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i have this friend. shes a really good friend of mine. we got on really well. but about a year ago she started to show her true colours. everything i said i liked she said she hated, but then about 2 wks later she would say she liked it having forgotten she said she hated it. ive found she started to copy me aswell. she started to take my friends away. she can be really nice....but she has mood swings. she likes to critisise a lot. she can become very bitchy when she doesnt get her own way. she likes to take control and tells me she hates it when others take control. she seems to contradict everything.
i think that our friendship is deteriorating. i dont want it to. what do i do? i dont want to hurt her feelings? shall i say anything? i feel trapped.
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I don't think you need that kind of "friend" but if you do, just talk to her. if she still has a mood swing, stop it. she's just not worth it.
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I think you need to tell her how you feel. She needs to understand. If you really want to save your friendship then thats what you should do.
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i know what you are going through,belive me! if i were you, i would talk to her and bring all the things shes been doing to hr attention and let her know exactly how you feel. but also let her know you still want her friendship but things need to improve. if eventually you donot see a better friendship from this girl, maybe there wasnt a true friendship in the first place.
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It sounds like you 2 were never really friends. she sounds like she thinks of you as her idol and is trying to "become" you. she at first said she hated what you like possibly because she didn't want you to realize this. however, its very obvious now that she does want to "be" you. talk to her. tell her that you like her no matter who she acts like. but for her to be your friend, she needs to be herself.
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