Hey!
I live in Canada and I'm teen. I've been through a lot of stuff with my friends over the last few years and I always try to give my insight into their problems (sometimes even when they don't really want it lol).
I've realized that over time I have accumulated a lot of questions about moving on, so if you have a question about that, lay it on me!!
I don't think that ratings matter, and that you should choose someone to trust your question with, that will answer it with care, but show you what the world really is and wont sugar coat it.
I hope you guys find my advice helps, hope to talk soon!! :D
Angie
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I read your response to that one girl about being confident and stuff.
i totally agree with you about doing it foryourself.
i no this is kind of random.
but i really would like to change myself and be able to not care so much of what others think of me. i want to be able to have good relationships and branch out, and its hard because i am very quiet. i try try try to not care what people think of me... but its like i freeze in social situations. some people say its my nature... and thats its because im an introvert, but im sure theres some ways to over come shyness becuase it sucks.
anyways i read what you put about you knowing how to be all out going and stuff... so do you think you could give me some hints.
thnak you so much. (link)
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hey!
Yeah I can totally help you out. I was hoping that question would either show that girl that she can't let others change the way she acts and is around other people, or that it would catch someone else's eye.
I'm an introvert as well, and there are a lot of times where I have this problem.
people say, justdon't care what people think, but when they arent introverts themselves, they don't realize how hard it is. SOme people say it's because I'm uptight and I care too much about relationships with other people, and I agree, but thats not all of it.
I think that no matter how hard you try you will always be shy, but the only way to get over it, even just alittle bit is by not letting it control your life. I think that you should try and go to a summer camp or something by yourself. Go to make new people, because one of the only ways to over come shyness is to be forced to not be shy. If you have to go up to other people then you have to not be shy. That experience could be the best experience of your life or it could be the worst. For me, it was the worst. I went into it worrying that it was going to be bad and I was going to have a horrible time and I did. I didnt make any new friends and creepy people I hated followed me around. I was a bitch to everyone and it was just an experience I regret. But one of the reasons I regret it, was I didnt try to make friends hard enough. I didnt talk to new people and over come the shyness. I defeated the purpose, so if you can do the opposite of what I did, it will help. Because the skills you learn will transfer to back at school or other parts of life.
I don't know if you do this, but I will walk down the hall and see someone I know and duck out of the situation or pretend not to see them so I can avoid the confrontation. I don't know why I do it, but if you do it, heres how to stop, when you feel nervous about seeing someone think of three things to say to them such as I love that shirt or how was your weekend. And then you can't be afraid to talk to them. Don't pretend not to see people because that can send off the message that you are snobby and stuck up.
Think of the worst that can happen. What you say something weird and they all laugh? They're laughing because you're funny. Maybe it was an accident, but maybe they don't know that. If they laugh smile and try to get someone else to say something.
If the worst that could happen is they don't get your joke, don't tell jokes, say something ironic that happened last night or add an interesting fact to the conversation.
Try to smile a lot and nodd along, if you arent adding something to the conversation at least you are trying to face your shyness fear, and sometimes the group needs a quiet one.
I think self confidence is an issue for you, so I think you should do a couple of things about that, first, you should try and tell yourself everyday something different that is good about you, liek I look awesome in this shirt or my eyes are so pretty.
And then set goals to improve yourself. Don't take these too far though. Like examples could be:"I want to get better abs." and then try and set three ways to fix this. but don't take it too far, liek I said. Don't become anorexic on me, or anything. And if you notice yourself feeling like the goal is for other people. Quit. Stop doing it. No mater how much you want it, if you're dieting to get a boyfriend quit dieting. Even if it's important to you too, it's not worth it.
Everyday people with low self confidence go out there and worry about what other people think, this is something they have to get over. And they will eventually, but if you continue to do things for the wrong reasons, then you go back instead of forward.
Love yourself, thats the most important thing, if you're alwyas trying to change it you wont go anywhere.
Relationships take time. Build on them everyday and you'll get more. People always say, I wish I was close enough to her to go to her house on weekends. Start by saying hi every morning, move into asking for her email address incase you have a question about an assignment or something, more up to calling her to ask her something. Move up to inviting her to the mall with your friends. Move up to inviting her over sometime. It takes time, and no one said it was easy, just be patient. And remember 4 good friendships are better than 100 okay friendships.
