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Ex-Boyfriend too friendly?
My ex-boyfriend from about 6 months ago and I have finally started to be friendly towards one another. It's nice. He basically refused to talk to me before because I didn't want to get back together with him when we broke it off, even though it was mutual. The talking started about 2 months ago. Today, through one of his better friends, I learned that he is still "madly in love with me." Now I don't know what to do with our relationship. I'm starting to think that he only started talking to me again because he believes he has a chance, which he doesn't. I'd never get back together with him. I don't want to lead him on. Should i confront him with it? Ignore it? Any advice is appreciated.
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I read the other answers and they were both good, but I think you need to kind of combine them. I think one day you should just sit down and say that you're really glad that you two get to be friends and that you missed him when he stopped talking to you, and you're glad that he knows that nothing can ever happen between the two of you, and accepts it. If you suggest that he knows it already, then he's not going to make a big deal of it and confront you making a big fool of himself and if the rumor's a rumor, you still have you're dignity.
Thats what I would do anyway. I hope I helped, good luck, love ya,
Angie91
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Hunni, all that I know to say to you is that honesty is the best policy. Just tell him exactly how you feel and WHY you feel the way you do. Also, be sure to tell him that you want to be friends with him, but nothing more. Ya know? Make that clearn and hopefully he can take the hint and you can start to be friends without him wanting or expecting more. If he still continues, then... is he really much of a friend? Ya know? I would think that if you were friends then he would respect what you want and your happiness. So... just be honest and take it from there. *Smiles*. Best of luck hun!
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Well, if by chance your information is wrong and you say something-- you'll end up with egg on your face and feel like a fool.
I would allow it to continue just how it is right now-- let him talk to you nicely, return nicities, and be polite, and wait to see if he says anthing to you about "getting back together" then you can tell him how you feel about that.
All things come in the right time, and don't get caught up in someone elses' view point of what is or isn't because often, it is incorrect.
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