Hello my name is Diamond, I am currently a third year psychology major. My passion in life is to be of aid to mankind in any way possible which why I aspire to become a Psychologist no matter what it takes. I find complete and utter joy in helping others through giving them advice or by simply being an open ear for someone you just need to talk to or express your feelings to. I love to make others happy in anyway possible, it brings joy to my heart like nothing in this world. I have given advice to a large amount of people, usually people I barley know. The people I meet tend to open up to me and share their feelings and/or problems whether big or small. I have been the ears for many people who just want someone to talk to,when they feel no one else is there to listen or atleast cares enough to hear what they have to say. I have been a shoulder to cry on and I must say it is very fulfilling to have people see this sort of security and comfort in me. I am open to any questions, I am open to listen to anyone that is feeling alone or scared, I care about everyone in this world even if I have yet to meet them, I know that every human being is special,unique, and beautiful in their own way and I just want to be there for anyone who doesn't know or believe this. I want to install the importance of positive thinking into everyone I encounter in my lifetime. I am even here for those who aren't going through any particular hardship but just wants advice. Advice is always good because it is always good to have a second persons opinion to weigh your options and decisions even if you choose to use the advice or not. I am looking forward to your questions,conversations, or anything you would like. I am just a message/ e-mail away. Please do not hesitate to contact me. You will never be ignored or simply forgotten about.
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18 female
so i've had a good guy friend for about 4 years now. we use to be really close but ive ALWAYS had feelings for him, i'm almost positive he knows it. he knows i'm attracted to him and i know he's attracted to me. he recently just broke up with his girlfriend of three years, yeah tell me about it. but i always find myself joking around but i sound reallllly mean when it comes out. i act like i dont care, i dont know why but i will always be sarcastic, and joking. i hope he doesnt take it as me not liking him though. i'm going to try reallly hard to not be such a sarcastic person because sometimes i think it puts me in bad situations. is there anything i can do to make him feel appreciated and wanted by me? instead of maybe making him feel just "as a friend" and like i'm not interested at all. all the girls like him tooo but i know he's interested in me and of course we have a huge attraction. we tell each other alot actually. i just dont want to lose him. i panic when i try and figure out what to say and then i end up saying something stupid :( (link)
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Hello,well ues the sarcasm may confuse him about what you really see him as.im sure he thinks you only want him as a friend right now because for some reason its harder for guy to read girls especially if you two are and ahve been friends for so long, you are now in his friend category and its hard for him to know that you may want me more. Since you two have been friends for awhile then I am sure you guys are comfortable with eachother and know a good amount about one another. Communication is very important, you have to get the courage to tell him know how you really feel because if he will never know, especially since you are acting like you dont care and are being alittle mean about it, how can he possibly see you in another way if you are throwing around all of this negative energy, you also have to know what he wants too because I mean since he has just ended a long term relationship he might not be ready to start anything else for awhile. You should just calm down and dont be negative towads him in any way it is a big turn off, I mean you guys have been friends for awhile you wont lose him. Just be more positive towards him,give little hints that you want him. Compliments are always welcomed,there is always the option of being blunt and telling him how you truly feel and you will find out how he feels in return and wont be confused. He will understand where you are coming from but I think while you guys are talking you can maybe throw in little questions every now and then like if he is ready for a relationship,are you interested in anyone currently,what do you think of me..I mean you dont have to use those I am just throwing around ideas. Those are just pre-questions to get an idea of what would be best to do about this situation.I hope this helped,if you have any further questions you can send me a privatee message if you need me to be more detailed,the best of luck to you!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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15/f
I have never made out with a guy before. I have only pop kissed. I am about to start dating a guy and i feel the time is right because he is very sweet and he would never use me. Please explain in steps how to make out. All my friends explain it different to me and i don't know the right way. Please help and explain in steps! thanks!