This takes a lot of work, and I know I didnt give you a lot of tips but try those and then get back to me, if you need some more I can help you out. Hopefully this works, because you deleted your question before I could answer it. I hope I helpped, and if you need anything else don't hesitate to ask. Love ya,
Angie91
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My ex-boyfriend from about 6 months ago and I have finally started to be friendly towards one another. It's nice. He basically refused to talk to me before because I didn't want to get back together with him when we broke it off, even though it was mutual. The talking started about 2 months ago. Today, through one of his better friends, I learned that he is still "madly in love with me." Now I don't know what to do with our relationship. I'm starting to think that he only started talking to me again because he believes he has a chance, which he doesn't. I'd never get back together with him. I don't want to lead him on. Should i confront him with it? Ignore it? Any advice is appreciated. (link)
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Hey!
I read the other answers and they were both good, but I think you need to kind of combine them. I think one day you should just sit down and say that you're really glad that you two get to be friends and that you missed him when he stopped talking to you, and you're glad that he knows that nothing can ever happen between the two of you, and accepts it. If you suggest that he knows it already, then he's not going to make a big deal of it and confront you making a big fool of himself and if the rumor's a rumor, you still have you're dignity.
Thats what I would do anyway. I hope I helped, good luck, love ya,
Angie91
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well my problem here is that my best buddy is cheating on his girlfriend.I talk to her, I mean we are schoolmates and we talk right, but I dont know what to do because I know my buddy is cheating on her but I dont know whether to tell her or not because if i tell her my buddy is gonna get mad but if I dont and she finds out, she'll be mad at me...I dont wanna lose any of them what should I do??... (link)
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hey!
Well you're stuck between a rock and a hard place, either way its going to suck. You just have to look at the situation through the girls eyes. If someone was cheating on you, would you want to know? Probably yeah. So I would suggest telling her, yeah your buddy is going to get pissed off because you ratted him out, but he is doing something wrong. So why should he expect you to cover for him?
Though, on the other hand you're not actually covering for him, you're just not telling her, so basically if you go out of your way to tell her then you are being mean.
So here's what I would do, go up to him and ask him why he's cheating on her, and if he really thinks that cheating is going to get him anywhere. Ask him if he really needs to leading the girl on and lying to her, and that you think he should tell her. If he decides that he doesnt want to believe you and wants to keep going the way things are, then he's being a jerk, and he deserves to get caught. Talk to the girl, and ask her to not tell him it was you who told, but if it slipps out you'll understand.
This situation is tough, and you can choose to sit and watch her get hurt, and it's inevitable, she will get hurt, but if she gets hurt when someone is being kind to her, isnt that better? I can't tell you that answer to that one, you know the answer, you just haveto figure out what it is.
Good luck, and I hope I helpped, thankfully your friends have someone awesome liek you who cares,
Love ya,
Angie91
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how do i get people to like me more? i don't want to change myself, but, can you give me steps to being, well, confident, happy and friendly? (basically, outgoing) i just want steps, or something along those lines. (for some reason, i'm better at learning things when they're in steps,lists.) anyways, thanks for the help (link)
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hey!
You know what, you definitely wont like my answer. But I think I should give it to you anyway.
You were right on the first thing. You can't change yourself, and people will like you for who you are. So you need to get that straight first. I admire the fact that you want to make yourself a better person, but you're doing it for the wrong reasons. I know the answer to your question and I can give you steps to being confident and happy and friendly and outgoing because I am all of those things, but I am them because I like myself the way I am, and if someone doesnt like me, they don't like me. I have to live with it. I'm not going to have more friends by being more outgoing. I'm not going to have better friends because I'm more confident.
I'd truely be happy to help you, but I don't think that I should tell you all of these things so that you can change yourself "to get people to like" you.
Let me know if you want to better yourself, for yourself and not for people.
I know I didn't help your question, but I think that when you look back on your life, you will realize that if you make the changes for yourself you will already be happier and more confident because you're doing it for yourself and not that guy you want to like you or that girl who looks popular. I'm really sorry, and I debated answering this question because this was my answer, but I can help you (really I can) I just want you to know that you shoulcnt change yourself for others, only for yourself.
Lots of love,
Angie91
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i always have sweaty hands.
and its really annoying.
how do i decrease sweaty hands? (link)
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hey!
I have this problem a lot too, there isn't really a way to reduce the actual like production of sweat, people always joke that you should use deoderant, haha but thats a stupid idea.
