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The best advice I can give anyone is leverage the power of the internet. If you are just looking for answers to a homework question or seeking business ideas, the net is the place to start. Not only does the net provide information, it can also be leveraged to make anyone lots of money.
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Im not that fat almost skinny but i have a little fat im 13 my height is 5'8 how do i get skinny it difficult
Dear 'how do i get skinny ?',
I worried about my weight when I was thirteen too, but I never had someone like me to talk to as a teen.
I am 36 years old and have tried every diet craze, and exercise program out there. What have I gotten out of all this? An education!
You see, I learned that diet is not a fad, or something that you can turn on and off like a light switch. A diet is for life, and you had better find the right one while you are young, and stick to it, or you may end up not living that long healthy life you deserve.
A diet is not something that you 'go on' when you need to lose weight. Diet is a way of life, a lifestyle that cannot be changed or you experience health issues, like gas and weight gain.
Go to this link, look up your ethnic background and then choose your blood-type. This list will tell what foods act as poison in your body, like tomatoes. It also tells you what foods act like medicine and will a actually help you maintain a healthy metabolism, like Kale.
http://www.uoregon.edu/~sshapiro/ER4YT/FoodLists_TOC.html
You really should change your focus from skinny to healthy. Being healthy is more important than being skinny. Trust me on this, when you get older, you will realize that not everyone judges you based on looks. It is good to be healthy, but not healthy to be skinny.
It is the advice of this Doktor that you change your eating habits FOREVER, to reflect your type, and spread this information to everyone you know. Get your family eating for their type as well. It is amazing how healthy this lifestyle change will make you, and you will feel so much more alive than you have ever felt before.
I wish you healthy living. I am here anytime you need me. Good Luck!
The itching has been going on for just a week but I itch until I scratch it until I have a burning sensation. During this week as well after sex my lower abdominal and back will hurt, yesterday I started my period a couple days early and last night I had pains as If they were cramps but these were stronger and I was going to throw up the pain was constant for an hour straight.
Dear 'My body.',
This sounds like more of an infection than a pregnancy, but as I stated before, I am only someone who gives Advice. I am not a doctor, and can only tell you what I would guess you should do. Rather it is what I would do.
OK, I am assuming that the itching you are talking about is isolated to your vaginal area. If this is the case, I would go to your Gynecologist's and have a pap test. Explain these things to your Gynecologist and ask them to test you. If you have an infection, they can tell you what kind, possible ways you could have gotten it, and hopefully have treatment options.
If the itching is all over your body, or isolated to your breasts, then I would lean towards a pregnancy. Either way you should probably see your Gynecologist as soon as possible.
Thanks for asking, and I am always here for you. Good Luck!
Just recentley I've noticed I am constantly itching all over, I have tender breasts now, and after my boyfriend and I had sex I think I started and it was early, and now I have lower abdominal pain more than usual and I've also noticed of wanting to throw up often or have the sensation too. What's wrong with me?
Dear 'I've noticed different things going on with my body.',
The symptoms you have described are consistent with pregnancy. I had itching and vomiting throughout my entire pregnancy. The bleeding may be a concern if you are pregnant.
However, you can make yourself feel this way through mind power. It has been proven that you can create physical illnesses by simply thinking you are ill. If you are under a lot of stress and going through changes in life, you could make yourself sick.
One thing I would do is look at your diet, and not just calories or carbohydrates. I mean recognizing which foods will cause a miscarriage, disease, and illness.
Here is a link that will tell you what foods will act as a medicine or poison to your body.
http://www.uoregon.edu/~sshapiro/ER4YT/FoodLists_TOC.html
The next thing I would do is calm down and think about something that would have hurt you while you were having intercourse. Sometimes if it is rough, you could experience these things as well.
There are many possibilities. Another choice for you is to see a chiropractor. I know that in my past, I have thrown my hips out, and that causes these same symptoms as well(even the itching). If your spine is not aligned properly it will cause various symptoms, most of what you describe, except the extra bleeding.
How long have these symptoms been going on? If it has been more than two weeks, I would see a real physician, as I am only a Doktor of advice. My knowledge is not perfect, but I do draw on my own life experiences to give that advice.
Here are a few sites to start you out with:
http://familydoctor.org/online/famdocen/home/tools/symptom/527.html
http://www.raiterclinic.com/health%20articles/stomachpain.html
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/diseases/facts/abdominalpains.htm
These are just places to start. When you do your own search, try to be very specific with your symptoms, otherwise you will get a bunch if irrelevant materials.
