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okay i'm make this plain and simple: i have huge pores on my nose! i get blackheads easily, and i have tried a lot of products, but i'm not quite "consistent" w/using them every night or w/e. i might use them for 3 days in a row but then i won't for like a week or two. i can't keep up w/it every night/every monrning. is there any product that you can use every other night or less often??? thanks (link)
Well clean and clear has a mask where you use it only one or two times a week and i use it and i like it so try that and they also have heat activated phisoderm face wash and just after useing it like 2 or 3 times in a row it really helps. you just make your face wet and apply it and you can feel it heat up and it tingles a little. I love it!


OH my i had sex with my b/f last week and today this guy and i had sex and i love my b/f and it just happen with the other guy i didnt mean it to go that far and my an dmy b/f been going out for about 2 MONTHS now........he was my best guy friend and if he finds out hell break up with me and we wont be great friends anymore.... (link)
well honestly you have to deal with your actions n take the consequences like an adult. If you really care about this guy you will tell him because if not hes just going to look like a fool. And that would probably hurt worse. You cheated on him and thats wrong but you NEED to tell him!


Here is my problem.... I have liked this guy for awhile now and I dont think he knows that I like him! The thing is he has a g/f but he still send me signels..... I am friends with the g/f and I would never want to hurt her.... I just wish that he would stop leading me on... how do I work this out???
age:15 girl (link)
well this is a hard one butjust tell him that when he flirts or whatever it sends you signals n that u like him but you dont want to hurt his g/f and you dont feel right when he does send you signals because it is wrong. but first ask him if he means to send you signals so you dont look dumb if he says he dont mean to.


Ok here is my problem...I really want to talk to my ex-boyfriend again..I think he is still mad at me though..See we talk but ok here is why we broke up...I asked him if i got fat would he still wanna be with me and he got really mad..And we broke up the next day..I really want to talk to him again. I love this guy and i know he still has feelings for me deep down inside...I just want to talk to him again like we used to..Like joking around and stuff...I eventually would like for us to get back together...I really love him..And i know him and I will end up married b/c the whole summer was like the one in the notebook...we couldnt stay away from eachother...then he had to go back home to florida...i really want him back at least for a friend right now..but he is kinda stubborn and idk..Can you please help me get this guy back..Like i want to start out as friends then get him back into liking me...What all should i say to him???!!!??

Seriously Confused Love Life... (link)
Well soundsl ike you gonna have to wait for him to get over it before youll get anywhere...im not sayin give up im sayin keep workin at it and trying to talk ot him until he gets over his stubbornness and then tell him your sorry and wanna be friends and then hopefully it goes from there but it takes guys awhile to get over this stuff


Yes i was wondering how big your penis is??? (link)
why dont u suck it and find out


ok yeah i know i must have something that made him fall inlove with me..what can i say to make him feel special and draw him back into loving me...u give excellent advice (link)
just tell him things like hes a one of a kind and irreaplaceable and you were so lucky to have him fall in love with you n if he has like pretty eyes or somethign comment on them or comment on your fave feature about him just boost his ego lol


Dear Ilovehiseyes,
I met a really great guy and today he left to go back home to Texas...I really miss him..And i would love for me and him to get back together after i get to know more about him..But i dont know how to kind of let him know i still have feelings for him but i can still live without him..I dont want him thinking that im incapable of not living without him..even though im not..I love him...But i never know what to say to him and I would really like your help on how can i talk to him and let him know i still have lil feelings for him. I want to make him fall inlove with me again..Im not sure how i can do this..I just want him to love me again...

please help me with everything i have asked... plz (link)
Well...obviously you have a quality he likes to fall in love with so it should be easy. Just tell him you still have some feelings for him and always will.n if you want him to fall in love with you then just be sweet n make him feel special


Well, I met my boyfriend a couple of months ago. We hit off quite well :) And just recently, this 5th of August we decided to "hook up", become an "item", whatever, we're together.