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Hello, well the reason your friensd are explaining in different ways because their are a large number of ways to kiss no specific way and everyones first time is different and unique. Some guys like ot suck on your lips and or tongue and move there toungue areound in your mouth but it just depends on what the guy is intrested in. I advice you to just start with just a regualar kiss and then you and the guy will open your mouths and put your tongue in his mouth and move it around and feel comfortable with what he is doing and it will just flow from here it is not good to plan a kiss it will never turn out right because kisses can be given in so many ways their is no need to plan it will majke it awkaward. If you see that he likes to suck on lips or your tongue then you should try to do that in return its like a mixture of little things. Just try to get into it and grab on him while you are kissing. I dont want to tell yo speifically what to do because that wont be good for you...I hope this helped,if you have any further questions you can send me a privatee message if you need me to be more detailed,the best of luck to you!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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Okay my boyfriend wants me to give him head the next time we fool around. My question is how exactly is it done. Do you suck on it the whole time or just slide it in and out of your mouth? And what are some tricks I could do to make it interesting. (link)
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Hello,well going down on a guy is not as difficult as you think it might be,all you have to do is slide his penis into your mouth,make sure you have a firm grip and move your head in an up and down motion because the idea is the same as sex,its suppose to feel really similar to him going im and out of your vagina which is why it is important that your mouth is well salivated.To male it interesting he can either sit or stand,you can be in the shower,you can feel and or lick his scrotum for extra pleasure,you can move your tongue around alittle while you are going down on him,its always great to tease him alittoe..kiss him everywhere but his penis and even lick the tip before you take him in your mouth,try on the first time you put his penis in your mouth to go as far as possible it is a real turn on.Remember no matter what you do confidence is sexy,show that you are emjoying pleasuring him,he will love it..I hope this helped,the best of luck to you,if you may have further questions you can send me a private message! SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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16/f
i've been 'dating' this guy for about 4 months...when we first started this whole thing, he told me that he wasn't planning on us being boyfriend-girlfriend. i understood because he had just been dumped by his ex and to tell you the truth i like dating better then being boyfriend-girlfriend.
my problem with this is that he doesn't think twice about ignoring me, ditching me, or going days without talking to me. i also don't like not being able to say anything when girls are all over him. i called him on it once and he confessed that he liked the other girl too. that really hurt me and all my friends tell me to break up with him but i won't. i really really like him and right now he was actually supposed to be hanging out me...instead he's 'studying' with his bestfriend, who is also my ex just to put the cherry on top, which usually amounts to them playing basketball & guitar hero.
i'm also REALLY bad at being mad at him. we've only been in one fight & it was about that girl. i hate being disappointed and even though i totally prepare myself for it, it still hurts.
what should i do? (link)
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Hello,well I dont actually see too many differences between the whole dating thing and the relaitonship thing. I think he chose that over a relationship because he simply doesnt want to commit he wants to have you and know that you are there but still have the freedom to talk and flirt and whatever else with other girls. The way you are feeling seems as if you want more and right now I cant see him doing that. If he really wantee that he would show it, I mean by him ignoring you,saying he likes another girl he isnt showing that he fukly cares for you. You want someonethat is going to respect you and care about you and he obviously is doing neither,I guess the dating thing would be fine if the guy actually cared enough about you to never ignore you and show that he cared some what and giving you the attention you deserve. Frankly I do not hink he deserves you from the way he is acting he isnt showing that he wants to be "dating" you. You should definitley lay off of him for awhile and see what happens it is always excellent and very heplful to talk to him about how you feel about this situation becuase I doubt if he even knows you are upset or if he even cares. You also dont know how he is feeling about the two of you because he says he wants to date you but the way he is acting does not show it at all and as the say "actions speak louder than words". Communication is important and without out it you can not have a stable relationship whether it be with a friend or a boy so be open and honest and you will get far. You are young its no fun to fell this way about a boy that might not be worth it. I hope this helped and if you have any further questions I would be happy to answer them on this topic or any other topic for that matter,just send me a private message and I will be happy to help you. Just remember to never settle for just anything,you are worth having the best!!!The best of luck to you
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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you know the flaps of skin like on the outside of your whole vagina; well how do you tighten them up?
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Hello, I want to apologize for how the person below me laughed at your question and/or took it as a joke. No one ask questions just to ask to ask I value everyones questions including yours, this topicis obviously rather important to you or you wouldn't have asked. I don't know quite alot on this topic however there is a serum/cream that can be used to tighten the vagina if that helps it is called St.Botanica Lady secret serum,you can google it or better yet just go to this website: http://www.stbotanica.com/lady-secret-serum.htm. Surgery is also an option but I dont think you want to go to those extreme lengths. You can also google:cream to tighten vagianl lips, see what links you get you may find something good. I hope this was helpful,if you have any further questions you can send me a private message and I will be more than happy to answer..the best of luck to you!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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ok heres the 411 I am a 19 year old girl working her way through what should be the best year of her life my last year at college but I am working with a 40 year old guy who I cant stand he creeps me out which is making me miserable !! He NEVER listens to me and he just creeps me out what do I do?