I always try to keep them cold if I can. If I'm at a restaurant and the glass is cold I'll put my hands on it and bring the temperature down. You can run them under cold water for a long time in the washroom and then that will keep them icy cold for a while.
And then theres always wiping them on your pants you can put them in your back pockets and do it really casually, but there really isnt any way to decrease swaety hands sorry. :(
Actually, I found a website, and there is a medical procedure, but it like causes scaring, and I'm assuming it's not that bad and your not that rich, but if you really do want to do soemthing about it, heres the link, you can always google it too. Hope I helped, Love ya,
Angie91
http://www.sweaty-palms.com/sweaty_palms.html
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well to start off I've never had a real true bf but like 2 in elementry school but that was stupid stuff. anyways now i'm a freshmen in high school and never havin a boyfriend is really starting to suck. and therefore no bf has resulted in never being kissed. and all my friends except for one (my bff) has been kissed, made out with a guy or done other stuff. and i don't wanna go around having sex but i just wanna kiss a guy and its really startig to make me feel like crap when i see people kiss i just think ughhh i want a kiss. but i want my first to be spcail not some random guy at a party. but i'm starting to worry that when i do get a bf and he kisses me he'll be like wtf she can't kiss? and ughh i know i should be proud that i'm not going out makeing out i have morals but i just feel soo stupid and loser-ish for never being kissed or anything and i don't know what to do. (link)
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Hey!
We all worry about that, so don't worry. Also, you're not a loser, and you should be proud that you have awesome morals. And yeah a lot of people have been kissed by the time they're 15, but I'm 15 too and I havnt been kissed, so it's okay, we're not alone. I think that a lot of people make a big deal out of a first kiss, because they've had one, but it's not really that much more special than the second or third one from what my friends have said.
I'm sure we arent bad kissers, for your first kiss, just let him take control and then as you get the hang of it let it go.
It sucks not to have a boyfriend, I know, but the right one will come along soon, so don't stress about it. Your morals and stuff is way more important.
Lastly, I always just tell myself, that if I have to change something just to have a boyfriend hanging off my hip in highschool when I could be out having fun with my friends having a great time while I still can, then is change worth it? I don't think so, if a guy whose decent comes along, thats great, but if theres no one until later in life, I'm cool with that too. So don't worry, it'll be fine, and you're not alone, so don't fret! You're awesome and you know it, so when someone realizes, then everything will all work out. I hope I helped, love ya,
Angie91
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what are some songs about summer and stuff? for example, summertime by kenny chesney, summer by tasty merc, or in the summer by m something? anyways tell me some other ones besides them. thanks (link)
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Hey!
I googled it (just so you know it's not that hard :P). Here's what I found:
1. Summer Lovin' - Grease
2. Summertime, Summertime - Jamies
3. Those Lazy Hazy Crazy Days Of Summer - Nat King Cole
4. Happy Together - Turtles
5. Summer in the City - Loving Spoonful
6. School's Out - Alice Cooper
7. Joy To The World - Three Dog Night
8. Surfin USA - Beach Boys
9. California Sun - Riverias
10. Summertime's Calling Me - Catalinas
11. Summertime - DJ Jazzy Jeff & Fresh Prince
12. Summer - War
13. Saturday In The Park - Chicago
14. Girl Watcher - O'Kaysions
15. Remember (Walking in the Sand) - Shangri La's
16. I Can See Clearly Now - Johnny Nash
17. Hot Fun In The Summertime - Sly and the Family Stone
18. We Got The Beat - Go Go's
19. Summer Wind - Frank Sinatra
20. Summertime Blues - Eddie Cocheran
Those are the top twenty at this site:
http://www.popculturemadness.com/Music/Summer.html
but theres 20 more, plus some additional songs listed at the bottom of the page.
I've listened to a few of those, depending on what you want some of them are pretty good.
Hope I helped,
love ya,
Angie91
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i have to write a poem about thing to sell that cant be sold, for example "a rainy day in april" or "lies" or things like that, but i dont know what to write! can i please get some inspiration? should i write about thing i'd want to be able to buy but cant be bought like love and honesty and positive things, or things that i have in my life that are bad and i'd like to sell? whats best? thankss! (link)
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hey!
