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i want to die tonight and need ways to do it, please


Question Posted Friday May 28 2010, 9:32 pm

im nobody and have always been. dont want any pity . i want it done now

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hnstymtrs answered Thursday June 17 2010, 5:37 pm:
Dear "i want to die tonight and need ways to do it, please,"

You think you are nobody therefor you are nobody. It would be more effective for you to go and research ways to kill yourself rather than crying out for help on Advicenators.

Technically you cannot kill yourself, because you are already dead. Physically you still walk around, but spiritually, you are deceased.

To live, we must do things that make us feel alive. We must be a part of something that makes us feel that life is worth living and dying for.

For instance, something worth dying for is definitely something worth living for. What do you believe in that you would die for?

Despair and Misery love company and they will hold onto you as long as you choose to hold onto them.

Here are some examples of subjects that are important to you, me, and everyone else on the planet. Maybe you will find the spirit you have lost within these links. A cause worth dying for is a reason to live and defend that cause.

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I am here to guide you to a reason for living and a reason to love all things living. Not to give you easy ways out, or give you ways to be a coward. That would not be fair to your spiritual being, and I could not in all goodness help you end your life.

It is the advice of this Doktor that you should find a cause worth dying for, and attempt to defend that cause to feel alive. With this action, you will have a new look on things and regain your spirit. I am here when you need me. Good Luck!

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hollyoaks22 answered Saturday June 5 2010, 9:14 pm:
I hope that you're still alive to get this answer. I'm not going to judge whether what you plan on doing is right or wrong because I know nothing about you. What I would say is that there is always a way of finding something good in a terrible, unbearable situation. If you want to die then i doubt you will have had time to ask an advice website for tips on how to do. If actually what you want is to be told that you're a somebody then this is me telling you. I know nothing about you. But I'm sure i could find positives in you. I don't pity you. Why would i pity someone that wants to take their own life? But i think it would be a waste of a life if you did. You can turn this around. Let me know if you need any help. I hope you're okay x

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christina answered Monday May 31 2010, 1:06 am:
Nobody here is going to tell you how to kill yourself. In fact, we're going to do the opposite.

I really think you should call 911. Just tell the operator that you are having suicidal thoughts and they will send someone to you. Chances are you'll be taken to a hospital for an evaluation and they'll keep you there for a while if they deem you unsafe to be in the public or to be alone.

They will give you the help you need. Trust me, I used to feel the way you did, and I kept going even when I didn't want to. My life eventually got better. Everyone has their ups & downs but you need to stick around to really see things through. I promise things will get better for you.

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CandyLove17 answered Saturday May 29 2010, 12:34 pm:
Hi I kno how you feel. I use to think that nothing was worth it anymore but when this one person came into my life he showed me that there is reason to live & that i can mean something to someone. Sometimes i kno that life seem like it isn't worth living but things can & will get better. If you'd like to hear my story just message me maybe my story may help you.

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adviceman49 answered Saturday May 29 2010, 11:47 am:
If you are feeling suicidal at this time call 911 NOW or go to the nearest hospital Emergency Room for help.

Suicide is not the answer to your problem(s). If you have not already done so I would like you to call the National Suicide hot line. There number is: 1-800-273-TALK (8255). They operate 24/7 and are totally free and confidential. They have a network of crisis center around the country they can refer you to for help, probably one right in your home town or close to you. The call takers are trained professionals who are volunteers and are there to help you; so please give them a call, they can and will help you through this.

You do not say what is bothering you to cause you to think of suicide. Whatever it is it CAN BE RECTIFIED or mitigated that I am certain of. Please call the hotline or go to the hospital for help. I know there are people who love you and would miss you if you were to do this.

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NinjaNeer answered Saturday May 29 2010, 11:38 am:
Say what you want, but this is a cry for help.

I've been there. I tried to overdose this last winter, and it was awful. That was the lowest point in my life; even lower than the time I'd spent in a mental institution a few years back.

Killing yourself doesn't solve anything. It hurts everyone around you, even the people you'd least expect. It's a violent act that hurts everyone but you.

If you really want out, be somebody. Make yourself into somebody. Go out there and get the help you need to do so.

Find a doctor ASAP. If you need to, just show up at the hospital and tell them you're suicidal. They will make sure you're safe and they'll get you on the path to recovery. You're depressed. You might have depression, or you might have another issue that needs to be addressed. Either way, it's not a reason to end your life. It can be managed with counselling and/or medication. Would you commit suicide if you were diabetic? No, because it's manageable, and you can live a long, happy life despite having to deal with these issues.

Suicide is not a way out of being a nobody; in fact, it's the fastest way to becoming one. Why not become a somebody in your own eyes instead? Get out there and accomplish things. Do volunteer work; help someone else feel good. Do well in school, or at your job, or at anything! You are somebody. Just be somebody that you can be proud of :)

Nobody here is going to tell you how to kill yourself. We can't do that, and none of us believe that that's a way out.

If you need to talk to someone, you can call a suicide hotline near you (although from personal experience, they tend to be fairly clinical and not very sympathetic), or you can talk to a close friend, a family member, a priest, a doctor, or even me.

Just remember; nobody wants you out of this life, despite how it may feel at times. You are a special person, and you have the right to live a long, happy life. Now make it happen :)

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