Anyway, we've never really talked as much as I'd like to. I've told him that and I've said I miss him and talking to him when texting with him. But that doesn't seem to be working... we talk around... 30 - 60 minutes a WHOLE WEEK. If that much too. That would be a good week!

I don't know what to do anymore. We're both on the nervous side when we meet and rather quiet but I don't know what to do... I don't want to lose him, I think there's potential. But, he doesn't seem like HE wants to put any effort into it. So I was wondering, what should I do, seeing as I'm the one concerned about the relationship in the first place,?



Note; I'm 13 & female. (link)
well if you see it as your the one who wants it to work out n he doesnt seem to putting in his effort then why waste your time at doing it because then youd be wasteing his time so tell hi mti find someone else who will do both halfs of the relationship


what foods are filling that you don't have to eat a lot of and will keep you full for a while and are good for you? (link)
any kinda of breads or pastas


latly i relized that my closest friend dana liked me back but she has a bf. so she dosent wanna think that way of me in that way. that kinda bums me out. but yet i got this friend i've know for about 4 years and well i've loves him since like grade 6. but i dont think he likes me back. he never gave me a streight out awnser. then there is my xbf brandyn who i broke it off with. its a really long story and i dont wanna talk about it. long story short i freaked out on him and i feel really bad for breaking it off. *sigh* her is my question. which one should i focuse my heart and love on? and please dont say flip a coin. (link)
go with your ex b/f because he has feelings for you n you have some for him so its a sure thing so your not left wondering jus explain to him you feel bad and still want him


Well okay I have this best friend whose a guy named Joe.. me and him went out before well a lot? and actually a few weeks ago we liked eachother (and i'm like still madly in love with him) until this other girl came into the picture.. her name is brooke (i dispise her) well see the thing is me and him talk 24-7 and stuff and we still hang out and he flirts so much but him & brooke are together still =/ but he doesn't really seem to like her that much? he considers me and him bestestest friends forever.. we even share secrets together? but i am in LOVE with this kid =( .. well last nite we had a school dance (he slowed danced with her obvisioly) and like when the fast songs were on i was like getting low and stuff tehehe =] and he was all near me i loved it =] and brooke and all her friends were like ugh but oh well for them? but idk what 2 do..? hmm what should i do (link)
sounds to me like he likes you but is afraid to lose your guyss friendship...talk to him about it


ok i have really cury hair and i straighten it everyday but im really getting sick of doing it b/c my hairs so thick and its so time consuming to get it pin straight,i use to love to swim and i never want to do it anymroe b/c i dont want to get my hair wet b/c it will curl and when ever it gets the least bit humid my hair goes nuts. i was thinking about getting it chemically relaxed but idk can anyone whos got it done tell me about it and if it works or doesn't or is bad for there hair ill rate a 5 to anyone who anwsers!! (link)
it works but sometimes doesnt come out perfect n can damage or fry your hair


there is this one guy that i really like.i know that i love him too.when i am in love i can't sleep or eat and i can't even breathe right when i see him or think about him. i have know idea what to do. until my one friend had a little chat with him.. he said at first that he would never go out with me. but then later he said i am confused and i need to get my priorities straight. so is it best just to be his friend right now.. or should i try to get him ?

signed

crazy in love but very confused (link)
It sounds like he does like you but is scared maybe you intimidate him and hes afraid to like you because hes got a lot of things going onright now. Just give him time and be his real good friend that way you can get closer to him n if its ment to be itll happen


female-14- what flirting tips can you give me to let a guy know that i like him. What types of things should i say or even do to him. Im desperate i need help, were both leaving our job in a few weeks i need help now!!Please help me, especially you guys out there, i need tips badly.
Thanks
Lioness (link)
well since yous are both elaving your job then say something like " we should keep in touch or hang out sometime after we leave"" so that way yous can develope a relationship outside of work n then you can go from there n u dont have to rush


