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Q: I want to get another westie. I have a little girl dog, right now, who is 2. I'm not trying to replace her or anything, but I just want one for christmas, & I think my parents will get me one. I would get a little boy dog..the only thing I'm worried about, is the girl dog that i have now, will get jealous of the new one. I mean, shes soooooo spoiled. Like for christmas.. i spent already 200 dollars, on her. & im not done yet. sooo yeahhh. & she know shes like the cutest little thing in the world too.
So, anyways.. I'm wondering, how she will get along with the new dog [which will also be a westie] & stuff like that...
or any experience you have with having 2 westies?
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Holy shit. That dog is spoiled. But it depends on if your dog has interacted with other dogs. When she sees other dogs does she bark angrily or sniff their butts? If she barks angriliy, the new puppy might not be that great of an idead. If she sniffs their butts, it should be fine. But either way, dont let the two dogs meet at home. Take them to meet at a park so your dog now wont feel as territorial.
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Q: Everybody knows that if you touch something static like one of those slides at the playground and somebody else you'll get shocked. However, this is NOT THE CASE.
I have this sort of blanket at home that I use to get warm on the couch when it's cold and I have been getting shocked by it! The tag which says what it's made of is ripped off but for instance, when I throw it around my back my hands get the smallest shocks and I can hear it too. Sometimes I can just hear something thats sounds like pops/shocks on the blacket itself when I move it. Also outside I have just been getting shocked a lot, by touching other people(nonintencially) or getting out of the car. What could this be? I haven't had any surgery and no foreign objects have been put into my body. I'm only 14.
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You're normal. Dont worry. But.. next time you get shocked by the blanket, lift it up and try to get shocked again, while looking at it. It looks cool because it lights up! Haha as you can probably tell, I've done it many times.
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Q: Okay. Well there is this boy, and i like him and i'm not sure if he likes me. we sit infront of each other and we like to talk and stuff. And we were talkin one day and he made me laugh and the girl next to him said "Just go ahead and ask her out already!!" and he boy just sorta giggled,smiled, and turned real red. then like 5 minutes later she said it again and all he did was smile and turn real red...We like to push each others desks. and the boy sittin next to me (not the one i like) saw him push my desk. and he's like "ohh foostie!" and the boy i like blushed...and smiled at me... Does he like me!? Because one time the girl sittin next to the boy i like wrote him a note. talkin bout if he liked me. and i read a lil and she asked if he liked me and i didn't get to read the answer, then later down in the note i saw that she asked " what a friend?" so i had my doubts...so i dont know if he does... does he?
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I think he does!!!!!! It sounds like he does. Go and tell him that you like him!!
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Q: what is the perfect way to confess your feelings to a girl?
although it may seem a petty issue,but i want it to be a memorable one.
what do you think of these options?
1)at the beach at night
2)out during dinner
erm,any other suggestions,and if the gal is shorter than you...do girls like it when you go down to her height to confess or do they like to look up to you?
please tell me any more suggestions like places,or how to confess,i mean...words are not really necessary right?
thanks for reading.
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Well depending on where the beach is, I like that at sunset though. But dont do it if its too cold. If it is too cold, then I suggest alone, maybe for a little walk in the woods or at your house. Her looking up at you is good.
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Q: 16/m
I'm so sick of being alive. Everything is so hard. I can't stand it. It's like I'm doing something wrong. I have few friends, but it doesn't matter because I don't like them. I don't like any one. People don't meet my standards and they never will. And when it comes to girls I have no idea what I'm doing. It's like there's some secret technique that every one but me seems to understand. My problems with girls contribute the most to my loneliness and depression. I'm unmotivated in school, because I care more about trying to find a place I belong, trying to find some one who understands me. I can hardly sleep because I'm always worrying about all this. I'm scared I'll never have friends. I'm scared I'll never have a good job. I'm scared I'll never have my first kiss or have sex, and if I do it will be with some one I don't want to do it with. Somewhere between now and the next few years I 100% sure I'll be dead. I can't take it anymore. I've been to therapy and they even locked me up like a criminal in a mental health ward, but to no avail. I hate life. I hate myself. I hate every one, especially if they're happy. I don't see things ever getting better. Please help me. And don't post anything about God, Jesus, or religion of any kind, it will be an automatic 1 on your rating.