If your bleeding continues longer than your normal cycle, definitely seek out your physician for medical help. If the bleeding stops, but you still have the other symptoms then a pregnancy test will rule out a baby scenario. If the symptoms still persist after the test reads negative, then I would look at seeing a back doctor, chiropractic treatment has done wonders for things that I though were medical issues.
http://www.steadyhealth.com/Constant_fatigue_and_weakness__nausea__diarrhea__itchiness_all_over__and_pregnant__t101465.html
I am here whenever you need me. Good Luck!
iv grown up in a catholic family and have went to all religious private schools but i dont believe. i am roman catholic but i am leaning towards athiest atleast agnostic. i want to believe i want to be helped, but i havent a clue where to start. how can i start again or can someone convince me? and another reason is why would god let me be tortured and put into trauma by jerks trying to steal me and take advantage, why. two years straight of this crap. 16/f
Dear 'falling from religion, save me',
You are sixteen and already feeling lied to, right?
You have been lied to, in fact most of the population in the United States and Canada, if not the world, have been lied to since birth.
It is not just the Catholic Religion that has deep seeded deception.
You will only find part of the truth in religion. The other parts are in Contract Law, the Uniform Code of Commerce, and the Government.
Here some links to information that you should start your research from. You will find interesting facts that have been openly covered up.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sebVLGXydTM
As far the Catholic Religion, here is a link that explains where the Catholic religion claims to have originated.
http://www.gotquestions.org/origin-Catholic-church.html
Looking even further than the birth of the Catholic Religion, your research will show that most, if not all religions date back to at least the Babylonians.
I would not call enlightenment and freedom of your mind, body. and spirit as 'falling from religion'. It would see this moment as a liberating moment, your test of wisdom, strength and will power to pull yourself from the tyranny of religion.
Seek out the information and the truth will set you free.
It is the advice of this Doktor that you do not take anything at face value and refuse to blindly follow something you do not believe to be true.
I am here when you need me. Good luck with your information adventures. Check out info wars dot com too. Good stuff there. Stay safe.
well i think i know whats missing.love.i used to love someone and i do feel a little stupid saying that considering im thirteen (but im deeper than most).im not saying my heart was broken or anything like that.i just stopped caring about them.but i was happy then.my life dosnt suck but i miss loving her.now i just dont care about her.i still feel like an emotionless monster with a hole in my heart.people really dont know me.istay home most of the time.im really shy and quiet.i can barely control my face its just always blank and expressionless and everyone thinks im mad but i could be in the best mood all day.so what's missing?
Sear 'what is missing in my life',
I feel your emptiness. That pit eating at the bottom of your stomach screams for relief.
My husband has similar issues with facial expressions and others reading him wrong.
What's missing? Information. You are lacking the proper information. I have recommended this to others and I will do the same for you.
It is the advice of this Doktor that you learn more about yourself. Learn why your face is expressionless even when you are in a great mood. Learn why you are shy and quiet. Research your peculiar habits and see if there are any known symptoms that match your own.
It was not until we learned that my husband is a High Functioning Autistic that I started understanding how to deal with his lack of 'facial expressions'.
As Always, I am here when you need me. Good Luck!
So I was thinking of going with my friend down to Las Vegas for two nights just to take a road trip and I was wondering if anyone knew of any CHEAP hotels or motels ON THE STRIP preferably and how to get around whilst there? Also, if my friend is 18 we should have no problem buying bus tickets to Las Vegas from Los Angeles right? Also, do I need a credit card to check into the hotel or can I just call them a make a reservation or ask if I can just pay cash when I get there? I'm planning to go this weekend! I will rate. My price range for two days is about 1000 dollars including food, travel, hotel and the bus fare there and back? I know it's not a lot!
Dear Las Vegas
I normally do not answer questions like this, but I lived and grew up in Las Vegas, and also drove tour buses there. Call the Westward Ho. It is pretty much the cheapest you can get right on the strip. It is next to the Circus Circus and across the street from the Riviera. You can walk the strip from there, unless you want to go all the way to the South Point, then you can take the bus or a cab. To just tool around, your best bet is to walk. A cab on the strip costs twice as much as any other, too much waiting time. Also cabs are not allowed to pick up off of the street. You must catch one at your hotel, or at another hotel entrance, or call one. There are places to rent scooters, bikes, and other things. Another possibility for you might be the little carts you can rent and drive along the strip. I do not know of the pricing on them. I am sure if you Google something like 'Las Vegas Buggy Rentals' or something you should get an idea of what is there.
Yes, 18 and a credit card will get a ticket. You may need the card to reserve the room but you can pay cash when you check in.
If you check with the Westward Ho, you should find that 1000 is more than enough for two days.
There is one hotel that may be a possibility for you, if you do mind a little walk. It is on Tropicana, just across the freeway from the strip. It is near the MGM, New York New York, Excalibur and Tropicana Hotels. It is called the Wild Wild West. It is right across the street from one of the best In & Out Burger places in Vegas.