HELP!
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Hello,well unfortuantley in life we have to go through uos and downs,work on things we dont want and work with people we are not fond of, sometimes there is nothing you can do and sometimes you can..depends on the situation. Remember communication is key I am not sure if the man knows how miserable he is making you it could just be a part of his character that is getting on your last nerves. Most of the time people dont know when they are making others uncomfortable because either that is just who they are or the person isnt hinting that something is wrong. I think you should actually have a haeart to hear t conversation about this with him and tell him how you feel that is the only way he will know after all. Do you have any other person you could work with?because if you have the option to change this you should go for it, but dont hesitate to tell him what you are feeling just be honest I am sure he is amature adult, he will understand and hopefully take what you say into account.I hope this was helpful,If you have trouble thinking of how to approach him and tell him how you feel you can feel free to send me a private message and I can help you with any other questions or concerns you may have on any given topic.The best of luck to you!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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my life is crazy when it comes to guys. i can't seem to settle down with just one, so i feel the need to talk to many. ive been talking to one of the guys for over 6 months, he really likes me. and i like him too. but then again i think im falling for my best friend. also, there's new guys that come into my life. im out of control. i dont really go on dates with them, or hook up with them much. i just talk to them constantly. sometimes i hang out with them. and they do kiss me or so, but its nothing big. i think im like this because my past relationship really scarred me. i dont trust guys. but i dont know what to do anymore. help? thank you (link)
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Hello,well yes you are right,your past realtionships have a big effect on the way you are now, I think you talk to all of these guys and dont fully open up simply because you are afraid of getting hurt. You use all these other guys as a safety net so you wont get hurt again in anyway. The big question here is do you honestly want to change because if you do and you dont at the same time this wont work you have to be fully commited and know what you want. I am sure you do want a relationship but you arent giving the guys a chance to really get to know you or maybe yoiu just havent found that right guy that you really want to open up to and get to know. If you really want to stop then you should dimply say hey what do I want and go from there. You have to be truthful and honest with yourself, you do not need a guy to make you feel good, you have to feel good about yourself and learn that you can be independent without the constant need of attention. A girl cab get attention from any guy, sure it is enjoyable to know that you are wanted but you are past this stage, you know guys want you but now its time to know that having attention from a guy that really cares and has a general interest in you is way more fulfilling than just any guy. It is time to choose who might be potential relationship material it is either from what you say, the guy that you have been talking to for 6 months or your bestfriend and once you are not afraid to open up and accept what they have to offer you wont crave that attention from a number of other guys. What you need is one guy to show you all the attention you need and more:) I hope this was helpful and the best of luck to you,if I was not detailed enough or if you have any further questions you can send me a private message I am open to here and listen.
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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My husbands son lives with us. He did have a job but got fired because he didnt go to work. He is 19 years old and at this time is not even looking for a job. He sleeps until noon or even later. Does nothing to help around the house, eats, sleeps, and does whatever he wants when he wants.