I like the example about weather. You could try things like a sunset or watching the sunrize or the clear sky on a sunny day, that feeling you get when you jump into a cool lake in the hot summer time.
things you'd like to sell... hmm like a fight with your friends or bug bites. you could do a take off on that old mary kate and ashley olsen song they did when they were super young and try and sell your big brother. :p
Those were a few random ideas, to decide between selling the bad and buying the good you have to decide is this a happy {:)} poem or a sad {:(} poem? So if it's happy, buy something you love, if it's sad sell something you don't love.
I hope that gave you some inspiration, good luck, it'll be awesome I know it!
Love ya,
Angie91
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Can someone help me how to type properly? There was this program like Mavis Becan at school to help me type properly but I still didn't get it.
I don't type properly but I don't type in like a weird way or anything but my cousin was in high school and he's like if you don't type properly the teacher can give you a low mark in computer class.
I'm going to high school next year and I'm worried (link)
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hey!
Well this is a problem I have always had. I think that you shouldnt worry about your typing, there are very few free ones, but there are a couple if you search google for free typing programs a couple might come up. It would probably be a good idea to just go out and buy one though. If that's not an option, you can take a peice of paper and try and copy it out on to word or note pad and try and keep your fingers on the right keys.
Lastly, if none of that works, before class on your like first or second day of computer class in school, tell the teacher you have difficulty typing, what can you do in order to get a good mark. Maybe you have to stay at lunch and practice or something. I was worried about losing marks for typing too, but my teacher marked us on whether or not we tried. So I got a good mark even though my typing wasnt great. I hope that helped, love ya,
Angie91
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is it possible to put songs from limewire onto your iPod?
if it is..how do you do it?!
thanks sooo much! (link)
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Hey!
As far as I know, no. what you have to do, is put the songs on a program, either one that comes with your ipod, or like Windows media player (or whatever you have on your computer) and it should have a portable device program on it. If that doesnt work, read your manuel for your ipod, or go to limewires FAQ and you might be able to figure out more :). Hope I helped, love ya,
Angie91
P.s. I tried this with my mp3 player and it didnt work with limewire but my mp3 player is crap, so... you never know, your best bet would be reading the FAQ. :P
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There is this boy at my school that i really really like and ive only just started to get to know him and we are getting on really well, we talk in school alot and text each other and talk on the internet but i want something more, but i dont want to rush into anything
should i wait a few weeks to see if anything develops or should i tell him how i feel about him? i dont want to scare him off
we are both going to a gig on friday night so something could happen but im scared of making a move
i really dont know what to do, i dont even know if he likes me in that way, but i guess if he didnt like me he wouldnt text me and that? i dont know
help me :)! thanks (link)
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Hey!
This is a toughy, you have to decide something. Theres two ways you can deal with this, both of which you've acknowledged, asking him out, or letting things take their course.
If you use the second one, then theres less of a chance that something will happen, but if you're still early on, then you can do that, by sending him slight signals (flirting) and he can respond if he wants, but this isnt a gaurantee that he will ask you out, and if you want a gaurantee, then you have to do it yourself.
SO you can talk to him and ask him out yourself, or make small moves or you can let fate take it itself and let him figure it out.
The problem with doing it yourself is, you're scared, but the only way to get over a fear is to do it. So dont let it being a fear get in your way, because if you dont get over it sometime, you never will.