Another one across from the Mirage that MIGHT be cheap is Casino Royale. Most of the places have websites, always book directly with the hotel or motel for best rates. Booking agents charge finder fees.
Most of the places right on the strip will be pricey. Your best bet is to call around and ask for locals discount, and have your friend use your cash to rent the rooms. Locals can sometimes get great discounts. Good Luck and have fun!
im nobody and have always been. dont want any pity . i want it done now
Dear "i want to die tonight and need ways to do it, please,"
You think you are nobody therefor you are nobody. It would be more effective for you to go and research ways to kill yourself rather than crying out for help on Advicenators.
Technically you cannot kill yourself, because you are already dead. Physically you still walk around, but spiritually, you are deceased.
To live, we must do things that make us feel alive. We must be a part of something that makes us feel that life is worth living and dying for.
For instance, something worth dying for is definitely something worth living for. What do you believe in that you would die for?
Despair and Misery love company and they will hold onto you as long as you choose to hold onto them.
Here are some examples of subjects that are important to you, me, and everyone else on the planet. Maybe you will find the spirit you have lost within these links. A cause worth dying for is a reason to live and defend that cause.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sebVLGXydTM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eAaQNACwaLw
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jIry0XCJ_Z8&feature=related
http://www.brucewood.net/wmi/caym.php
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WkiH-JrSXcs&feature=related
I am here to guide you to a reason for living and a reason to love all things living. Not to give you easy ways out, or give you ways to be a coward. That would not be fair to your spiritual being, and I could not in all goodness help you end your life.
It is the advice of this Doktor that you should find a cause worth dying for, and attempt to defend that cause to feel alive. With this action, you will have a new look on things and regain your spirit. I am here when you need me. Good Luck!
I was talking to my friends and one of them asked me if i was a liberal or a conservative. We were talking about elections so i figured it was like asking if i was a democrat or not but i wasn't sure so I just kinda said I had to run and I didn't answer. can you please help me?
Thank you!
Dear "Does liberal mean democrat?? If not then what does democrat mean?",
I would say that the advice you have been given so far is very accurate, in terms of definitions.
To Declare you are in favor of any one political party is committing yourself to a set of values. Just like declaring you belong to a certain religion, community group, or organization. To be member you must adhere to their strict guidelines in your beliefs.
I can tell that you are a bit confused about the hole political arena, and you very well should be. It is intended to create confusion with smoke and mirrors so no one knows what the other really stands for.
It is the advice of this Doktor that you do some serious research on-line, in libraries, and in public record halls to find out if there are any parties worth joining.
Who says you have to belong to a political group anyway? You have the right to be neutral, just make sure that you know how to defend that right.
Here is a start for you to your research. I must warn you and anyone who takes this journey that you may find the information hard to accept, and may even deny it as truth. BUT I guarantee that if you continue your searches into these areas, you find that this is in fact happening in our life time.
It is open minds like yours that will turn this nation into the true republic it was meant to be.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eAaQNACwaLw
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jIry0XCJ_Z8&feature=related
http://www.brucewood.net/wmi/caym.php
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WkiH-JrSXcs&feature=related
Just a start. I hope this helps put things in perspective. I am here if you need me, just ask.
Hi! I'm 23 and I don't have any friends right now that are close to me. I don't make friends easily anymore and I'm getting lonely. It's so hard to find a good friend these days, people keep stepping all over me. How do I go about making new friends without looking stupid?!
Dearest Socially retarded....,
Being socially retarded is not exaclty the words I would use to describe my husband, but if I had not talked to him first, we would have never talked.
I think you have asked a very important question here. How do you go about making friends without looking stupid?
First, I can tell you from experience, you will often meet a true friend in a moment of acting or looking stupid. It is usually what draws someone who is similar to you into your energy field.
The surest way to go about making new friends is to learn about what kind of friend you are compatible with. You should look into why it is so hard for you to make friends. Once you recognize why you are socially retarded, then you can determine what kinds of places, events, and other social meeting places to visit.
Ask yourself what kind of person you are. Your habits, quirks, beliefs, etc need to be identified. I say this because my husband is the most socially awkward person I know, and it is because of his Autism. It was not until we discovered his syndrome, and learned how to deal with it that he was able to become less socially 'retarded' with people. He actually has one very close friend, and a few others he is starting to call friends. So it may something simple like identifying why you are they way you are, and then finding someone who is compatible with that.
It is the advice of this Doktor that you start with searches on-line for special quirks you have. For instance, my husband cannot keep track of anything he uses, and often spins in circles looking for something that is in his hand. To most this looks 'stupid', but to those who know he has Autism, it is nothing. Sometimes he says things in sincere concern, but his tone comes across as pampas and rude. The worst part is that he does not realize he is talking like that. It does not occur to him that he may sound rude.
