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Q: I love someone very much. Everytime I see him I feel like I can fly. But he has a crush on my best friend. But she doesnt like him that way. I love him with all my heart. How can I let him know how I feel? I'm afraid if he doesn't feel the same way I'll lose our friendship...
First, I think maybe you should sit down and have a talk with him. You shouldn't lose your friendship when all you're doing is being honest. Get what i'm saying? YOu can't help but feel more for him. Tell him how you feel. Maybe he feels the same but also feels he is going to lose your friendship. Life is about taking chances its time to take a chance.

Q: My Mom:
I ask her if I could dye my hair maybe 2 months ago, and she said talk to me about it later, so acouple days Ago I asked her...
Me- So is it a yes or no to dying my hair?
Mmom- Im going to get my hair cut soon so ask my hairdresser about it..
Me- Why??
Mmom- because she knows how to do it
Me- But ur my mom and IM asking you, so if she said no i couldnt?
mmom- YES
me- WHY? its my hair! and she isnt my mom, she isnt even related to me
mom- Dont ask me right now
(I run into my room *steaming with anger*

My moms BF: I went in my moms room just to say hi, and he was watching fucking porno clip.. and he was all like CANT DO ANYTHING WITH THESE KIDS AROUND.. And my mom was liek what BRITTANy, get out.. and I was like fine, god I just wante dot say hi.. and I slammed their door and said maybe you should keep the door lcoed.. cuz the door was wide opened! He threw a tiny box at me while I was leaving..

Sometimes I like him and sometimes I dont.

My life is all screwed up! Well witht he relationship of my family anyways...
My Mom always rags on me.. and we live with her bf so if I told her I didnt liek him at all she wouldnt do anything cuz shes happy.. but shes a b*t** to me. I never spend time with her...
Im always in my crappy room, I wish It wasnt so purple, I didnt get to choose the color, I want it black and peaceful!!

And the kids at school make it worse, always making fun of me, I sit alone at lunch most of the time... People stare, but they dont care..
They just dont care, I have like 3 friends at school, not really, cuz if they were my friends they would sit with me..

WHY IS MY LIFE SO FUCKED UP!??!! what should I do?

Im sick of this

IM the same person who wrote about This Kid I reaaallly love and I wrote his name on my hand.. Its under love if u havent read it yet...

And I cant fall asleep and she always tells me go to bed, and I cant

err whats wrong with me, Why am I even here?
You're here because god wants you here. God had a plan for you I promise. He just wants to test you thats all. . Sooner or later you will leave the house and your mom is going to regret ever treating you the way she does. She loves you but she has a hard way showing it. She probably is putting her boyfriend before you becasue she wants someone to love her. Everyone wants someone to love. Just talk to you mom about they way you're feeling and who knows it might make it better. TALK ABOUT IT. Don't hold anything in ok hun? You're a great person or you wouldn't be asking for help. I was the same way you use to be. But i just hung out with my friends. That way you don't have to be home all the time in the drama. Just don't do anything you might regret ok?
Bye hun,

Q: Has anybody ever met a famous person...and if so, who?
Just wondering (hehe)
yea my friend (and almost boyfriend at one time) is in a band. hes famous in germany. not here in the usa so u probably dont know him.

Q: my auntie died 2 years ago of cancer and i grew to know just as she was dieing and every time i see things of hers or i photo of her i start crying because i reminds me of the day she died i saw her dead on the bed i did not know she died and i walked into the room and everyone else was there please help how can i get the picture out of my head i hate the picture please help me
wow...thats harsh. my great grandma died like last year and i still think about her. but yours is worse. im not excatly sure how to get it out of your head. just think about the good times with her or think about something else everytime you start to think about her.