I hope I answered your question, lots of love,
Angie91
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I've been dating this guy for only one month but I really fell inlove with him because he was so nice, sweet, he cared for me and it seems like he was so inlove with me. He always told me that I'm the only one for him and that he wouldn't look for another girl. He has promised me that he wouldn't leave me and that he would love me for the rest of his life. He shares his every problem to me and he always asked to please not leave him. He was so thoughtful that he was texting me every single minute just to say he loves me and he misses me. Everything was so great until last week. Last saturday, he was busy because of the pageant that he would be joining. He couldn't text me like every single minute that he usually does. I know that it was my fault because I was so paranoid. I called him after the pageant and asked him why he didn't text or call me. He said that he was busy and hoped that i would understand. But stupid me, i didn't understand him and told him that it was better without a bf because i could concentrate on my studies like before. He was hurt on what i've said because this guy is a very sensitive guy. He didn't text or call me anymore and he didn't answer my call. I said that i was sorry but he didn't forgive me. Two days have passed still no call and messages from him. It was really hard for me,i was so annoyed so i texted him and told him to talk to me and tell me what was the problem. Still no reply. I asked my sister to call him, she asked her what's up with me and him. He told her that he loves me but he also said that i only think of my feelings. Instead of asking him how was the pageant, I nagged him and asked him why he didn't call me. After a few minutes of conversation with my sister, he broke up with me, he said that it really hurt him what i did. I know that it was my fault but if he really loves me, he would forgive me right? I begged him to come back to me but he said that it would be the best if we'll be friends. He said that it's also for my own good and that he doesnt want to hurt me. He said that it was not his intention to hurt me. I know that he has other reason why he broke up with me. He wouldn't rtell me that it was not his intention to hurt me if he's only reason for breaking up is that i hurt his feelings. Now i'm thinking that maybe he has found another girl. He doesn't want to tell me what was the reason. The last time i called him, he picked it up luckily, i told him that i love him and that i miss him. He said that he loves me too and that he misses me too. but after we hanged up the phone, he sent me a message and told me again that it would be better if we would just be friends. I really want to know the reason but he doesn't tell me. What's this? Last week, he still loved me and now, he doesn't love me anymore? That quick? What do you think, did he already find a new girl that's why he didn't do his promise that he'll never replace me? We don't have communication now, he doesn't call me anymore nor text me. It really hurts me. But his status on his site is still in a relationship, he still didnt change it single like what i did. And below his site, there is word "I Love You" there. I don't know if that's for me or for other girl. Please help me, it's confusing. I don't know what was his reason for leaving me. Thanks in advance..
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hey!
I know this is really tough for you, but I think you are obsessing a little bit. I know this is a tough situation and everyone has different ways of handleing it, but you need to calm down and think about it alittle bit more. Yeah theres the possibility he lied and wanted to date someone else, but maybe he does feel unloved and uncared for.
I know you're confused and you wnat answers, but he isnt giving them to you right now, so maybe you should calmly try and stop bothering him. Instead of nagging him and asking him why he broke up with you, ask him how his day is going and how the pagent went. Tell him you miss him and you wish you and him could work things out, but if you cant then you understand.
I'm sure he hasnt stopped loving you yet, I think he just needs a break. Every relationship goes through this type of thing where you need some time off, and he's going through that right now. So your best bet, if you want him back, is to give him some space and let him take his own path. Hopefully you'll get back together, but if he decides to move on, then ask him one day why it is he broke up with you.
For the meantime, try and kep up the conversation with him letting him know you care, whether or not it will save your relationship I don't know, but if you continue to ask how he is then maybe it will help him to know you are still trying.
Obviously something is wrong, and if you are willing to fix it then I'm sure it;s not over for good. Let me know if you want anymore help (I have lots of moving on tips if you need them eventually) or have any questions. Hope I helpped, love ya,
Angie91
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how much is it normally to get your teeth whitened? and, is there like different ways they do it?? i know there might be different prices for different places, but could you give me like what most are?
thx!!! (link)
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Hey!
Well I would recommend talking to your dentist. (s)he can provide you with different opptions, because its possible all you need it a different kind of toothpaste or a change in diet that can be a lot cheaper that an expensive whitening procedure. And if there is a product or procedure that you can afford then your dentists can tell you. It'll be a lot simpler and your options can be outlned for you.
Sorry I don't know prices but I tried to give you some help hope I did. love ya,
angie91
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I have been hooking up with this guy now for over 6 months. We kiss and hold hands and stuff everytime we see each other but we have never done anything more than that because when I try he says he "doesn't want to". He also says he doesn't want a girlfriend and that is why we are not going out but he never hooks up with other girls and has told me he loves me? He is obviously not using me for sex because we never do it and isn't seeing other people so I am really confused and any answer would be really appreciated! thanks in advance (link)
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Hey!
I answered a question about this for a girl yesterday who didnt want to date a guy anymore because she was worried he was going to ask her to be his girlfriend.
People get weirded out when it comes to commitment. The word girlfriend makes certain people scared that they are either going to gt hurt or not get to live life to the fullest.
So basically you have two choices, you can date him and keep going the way you are with out a commitment, or you can try and change it,by asking him to make a commitment to you. Either way, it's probably just going to be the same, but if he cheats on you this way, he's going to do it infront of your face, but if he cheats on you when you're a exclusive it'll be behind your back. But if you're confident he wont see anyone else, then why make a commitment? It's totally up to you and how you feel. But you cant change him ad the way he feels, but talk to him about it. Things may change you never know.Hope I helped. Love ya,
Angie91
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Can anyone tell me the names of some common Child Actresses?
