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god put me on earth for a reason but i dont feel like im wor
Hey guys this might end up a little long sorry ok to start of im goth my parents divorced i get bad grades in school i cutt im anorexic (the next one is strage really strange) when ever i get hurt or i should say soposed to get hurt i dont do anything like one time i feel out of the car when i was 12 and i almost got run over by another car all i did was im ok im not hurt so i dont get hurt i dont have any friends i live with my mom that hates me all the girls at school tease me i just want to know what to do im 14/F please help my life just gets worse and worse everyday
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The other columnists did a great job at giving you advice..something i just wanted to add was this:
Think about it, you are only 14! The best thing you can do for yourself now is to do very well in school, join sports,etc becuase this is your life and you can make a great future for yourself. Do well in high school then move on to college and figure out what you want to do with your life.You have so many great things ahead of you! Life might be rough now, but keep focused on the future because one day you will be able to run your own life with your own job and a family of your own.
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you are your own person you should not care what anyone thinks of you. you say your mom hates you that might not be true she might be mad becuase you did not turn out the way she wanted you to. remember your are most precious in your own eyes dont let anybody i mean anybody bring you down. and its okay if you dont feel pain somtimes a person been hurt so much they are use to it. so keep your head up. your a very strong person i know you are.
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I understand how you feel about this. I've had times too when it felt like nothing was going right, everyone hated me and so on.
You should write a list with the things that bother you, what are going wrong and what are going well.
For instance this list could've been mine a few years ago:
Bothers-
Parents
People in school
Homework
Looks(of myself)
Things going wrong-
School
Friendships
Things going well-
Art
Then once you have written down the main things that are causing your depression, try to sort them out one by one. In school try talking to some people in your lessons- maybe they are teasing you just because they don't know your personality.
Try talking to your mom about the problems you are having-just talk everything through with her, if she understands, she shouldn't get mad at all.
Please stop cutting yourself, because that doesn't make ANYTHING better, it just makes things worse.
Anorexia- Not easy to see yourself as beautiful and thin once you are anorexic, but give it an attempt. I really hope you don't want to kill yourself!
My best friend was anorexic for almost two years. When she told me (practically a year after) I was so shocked, I tried to help her, and now she is fine.
You need someone to support you through these hard times, shutting out everyone else and hurting yourself defenetly doesn't help at this situation.
If you have any questions, just ask me a question, I am happy to help.
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