hope this helps,
carrie

Q: Ever since I was little I couldn't talk to people I didn't know. When I became older, I started having the same problem with girls. I had a few girlfriends early in high school, but they asked me. They weren't really my type either. They always wanted to party and do drugs. I didn't. I guess that I am the last of a dying breed. My freshman dance was 2 years ago and I didn't even think about going because I was to shy to ask anyone. I always use the excuse that I have a rejection phobia. I am the person that you see at a party that is hanging out with with his friends because no one likes talks either. I can't just go up to a girl and say, hey do you want to go and see a movie this weekend or something. I used to be fat through elementary school and 7 and 8 grade. Then I went to the gym and I went from 250lbs to 180lbs. I am 6'1 so this weight is better. Even though I look better I still don't have the courage to talk to girls. I always think that if I ask them, after they turn me down that they will go off and blab to their friends and make fun of me. I have asked a couple of girls out and they say that they like me as a friend or that they don't have time for a boyfriend and then a couple days later someone else asks them out and they say yes. This year the prom is fast approaching and I didn't ask anyone. Someone tell me how to get over this. I am 17. I don't play sports, maybe thats why. Girls want sports guys. And I don't hang out with the popular crowd because they are too fake. Help.
wish i could help but i am kinda in that situation myself. sorry. i would say that you should get to be friends with a girl first if you can and then find out at some point in time if she likes you. then ask her out. obviously someone you can talk to.

Q: Theres this kid in my school I got to know him and I really like him alot... I mean ALOT, and he talks to me, but we are usually in a group, or he looks at me.. and I like him so much AHHH!
Or he has other people talk to me.. I dont know maybe hes shy? But I reeeally like him, he asked where I got my bracelets lol.. And he said thats where he got his too... Well I duno why doesnt he talk to me face to face.. I think he likes me, but I like him alot too.. and I duno...
so flirt with him and get him to ask you out. or ask him out! lol

Q: My hair looks good when I first wash and dry it, but over the course of the day it just goes really flat and looses all its sexy waviness and body. I've tried switching shampoos, using mouse or gel, all sorts of things, but nothing seems to work. What's the trick here?
mine does that 2. i hate it! i wish i knew how to fix it. sry thats not very helpfull lol

Q: why do guys tease girls alot even though there good mates and respects each other and why does he jokes alot and why does he always winks at you and says hello u ? in an akward way!and why does he say its like if i talk to u its like havin a cup of tea? i mean wat does this mean and if i say something he goes red and laughs really funny way but in a good way i think and he says tht i am soooo nice why or how comes?
please reply bck
OMG u cant tell? he sooo has it in 4 u girl! he likes you! and hes funny...which is all the more awsome!

Q: Has anyone seen (or written) a tutorial about making these? I'd really like to do them but I don't understand how they work. What makes them so detailed while being so tiny? Do they just make a regular graphic and then zoom in? I don't think that would work.

Thanks. :)
no but that would be a cool thing 2 find out about

Q: i am a single parent of three children claiming income support, i want my partner to move in but im not sure how to go about claiming together, do i contact my d.s.s office or claim tax credits first and will we be better off
thanks
no idea i dont do taxes or whatever lol

Q: I went to this party and I'm 15 and I drank but I only had one beer and than I woke up the next morning in my bed. After that for the next couple of weeks I got sick daily, I started to get worried and had my friend buy a pregnancy test for me and it turned out that I was pregnant. I don't know how that's possible because I'm a virgin. But I can't remember what happened that night at the party. I don't know what to tell my parents.
~Pregnant?~
i bet you had more than one drink. or someone put something in your drink and then took advantage of you. or the one drink was to strong. and your obviously not a virgin anymore.

Q: i find myself always in the wrong, adn my finace never hears me out and makes me feel so horrible, i dontfeel like mysefl and if i cry its wrong
leave him! hes not worth your time...it sounds like hes treating you like shit. you dont deserve that.

Q: i have known my best friend since we where babys and she waned me to move in with her and i was going to but then she startd saying i was knicking off her and been jelouse of me because she likes this lad that i like but he does not like her he likes me and we are seeing each other i know nothing will happen between them because she is 15 an he is 20 every time i go see him she is there holding his hand and flirting how can i tell her how i feel and belive me that i have not taken any thing HELP!!
she needs 2 realize that he is 5 years older than her. shes only 15. im only 13 and i know that. if you and him are dating then she needs to back off. she shouldnt think that you are taking stuff from her. she should trust you more than that. you need to tell her off at least once if she keeps this up. or just talk to her about it that way she doesnt get mad.