Thanks so Much!! (link)
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child as in right now a child?
Heres what you do. Go to www.IMDB.com and you can do a search for children born in a certain year, so say you want an actress whose ten then you can seach 1997 and you'll find all the girls born in 1997.
-ariel waller (9)
-Alyssa shafer (10)
-Payton Spencer (10)
if you want kids who are older then theres a slew of the them dakota fanning, the girl from charlie and the chocolate factory. Imdb's your best bet. hope I helpped love ya
Angie91
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My hair is really straight and wont curl!
I have tried curling mooses and Curling irons
I heard that Curling shampoo works...
Or Curlers..
I just dont want to waste my money on something that doesnt work!
I really need it curly by this wednesday, i have a special event to attend
Any suggestions will work
Thanks
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Hey!
Well I'm working on this problem too. Here's what I would do, talk to the people at the drug store and tell them you want something that works.
As far as I know curling shampoo dosnt work. Because I got sunsilk and it makes my hair flatter..
Look for gels and sprays that have a high number (like 10) in the hold. Sometimes sport gels work better than other ones.
It sucks that I dont have any other suggestions, but Try some stuff monday tuesday and wednesday and hopefully by wednesday night you'll find something that works.
Good luck let me know if you find something that works. Love ya,
Angie91
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Hey guys I really need help about this!!!Well theres this guy(who turns to be my best friend)that im MADLY in love with.But he has a gf(...)so I figured the best thing to do is to move on on and let go...but I dont know how!!!plz HELP..i really need to shut my feelings for him because it hurts to watch him being in love with some1 else while im sitting here waiting on him.so please tell me what to do so i can 4get about him.i really have to.i cant stop thinking about him and it makes me cry.i cry almost every nights...please tell me what to do but,please dont tell me to do activities because theres not much to do where I live.just tell me what I should do toward him and stuff!
im waiting for your help.
thanx in advance
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Hey!
OMG I can't believe I almost missed this question! I had already gone through all of the pages and I was bored so I was liek hey I'll look around one more time and I foudn your question. I have all the moving on tips in the book, so if you need some help, I think I've gotcha covered.
K, there are a lot of steps to moving on, and every situation is different so every person has a different step that is easier than another.
So the first step is to get involved. I know you said theres nothing to do where you live. But thats kinda a key step so if you can find anything thats better than nothing. Volunteer, walk your neighbours dogs, babysit the kid across the street. If theres absolutely nothing, then make your own thing, grab some friends and make a bowling team or set up a mom and daughter night and go with a bunch of your friends and their moms to a movie every month. Find something that you can do thats unusual and keeps your mind off of him.
The second one is fun, It's "me time" you need to find something that you can do on your own that makes you smile. Some people go out for lunch by themselves(but the reverse is if you see a couple out to dinner you might feel upset) some people take bubble bath or light candles and watch a movie.
The next one is expressing yourself. You need to find something that you can do to make yourself feel better, whether thats drawing, or painting or writing or playing basketball.
Then you need to set goals for yourself. set ten goals and start to tick them off, one can be clean your room on a regular basis or something but one can be stop obsessing about _____.
I know, you're thinking this advice sucks, I wanna know how to stop liking him. But thats one thing that all of this stuff will help with. If you're too busy planning the bowling night, are you thinking about him?
K the next one is finding friends. Usually activities help with this but it sounds like it wont work where you are. SO you need to find someone in everyone of your classes and focus on them. Maybe they're that hot guy you never really thought about dating, so flirt, maybe its the quiet girl in the corner that doesnt really have alot of friends in that class. try and meet someone new in every class. No don't ditch your friends, but reach out to others. And if you find a hot guy, well enough said.
As far as the fading of the crush, it may fade right away, or it may take months you never know, one day though it will fade and you'll find someone else. So basically, how do you stop from crying everynight? You focus on other things, and if you still have to cry everynight for a bit, well that may be the case. Each crush fades differently. When you're around him you'll hurt, but you just have to think about all of those great ways you're bettering yourself in life by setting those goals and spending time reaching out to others.
This is a hard situation, and I know how you're feeling it sucks. But I can help you out okay, so if you need anything else, or if those don't work, thats okay, I can give you some more, those are just a few ideas, and they may not work but something will and you'll find it. Good luck, and I hope I helped. Lots of love,
Angie91
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yeah i know i should drink lots of water.but i love juice is that still okay to drink if im trying to lose weight and i drink power-aid are thoughs alright to drink (link)
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hey!
