okay so my X's name is tommy.. and heres his story
me and tommy went out for umm..2 months and in the beginin of our relationship we had alotta fun!! like we would always laugh and talk and he seemd soo perfect for me! like he was on mah emotional level and we both thought we were in loe with eachother. but then twords the middle of our relationship i started hearing stuff about him likin his X's and callin all these girls and i kept hearing he was doin drugs and he was drinkin and partyin with his boys AND other gurls but everytime i asked him about this he would deny it... so being stupid i beleived him and we moved on ad he was always soo sweet to me! he seemd to be such a good boyfriend! like face to face he was perfect! but hearin about him and all the stuff he "supposidly did" make me think that i would never date a guy who acted like that! so finally after all the tears for like weeks i was like "why should waste my time on someone who.. wont waste their time on me" so i dumpedhim and moved on.. i felt so relieed after....
and then there is Brent on the other hand...me and him dated in the beginnig of the school year last year 2004.. and lasted all the way until feb. i had fun with him.. always flirting and stuff but then twords the end... he started talkin like "i love you baby, youmean so much to me! i wanna b with you foreevr!" and sayin stuf flike that and i think it scared me off because .. i wasnt used to that word love before i neer heard it from a boy before and.. it scared me off... ad plus i still barely knew him before we started dating.. so i think that kinda brought us down fromt he beginnin too... so i brokeup with him in feburary... and started goin out with Tommy.. and then afet gettin my heart broken by tommy it made me realize how much i felt loved and how i was soo happy with Brent so i told him and we started to go back out in september of this year 2005.. and well all the things that used to bug me about him wen we used to go out are startin to bug me again..
and now im startin to have these dreams about tommy again... and im scared because i really love brent and i dont wanna hurt him again! ... by takin a risk! that prolly wont even work out! but im always jelous when i see tommy with other gurls at school.. and i dunn how to explain it! but i still am attrcted to him adn we talk alot more now and he seems soo sweet but then i think about alll the crap he put me through.. so .. yea i dunno i gues my question is.. these dreams and jelous thouhts and stuff are they sumthin i should like take seriously??
im really sorry this was sooooo long! i dont mean ta takeup all your time.. but you asked for more info! hahah and i gave you alot! haha so hopefully you can help! thanks
oxoxoxo
yes, you should most definitly take this seriously,this is very intersting actually,i would get some of your friends to be like little spys or something and help you look into these guys backgrounds, 1 more ?? for you, do you have a b/f now? tell me more about him so i can help a bit further, i give better advice with the more i know :) ^_^
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This might sound a little whack, but I've been having these mad dreams. Let me explain...One night, I was working on myspace, and I saw this really cute guy that just "popped up". I was like, OMG! HE'S GORGEOUS! And that night, I had this dream where I was in the woods and this guy came up behind me, and it just just really romantic, and he surprised me by taking me to a water fall and eating lunch. Then we kissed behind it, and just...hung out. Then we starred into the sky and crap. Well, when I woke up, I saw this friend request from him, so I looked at his profile...and in his WHO I WANT TO MEET section, THAT'S WHAT WAS THERE. MY LITTLE FANTASY/DREAM. Almost exactly like it...and I got a little freaked out. I keep having dreams about ppl I don't know, and then I end up meeting them or tlaking to them...I don't know how anyone could help me, but it would ROCK if someone could.
OH WOW!! HE'S HE ONE FOR YOU!!
It sounds as if this guy is the one for you!! , talk to him quick!! meet or do something!!, e mail me, let me know how this works out, i'm very interested,!!, i always have these dreams too, not yours of course, but dreams that i have sometimes come true, i'm sure i sound crazy but oh well~! , and they are sometimes referred to as premenitions, you shoul meditate actually, it helps you have these premintions freely, just be prepared for some major de ja' vu, if you decide to get in touch with this
Jasmine
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Hi. I like this girl alot and she wont realize how much we are meant to be. Yes i am only in highschool but i know she is right. I told her several times but she just keeps saying not now or i cant see you as more. I need to know how i can tell her that we are meant to be. Please help.