When he was working, he paid for his own cell phone bill and his car insurance. Now that he is not working anymore my husband says we are going to pay these bills until he gets a job. The problem?? He is not even looking for a job. It has been over 2 months now, and I am tired of paying over an extra 100 dollars a month for HIS bills. We can barely pay our own let alone his! My husband and I have fought and fought over this issue. I work full time just like my husband does. I dont feel like I should have to keep helping out a 19 year old, when he does nothing! What can I do?? (link)
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Hello,hmmmm issues with money is diffivult especially in this rough economic state:(.I am sure you have spoken to him about this a numerous amount of times,if not you have to seriously sit down with him and have a heart to heart and tell him exactly how you feel. I am not sure if he knows what a burden he is putting on you guys and how this is effecting your life in many ways. After all he is still young and thinks everything should be easy and handed to him. I do not agree with your husband about paying your step sons bills, he is an adult and it is his responsibility to pay for his assets. A compromise must be made in order to get anything done,he has to know that everything will not be handed to him on a silver platter all the time especially when he gets out in the real world, he has to realize that he has responsibilities and realize that he is an adult I doubt if he realizes this. Honestly I think he needs to learn the hard way, you should not pay for ANY of his bills that is just too much for you,he should maybe even make his own meals because right now he is not showing any qualities that he can live on his own and support himself which is what is going to happen eventually,it is vital that he learns to be an adult now and know that he has to be independent. About getting a job, it is very difficult to get motivated to even go look for a job when you have been laying around the house and being lazy he probably feels he has no need to get a job because he is being fully supported by you guys. However if youtake some of the priveleges away and make him to do things on his own he will see how vital it is that he man up and try harder to get a job. Im not sure if he understands that in order to get things you have to try your best. Remember communication is key and try to get the point across that even though he is living with you he still needs to suport himself, you guys are giving him a roof over his head that is very generous of you...I hope this was helpful...the best of luck to you and if you need any other advice and I wasnt detailed enough you are welcome to send me another message I would be happy to help!!!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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okay me and this guy were going to hook up in the summer?but he said to wait till school started.eventually it started and we didnt talk as much as we used to..should i tell him how i feel or just wait for him? (link)
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Hello, So do you see this guy often at school,have his number, have him on myspace/facebook..etc. There are so many ways to get in contact with people and i definatleythink you should tell him how you feel even once. Communication is key in any realtionship,if you dont know how he is feeling about this situation and he doesnt either then the relationship wont ever get off the ground. When you tell him how you feels he will either feel the same way or not but you have to find this out, It is so frustrating to have things up in the air and not know where things are going. He stated this over the summer so he obviously has a general interest in you but as you know things change and guys are unfortunatley very indecisive and tend to not know exactly what they want. So sit down and talk to him any way you can,in person,through the phone or anything just to get everything out on the table you will feel very releived after you do this.Don't be worried either just go with the flow and tell him what you have on your mind.Everything will work out how it is suppose to!! hope this helped..the best of luck to you:)If you have further qustions you can send me a private message.
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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I Get headaches when i come. it doesnt matter if its with my girlfriend or if i masterbate. it all seemed to start shortly after i had hit my head snowboarding, but it could just be a coincidence. the pain is sometimes in the back of my head or in my eye socket. i don't have a headache prior to sex but right after i come, POW, shooting pain. what do you think? help before i come again. (link)
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Hello, i beleive what you are experiencing are, Coital headaches they are a male-dominated syndrome. They are usually abrupt and painful, much like a severe, throbbing migraine. In most cases they are benign, however, an aneurysm or other vascular malformation can occur during sex, so he should get an angiogram to rule out any medical problems. They usually prescribe indomethacin (Indocin) for benign coital headaches by the way.As for other treatment, a doctor may recommend abstaining from sexual activities and masturbation for a short period of time ranging from a few days to a few weeks. In addition, doctors may recommend medications such as propranolol that can be taken in advance of sexual activity to prevent such headaches. Reduction in weight to a more ideal level and increased exercise may also reduce the likelihood of recurrences.
People who get this sex headaches, also, tend to suffer from migraines.
Researchers aren't sure about the precise cause of the headaches, although they're probably a type of "exertion" headache, in which the pain comes on during vigorous physical activity.
During sex (or vigorous exercise), the body releases catecholamines that could act as a trigger on the blood vessels in susceptible persons, or the chemicals could act on certain sensitive areas of the brain to trigger a migraine. I hope this helped..the best of luck to you:)If you have further qustions you can send me a private message.
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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i can sense when someone is about to die, or 3 times a yr a would get dreams of a person's death a day or night before it happens. i am very afraid. and right now i am having a strong sense that somebody is about to die, i don't know what to do, what is this, that i am going through? (link)
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Hello,wow that is intersting.You obviously have very strong sense when it comes to the sould of others,there is nothing at all wrong with this. It is actually pretty rare but quite fascinating. You have what they call premontions, these are a form of extra sensory perceptions, an instinct or a vague feeling of disquiet, uneasiness or a strong sense of something that is going to happen.Premonitions can be harnessed into a skill that can be utilized positively.Premonition is a gift which can turn into a psychological disorder when people get distraught over it and can’t understand what to do about it. Sometimes these premontions subside but most likely you will have these for quite a while. I know this can be very scary and quite frightening but you have to be aware that you have this special attribute and try your best to work with it. You just have to become more in tuned with these feelings and soon they wont bother you as much because you will be used to it and you will to a certain degreee know how to control it. Don't be afraid,however if you are starting to have extreme problems and cant deal with it,a good Psyhologist can help you to alter your thinking and you will be just fine. I hope this helped..the best of luck to you and if you need any other advice about this topic or anything else you can send me a private message I will be happy to answer them:)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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When a guy goes to second base and is feeling your boobs, is he getting something out of it or doing it for you? (link)
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Hello,yes he is getting something out of it,guys get aroused over the littelest things,him just seeing your boobs gets him aroused,he is usually getting something out of anything he does for you,he could be doing it for you also just to get you aroused also but its usually a 50/50 kind of thing.i hope this helped,if I wasnt detailed enough you can send me a private message about any question you may have...goodluck
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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im very depressed
my good friend died of a brain tumor july 29th 07
and i misss her sooo much still
i cannot deal with it it never gets easier
i dont know what to do
everything reminds me of her .