The internet is a wealth of information at your fingertips, take advantage of it while it exists.
I hope that my advice has helped you and please contact me anytime for anything. I am here to help you. Good Luck!
How do you get over a miscarriage? It's been 4 years now. Shouldn't it be high time I let that go or will the sadness ever go away? I'm on depression pills due to a breakdown from having a miscarriage and am just wondering if I will ever get any better!?
Dear Miscarriage advice,
I feel your pain. I had a forced miscarriage when I was 17 years old and have never really let go of the pain. It has been almost 17 years since that day, the most painful day of my life.
The one thing that came to me in your question was that you have had help dwelling over this loss, and it is time you went cold turkey. It would be good for you to stop blaming yourself, let go of the guilt and get back into life without the help of pills.
In the mean time, maybe you should consider another way of looking at this situation. With the information I will pass on to you, you will see what your baby would have been up against.
Some nights I look at my 6 month old daughter and my 11 year old son and cry. Not because I hate being a mom, but because I see the future that awaits them, and I blame myself for bringing them into this world. I often think that if I had known then what I know now, maybe I would have never had children. But I cannot speculate on what if's. I only hope that I can serve my intended purpose when the time comes to support and defend their lives. In the mean time, I can teach them the right way to live, and eventually how survive without me.
Every life is precious, even ones who never had a chance at life. However, the energy of that life is vital to the love that makes this world a livable place. The love you have for a being that you never had the chance to get to know is so profound that it blows my mind. This is why we are here. To love all things.
Have you figured out what caused the miscarriage? That is important if you want to avoid another one, if you plan on having another.
I pass these links to onto everyone, since they are so important to everyone. I love everything and have faith in the love that all beings are capable of feeling. Love will conquer all.
It is the advice of this Doktor that you let go of your guilt over what happened and stop taking the anti-depressants. It cannot be changed and you are killing yourself with despair and pills.
Since I love you, I have nothing but concern for your mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being.
Life is worth living and fighting for, so why are you killing yourself with chemicals and guilt?
Get out there and love yourself again. Educate yourself so that you are prepared for when you are put through the real tests of reality.
http://www.uoregon.edu/~sshapiro/ER4YT/FoodLists_TOC.html#Caucasian
http://www.youtube.com/user/ih8fraud
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1gKX9TWRyfs
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eAaQNACwaLw
I am here anytime you need to talk, vent, or just ask a question. I am here for you.
simple i have to say. everyway i look around the world blows up around. everyone i've loved has died. any thought of happyness disipate so i fall and cry. simple words i have to say. Sould it be a siple good by of my days??? Of do you have a dire truth of other ways??
Dearest A hopeless journey,
What a sad poem. I feel your pain inside me because just reading it, I become attuned to you. I feel your loneliness and your exasperation with it all. I feel your need to end the suffering that enslaves you to reality. Your hopelessness causes you to believe there is nothing more for you here, you have no cause. I feel the hopelessness that you believe has taken over your world. I not only feel it within you, I feel it everyday with the people around me. You are not alone.
That is why I have set my quests on helping people understand the possible reasons for these feelings, and overcome them in a positive way.
The reason you are here is to love. Love everything, and when we love things, we cry when we lose them. It is natural, but it does not mean that you have to stop loving things. Loving things is what keeps us going and when you have nothing to love, life is meaningless.
It is the advice of this Doktor that you need to love again. Try something that is interactive with your needs and makes you feel loved in return. There are so many animals behind bars. You could give one or two of them a home. They need someone to love as well.
I do know of a dire truth of other ways.
I pass this information on to you in the hopes that this will give you hope beyond the despair that has consumed your spiritual being. My goal is to help you find that being again, through enlightenment. Then, should you choose to do so, you could help pass on the information to others. In a sense, your purpose would be to spread the love.
After all, we are meant to love each other. Why else would love be one of the most powerful emotions any living being can experience? The human capacity for love is infinite. I love you and I do not even know you personally. I weep when I see anything suffer, and laugh when I see the simple beauty of life. It all comes from my capacity to love and respect for all things living.
Start with these links, and if you want to talk to me, I am here anytime. I will talk about anything you want, I am not bias about anything but the truth. It shall set you free.