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just by the way it sounded like you typed this, i can tell the connection between you too, even if that sounds crazy, just do something to show her you care, flirt, say happy birthday, or happy w/e holiday it is, get her a rose, a card , a ring, put it in her locker, and say it is from her secret admirer, without stlking her, just tlk to her as much as possible, and if you are good at it or not, flirt, she'll notice, if she dont her friends will and they will bring it to her attention, hope i could help, e mail me and let me know how everything works out if you would like,
Jasmine,
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I have this friend. And we spent the whole summer together being best friends. We are both really nice and fun when we are not mean to each other. Sometimes we get in these huge fights but the next day she wants to be my friend! What do i do?!
Ill rate 5's for good answers!
wow, the only thing i can say, and i have been through this too actually, is that sometimes it only gets worse, the fighting just keeps getting deeper and harder to get out of, it hurts both of you to have a love/hate realationship, because when you are fighting, you know she is not there for you at the time, i would say try to meet some new people, but don't kiss up to this girl just to try to keep her happy and not mad at you, being 2nd is no fun, Feel free to e mail me with more about this if you would like, i would like to look in to this further to help you out more,
Jasmine,
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hey, i have this friend and she is like really into her boyfriend and all but she has this friend that shes really close to. she told him she would call him but now shes having some second thoughts. What should she do? Her and her friend are literally like 3 steps away from dating. If her bf wasnt there of course. But still.
- Confused
wow, i am going through the same thing exactly!!, and actually i'm having a really hard time with this one,she , no matter how much it hurts, has to pick one or the other, it's going to hurt one guy though, see if her boyfriend really does love her, the question is is it love? or is it a little crush??, i would like to hear about this some more, feel free to e mail me
Jasmine,
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okay so theres this boy that ive been datin for wel over 6 motnhs and i really like him alot.. and well latley theres little things that are startin to annoy me like just little things that get to you after being with a person for a long time.. and wel ive also been having dreams about my X and its starting to make me remember all the times we had.. and how we had alotta fun together and i still and attracted to him but i dont wanna leave my boyfriend now because i dont think that my X will love me as much as my boyfriend now does.. and i dont wanna leave something that might be a really good thing..
please help thanks
i'm going through the same thing right now, and most definitly, get your ducks in a row, who do you love more???, it sounds as if you and ur x has been through more together and this has made your realationship stronger, as to where you and your boyfriend have not, i would like to hear more about this, go to my coulumn and e mail me if you would like ^_^
Jasmine,
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Well I have 2 best friends and we all use to goto middle school together until we got to high school cause all 3 of us goto different high schools. Well they made these plans leaving me out and I barly see them am I in the wrong to be mad cause I don't see them and on top of that they leave me out.should i be mad or am i wrong? I think one of them is mad because I told her that her ex and I have been talking alot lately and i think I like him. But i would never let a boy in between my frienships so am i wrong to be mad.
thanks for anyone who answers!
wow, i can see how this would turn out, only go out with this guy if you think that you truly love him and that he is the one, but yes you are part right, don't let a boy get in between you and your friends, but i don't think your friends should be leaving you out like this, you should tlk to them about it, maybe they could just be mad at you, who knows, i would like to help you further with this, you should go to my coulumn and e mail me, i would like to hear how everything turns out,
Jasmine,
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Okay, I know this might seem weird, but it makes sense to me.
Everyone in my family is doing extremely well with their financial needs. We all live pretty comfortably. But, every family has suffered to get where they are.
And I mean EVERY single family.
My aunt from my mom's side, and her family started getting rich about 15 years ago. Once they started racking in all the money, she was diagnosed with kidney cancer. She might not live for another year.
My Uncle from my mom's side always owned his own auto repair business and has always been making an above average salary. But, a few months ago he decided to open another shop across town, since his original one was doing so good. Well, for the past 6 months he's been in the hospital getting treatment for his blood cancer.
On my dad's side, my uncle also opened his own business and has been making good money. His wife and him now can't have any more children. The past 4 times she's been pregnant, she's had a miscarriage.
The list certainly goes on.
It seems that every time something happens to someone in my family, it's after they start making more money.
