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whats sup im kierra. i luv to give my advice to people becuase im good at it. i will try and answer ever ones questions as they are giving or asked. now some question i cant answer becuase the answer us always in yall face but hey some people cant see. i aint mean but i will tell it like it is so dont ask a question if you know you anit goin to like the answer holla!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Okay, so I'm around 5 feet tall and I weigh about 115 pounds, I'm not anywhere near fat, but I have some chub I guess you could say, its not like terrible, but I don't feel comfortable wearing tanktops and stuff so all of my clothes are like babydoll shirts, but I really want to lose some weight by summer so I can finally wear tanktops and feel comfortable. How much should I run/walk every day, because I don't have a bike or anything else like that? Also what should I eat? I eat a lot healthier than I used to, I usually have a salad everyday for lunch at school and I have a healthy breakfast, but after I get home from school I pig out, so please help me stay determined not to, like give me some tips for that and some good foods that are healthy for me, thank you so much!

ou should know dieting is not always healthy. you should run a half of a mile each day. this will get you ready to run a whole mile each day. when you eat count your servings and add them up. instead of three big meals you should have have three miedum sized meals. do not deprive your body of food becuase this can cause a major problem. and if you say you weight 115 i dont see a problem with your weight. i think your skinny enough. you should not want to get to skinny. DO NOT make your self throw up your food you can really hurt your body by doing so. i hope this helped you. im sure you look just fine in tanktops.

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Hello. I am 21 and male.

I met someone online, and we have been pretty good friends for a while now. We do not want to date or anything, because both of us are married... just friends. I just want to get that out there...

Recently, I have made a series of stupid mistakes and hurt her feelings pretty badly. I suffer from Bipolar Disorder, and am currently seeking help for it. I want her to forgive me for the things I have done, but I'm not sure how. I told her about the disorder before the fight.

I have tried apologizing to her, but I'm not sure if she forgives me or not. She will not talk to me, and only minimal responses are given when I initiate conversations with her.

I really enjoyed being friends with her. She was a good listener, a good source of advice, and really fun to be around. I feel terrible about how I treated her, and I want to make it up.

Is there any way I can mend this friendship, or should I just forget about it and move on?

what i think you should do is send her an e-mail she might be mad but i know she will read it. tell her how you feel. tell her how sorry you are and that becuase of your disorder you have those type of outbursts. i know she will forgive you. just give her some time. if it was ment for you guys to be friends then she will forgive you.

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Right, so the other week i was out with some friends and they introduced me to some guys.
Then, i started hanging round with two of them guys (C and J) who both have gfs.
I took a liking to J and today we were talking for a little bit but we were with other people so we werent alone.
Weve been speaking on msn and myspace quite abit.
And i really like him. But, he has a gf who he's madly in love with.
And i dont WANT to like him, i just do.. And i dont want to tell him i do because it'll be really awkward seeing as we havent known each that long.
I know if i get closer to him then i'll like him even more. But, i want to get closer to him, if that makes sense.

I just really dont know what to do.
Do i just leave it and see where it goes?

well i think you should stick around. he might have taking aliking to you as well. i know you said he is in love with his gf but who knows maybe thier will be trouble in paradise. you should not push your self to not like him your feelings are your feelings. you know a friend of mine was in a position like yours. she found out that even though he had a gf he was liking her too. so you might wanna see where the wind takes you.

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i am great at gettin girls phone numbers and goin up to them and breakin the ice i jus cant seem to do anythin after that though
what should i talk about
ps i snowboard alot so when im with the ladies im usully on a charirlift or sitten around at parties

well if you have thier numbers i think you should call. see what you have in common with the girls. see if they diging you. take them on a nice date that you know they will like. basically charm them

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hey, i've been talking to this guy for quite a while now. The way i met him is that i saw him at his prom that i went to with my friend and added him to facebook. He starting to talk to me on msn a month later. He's really nice so i talked back. At the time i was grounded for a month and couldnt hang out with him. So for about a month and a half we would talk on the phone everyday. Everyday that we talked on the phone i started to be more open and comfortable with him. After i was ungrounded he wanted to hang out. But we didn't hangout till 2 weeks after i was ungrounded. When we did hangout i went over to his house, met his parents who were very nice, and we just watched movies all night. We didn't kiss that whole night till he drove me home and i said goodbye to him in the car, and we started to makeout. After that we hungout alot, i barely saw my friends anymore becasue i was always with him. He would pick me up from school and we would go out for lunch sometimes. After hanging out with him for a long time i discussed with him about dating or at least seeing each. I had had bad expericene in liking a guy before where i had got badly hurt. I had mentioned that to him and he understood where i was comnig from. I noticed whenever i hungout with him i could tell him anything. I would tell him that i had my period or problems i was having with my best friends, or even work problems. The guy before that i wasn't really that open with. I like this guy alot, but his reputation that i hear from doesn't look so good to me. He's the type of guys that isn't really a "kiss ass", or doesn't go out of his way even if he's dating a girl. I have had sex with him, and he was making me feel really comfortable with it. He wasnt the one to ask me if i wanted to, i felt ready so i talked to him about it, he had asked me if i really thought about it, which i did, and he told me he didnt want me feeling pressured that i have to becasue he didnt want to hurt me emotionally. I really want to date this guy, but i really don't know what he feels. Although i ask him about it i feel like what he's telling me isn't true. I always wonder what he says to his friends about me, or if he even talks to his friends about me. I don't want to seem like im rushing things just because i dont want to get hurt. But the truth is i don't think i can handle getting hurt again. All my friends are "if-y" about him, because i get really upset about him soemtimes, and they hate seeing me hurt. Should i break things off, or keep seeing him and see what happens?