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I'm sorry your life is not as good as you would like it to be. But that is no reason to kill yourself. Life can be hard at times, everyone knows it, even people you wouldnt have expected may suffer through depression. So dont feel like your alone. And there are people going though more shit then you. People starving, people being homeless, people with diseases.. ect.
Girls arent as difficult as everyone thinks. If you are nice to them and make them laugh (looks help a little too, but there are girls who dont care about looks) and you are brave enough to ask them out, they will most likely say yes. Your first kiss will come and so will your first time.
About school, I suggest you try to get good grades. Having a good social life in highschool isnt important in the real world, when you are in college or working. Having a good education will stick with you.
To be happy, exercise, it releases chemicals that make you happy. Also try activitie. Try to do things you truly enjoy that will take your mind off of suicidal thoughts. Do you like a sport? Play it. Do you like to read? Read a good book, maybe even join a book club. Like to draw? Get a sketch book and bring it with you everywhere. Try joining an art club. Do whatever floats your boat that wont get you more depressed. Joining clubs will help you make more friends and get you having fun.
Please do not kill yourself or injure yourself (like cutting). Your death could lead to so many lives being altered. Your loved ones would be very sad. I would be very sad. Just please dont do it.
If you ever need to talk, you could ask me a question or IM me- BreatheIn4Luck81
I'd be happy to help.
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Q: I saw an Above the Influence commercial about people who Slom [It stands for Sticking Leeches on Myself] and it mentioned kids doing it at schools and parties just like smoking or drugs. I was wondering, why do kids do it? What exactly is it? How does it affect them? and where do they get the leeches?
I've never heard of this before so I'm just curious.
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I'm not sure, but I think it was a joke and no kids do it. I think that the Above the Influence people were trying to get at that drugs are stupid its ridiculous how people do it just to fit in. I am pretty sure they made SLOMing up. I saw the commercial and thought the same thing at first.
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Q: What's that one movie with Jim Carey where he meets God or something? PLEASE LET ME KNOW!
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Bruce Almighty. Haha. He meets god and gets god like powers basically.
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Q: Ok, so I have been doing Taebo every Monday, Wednesday and Friday for the last few weeks. I am a 16/f and I am just wondering how long it takes for the results to start showing?? I am 5'6" and weigh 210, does the Taebo actually take away the weight or does it just tone the body?? Thanks so much for your help, Need answers as soon as possible!!!!
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Hahah Billy Blank is my hero. I did Taebo for about a week haha. I'm pretty sure its supposed to help you lose weight and tone. There is cardio, and some muscle strengthening.
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Q:
i'm 14, turning 15 in a few months.
i still don't have my period, is that okay?
i'm getting worried.
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When you turn 15 and you still don't have it, you should tell your parents and go to a doctor, probably a ob gyn
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Q: I recently learned to knit. This prompted my sister to say that she wanted to learn to knit as well. I thought it would be fun to teach her to knit, but I don't spend much time with her (she's in middle school and I'm in college) so I thought that I could get her a fun knitting kit for Christmas. Does anyone have any suggestions for a knitting kit I could get her? I'd like it if it had an instruction booklet, needles, and yarn included. Thanks!
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I had one. It was pretty good it was Klutz I think. You can get it at like A.C. Moore. It comes with instructions, needles and yarn.
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Q: I kinda told some of my friends that my boyfriend and I made out because we're known as the "goody two shoes" couple at school, so people don't expect us to do anything, but thats not how we are. One of them told their mom, and shes telling other moms! How do I make sure my mom doesn't find out, and if she does, what should I do?
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You cant really do anything to stop other moms from telling your mom. But when she finds out about it, if she does, and if she asks you about it, just tell her the truth. Tell her its not a really big deal, and your not having sex or anything like that. Haha.
