASE HELP ME!!
xOx-Leah...

ok well i think you WERE flirting with him whether u kno it or not. i can understand saying it to your g/f 's but when u say it to other guys, i can understand why hes freakin out. u should try to get him back but u should apologize and stop doing that. GUYS WILL TAKE A SIMPLE I LOVE YOU THE WRONG WAY.
x*o*x*o* ami*

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what is a good way to get your mind off boys and concentrate more on school work?

ooo tough one!! um think about your parents yelling at you for your grades and grounding you from boys!! that'll make you work!!

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Ok i have been away for about 3 weeks and my boyfriend has been hanging out with all these different girls.. I am kinda jelous and worried because I am moving in about 5 months but we wanted to keep it strong until i go. I feel that with him being with these different girls is going ot make him loose interest in me.. should I feel this way?

ok your going out with him until you move in 5 weeks so your not planning on having a future your just goin out wit him just to live the moment. i can undertand why your jealous, but u dont plan on being together later, so it really doesnt matter. if you want, talk to him about it and be like "can you just not screw up for the rest of the time we r goin out? then you can do what you want" if he thinks its not worth it then forget it and break up with him.

x*o*x*o hope it helps-ami*

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is it realli wrong to date your best friends ex boyfriend? cause this kid likes me..and i realli like him..but i have a feeling my best friend will get mad if i go out with him. cause she gets jealous even if i chill with him! please help soon cause i'm gonna chill with him tonite! i rate high!

its not wrong unless your bff still likes him. ask her if she still has feelings for him. if not then ask her if she would mind if you two hooked up. the only thing u can do is talk to her about it. most likely she'll understand.

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Ok well I have this boyfriend and he doesnt go to my school or anything. I meet him through my friend from soccer camp. We started talking online and then a while later we started going out. Later he broke up with me saying that he disn't think things were going to work out because we still hadn't seen each other. Now a year later, we still haven't seen each other but we are going out again. I am thinking that now I don't want to go out with him until I see him and stuff. How should I tell him this without hurting him too much? (I have never broken up with anybody before) please help soon!!! Thanx and I'll rate you!

well you have to break up with him because you never see him and honestly, i think your kind of wasting your time. you could be dating some one who you see all the time and can tell them everything. you defiantly could have a better relationship. you should say, "i dont think we go out anymore. its just not working. we never see each other and both of us could have better relationships. i hope we can still be friends" make sure you say "im sorry" and be as sweet as possible. hopefully he willl understand. good luck!

hope it helps!

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My parents payed for me and my brother to go to a private school. It was really expensive but thank god we got insurance so some of the money will come back to us if we deside not to go. Well my brother and i ended up going to public school where it's free, the thing is that the private school won't let us get the money back unless we go there for 15 school days. I have been arguing with my parents saying that i just started to make friends at the public school, and things are really going my way. Going to the private school for 15 days will make it really hard to go back to the public school. I really dont know what to do cause it's a lot of money we will get back, yet i am really startin to fit in at the public school.

since this is long I will rate high!!!!!!!!!!

well i think you should go back to the private school for the 15 days. it will help out your family and you only have the rest of the school year to make friends*sarcastically* so just do it. you will make friends DONT WORRY!

hope it helps!

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hey**i have a friend that can sometimes or used to talk behind my back and none of my best friends like her. at times she can be a really goodfriend and at other times she can be mean and like my enemy.her parents are really nice to me and seem to like me and they take us alot of places. i can easly hate my friend when i dont tak to her but when i talk to her is like everythings okay you know?. when she does talk behind my back its rumors and every secret she can think of to tell her about me. she makes fun of my looks and if my head hurts or im sick she says stop looking in the mirror, which iknow is a joke but i asked her ot to but then she says shes serious. i dont want to be friends with her but i think if i break up our friendship ill regret it in the long run. what do you think, should i break up our friend ship and is she a real friend?

i had a sitution like this one. well theres always that person that talks behind your back and everyone gets mad at them. i think you should still be nice to her becuase if you start talking bad about her and get everyone to gang up on her, then what your doing is no better then what shes been doing. when she talks behind your back you probably get really mad right? but when your hangin out your like "well i mean shes cool now sooo" correct?? yeah if you really think you should end it then tell her how you hate it when she tlaks behind your back and the things she says to you. but if i were you i wouldnt make it a big deal - just tell her to stop sometimes ya know. but ot answer your question...shes not a real friend. but its ok until she rubs off on you.

