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Heyy my names Jessica, but most people call me Jess. Im 17 and its my senior year! I love to have fun. I'm always laughing, mainly at myself. When i first meet people i tend to be shy and i hate it, but once you know me you realize how outgoing and crazy i am. I don't swear cause i don't find a reason to. I hate crying, so i never do. I love watching movies. I listen to music everyday. My iPod is always with me. My friends and family mean everything to me.

Ive been on this site for three years now and im in love. I like to give people my advice. I can relate to a lot of things because i've been threw a lot of things in my life. Feel free to drop anything my my inbox or you can e-mail me.

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So lately my ex and I have been talking a lot, and I like him again. Some of the things he does, seem like he is flirting. He mocks me in a playful way, and if i don't call or talk to him for awhile, he's always the one to call me first. The thing that makes me believe that he doesn't like me is, he doesn't care about anything, his attitude is so like whatever. And he's very boring at times. But there's this one thing he says, and i told him it was cute, and now he always does it, so I feel like he does it because he knows I think it's cute. Is he flirting or not?

Yea he definitely seems like hes flirting. Maybe you should give it another try. Everyone deserves a second chance. Maybe sometimes it seems like he doesn't care about you because he thinks you don't like him like that so he kinda holds back his feelings. Be flirtty back and see what happens.

Jess

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since you need to register before you see anyone's page on facebook, I dont know what facebooks look like...but im interested in getting one. can someone give me a link to theirs? thanks!!%%

i couldnt get it all in one but hers what most of it looks like
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b219/xfabulousx91/facebook1.jpg



there is also aplace for comments at the bottom and lost of other features you can use:)

Jess

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alrighttt so i need a new straightener, because mine doesn`t really work any more the coating over the plates like wore down & you can see the metal underneath.. and when i straighten my hair it always has a wave to it because i have curly hair. i need a straightener that will get my hair pin straight. does anyone know any good brands i can buyy. price doesn't really matter.. nothing wayyy over a hundred dollars though...
thankss :)

The chi ceramic straighteners usually go for about $100

I have a hot tools ceramic plates one and it was $60 i have really curly hair it it works great on mine. You could get them at any hair dresser.

Jess

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a few questions

who all is playing?
are they good?
and is the concert good/worth the money?
and how much are tickets?


even if you can only answer one, it will be appreciated (:

thanks

im going this year and im so excited!!!

the tickets are usually about $30

heres all the bands that are playing:
http://www.warpedtour.com/warpedtour/bands.asp

i deffinatly think its worth it my friends have gone and they have so much fun

Jess

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what would you talk about with a random stranger you met somewhere at a mall or wherever? How do you become a more interesting person? I feel so boring because I don't do anything. Getting hobbies, doing sports, and playing an instrument don't feel like they would help except when finding common ground with someone. Does anyone know what I'm talking about? I can elaborate.

I know what you mean because i feel the same way. You kinda just have to make jokes and be funny or just start a random topic about anything. Just say what you do in your free time even if its not anything big. Just keeping the conversation going would make anyone interesting because it shows you can talk to people. Just dont be shy.

Jess

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well i'm going to get my nose peirced soon, and i just needed some advice on what side to get peirced. sounds kind of stupid, i know, but i don't want to get a peircing and it mean something, you know? like how rumors went around that if a guy gets his certain ear peirced that means he's gay.

so, basically. what side should i get it peirced on? thank you. :]

Either side is fine. But i know alot of people here that get it on their left side.

jess

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ohkayy does anyone know the songg that goes like...
like this?
like this?
like this?
yeahh i tried to google it but nothing came up.
i'd like the song, lyrics, and who sings it.
thankss =]

ugh i know that song but unfortunatly not one of my favorites. haha

its 'like this' by MIMS

jess

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If you ask someone out, and they say no, what do you do next?

you just kinda have to say alright, or okay and walk away, theres not much to do.

jess

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my dog had to be put down a couple days ago. I can't get over it. what shall I do?

Well its gonna be hard to get over, and its not gonna happen just like that it will be on yourmind im sure. But just get out and do something. Insted of sitting at home thinking about it. call up a friend and hang out:)

im sorry and i hope that helps.

jess

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ughh i want to get my nose pierced sooo bad. ill be 17 in like 2 months and i wanna get it done for my birthday, but my mom is sooo against the idea. i told her i just want a tiny little pink stud. she just thinks its horrible. its just nose its not like i want a tongue piercing or anything! how can i convince her? thanks!!