i would say your getting in to deep. you should first find out if the guy likes you on the same level that you like him. ask him. i know it might seem wierd but its something we all go through in life. i would say you maybe should have waited to have sex with him. you said he said he "dont want you to get hurt emotionally" you sould have though about that his feeling might not be as strong. i know you dont want to be hurt but you know its apart of life.

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ok well im 15 and i have had a lot of tragic things in my life. but i finally stoped dwelling on the past when i realized that there r other people who have it way worse.all the things that have happened to me just made me appreciate life more. i am a very strong, caring, and determined person. so my for my question.... well when i turn on the t.v. theres allways charitys going on for cancer and make a wish foundations and people all around the world who are barley surviving and how we as a generation are destoring the world...ect. well all these things touch my heart and i just wanna have the power to change the world for the good... but being that im not evan old enough to have a job i am unfortunitly unable of evan donating... well i finally came up with an idea... i want to creat a.. an organizatoin were people can donate to what ever charity that touches them the most.. were 100% of all money is donated to the cause. i want to make something that is huge that every one knows about. like websites and marathons and t.v. broadcasting. i know that it will take a great deal of time before it reaches that point but i am willing to dedicate my life to this. Two of my most favorite things about life is helping and persuading people to do good. so i figure why not put these together. im not wanting to do this for any profit except to see the world around me a better place. the only thing is i dont have a clue where to start. i was thinking of starting with a petion. no money just names at first. once i reach a certian amount i want to give it to someone who can help... but i dont know who. i'm stuck in a box and i need advise from someone with more knowledge. i dont care how many people who tell me i cant do it because if there is a will there is a way and i have so much determination that i am ready for what ever it takes. can you give me advice on how to get started? all i need is a nudge in the right direction. if you think there is somthing wrong can you give my some insight of how to fix it? love
?rhonda?

to start i want you to know that you are a person that teens should look up to. most are selfish and care about themselves. i think you should start small. start a little petion at your school. start by getting names first. the second time start collecting money. te money you make give to one of the foundations. from thier im sure you can make a big diffrence. make sure that if you do get people to help make sure they are honest and give every cent to the organization.

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female

the back of my neck has a lot of hair on it and its pretty long. its also dark and thick so its really noticable when i put my hair up. its really embarassing. what should i do?

i would say you should maybe start to shave that could help or you could wax that way it takes longer for the hair to grow back

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how can i get my friends to envy me more? We kind of like to try to impress one another. how can i be more social and get people to envy me?

envy can really make your friendship go bad trust me but if thats what you really want you should go shopping. get your nails done every week thats what i do. i lost alot of friends becuase they got to mad becuase i started looking better so think about it more

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Ok well i had my period for december already but i started getting again now and i dont know why cause i had it at the beginning of december like it ended i think december 7th or something so does your period run by months or days?

periods run every 28 days and when i first got mine i missed for like 3 months so dont sweat.

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so, i was just wonderig, if it is possible to be in love at age 13? i know it sounds like a stupid question. but is that possible? since 13 is such a young age.

yes it is possible. i know your mom might say your to young for love but hey if you feeling it then your feeling it. everyone has thier first love. love is not about age its about you and how you feel about that person.

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Hey guys this might end up a little long sorry ok to start of im goth my parents divorced i get bad grades in school i cutt im anorexic (the next one is strage really strange) when ever i get hurt or i should say soposed to get hurt i dont do anything like one time i feel out of the car when i was 12 and i almost got run over by another car all i did was im ok im not hurt so i dont get hurt i dont have any friends i live with my mom that hates me all the girls at school tease me i just want to know what to do im 14/F please help my life just gets worse and worse everyday

you are your own person you should not care what anyone thinks of you. you say your mom hates you that might not be true she might be mad becuase you did not turn out the way she wanted you to. remember your are most precious in your own eyes dont let anybody i mean anybody bring you down. and its okay if you dont feel pain somtimes a person been hurt so much they are use to it. so keep your head up. your a very strong person i know you are.

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Im fine with being un-popular , I am .
Buut , I don't know .
I used to hang out with this popular girl before , And it was only when her friends were mad at her .
We didn't hang out for like a year .
Now , She still continues to be popular .
And keeps asking to hang out .
She's not even in a fight with a friend .
Help , Is she using me ?

well if she is popular and you are not then i dont think she is using you. but you should keep your eyes open becuase she might be planing somthing thats going to hurt you. ask her why she wants to hang out with you. she might like hanging with you.just be ready for whats going to go down soon

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