Good luck and let me know how you are doing often. Keep in touch with me.
http://www.uoregon.edu/~sshapiro/ER4YT/FoodLists_TOC.html#Caucasian
http://www.youtube.com/user/ih8fraud
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1gKX9TWRyfs
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eAaQNACwaLw
Lately, I've been able to feel other people's energy... I'm not even sure how to describe it. Over the last 3 weeks, I've been able to tell what some people are feeling and even thinking with out even asking or them saying a word. My latest incident occurred just 2 nights ago. I dreamt I was standing in the middle of an earthquake and everything was blacked but except a few green and orange squiggly lines. The next morning, I was watching the news and learned there was an earthquake about 400 miles south of my residence that measured 5.7 Now I know earthquakes happen all the time but am I just tripping myself out or is there a rationale explaination?
Dear Super "Natural" or super crazy?
I have to say Natural. The earth is a big ball of moving energy, surrounded by other moving energies.
You are not crazy. I have predicted earthquakes, floods, and other things. I have had the energy of others pull me completely out of my physical body, with witnesses to the physical side of the event.
I am the only witness to the happenings when I was outside my body, that I know of anyway.
What have you been eating? What herbal meds have you been using? I find that my energy receptor is in overdrive when I have put something that is really good for me into my body.
You are waking up is what is happening here. Your pineal gland receives energy waves and transmits them to your brain for decoding, basically. When you have a pineal gland that is soft and pliable your energy receptors are in full swing. This allows you to pick up on the energy around you, even the ones from the earth itself. when this gland is calcified, it hardens and receives nothing.
Not only that, there is a massive awaking happening all over the globe right now. So you are not the first person to come to me with these questions. Embrace this gift and never ever second guess it, doubt it, or argue with it for any reason. It can save your life if you believe in yourself and the ability you have.
Here is a site for you to start with on researching the abilities of Empaths. We are beings of this world, that makes us one with it. It is the human aspect of our existence that makes us separate from each other and the earth.
Once 8% of the world's population wakes up, there will be a massive waking of awareness to what I have known for almost 3 decades.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Empathy
http://healing.about.com/cs/empathic/a/uc_empathtraits.htm
http://www.beyondintractability.org/essay/empathic_listening/
If you have anymore questions or just want someone to share your stories with, please contact me anytime.
Good luck with your journey of information. Other subjects that I feel will be important to you are:
http://www.uoregon.edu/~sshapiro/ER4YT/FoodLists_TOC.html#Caucasian
http://www.youtube.com/user/ih8fraud
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1gKX9TWRyfs
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eAaQNACwaLw
Just as a starter to expand your knowledge of things.
Until next time, it is the advice of this Doktor that you seek out as much information about these subjects as possible. Visit sites, go to the library, and your public records hall. The truth shall set you free.
Good Luck.
16/F
I was at my boyfriend's house and I heard his father yelling at his mother. He got really loud and then I heard him hitting her. I wasn't 100% sure until she said "Stop! That hurts!"
I haven't talked about it with my boyfriend but I really do not know what to do. I had suspected something was going on but never actually seen/heard it until today.
I have no idea what to do. Please help.
Dear Witnessed an Abusive Relationship,
Sometimes we hear things and think something is gong on, that really is not.
Did you actually SEE you BF's mom being abused?
This is a delicate situation that you have no control over. If you step in, you may be seen as interfering and resented to the point that you are not allowed to see your BF anymore.
On the other hand, if you do nothing, something much worse could happen.
There are two things that you can do:
ONE say nothing, ignore it and pretend you did not hear or see anything. Stop going to his house. If you do not see it, you cannot report it!
TWO Talk to your boyfriend about it. If you want to do something about it, and you have seen the abuse, report it to the police. If you do not want to get the police involved, but want to protect her, send an anonymous letter to the abuser, and make sure he gets it at work.
This letter should let him know that he has been witnessed violating his wife's basic human rights, and that he will be reported to the authorities if he does it ever again.
If he does it again, then call the police and report the violation of human rights. Make sure to press charges if she does not, and request a court of record under the Common Law Jurisdiction. If she does not press charges, he will see it as having power over her, and the abuse will get 10 times worse.
Tread very lightly here. This situation is sticky, as it is every good human's duty to protect life and liberty, regardless of who's it is. You want to protect her, and under natural law, it is the right thing to do. In today's society, legally, it is the wrong thing to do.
I hope that you can solve this situation without losing your boyfriend, or him losing his mom and dad.
Here is a link that I think will help you make informed and educated choices in this and all future matters.
http://users.ugent.be/~frvandun/Texts/Articles/The%20Lawful%20and%20the%20Legal.html
It is the advice of this Doktor that you educate yourself on the difference between legal and lawful. It is also the advice of this Doktor that you be careful when meddling in the affairs of others. It could backfire on you, even though you have the best of intentions.
For the good of your future and others around you, watch this video, and pass on the information to everyone you know.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1gKX9TWRyfs
Good Luck!!