hope it helps!
ami*

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My brother (he's 20) has been dating this girl (she's 22) for about 2 years on and off. The only reason they got together was because my brother found out he was the father of their now 3-year-old. They can never seem to stay together for more than 3 months at a time. But each and every single time they break up, they end up getting back together. They are together now and I found out today that he's going to ask her to marry him. The problem is this girl has caused nothing but problems for me & my family. I have an aunt who won’t even come to family gatherings if my brother's girlfriend will be there. She likes to cause problems and not a whole lot of people in my family even remotely like her. She's also had my brother thrown in jail for no reason at all when they were separated. How he can take her back after that is beyond me. I don't think she's good for him at all. I know he can do a lot better than her. I just don't know what to do. I don't want to see him marry this girl but I also want him to do what he thinks will make him happy. What do you guys think I should do? Sorry this was so long...

wow this is some situation...

ok well your brother is the father of this baby. so therefore he is partly responsible for it. but he shouldnt marry her if shes not right and he could do better. especially when she just causes problems. i know your brother is trying to do the right thing and be a responsible father, but if they dont love each other, then why would he want to spend the rest of his life with her. they might end up getting a divorce anyways. i think if they lived together and always argued then the kid would probably become really upset becuase his parents only stayed together for him and they dont love each other. (whether they admit it or not) its true.
so* in my opinion i think your brother shouldnt marry her, but he NEEDS to help take care of the baby- and stay friends with the mother. but if her becoming a part of the family is just gonna cause stress, why bother? however he has to take care of teh kid. as for you, theres nothing u can do but tell your brother what you think...

good luck! hope i helped.

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Hi well my need is to find out who I really like, I halready have a boyfriend and then I met this other guy that I really like now, and then i haven't even heard from my boyfriend for a while then all of a sudden he emails me and starts talking like nuthin happened. what do I do?

well if you liked either one of them (especailly your b/f) then it wouldnt be this hard to choose. you shouldnt get suspicious about your b/f becuz he hasnt talked to you, when your actually the one whos thinkin of another guy. but if hes cheating on you or just not paying attention to you enough - theres a reson to break up with him and go for the other guy. but then again is that fair to the other guy?? is he just your side b/f that you go out with just in case some thing goes wrong with you n your b/f?? thats not rite now is it...

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hi,
i recently figured out that my papa(uncle) has cancer and i am extremely close to him i live with him, and he was supposed to be fine until he had surgey and they found cancer in his liver stomach esophagus. and i just can't seem to get over it and i feel HORRIBLE i havent gone to school in 2 weeks(my parents dont know) and i act like im leaving for school they go to work and i just go back inside. Well What Should i do (hes gonna die anytime) sign,
ihatecancer01

who doesnt hate cancer? well there are gonna be some rough times in your life and they are gonna be really hard to get over, but some how your gonna have to move on. and hiding inside does nothing! you have to go to school it wont help your uncle by staying inside and feeling bad. its not your fault.

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okay so there is this boy that ive liked for a long time... but yea c hes a mayjor playa and everytime i hook up wit him or w/e he always plays me over but his charm is sooo good and cute that i fall for him no matter wut! how can i just forget about him! and erase him from my life cuz i knoe that the next time i talk to him hes gonna b all flirty and touchy feely to me and then i'll fall for him all over again. please help me get over him.

well u obviously have to get over this guy, so when he starts to charm you think of the times hes hurt you and you will reconsider it.

hope it helps!

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Can anyone give me Ideas? I want to get my boyfriend a gift and I'm all out of ideas!!! Some info that might help you is he is kinda in the middle of punk and prep not in clicks or anything he is 17 and we have been dating for 7 1/2 months. I want something thats cute and shows I love him but does not but cost a lot of money~ Please help me out~

um...idk you could get him like a shirt or something autographed by some superstar sports guy, --then agian thats hard to find, or..colonge. thats a tough question...WHAT DO YOU GET GUYS???

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I am always biting my nails all the time. I have tried fake nails. But I cant have them on because I play so many sports. Is there a way I can stop? I do it even when I dont realize I am doing it. I also know its not healthy at all. Any tips will be helpful... thank you!

i cant tell you any advice on this one babe! sorry. I HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM! its liek i cant help it...

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