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boys are wayy confusing.
i asked this before, but only got one answer and still don't know what to do. sorry if it's long, but PLEASE help, i really need some advice. okay, so first of all, my sister is dating my best guy friend n yeah. so one day, i was talking to him, and his cousin saw my myspace and said i was hot. i told him not to get his hopes up becuz i look better on myspace. so then that night, after i took a shower, him n his cousin came over. his cousin (andrew) then invited us to a party that saturday. we all went. that night we were all drunk n then i made out with andrew. the next weekend, we hung out at andrew's house again. when he was about to leave, we were just talking and kinda fast n quietly i think he said "you wanna be my girl" but im not sure. after that he said "wanna marry me" n that i hurd for sure. i started laughing. and i was like maybe. and he said yes no maybe sometimes? n i was like sometimes. n hes all okay. a week later, they all went to a kickback with me and my sister. (alan, my best friend, n other cousins n frends) so then we were talkin. (me n andrew) n he said for me to go on a walk with him. we went and ended up making out again. that night i slept over at his house, and he was telling me if theres any guys at school trying to get at me just be like na, i got a real nigga in my life. and i just laughed. and we made out again, but we didnt wanna get in trouble, so he slept on the floor. a couple of days ago, we went to another party and we all got drunk again. he hugged me a lot. n then he was like okay. im gon hook you up with some guy. n then beat him up. and he started laughing. but that whole night, he was trying to hook people up at the party. im guessing cuz he was drunk. i ono. also, at the party, when he was trying to hook people up, this one girl, his "sister" (not by blood, the just say it) was trying to hook us up. she was like so lemme tell you about my brother! and he kept cutting her off and telling her to shut up. anyways. what do you think this means? do you think he really likes me or is just messing with me?
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I think he's into you, I mean if I were to say that to someone I was into and do those things, and have a pretty nice bond... I guess I'd like that person. Try and get to know him a little more before you fall for him. You don't know what this guy is all about just yet. :] I hope I was of some help :]]
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Well its hard to know since mostly when you hang out your just drunk and people sometimes don't mean what they say. I think you need to chill with him 1 on 1 and just talk and get to know each other. If he really liked you maybe he will take a move to take the relationship further.
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what it sounds like is that you guys are in drunken hook up mode and not really in relationship mode. hes obviously interested in you. if he just hooked up with you because he was drunk, and he regreted it, then he would try to avoid you the next time he saw you. it sounds like he likes you and that hes nervous about trying to pursue you in more than a drunken hookup way. maybe the next time you guys are hanging out, be like " i think that the next time we hang out, we should be alone and sober" or something to that effect. you need to try to hang out with him when your not drunk because then maybe you guys will be more on the relationship level. but talk to him, becasue it does seem like he likes you.
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