Well, my dad owns a law firm and he just closed a 15 million dollar case. We were all excited until a few days ago when he ended up in the hospital. My dad never gets sick and hasn't been to the doctor in over 20 years. But about a week after the closed his case, it started. We first thought it was the flu so we didn't worry. But one night he woke up with a sharp pain in his side (or stomach I'm not sure) and we had to rush him to the hospital. They told us if we waited even 30 more mins. he would have been dead. His gallbladder would have exploded.
Now I don't know what to believe because it all seems so crazy. But it makes sense. It's gotten me so scared that I don't want to make much money when I get older. I know it sounds weird but what do you guys think of this?
wow, this really does sound like some bad luck, but this sounds stupid, but maybe, it has to do with your family's feeling towards all this wealth, sometimes, if you get too greedy,when you get that kind of money , it's gods little way of showing you where that money really came from, it's a blessing, so don't let it get to your head, so go ahead and think about his, you are welcome to go to my coulmn and e mail me about this if you would like, or anything else,
Jasmine,
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Me: bye baby io lkove you
Her: later
Me: ...?
Her: bye?
Me: i said i love yiou
Her): you too
Me: :-\
Is this girl still into me? Is she giving up on me or what?
I need to know because my heart can't take it anymore
oh, wow, i see where this is going, she either was having a bad day, (that happens girls can get mad ,stay mad and take it out on anyone,), or maybe she could have been mad at you, have you done anything to upset her maybe?? or maybe, unforchently she could be losing intrest, how long has it been you two going out?, if you want to e mail me with more details go to my column and e mail me, i would like to help you on this
Jasmine,
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I'm trying to get over this one guy that I used to really like, but whenever I try to move on to someone different he keeps on becoming more appealing to me. As if he wont let me forget about him. Should I confront him about how I feel or continue to look for someone new?
I would most certainly tell him about how you feel, most of the time guys feel the same way but are too shy to say so, just try to bring it up in a general conversation, try to get him to talk about dating or one of his x's if he has one, then say you know who i like?? and carry on from there , I hope i could help you out with this! I hope everything works out with you!! good luck!!
Jasmine,
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My ex and I broke up a little while ago. It was my decision. It was mostly because he lives a while away and I only get to see him on weekends. Well a fiew days ago this kid asked me out.. it was really un expected and I didnt know what to say so I just said yes. I like my boyfriend right now and it feels good to have someone hold me every day, but i feel like my ex is THE one for me. And I think I love him. Id feel bad if i broke up with my bf for my ex cause he just asked me out and it would be really weird cause he is in my class... what should I do?
simply follow your heart, if you truly feel that he is the one for you, break up with your b/f now and get 2gther with ur x again, because over time your realationship with him is sliping away hope i could help!!
Jasmine,
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I like my best friend more than a friend but don't wanna ruin our friendship. He likes me back tto. What should i do? Risk it or play it safe?
If he likes you too, it's not realy a risk, but only go out if you are both willing to take that step together!!, hope everything works out with you 2!!
Jasmine,
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13/f
is making out for your first kiss wrong? i got my first kiss from my ex when i was 12 yrs. old, but i still know how perfect it felt. i was just wondering if it's wrong to make out as your first kiss. is it?
of course it is not wrong, a kiss just shows your love for another, but if you kiss who you do not love, just to be kissing someone, then i think that is a little over the top, because then , when you meet the one you marry, when you kiss him it feels as if it means nothing , hope i could help, and im not judgeing you, just giving my opinion, ^_^, happy kissing :)
Jasmine,
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Is it possible to find the "one" when you're only 14? I have been thinking about this alot. I have this boyfriend, he is the best guy in the world. He doens't pressure me to do anything. We have been dating for 3 weeks and he hasn't pressured me to do anything. Just yesterday it took him the whole football game to put his arm around me, and it wasn't even fully. He hasn't even kissed me yet. Personally, I love this. I don't like feeling pressured. He texts me and or calls me everyday. I like him so much. I don't know if I love him though. But that isn't really my question. My question is, should I be looking for "the one" right now? I know it is a really small chance that I will find the one so early. I am only a freshman and I can see this relationship is going to last a long time, but the next 3 years of high school? Is it possible that we can stay together for the next 3 years?