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Q: okay im 14 years old and i weight 120 pounds. oh yeha im like 5"4 i want to loose weight because i feel so fat. yeah i know watch what i eat. i dont eat junk food or fast food. i know that i could do sit ups push ups cruntches running jogging but do you guys have any other tips i could do cause i want to loose 15 pounds. please help me!!! thankyouu so much
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First of all, if you are "fat", then I am "fatter". And based on the fact that I am not fat, you arent either. You are at a healthy weight. If you lose 15 lbs, then you will be underweight and that would be bad because you could hurt your body from being underweight, dont lose more than 12 lbs. Dont call yourself (or anyone else) fat. But if you want to lose weight to raise your self esteem, I understand, just do it healthily.
Exercise at least 3 days a week for 45 minutes a day. If you really want to lose weight, i suggest doing that cardio (running, walking, biking, ect) and then tone your muscles everyday (crunches, push ups, squats, ect) Cut out soda and eat healthy, eat smaller portions. Meat should be no larger than your palm.
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I just found out that my hubsand is cheating on me and he told me that it is over between him and the other woman I don't know if i should beleive him or just file for a divorce
i've been with my hubsand for 29 years and he just cheated on me with another woman 3 years ago and moved with her and i took him back after 8 months and now all over again
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Dang that sucks. Well I dont have any situation in being married or being cheated on, but I do know how you are probably feeling and how I would personally handle the situation. I would divorce him. If its his second time cheating on you, he is obviously not faithful or sorry about cheating, since he continues to do it. If you forgive him this time, he will most likely cheat on you again.
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Q: ok so i think collage and school is soo important to me
but there's this one girl who wants to fight me because i liked her rebound boy and she went crazzy so weve been fighting for days now and today she came up to my face and i called her a slut but see i dont want to fight her because it will show on collage records and im like a good student but not a nerd you know what should i do
helppppp??
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Don't fight her. Its that simple. Maybe you can even apologize for calling her a slut to make the situation disappear. Maybe talk to her about the problem between you two, and try to get it to resolve so there hopefully wont be any fighting in the future.
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Q: Hi you answered one of my questions called invisible and the problem is we dont have any of the same classes and i only see him in the hall way. Now what do i do?
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Do you have AIM? Try to find out what his screen name. Or if you want to be really brave, you can look up his phone number in your school directory. He will probably see you as a more confident, attractive girl if you do that! If neither of those are possible, ask me again and I'll beable to come up with more ways to talk to him.
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Q: im 16 and my bf will be 17 on his birthday.. which then we'll have been together almost 7 months. we go to different schools and i wouldnt be able to really hang out with him that day because right after school he goes to work until late, but he says that his birthday is always just like another day and he never has parties or anything like that so i want to make it a good one for him. so i have two ideas:
1. get checked out of school about 30 minutes early and go to his school and show up and wait in the lobby or something about 5 minutes before the last bell rings so that when he walks out ill be there and have his present and maybe a balloon or rose with me to give him [btw would a guy like a single rose or is that more of a chick thing?]
but then today as i was leaving school i saw this really sweet sign someone hung on a stop sign for someone else that gave me another idea..
make a sign with his initials or nickname or something on it that has a message for him [i wont use his full name or anything tho incase itd be embarrassing or something!] and then sign it. and then unexpectedly go to his work and wait there with his present and balloons or w/e and then eat there with him if he can (he works at a restaurant).
soo yeah. which one of these sounds better? im not sure if ill be driving but if not my mom already kind of knows the plan so maybe she'll help me lol. advice/opinions on this?
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I personnally like the first plan. Mainly because some bosses are strict about people visting their employees. And I just like the idea of the first one, I think its cute. And I think a guy can accept a single rose.
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Q: 13/f
I used to have curly hair (longer then my shoulders) (its naturaly curly)
But then I decided i would straighten it. Because it looks bad curly. Haha.