Many people will say the best relationship is one that happens to be your best friend. Not me. I've known my guy for 15 years and we've been 'dating' for almost 8 of those years. Although we don't have kids together, we both have a daughter from a previous relationship. Our relationshp is kinda rocky. He's had unprotected sex with someone else and I took some racy pics for someone else. We both agreed to work on our relationship but I've realized I can't fully trust his words when he says 'I love you' and in turn I am unable to want or even enjoy sex with him. Any advice???
Dear 29 yr Old Female: Take the high road or fight with faith?,
You answered this question for yourself. You did not need to ask advice here.
You stated that "I've realized I can't fully trust his words when he says 'I love you' and in turn I am unable to want or even enjoy sex with him."
Once you cannot trust each other, something changes between you. Staying in the situation is unfair to your daughter and will probably make you miserable in the long run.
I have advice for you, from my sources.
My first source tells me that you are outgrowing a period of contentment. You are no longer content with the situation. Things that were once good are now stale. Change is the only thing that remains stable for you right now. Do not be afraid to change in order to regain your balance.
My second source tells me that you collaborated with integrity, honor and loyalty. You have been met with the opposite from the other party. Continue to act in this manner, even when you are tearing down the world you have created together.
Well, there you have it!!
It is the advice of this Doktor that you should accept change and tear down the life you have created with this person in order to get on with your life!!
Often times people who lie, have a hard time becoming honest people and we have to move on. It is a fact of life that we deal with. You have powerful spirits near you that will help you though this time.
8 years is a long time, I was with the same guy for 10 years, and we had a son together. I was devastated when I found out about his affairs, that is right, more than one. i found about them when he got his cousin pregnant and took everything from me to give to her. Talk about a slap in the face!
I accepted change for a good thing and moved on, granted it was hard at first.
I have been happily married for almost 10 years to a wonderful and loyal man. He has helped me raise my son, and we have a beautiful 6 month daughter to prove our love after 10 years together.
We have achieved this happiness through three mediums: complete honesty, total trust and open communication. We deliberately stopped associating with people who contributed to lying, cheating and any one who brought DRAMA into our lives!!
Happiness is out there. I promise. You may see sadness first, but your happiness will soon gleam like a ray of sunshine leading the way to your rainbow.
I am always here for free Tarot Readings, Dream Interpretations, Palm Readings, and spiritual Guidance anytime you need it.
Take care! Good Luck!!
I am a 22-year-old female college senior and the "black sheep" of my family. I do not believe my family has a good reason to label me the "bad" daughter when I have never done anything my 25-year-old sister (now a stay-at-home mom) has not done before me. My heart is broken over this. I try and try to do well in life, but somehow nothing I do is ever good enough. I make A's and B's in school and am more financially responsible than most people my age. I don't do drugs, and I drink but I don't get drunk. I'm tired of trying to please them when nothing I try is or will ever be good enough to do so. I don't know if I can ever let go of my bitterness toward my family for treating me this way. If it's relevant, I'm the youngest, which I think may have something to do with it. I appreciate any advice you have to offer on the subject. Thanks
Dear How can I Cope with Being a "Black Sheep"?, ]
First of all it is genetically impossible for you to be a black sheep since you are a human. lol
Second, Black sheep is just a label for someone who does not follow the norm. It does not mean that you have broken the law or are evil.
Is that such a bad thing? Do you want to be like everyone else?
Embrace your uniqueness as gift of this life, and shoot for the stars.
I am curious why you mentioned your education in this question though. Is it more relevant that your order of birth?
No matter what you are labeled, or called by anyone, remember this; YOU are in charge of your life, not anyone else. Do not live it according to what others want for you. So go be a Black Sheep, but be a happy, free, Black Sheep.
The path to true freedom starts here!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sebVLGXydTM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pEAjOk_UY9I&feature=related
I am here if ever need me. Good Luck!
I'm doing TaeKwonDo, and I'm pretty happy with everything, but my right leg is super noticeably more stretched out then my left leg, so, how do I make them equal? i stretch out every day, so if someone could please answer me before another belt test, i would be very pleased! thx guys!
Dear How should I stretch right?,
I used to stretch before every run, and it blew my knees out, collapsed my arches, gave me a permanent patella femoral disability.
http://www.medamika.com/soci2/exercise/stretchng.html
Check out that site. There are studies out there that show how stretching can actually be the cause of issues just like yours.
Educate yourself. The internet is a vast source of information.
Good Luck!!
I have been very moody lately.. well more like the last 3/4 months, but it's been occuring frequently now, almost every day. Sometimes I just want to cry because something soo very little happened. Other times it's like when someone says something like a small spark, a huge flame erupts from me & I get all p/oed.. & yet other times, someone'll say one little thing and it sets me off/hits a nerve and I start to ignore them & get in a bad mood for a while! I can't stand this. I'm wondering what pills I could take to settle my mood & to basically make me happy and bubbly 24/7, because I used to be like that! Yeah, I've heard of that Pamprin pill or whatever, but I need one for all the time, not just my period. Please help! thanks
Dear Resulting in Pills??,
I had to answer your question because I hate to hear when someone thinks they can solve their 'moodiness' or 'unhappiness' with a pill.
