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First off that's my special man friend with me way back from high school, and been dating now for almost four years now. Yeah he's pretty spectacular, and I love him to pieces, and that's all I have to say about that. I'm a full time college student and working on my gen ed, but I would like to get my bachelor's in gerontology and eventually get my nursing license. In fact I work at a nursing home now as a CNA and I love it so much. Anyways ask questions if you want. I'll try to help you out anyway I can. I love helping people after all. :)

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my boyfriend and i are both 18. we've been together about a year. we're both virgins and saving sex (any type) for marriage. we're pretty serious, and hope to marry someday. recently, we got caught kissing by my younger sister. my boyfriend had picked me up and i had my legs around his waist and we were making out. we also got caught while i was sitting backwards in his lap making out. our parents are concerned about us. we have boundaries and won't pass them but they don't trust us. our dates usually consist of laying on the couch in my room watching movies or just talking. my parents come in and out a lot, and freak out if they catch us doing anything. what can we do that will help us still have time to kiss each other and not be caught? we're not doing anything bad. we just love each other. i want to please him like that, but we have agreed that our first time will be on our wedding night, no matter who we marry. what kinds of kissing or kissing positions that will feel good for both of us? any tips on that? or not getting caught? this is confusing. i apologize. we're absolutely desperate! i want to make him happy and this is putting a big strain on our relationship.

Missionary position. Very happy.
;-)

xoxo,
dottie4

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Does anyone know where I can watch seasons 5 and 6 of Judging Amy online for free?

Thanks!
*I've already checked youtube

http://isohunt.com/torrents/Judging+Amy


Now to play them you will need a codec on you computer so download k-lite codec pack (find it on google) it will play in Windows Media Player after that.

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dottie4

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I'm a 15 year old female and i've been playing guitar for many years. Do guys find it attractive/a turn on when they meet a girl that plays guitar/is very into music?

They only want what's in your pants.

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dottie4

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I'm in a long distance relationship.

My boyfriend went home for christmas, he's gone for 1 month. And for some reason, I feel really bad making him come on skype to talk to me while he's away, cause i feel like the point of him being there is to be with family..and doing other things and such.


Anyway, we usually talk every couple days while he's away, but the first thing he told me was that in the airport..where he had to wait 6hrs due to delayed flights, he met a girl, they talked for 4 hours, and split a bottle of red wine. He said they talked about relationships, and i don't think he even mentioned me. Now hes home, and tells me he's been talking to his brothers gf all day on skype. But he can't tell me hes on?? He called me on skype for about 45 mins, his brother talked to me while he talked to his brothers gf, hahah messed up, i know.

But, it's not just that. He ALWAYS talks to me about his exes, and how he wonders what they're up to and stuff. I can't figure out honestly what it is, but all this other girl talk, and having fun with other girls, makes me SO jealous. I've talked to him about it once, didn't say anything when he was chatting about the girl at the aiport/brothers gf though.

Blah, i guess i just need advice. does he just seem like a flirty person? weve been dating 5 months, and he had talked about his exes even before we were dating. but now i just get so jealous, but dont bring it up, as i know its not a pretty trait to have. but then i sit here with my feelings hurt. ah, any advice?!

Tell him it bothers you for one. You've been dating long enough that you can be honest with him about things like that. I hate to say it, but if that's the first thing he brought up while talking to you, it kind of sounds like something more happened. I'm not exactly sure why he'd be talking to his bro's girlfriend though. I hate to say it but it sounds like he really just doesn't like you that much. It's better you know now though. Honestly your better off.

xoxo,
dottie4

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Books that are dramatic. They need to be no shorter than a Junnie B. Jones sized book.
I already have, The lovely Bones, 2.5 Minute Ride, and Kissing Dorrknobs

I just need other books that deal with death, diseace, or any other thing along the dramatic line.

Grapes of Wrath- John Steinbeck
Angela's Ashes- Frank McCourt
The Jungle- Upton Sinclair
Of Mice and Men- John Steinbeck
Little Women- Louisa May Alcott
The Joy Luck Club- Amy Tan


xoxo,
dottie4

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i have met a man and we have been friends for ages. i recently met up with him and we got on like a house on fire! we aRE now seeing each other, but eventually i would like to have a relationship. He sais he really fancies me but don't want this to happen as he has been single for 3 years and is happy on his own. do you think he will change his mind or is he to set in his ways? he is 53. I am 30

Wow! He's old enough to be your father! I would just talk to him more and tell him how much you really like him. Ask him where he sees everything going. You don't neccessarily have to get married, just tell him you would like to try out having a real relationship.

xoxo,
dottie4

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My bf and I are in a pretty intense relationship. We haven't been going out for very long, but we've started to get physical. I'm in high school and he's in college, and we live about 45 minutes away from each other. We've been hooking up in my car on top of a parking garage, but we really need someplace better (and roomier. I drive a small sedan.) We can't go to my house because people are always home, and I can't go to his dorm because my parents don't want me driving that far. Likewise with his house.

What are some better places to hook up?