I sorta have the same problem, I love juice so much. So what I do is I have a glass of real orange juice in the morning with breakfast (who wants water for breakfast) and then I plan to drink at least two water bottles full of water a day, and if by dinner I didnt drink 2, then I drink a glass of water with dinner. And then I try to drink one more bottle before bedtime, but sometimes thats pushing. I definitely would not suggest drinking poweraid unless you are working out majorly. Like if you're in a tournamnet and stuff where you need to be playing all day. Because its liek 50% sugar (and so are drink beverages which like to sneak in and pretend theyre juice so be careful) its really not doing anything good. So try and drink as much water as possible and throw in the juice kinda like you would with desserts in moderation.
I hope I helpped, love ya,
Angie91
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well, me and my boyfriend's one year will be coming up very shortly. i really need suggestions on what to get him. I've alreay made him a scrap book-so a no on that. he likes rock music, his main thing is music. no, we're not going to have sex. i'm waiting until i'm married. [he know's this] so, any suggestions on what to get him or what we could do? please answer this. i really want to make it special for the both of us. (link)
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Hey!
I love these questions so much. I love that you were like no, we're not going to have sex. Thats awesome.
K so first of all, It's awesome that you wanna make this a great night, but all I can do is give you a bunch of suggestions, you can like build on them or mix and match and stuff.
The first thing everyone says when they ask this type of questions is: "No scrapbooks." like you, you've done it already, or it's just not some peoples type of thing, but you can always do something special for him like a scrap book thats not a boring old scrap book. I always tell my friend when she asks me what she should get her bf to make something. But she always refuses, I don't know why, it's a good idea. Anyway, think about his bedroom, what is he missing, does he have a bare wall, you could make a collage of all of his fave rock bands, you could make something like a guitar pick holder or something. I'm just saying that because most rock fans have guitars, but if not, you don't have to do that obviously. Um, is his door boreing, you can make a door hanging with like pictures of the two of you, or bands or something similar to a scrap book but awesome-er.
Are his sheets like batman or something old, that he's had since he was five, because thats a pretty classic problem for guys, you could always get him a set liek that with something awesome on it. Or you can get some awesome pillow cases that have liek have his fave band on them.
a bathing suits an awesome idea, if you wanna buy him something, summers just around the corner, and most guys need bathing suits or those designer towels.
Shirts are boring but they work too. That and sweaters, but its summer time unless its not summer time where you are, then maybe a sweater would be a good idea.
I remember my friend made her bf this coupon book once. It was pretty funny, it was like simple things like doing his laundry and baking him cookies and at the back there were like three free kiss coupons, but she was the same as you she didnt want to have to like have sex on the date and stuff.
I think that should give you an idea, now on the date.
There are millions of things you can do, but talk to him first and make sure he doesnt have anything planned that will conflict with your ideas.
Make him breakfast in bed, go to a baseball game, have a picnic, go for a romantic dinner, make a romantic dinner for two at home, go for a walk at sunset, go to the zoo (:P) go for a walk in the park, feed the ducks, (if you have ducks, or you could always just feed the random birds) rent a movie and stay in. Go to a drive in movie, those are fun if you can find one, those are just a few ideas, there are millions out there that will work for you and him, you just have to think of them, doesnt that suck :P. Talk about it with your friends and his friends and of course him, you'll thgink of soemthing dont worry. Have an awesome time, hope I helpped, love ya,
Angie91
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so i have this friend named alicen. and i consider her my best friend. however, she doesnt think im hers. how do i get her to think im her best friend? Pleaseee help this is so important to me. Thanks. (link)
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hey!
I think that best friends are a hard situation. Like I have a lot of great friends, and I don't think I have one best friend (so I'm like alicen). But you do, so you think she's your best friend, but she doesn't have to be your best friend and you don't have to be hers. So basically I'm saying, you can't force her to choose you as her best friend, you jsut have to let her decide on her own, if you continue to be an awesome friend and care for her the way that she cares for you and sometimes even more. You're going to have a lot of best friends in your life and even more great friends, so if you continue to be awesome and friendly, someone will have you as their best friend. Maybe it will be alicen, maybe it wont. Good luck, love ya,
Angie91
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