You are not thinking clearly; and you want to add to that confusion?
Think of your body and brain as a car and its engine. The engine needs clean fuel or it will misfire. When you first buy the car, you can put any grade in the tank, and the engine would run like a brand new baby. But after 10-15 years, maybe even 20-30, depending on the type of car, the engine is unable to process the various types of fuels any longer. In fact, all these years you should have been putting one specific type in the car.
This is what happens to our bodies, and our brains misfire as a result. If you are eating the wrong fuels, your brain is misfiring and causing you problems. This was not a problem for you before, but your body is no longer able to tolerate the incompatible foods you are eating.
Try this for a month and see if it helps level out those moods, and stabilize your thinking. You have already spent 3/4 months in bad moods now.
What do you have to lose?
Lets try something different, shall we?
First, eat only foods that are compatible with your Blood type. This may mean that you have to go to your doctor and get a blood test to figure out what type you are, if you do not know it already. Donating blood is a great way to find out your type for free.
This also means no junk food, and also reading labels all the time. No corn, or corn products like corn syrup, no pork, no tomato or tomato products, and no chicken. The first five signs that you have eaten something that is not good for you are; gas, heartburn, headaches, sleepiness, and mood swings.
Here is a site that will give you some information on the foods that act as medicine for you and foods that act as poison.
http://www.uoregon.edu/~sshapiro/ER4YT/FoodLists_TOC.html
Next, get yourself on a scheduled routine everyday. Break your day into 1 hour slots and keep yourself busy. Leave time for research too. You need to educate yourself daily.
You are angry at something. So upset over something. You may not even know what it is right now. You just know that fundamentally, something is wrong with your life and you cannot identify it at this time.
It is not you, trust me, it is not and never has been you. You are right, something is wrong.
While on your one month experiment, take in your daily news through independent sources. Leave the TV off and do not listen to anything that comes from the major news and media networks!
It is background noise that turns into a weight that bears on your conscience all too easily. The reason you feel that something is wrong, is because there is something wrong. BUT NOT WITH YOU.
Start here and educate yourself.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pEAjOk_UY9I&feature=related
I am here for you anytime you need me.
You need not feel to distant from others. I have taken the pills that were supposed to level out my moods. All of the chemicals failed.
I found happiness in the truth, and I know now that it is not me. It is the system that has been forced on us since birth.
Education and information about the truth will set you free. Smile! :)
Im christian but I was researching islam & they seem to be very similar, and i think islam may seem more true. I read that christians believe that mohammed was a liar about being a messenger, but isn't that what happened to jesus?, didn't people think he was a liar about being a "the son of god" ?? I think that islam may seem clearer & makes more sense. & how can christians say there is three "????'s" in 1 god? I'm starting to think that christians are hipacrits, & now I feel like one & i feel stupid around muslims. i'm really confused. & i bet christians would get mad for me thinking this, and if they do, it just makes them seem even more hipacritical. i think that a lot of christians are in the wrong state of mind. & they don't believe in evolution which is very ignorant because its highly misunderstood, its simple, god created life then life evolved. & the evidence is houses and furniture from old times because you can clearly see that people were tiny back then & have evolved, which thy don't believe
Dear What's the difference & WTF?,
I grew up attending a christian church and have a god fearing father. I spent most of my young life thinking the same things that you are thinking.
Something is not right with this Holy thing. First, I remember thinking that they are spelling Wholly wrong. Yet, since it was the way it is, I just chewed along like everyone else.
About 10 years ago my life went haywire and I ended up with a divorce, debt, and found myself a single mother all of a sudden. I believed that my savior would fix things if I left my faith in his hands. When my husband and I divorced, I thought that it was because my faith was not strong enough. I have always loved Jesus, and I firmly believe in the love that he was trying to spread. I weep any time I am near a picture of him, or when I see him nailed to a cross; or just thinking of him. He was murdered for spreading love, kindness, and the key to true freedom in our earthly heaven.
So after my divorce I joined another form of Christianity, I became Mormon. After reading their doctrines and learning their beliefs, I felt that this was just like the religion I grew up with, only a little different when it came to certain beliefs.
So ten years ago, my search for the truth officially began. I have read hunreds of books from religious texts to historical documents, as well as art history in the western civilization, and many lost civilizations. This is what I have found. ALL religions seemingly, have come from one set of basic beliefs. One religion cracked into two, and then those religions cracked in two, and so on and so on. So thousands of years later you have fractional religious beliefs, separate from each other, and separate from the truth.
