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my auntie
my auntie died 2 years ago of cancer and i grew to know just as she was dieing and every time i see things of hers or i photo of her i start crying because i reminds me of the day she died i saw her dead on the bed i did not know she died and i walked into the room and everyone else was there please help how can i get the picture out of my head i hate the picture please help me
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Pray...about her. About things that bother you. Think about things you love, and memories with your auntie. Not many people actually witness one of their loved ones dead...but it's okay. Just think of heaven...talk to her in your prayers...it's possible.
~GL~
*hug*
~*!*~GeSsYkA~*!*~
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I'm so sorry for your loss! Try and concertrate on a happier experiance you had with her. Did you ever go out somewhere, just the two of you, and had an awesome time? Try and think of happy moments like those, and soon those thoughts will be filling your head instead.
But remember, it's alright to cry!
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wow...thats harsh. my great grandma died like last year and i still think about her. but yours is worse. im not excatly sure how to get it out of your head. just think about the good times with her or think about something else everytime you start to think about her.
hope this helps,
carrie
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Its good to cry, dont ever forget her..
But if you hate always crying try to think of the happy times, and burst it out of your mind with some funny thigns your frined said or think of happy times!!
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You need to substitute a different image in your head. Pick something more pleasant and practice it until you're less sensitive to it. If the impulse is to pick up a photo each time you pass it,go the other way. Put memos away and replace them with other things until some time has passed. We need to have healthy "substitutions" to go to to help change thoughts and patterns. Sounds like you knew her only a short time and under sad circumstances,and we don't want this sadnes to color your life now or forever. And remember,its OK to talk about it-maybe with your parents or a brother or sister. No sense in pretending to others that you're Ok with this or ANYTHING else if you're not. Maybe you could talk about some good memories of your aunt-and it will make everyone feel better. Or,if need be, a counselor since this has been a problem for you for a couple of years already. Make the move to heal! But try not to hang in the past-the past is a place to visit and reflect upon from time to time but NOT a place to live.-Insight2020(formerly tommytony)
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I ALSO SAW MY NAN WHEN SHE DIED ITS VERY UPSETTING I KNOW THE PICTURE WILL FADE ,TRY GETTING SOME NICE PICTURES OF YOUR AUNTIE TO LOOK AT WHEN SHE WAS AT HER PRIME, AND WHEN YOU FEEL LIKE IT LOOK ATY THEM,TRY GOING TO SEE A GREIVE COUNCELOR THER FOR ALL AGES GO TO YOUR DR WHO WILL CHECK ONE OUT FOR YOU .GOOD LUCK
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