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Is it possible to find the "one" when you're only 14? I have been thinking about this alot. I have this boyfriend, he is the best guy in the world. He doens't pressure me to do anything. We have been dating for 3 weeks and he hasn't pressured me to do anything. Just yesterday it took him the whole football game to put his arm around me, and it wasn't even fully. He hasn't even kissed me yet. Personally, I love this. I don't like feeling pressured. He texts me and or calls me everyday. I like him so much. I don't know if I love him though. But that isn't really my question. My question is, should I be looking for "the one" right now? I know it is a really small chance that I will find the one so early. I am only a freshman and I can see this relationship is going to last a long time, but the next 3 years of high school? Is it possible that we can stay together for the next 3 years?
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I think you should stay with that guy for as long as you can and as long as you want. If it works out amybe he is. Personally, i wouldn't find "the one"at 14, but thats me! You live your life how you think it is right.
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Anything is possible dear. My advice to you would be to simply follow your heart. Yea its possible to find the one at your current age. Any age is possible. I know of many couples married today that meant freshman or sophomore year. However I am a 10th grader myself and I have a bf of 5 months now and I know how you feel about finding the one..I use to never believe it.Yet now its as if I have found mine and he feels the same way. Talk to your bf and see how he feels only then wil you know about the one or even close to him.
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Well of course it's possible to last 3 years or more =] If you love eachother enough and want to be together enough, of course =] I don't know if you should be looking for the "one" at 14, seems a little young.. but then again you never know when the "one" will come. He can come at anytime, any age. And he could come at 14. You never know. I think I found my one =D Anyways, not about me. Well it's alright to know if you don't love him yet.. you've only been dating 3 weeks. That's not alot of time to determine if your in love with him yet or not. Just sooner of later one day you'll just be like," Wow.. I really really care about this guy and I really love him". =] I wish the best of luck to you both and hope you last very very long <3 I hope I helped.
Love,
MELii
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Good question, I think no matter what age you are you can find the one,even my teacher found someone at age 15 and she is now happily married to him!,they are now in their 40's , and yes, if your conestion is strong and you both work at it together, it will last, hope i could help you out!! ^_^ good luck!
Jasmine,
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Now some people will tell you that it doesn't work like this ever, but they're wrong. Someone I know was completely head over heals for this guy at the age of 15. Of course it wasn't always sunshine and daisies but they got through it. It's funny because they're both teachers at my school now and they're married! Technically 'The One' can come at any age, but just because you seemed to have found 'The One' right now. Doesn't mean you aren't going to be 'The One' for somebody else in the long run. Keep your knight in shining armor as long as you can is my opinion.
-Iris
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I guess it is possible. Is this your first serious relationship? If so, it's normal to feel like that. Even if it isnt, its totally normal.
You are 14, you dont need to be looking for <b>the one</b> you have your whole life to do that! Just because he may not be the one doesnt mean you cant date him. To find your Prince Charming, you have to kiss a lot of frogs!
You may be able to last though high school, high school sweethearts get married all the time! You've only been dating for 3 weeks, just let it take its course. Relax, have fun, and he sounds like a great guy.
If you need anything else, let me know.
xoxo
ali
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When i was 14 i felt the same way..we were inseperable and wonderful together..we lasted for 6 months. you see, im not going to stomp down your hopes that this will last a very long time..it very well could last all of high school. i have a friend or 2 whose parents were high school sweathearts. you shouldnt close doors at this young of an age..your going to meet so0o many more people...people change, things change..but im not saying you two wont last..im not saying anything..you just dont know..its possible, but you shouldnt be making wedding plans lol. What im saying is enjoy this relationship..it may last 6 months, high school, 6 years,a lifetme..you just wont know. dont worry about the end because this is just the beginning :)
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