But now thats its been like 6 months, straight hair is getting super borring, its teh same every day. I need something else.
I want to curl my hair.
this is me. With straight hair
http://i12.tinypic.com/2yxkpa8.jpg
&&
http://i14.tinypic.com/2yywakk.jpg
what can i use to make it curly? remeber i have naturaly curly hair!!
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Wash your hair. When you get out of the shower brush it and then wrap your hair in a towel (that makes my hair curlier). I use Redken 07 curling gel stuff or this mouse stuff that my sister gave me from this special salon. It works pretty good, I have really long hair so its harder but i'm sure on shorter hair it works even better!
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Q: Alright, So I have a BMI is 23.21. I'm about 5'3 and I way 131 pounds.
My main issue is my stomache, the rest of my body I think looks pretty good.
I have a fat stomache, I've been doing crunches, sit ups, trying to eat healthier. Can anyone suggest anymore good ideas? Or workouts? Or types of food that increaces your matabolism?(sp)
But my main question is if I keep working on my stomache, and running, and exercising, through the this year, and during the summer, maybe by next school year I will be skinnier?
I want a flat stomache:(
[if seems like i'm the only fat girl.. I mean im not like REALLY FAT, but it seems everygirl I see, has a flat stomache, and isnt fat at all. And I see other people but its either they are skinny and have flat tummys or they are obvoiusly really obese. I dont think its obvious for me, but when I wear a bathing suit, my stomache isnt flat.
I want my stomache to be as flat as like where my underwear is? Like above my crotch, this sounds bad, but I mean like I want my stomache to be flat and match up and be completely flat. Like if i wear a bathing suit, theres not roll.
Sorry this was so long :(
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Okay, so basically your not fat. Your not overweight. And you shouldnt call yourself (or anyone esle) fat.
If you want to lose weight, exercise at least 3 days a week for 45 minutes, cut out soda and sugary juices, eat healthily, and keep doing crunches. Do this for 2 weeks and if you havent lost any weight then stop it because its obviously not working for you, even though it is the healthy way to lose weight.
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Q: Ugh...I noticed for a while that people seemed to be giggling when they were behind me, but I always thought maybe I was just being paranoid or something and just sort of ignored it. One day I was on the bench waiting for the bus when this group of girls started laughing and saying "oh my gosh" so I turned around and asked them "what's so funny?"
and one of them was like "your butt crack is totally hanging out!"
I thought she was joking but I felt back there and found out she was right. Later I told one of my friends about happened and he sort of turned red and looked away. And then he admitted that "yeah, that happens to you all the time. That's sort of what you're known for." I suddenly felt really bad and burst into tears which, as a guy, is really embarrassing and I know sounds really stupid. He apologized for never telling me, he said he was afraid it would make me feel bad.
Anyways, Im having a really hard time dealing with the fact that everyone I know has seen my butt crack and that Im known as the "plumber butt" guy. I feel like my dignity is gone. Ive bought new pants and fixed the "crack" problem but I cant get rid of this shame.
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Aww. Well, you just kinda gotta give it time and the embarressment will go away. Dont worry about it, people will forget soon as long as you keep that butt covered. Haha. Sorry I'm not giving that great of advice, but the only thing to do is wait to forget about it.
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Q: 14/Male
1)i go to all boy school, how can i hook up with some girls?
2)(girls answer plz)wat girls want from a guy?
3) i wear a uniform dress pance and dress shit, do girls like that? if not is their a way i can look cool with it on?
THANK YOU FOR ADVICE
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Umm i suggest making friends with some people from other schools and go to parties and dances they have and meet girls that way. Try going to public places and introduce yourself to girls. Be yourself but be nice. Girls like guys who are nice, confident, funny, honest, ect. And personally, it doesnt make a difference to me if a guy wears a uniform or not.
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I absolutely love giving advice on advicenators. When people ask for my advice in real life, its probably not as good as my responces on advicenators because advicenators gets me thinking. I love helping people and I try to give the best advice I can.
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