Good question, I think no matter what age you are you can find the one,even my teacher found someone at age 15 and she is now happily married to him!,they are now in their 40's , and yes, if your conestion is strong and you both work at it together, it will last, hope i could help you out!! ^_^ good luck!
Jasmine,
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What does a girl need to do to get a guys attention to like her and stuff? are there anythings special? just a few pointers would be great. im a freshman in highschool and i like this guy but i cant seem to get his attention or at least he doesnt look very interested...
ok, don't just be show offy, and act natural , i definitly think you should flirt, but i wouldnt over do it or anything, but don't change yourself just to get his attention, don't glam up to get him to notice you looks aren't everything, but i think it is defintily ok to look major cute,hook em' with looks, keep em' with your smile and sparkling personality
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i'm a really dark brunette.
and i've been considering going blonde
yes or no?
and if i did get it done,
they'd be able to dye my eyebrows too right?
oh and is it true that if you have dark hair
you're eyebrows shld be atleast one shade lighter than you're hair color?
thanks, i rate.
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I would ask your friends to see how they think you would look, someone who would be honest, like maybe if you have one , no offense if you don't , your boyfriend, or a guy who likes you, blonde is in, but it does turn funny colors if u leave cholorine in it too long, from the pool, and no i don't reccomend dying your eyebrows a shade lighter, i would o same color so it looks more natural
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i have these little red bumps on some parts of mt lips.i don't know what they are. i also have chapped lips, so i don't know if its from the same thing, but they stinq.do you think it's from the chapstick i'm usinq? it's not very good quality and it's old.
thanks
yep, it's definitly your chapstick, try to get a new kind, oh and if you are wearing lipstick or gloss this causes the little red bumps
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Well I'm 16 and female.
Well I know that it is somewhat expected that siblings will be jealous of each other but how long is it supposed to last? I have a sister who is slightly less than 2 years younger than me and I have been jealous of her ever since she could walk. She is always the pretty one, the athletic one, the funny one, the outgoing one. She even got a boyfriend before I did. My sister and I are basically complete opposites and we don't get along. I've always thought she was perfect and I was nothing. She always gets asked to dance at school dances while I sit in the corner and cry. Maybe I'm just a bit too emotional. My mom says that in many ways I'm better than my lil sister but I don't believe it. Is there any way for me to stop being jealous of my sister?
wow, this is a bit tricky, i can understand how you can feel this way, i also am not athletic, and have not been to so many dances, but don't compare yourself, your sister could be jelous of you too actualy,and yes it is defintily a sibling thing, later down the road you will see that you and your sister aren't as different as you may have thought, you'll need her later down the road in life, so i would let your sister have her life and let you have yours, later on in life you'll see how it all comes together, hope i could help you!!
Jasmine,
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My brother's birthday is coming up next week he is turning 24 and i have no clue what to get him. He doesnt play video games and he doesn't like band tee-shirts. It can cost no higher then $30. If anyone has any helpful suggestions it would be very helpful.
lol, this ^_^ is just a little happy face with it's eyes closed, hope ur brother has a good b day!!!
Jasmine,
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My gramma just died a week ago, and my parents just told me yesterday that they are getting a divorce. All of this just seems like too much for me to handle. I have incredible faith in God .. so I pray to him ... but sometimes that doesnt seem like enough? How can I deal with this? I dont really wanna talk to my friends about it ... cus all their parents are still 2gether, what should i do?
wow, it does seem like your going through alot right now, but i'm a christain too, and also have or at least try to have faith in god,and i understand it does'nt feel like enough sometimes, but i assure you god is always there with you!!, and my parents are also divorced, but it is actually not as bad as people make it sound,but i wont lie it is a bit hard to chose who you are going to spend your holidays with every year, and i would actually talk to your friends about it, and see their spin on it, but don't stress yourself out too much about it, I hope i could help you out even if it's just a little bit, and i'm always here if you have more ??? about anything ^_^
Jasmine,
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