Hotel room. Tell him to pick you up half way.

xoxo,
dottie4

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okay, im 15 my cousin is 17. we have been around eachother when we were kids, and i guess you could say we have 'ecperimented' but we were only 3 and 5 so idt that counts. Well we grew up a lot after that. he ended up dropping out of school and hookin up wid all these sluts. i feel he is just a good part of the family (honestly, i dont have feelings like that for him). i get along with his gf's wen they r over. but he kept telling me to send him a dirty pic tonight. i said no. so he sends me one of his man junk. oh i wanted to throw up. that made me so freaking mad. he told me he wanted one because he has always kinda liked me. well i told him if he liked me then he wouldnt force me to send something i dont want and will never send. wat should i do? im not going to tell him tha i dont like him and i like im as just part of the family now cuz im pissed at him... maybe later i will. but how would you feel if his happened. and wat should i do?

Tell yours and his parents.

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dottie4

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the outer layer of my lips (down there) are kinda tanish color, but the rest is really pink. is that normal for it to be tanish? and they kinda hang a lil is that normal too?

u heard if you had sex alot, they get like that color... is that true? cuz i have been with the same guy for almost 3 years.

thanks

Yes it's all normal.

xoxo,
dottie4

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how do i get rid of arm fat/flab?

https://www.shakeweight.com/ver5/index.asp

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dottie4

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i use to be an amazing student- always did my work, never failed a test, teachers loved me, etc. ever since high shcool i just slowly got stupider. i dont know why and with that, made me stop caring. now i feel like im a failure and that im so foolish and i hate it.

how do i get smart- i know that sounds absurd but i just need to know

Just do your work, study. If you need help, ask for help. Maybe start reading more books. That will definitely expand your vocabulary, and you'll learn more which in turn will make you smarter.

xoxo,
dottie4

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can you get pregnant from pre cum?

Yes.

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dottie4

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About a week ago, i had a severe allergic reaction to the benzoyl (sp?) peroxide in an acne medication i just started using. i went to the doctors and since it was pretty serious, i had to use prescription benedryl(spelling? again :P) to make the swelling go down. this week its finally all gone, but now i'm back to the original problem : my acne ! Its ridiculous, i feel like i never have a moment when i DON'T have moderate//more severe acne. I'm thinking of taking a pill, but i don't know where to start. What are the side effects? Should i risk it,if the side effects are bad? Have you taken pills for acne? If so, was it worth it? Gah, any advice will do! (Please don't tell me about any acne washes/medicines, i've pretty much tried them all) Thanks soooo much! 16/f

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=574620

xoxo,
dottie4

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Im am 15/f. I have had an acne problem since i was 12. i have tried almost all the products i could find.Clearasil, Proactive, cetaphil, skin id, this aveno thing, and im currently using clean and clear. ive used countless others i cant remember. my skin breaks out on my forehead, but my cheaks, nose, and chin are always so dry! what can i use to help? thank you in advance!

Yeah I know exactly what your talking about. I would try the birth control pill. It's really the only thing that has made any difference with my skin. Keep using a mild soap and cream on it though. Also make sure you avoid touching your face as much as possible. If you have to, make sure your hands are clean. Also drink at least 8 glasses of water a day, and exercise. This will surely make a difference.

xoxo,
dottie4

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every night i get a really bad headache. my mum says it is just because of lack of sleep,but i don't think it is!! they are soooooooooo bad. I take paracetamol as i cant have iburprofen,and i have headache packs. they kinda work but i get them every night!!!!
(i am from england)

Try a couple asprins. Ibuprofen is for swelling and considered a pain reliever. (Not necessarily headaches) Anyways, if that doesn't work you may have to go to the doctor to get a prescription medication.

xoxo,
dottie4

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I dont know what to get my boyfriend for christmas.
He is getting me something and everyone says ill love it. and they are jealous and what not. But he already knows what im getting him and I want to get him something thats a surprise, I just dont know what to get.

Socks or combs. Always practical.

xoxo,
dottie4

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I cannot seem to come up with anything when i want to dirty talk. My boyfriend thinks it would be hott but no mater how hard i try i cant seem to say anything right that sounds good or turns him on or would turn anyone on really....What could i say when dirty talking?

Just don't brush your teeth for a while. Maybe eat oreos or something garlicky which will make your breath smell worse. Then proceed with saying whatever you like. See? Dirty talking!

xoxo,
dottie4

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Someone told me you can get STDs from giving head! Is it true? If it is then what STDs can you get from giving oral / head?

Yes.

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hey

mm i was just wondering what scents do guys like on girls??I know odd question but i just wonder what would my bf like lol thanks!

Vanilla scent.

xoxo,
dottie4

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I like to rub axe oil onto my vagina when I'm touching myself...I somehow like the cool feeling....
So I'm wodering if there are any other oils that make you feel heat or maybe a slight stinging or pain.
I would love to try out any of your suggestions!
Thank you!

That's not good. You could get like an infection from that. They have lube for that. Go to a sex shop, they have special things for that.

xoxo,
dottie4

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