ok...well im really upset right now...usually im the person giving advice but not this time..well me and my boyfriend lets call him...bob?...and this girl...up lets call her paris?...idk..well im reallyy upset right now..and im sorry if this is long..i was going thru my boyfriends myspace and i saw a comment that "paris" left saying awww i (link)
Well just tell him it bothers you n makes u jealous n if h loves u as much as he says he does then hed respect that and not do it anymore


i'm a 15 year old girl who is friends w/ this guy whose turning 16 in a week. i dont know him that well, but he invited me 2 his party. what should i get him? (i can spend like $30) (link)
a gift certificate to the mall you cant go wrong with that because he knows what he wants so if you give it to him then he get whathe wants n u dont have to worry about him not liking it


i have a problem.. see im gettin over this guy who i posted a lot about in my other questions.. but he had a gf so im gettin over him.. but i have a friend and hes been helping me alot with this.. hes been my shoulder to cry on and i think im startin to like him.. the thing is he is too.. BUT he recently told one of my best friends that he likes her.. now shes gettin clingy and there not even goin out and shes gettin obsessive! hes not sure wats hes gonna do bc hes not sure if he still likes her.. but he always tells me not to worry about it and how confused he is and stuff.. i talk to him for hours on the phone and today i was sitting in church and she was in between us and next to him was my other good friend ashley.. she turns to me and goes.. i dont like how ashley is with dan .. shes startin to get me madd..shes flirting with him soo much.. im like ashley has a bf.. but wat really bothered me was that she has noo idea wats going on! i dont want her to get hurt but i have a feelin he doesnt like her that much anymore and i dont know wat to do bc if she said that about ashley, wat would she say about me??? wat do i do??


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well what i would do is wait until everything cools down n situated so you know whats goin on before you act on anything n then regret it. Sounds like an MTV reality show to me lol. I dont think anyone else knows whats going on either. Just becareful n like i said i would wait .


I met my girlfriend over the internet about 7 months ago. We started as a good friendship. So then I asked for her phone number. We talked on the phone for hours and hours. I started to love her and have really strong feelings for her. She did too. We did webcam and send pictures and mail. But things started to happen to me I started to feel depressed. I started to have personal problems with my family about it. I didn't care I know I love this girl a lot. I haven't seen her yet cause I'm not ready yet. I want to look good for her physically and in ma peronality. I don't want her to see an ugly me. I want to lift weights get taller and look good for her. I want to have money and get my education. Thats why I haven't gone to see her. I want to be for her inside and out. But is gettin frustrated. Cause so many guys have I asked her out but shes says no to them cause she waiting fo me. But I can't cause I went to get muscles and get taller and get ma money straight get new clothes and get ma education. So, then I can see her. But I don't want her to give up. I feel bad cause I want see her but I want to surprise but gettin muscles and lookin taller and being a person who can make her smile, laugh, make her feel good about us and look good for her. I love her a lot she is a beautiful young girl. She is cute, nice, hardworking, special, and comfortable to talk to. What do I do. I'm a male who is 17 (link)
thats not fair to her at all she needs a real relationship not a cyber one n so do you. its not love until youve felt her kiss and hug her and and haveactually been ther for her and plus i mean its over the internet so how do you know she isnt lieing to you about things and makin things up. think about it.... your changin everything about you for someone youve never touched or seen in person. you need to give up on it


School pictures are coming up, and I don't know what I should wear. Does anyone have any ideas? (link)
just wear a nice blouse and some eyeliner n do your hair in a down do


OK so my hair is wayyyyyyyy thick and frizzy, like totally thick. If i get it cut to about shoulder length, and get 2 layers taken off, will i see a big difference? Will other people? I alwayssss wear my hair up, so can yu still see the difference? and will it be easier to straighten, cus with the way my hair is now, it takes about 2 hours. Lots of questions, i know, but i'll rate high for any help (link)
wear it down because if you sleep with it up youll wake up with an indent in your hair




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