WTF? you ask.
What I have found over the last 10 years is the possibility that the Christain religion, and others with the same 'restricted beliefs' are created through manipulating the truth for the sole purpose of enslaving the human race.
I had to see it this way. The bible should not be looked as a spiritual book, but instead a biased historical record of events. History is always written by those in power. Who wrote the bible? Throughout history, many kings have had the bible re-written and somewhere in there, the truth hidden, or scattered so to speak. So now after thousands of years, we have separated beliefs that are all designed to instill the fear of the wrath of 'God' in believers and non-believers.
You seem to be heading on the right track to your own salvation. I Do not let others tell me what to do, I will not tell you what to do. No one has jurisdiction over your, not even the govt. Yet, they make believe that they do and you believe them. That is your belief.
I can only tell you what I have personally done and experienced as a result, and let you decide for yourself what to do.
I Never misplace my faith. My faith is always in myself first, then others. Without faith in yourself, it is nothing more than false hope. Christ's words, and warnings will help you save yourself, you will not be saved by Christ himself, persay. I am a daughter of 'God' just as Christ was a son of God when he lived. I can connect with the Wholly Spirit as easily as he did, and have been known to prophesier through it as well. Everyone can, you just have to learn how to do it.
This is how I did it.
First, I stopped listening to, reading, and watching anything that had to do with information from mainstream media, like CNN, NBC, PBS, and anything wall street. Magazines, newspapers, TV, etc.
Why? My research led me to facts that show 4 companies own all of major media sources in the U.S. and possibly the world. I Do not let them tell me what to believe any more. I simply shut the TV off and have not turned it back on in 8 years.
Second, I get my news from independent sources, like infowars.com, Youtube, and other Independent news sources. These people are not controlled by the PTB and often have the real scoop.
Third, I stopped eating anything that will calcify my pineal gland, otherwise known as the 'third eye'. This gland is an energy receptor.
Eating foods like corn, pork, chicken, con syrup, modified food starch, Natural Flavors, and anything incompatible with your blood type will calcify this gland. When this gland is hard, it receives nothing, no energy, no intuition, and sixth sense.
Fourth, I try to exercise my power to communicate with the Wholly spirit. Talking to myself helps connect me with the Wholly energy, or 'Holy' spirit, it is often called.
Fifth, I educate myself daily. I read about anything and everything, starting with recent news, then special interest I have. This way my mind is open and receiving information. I just pick a topic and start with a basic definition and then read everything associated with it. By doing this, my brain is active and will receive energy easier.
Love everything, good and bad. Everything has the potential to be good, and everything has the potential to be bad. It is my honest opinion that most organized religion was created with good intentions, but used for bad things for too long.
BUT, an opinion is nothing more than a belief, and a belief is nothing more than a mental and spiritual filter. So believe what you want. I always live by this rule; Believe what you will as long as you cherish all that is living.
Start your daily bread (Knowledge) by researching these topics;
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oguCNqCE0Kc
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ptHQu68MdMs
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GtNQy8J6GWM&feature=fvw
I hope the truth sets you free.
Okay, so I want one song. It's called "Goodnight Sweet Girl" by Ghost of the Robot. But the stopped selling the CD years ago and there are a few they're selling on e-bay for $300. It's not on rhapsody or itunes and I only want the one song. Does anyone know of a way to rip music from youtube? Or a way to get the song elsewhere?
Use uTorrent and go to pirate bay dot com, or mini nova dot com and search for the song there. People, even the artists themselves, share their music on these sites.
Many times you will find songs there that are had to find anywhere else.
Good Luck with that!
Okay. I'm trying to get a certificate so i'll be able to get more babysitting jobs. But i dont know where to get the certifacte at. i think i get it at YMCA but im not sure. so could someone write back...please. and thanks
Dear how do I get a certificate? (Babysitting/YMCA?),
After reading your question I went to Google and did a search for the key words 'Babysitting Certification'. I got 442 Thousand results. Here are a couple of sites I think you should look at to get information.
http://www.redcross.org/portal/site/en/menuitem.53fabf6cc033f17a2b1ecfbf43181aa0/?vgnextoid=5ced914124dbe110VgnVCM10000089f0870aRCRD
http://www.wnc.edu/academics/catalog/cfk/1200/
Just copy and paste to your browser. One of these has a search that you can use for your area too, so check it out!
If the YMCA, and these sites do not help you, I am sure you can always take the initiative to take a CPR class at the local fire department. Doing CPR on a baby is much different than CPR on an adult. So make sure your training is focused on infants, and toddlers.
I hope I helped. Good Luck!