i cry. and i miss her
.we were so much alike
we were suppose to do so much together
she was only sixteen
and its not fair
and.. i want her back
i do not know what to do
i just cant ever face it, or believe it
or..move on.
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Hello,first off I am very sorry yo hear about your friend it is always hard to loose someone close because it is hard to actually meet someone that you share the same valuse with and connect with. I am sure you know that you are not alone in this situation,many many people have lost loved ones and it is ok to grieve, it is the inevitable. However as you know things happen,whether good or bad for a reason,i know it no good to simply say you have to move on because that is not fair to say. I know you are trying to move on and it is difficult. It will help to think of the good times you spent with her and when you are reminded of her appreciate all the good qualities she had to offfer. Be thankful that you had her in your life because just know that everyone,no matter how close they are to you is put in your life for some reason. I know it seems hard now but I am telling you,you will get through you will see that crying over it everytime you think of her does no good,try to smile everytime you think of her,it will do wonders. You know you obviously wont get her back but you have the memories and she is here in spirit,you know that she will never be replaced or forgotten but always in you heart and she knows that. If she could some how talk to you she wouldnt want you crying when you think of her because after all when she was here she brought you joy.Let her bring you joy even though she is not here,you can stilltalk to her in spirit,she will here you and it may be a way to cope during this difficult time.Try to think postive,negative thoughts bring you down and are what cause depression try to alter your thinking and you will be just fine:)..I hope this was helpful,being depressed is a bad state to be in and causes many problems, dont get hung up on the things you cant change,focus on the present and try new things,do thing s that make you happy,any thing big or small it will be VERY beneficial:) if you have further quesions or if you would like anymore advice on this topic or anything I am here.Just send me a private message and I will be sure to answer even if you need someone to talk to I am here to listen,those who are depressed or fell depressed often feel alone and need to let all of there negative thinking out I can help you replace these negative thoughts with positive ones:)..The best of luck to you and dont get yourself down:) :) :) :) ;) ;0 :0 =P
SINCERLY,DIAMOND
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why do they say girls with big lips are better at blow jobs and kisses rather than girls with no or skinny lips? (link)
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Hello, well hmm the lips contains alot of nerve endings and are one of the most sensitive parts of the body,when it comes to kisses this may come into play for the person with the bigger lips because there senses are being heightened and you feel more because of the surface area of there lips that are contacting yours,if that makes since. When it comes to blow jobs its all about the pressure the girl puts on the penis and the feeling that is simialr to vaginal penetration. Bigger lips resemble and feel more like the real thing which is what the guy wants even though they are different.I hope this helped..goodluck,if you have any further questions or the answer i gave was confusing you can ask me anything and I can be more detailed,send me a private message if you feel the need.
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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18/female
so i don't play any sports, havent in about 5 years. use to be in about four sports including gymnastics. i miss being flexible so much! i miss being able to do the splits. i was just wondering how i could become flexible again? like what are some stretches i could do that might let me able do the splits again. its hard for me because i dont push myself. when i was in gymnastic i had an instructor who would make me stay in a position for so long and they would push me to go farther and farther and now i have to put that on myself and i just stop right away. well i was just hoping someone could tell me how to become more flexible, positions, anything! thanks. (link)
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Hello,well I try to stay flexible no matter what so I know a couple of good stretches to get you back to doing splits in no time,The key to these stretches however is pushing yourself or just simply going alittle further each time,you will get nowhere by doing the same thing.
1.The straddle is the best position to me, sit on the floor with your legs open as far as they can go and push yourself down to the middle,the idea us to be able to push yourself to the ground and hold that position,dont worry that will take time,it took time for me.