Its probably not what you wanna hear but convincing them is like 1 chance in 1,000. I wanted to get my tongue pierced but my mom said absolutely not. Try offering to pay for it. And don't beg and beg ask about it nicely and maybe she will change her mind. Other than that you will just have to wait til your 18.

jess

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Okay, i'm trying this new thing were everyday i think of the good qualities of myself. And it seems to be working, i am more confident in everything! So then everything is great, until i get to school. I Love my friends. But all they do is put themselves down! One of my friends the other day, all she said almost all day was "Im Fat. I need to lose weight." and i kept telling her she doesnt. But when she keeps saying it, i feel the need to put myself down aswell, like say, "No your not, i am". And i want to be able to stop doing that. I dont know if this question makes much sence, but i tried. What im bascially saying is, How can i get myself to stop putting myself down infront of friends who put themselfs down.

lol that didnt make sence XD

Just don't make any comments when they say that to you. Or just say something simple like "your not fat." Its good that your trying to be confident in yourself. Help you friends try to do it with you maybe that will help!

jess

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its on the radio alot it goes something like

i still hear your voice.....

then its like

everytime we touch... something

i reach the sky

do any oneee knowww

every time we touch by cascada :)

Jess

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Is Energy Glow body lotion for fair to medium skin tones with self tanners able to be used on the face?

Any tips on how to use it?? (on body and face, if allowed)

I wouldn't use it on your face. All the people who use that don't put it on your face. But they do make a product of the same name and brand that is just for the face, it comes in a smaller bottle so try looking for that.

Jess

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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months and the other day on the phone, randomly he goes, i wish i could see you, and hug you every second of the day.
is that sweet or just plain weird?

THANKSOMUCH!

that deffinatly sweet. You should be happy he said that it shows her cares. He was being cute.

Jess

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Do long distance relationships work?
Or what are your views on them?
I'm not thinking of starting one, but a friend is and I was just wondering what others thought about them.

I think they are pointless and stupid. Two of my friends have had them and one lasted less than a month the other not much longer. they dont usually work out. i think the only time its exceptional is it the people have been dating and one had to move, then maybe make an exception. But otherwise i think they are dumb.

Jess

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what jobs can a 15 year old get in Illinois?

most ice cream places.
grocery stores.
you might be able to bus at resturaunts.
babysitting always works.

Just ask around

Jess

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how do you tease your hair? i want to be like poofy at the top, but straight on the bottom. :]k' thanxx

you take pieces layer by layer and hold them striaght up then brush then backwards so it basically knots it up. then use lots of hairspary and it should stay.

Jess

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i asked this before, but only got one answer and still don't know what to do. sorry if it's long, but PLEASE help, i really need some advice. okay, so first of all, my sister is dating my best guy friend n yeah. so one day, i was talking to him, and his cousin saw my myspace and said i was hot. i told him not to get his hopes up becuz i look better on myspace. so then that night, after i took a shower, him n his cousin came over. his cousin (andrew) then invited us to a party that saturday. we all went. that night we were all drunk n then i made out with andrew. the next weekend, we hung out at andrew's house again. when he was about to leave, we were just talking and kinda fast n quietly i think he said "you wanna be my girl" but im not sure. after that he said "wanna marry me" n that i hurd for sure. i started laughing. and i was like maybe. and he said yes no maybe sometimes? n i was like sometimes. n hes all okay. a week later, they all went to a kickback with me and my sister. (alan, my best friend, n other cousins n frends) so then we were talkin. (me n andrew) n he said for me to go on a walk with him. we went and ended up making out again. that night i slept over at his house, and he was telling me if theres any guys at school trying to get at me just be like na, i got a real nigga in my life. and i just laughed. and we made out again, but we didnt wanna get in trouble, so he slept on the floor. a couple of days ago, we went to another party and we all got drunk again. he hugged me a lot. n then he was like okay. im gon hook you up with some guy. n then beat him up. and he started laughing. but that whole night, he was trying to hook people up at the party. im guessing cuz he was drunk. i ono. also, at the party, when he was trying to hook people up, this one girl, his "sister" (not by blood, the just say it) was trying to hook us up. she was like so lemme tell you about my brother! and he kept cutting her off and telling her to shut up. anyways. what do you think this means? do you think he really likes me or is just messing with me?

Well its hard to know since mostly when you hang out your just drunk and people sometimes don't mean what they say. I think you need to chill with him 1 on 1 and just talk and get to know each other. If he really liked you maybe he will take a move to take the relationship further.

Jess

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when a guy says "haha, your retarded" (when hes flirting) what are u suppose to say back? like: yeah, but you so are you :D"?

I usually say i know, or make some smart remark to make them laugh.

Jess

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I want a look thats a mix of 'scene' and 'emo'
Any tips on how to get a look like that?
From Make-up to clothes to shoes. Plz && thnx

they both wear lots of black band t's
emo kids wear really lot of eye liner, mostly black then some color fading on the outside.
Tight pants, straightlegs.

go to photobucket.com and type in scence kids or emo kids in a search and youll get lots of pictures.

jess

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