Q: my most recent ex boyfriend broke up with me this saturday. which is also the day i was supposed to go over to his house and hang out with his sister. he told her he didnt have feelings for me anymore, but, he ketp smiling at me. and looking and starting at me when he thought i wasnt looking. his flirting and him just being himself are kinda the same. hes the pick on beat up kinda flirt and that way as himself so i cant tell if he likes me again. im to shy to just ask him. what should i do? his sister said to kiss him and see what his reaction is but im afraid he will pull back before i even get to his lips and then i will look like an idiot. by the way. i am 13 and a female.
hey thats my question lol. hmmm i wonder if i can give myself advice...
well, if you still like him then i would flirt back with him and see if that makes him like you again. who knows. maybe he will ask you back out. if he doesnt have feelings for you and hes just being himself then i wouldnt worry about it. move on. if you can find anyone else.

Q: I have a friend, let's call her *Marie. Well Marie told me today that she got fingered by her cousin, who's sixteen. She said she didn't want to do it but he just kind of laid on top of her and did it. She was going to call for her other cousin who would've stopped it, but she said he wouldn't have come because he thought they were fooling around and didn't want to disturb them.

She just told him to quit and he wouldn't, so I'm guessing it's 'finger rape', if there is such a thing.

Well now she said she had dark stuff in her panties. I think she said black fuzzy stuff. Like discharge. She said she still hurts from the encounter and I don't know how long ago it was. She said she REALLY wants to go see a doctor but she doesn't know how to go about it. Her parents are the strict kind, so if you told them you even kissed somebody they would have a heart attack. I'm asking for her because I am very worried and I have no clue what could be going on with her.

Thanks for helping.
her parents need to know about this. have your parents take her to the doctors or something if you can but be sure they dont tell her parents yet. wait untill you find out what is wrong with her then she should tell her parents. if she cant tell them then maybe you should or your parents can. i hope this helps!

Q: is there a web-site where i can do some kind of test to get to know what I`m good for? Or for what kind of work I could be good for?

I have an idea of what i would like to study, Is there a site where i can search diferents carriers and get to know what are the trade of the job?
im not sure. i havnt really looked into that. if someone does find out can you let me know. please and thank you

Q: I'm really confused at the moment. I have this friend. We have been friends for about 8 months. But since January me and him have become really close. I have had loads of friends that are guys but I am his first friend whose a girl. We are always hanging round in college together. People seem to be getting the wrong idea. Anyway a few days ago we were in some real quiet place and he said he was confused to whether he liked me in that way or not. So he tried to kiss me. I didn’t want to because I thought it might change our friendship. I thought it might ruin it. In the end we kissed. It didn’t change anything. I still don't feel for him in that way and he doesn’t feel for me in that way. But then yesterday we kinda kissed again. I don't know what to do. We don’t like eachother in that way so why do we keep doing this. I feel bad afterwards but we aren't hurting anyone. He hasn’t got a girlfriend and I haven’t got a boyfriend. Is this wrong?
no no no its not wrong. this is acctually a tough question. maybe you do like each other in that way a little but you are both fighting it back.

Q: Most my friends have seemed to not care about me anymore. They all just care about other friends now, and never have time to even just say "hello" to me, but they have time to spend time with other people for hours on end. I feel so betrayed, these people that i called friends just don't seem to care anymore, I hardly ever talk to them anymore, when when i attempt to, i get responses of "uhuh" or any other word related. What can i do to get them to actually notice me? =( please help!
get new friends. they arent worth your time if they are gonna treat you like that.

Q: i have this emense pain the right side of my body it goes all the way down to my leg iv started having pain under my arms front and back of neck it goes up to my head somtimes my left side of my head and face goes numb,i have a lot of raw nerves threw out my body which is very painfull but my whole body seems to shake and tremble ive got terible tremors all the time,i keep having tremors in my chest it feels like pulling and tugging of musclemy throat pulsates all the time,and when i put my head down i can feel a pulsating in my head in fact my whole pulsates i dont know what this could be please help
go to the doctors and get that checked out right away. that sounds like it could be very serious.

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godslildevil777
I like to help people and God knows I need help all the time lol so I found this site and I love it!

I like hanging out with friends, but I spend most the time with my boyfriend Jasper. In like, a week, it'll be 6 months! I love that boy!

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