2.Stay in the straddle position and go to eaither the left or the right of your leg,you try to reach your ankle and grab hold of it,stay in that postion for atleast 10 seconds on wither side.
3.A good one but a hard one, push your butt up against a wall with your legs open against the walla s if you were in a straddle but up against the wall and hold yourself up by placing your hands on the ground...spread your legs as far as possible and try to get your chest and or face against the wall,it is challenging but you will get there.
3.Stand up and keep your legs open but not too far,you wont get the stretch,just try to place your palms on the ground and try to get your hands in between your legs while on the ground its better,also you can go down to either side of your leg,grasp your ankle and try to press your chest to your leg it is a great stretch
4.Also just sitting in the split that you can do,however far down it is for 30seconds a day will make them lower,left,right,or middle splits are fine.
5.Toe touches and needles are good too but i dont know if you would be interested in doing those
I hope this was helpful..the best of luck to you,if you have any further questions just ssend me a private message and I wll answer anythiung specifically:)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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16.f
hey so i'm a sophomore in high school in all honors and AP :) and i realized that i have been getting pretty good grades. the thing is, i'm not particularly fond of my study habits ... or rather, my sleep habits. (and i know you're probably thinking, "well if it works for you and you're doing well, then stick to it!") i mean, sure i don't necessarily procrastinate and sure i get things done and do them well, but my problem is this. the following is my current schedule:
6:00 AM -- wake up
2:20 PM -- get back from school
2:20 PM - 5:00 PM -- do misc. homework / facebook
5:00 - 8:00 PM -- nap :( wake up, eat dinner
8:00 - 1:30 AM -- do the rest of my homework
i really want to stop napping. it's really hard sometimes though. i always used to think i had hypersomnia, but i don't. i want to finish AAAALLLLLL my homework by dinnertime and then relax. shower, read. the things i like to do to wind down, and then go to sleep by 10, 11 latest.
i WANT, however, to do this!
6:00 AM -- wake up
2:20 PM - 2:30 PM -- snack
2:30 PM - 7:00 PM -- FINISH ALLL HW with breaks of course
7:00 PM -- dinner
7:30 - 10:00 -- shower, read, relax.
10:00 -- bed
please help me? i make a to do list as soon as i get back from school and don't make schedules necessarily because i feel frustrated when i can't stick to the times. (link)
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Hello,hmm I was in your same situation,all honors and AP classes can be a difficult schedule but it is very important to get enough rest and have alittle you time,If you dont find that balance it will effect you mentally. Would you say you receive homework in every class everyday?. The second schedule you wrote seems pretty reasonable I mean if you get the homework done that is a priority and due the next day you will have more time on your hands. I have a feeling that you are doing work ahead of time just to get it out of the way and I know reading chapter books,chapters in textbooks and projects take up most of your time but the projects are usually given a time period. Try to slow down and do alittle at a time do not overwhelm your self because going to sleep at 1:30 or 2:00 is not efficient it is causing your drowsiness. I however do think a to do list and or a planner would be helpful for you just to know due dates and to keep what you have to do in oreder,it feels so good to check something off that has to be done. Do not get frusted if you dont do everything on your list as long as you do what is needed and take time for yourself then you have had a productive day. The schedule that you want to do is very possible you just have to manage what you have, I dont know what kind of assignments you get or how often but there are wats around getting everything done without having to feel so tired afterwards. I hope this was helpful,,the best of luck to you, if I was not specific enough then you can always send me a private message and I will sure to get back with you with more detailed advice:)....
SINCERYL,DIAMOND:)
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hey thanks! i have another question thought...he's had a lot of sex and stuff and i have only been fingered so im all new to this. so do you think he'll think its weird if i want him to cum somewhere for easy cleanup? should i just put a towel/ blanket down? i really dont want it to be awkward lol. actually i said hes my bf...but hes not. just this guy i know and have classes with. and how exactly do you give a hj...? and when should i? how do you know when to start and how is the best way to do it. please just fill me in with all you know about this cause i need to know as much as i can! thank you so much!!!! :) (link)
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hmm well since he isnt your boyfriend it is alittle different now..well do you know him well?You have to communicate with him and tell him what you want so you can be comfortable as well as him. I am sure he isnt worried about where his cum is going to go he is just going to be focused on the pleasure lol,guys are rather selfish when it comes to sex unless they care for you in some way.You do what is best for you, I think it is best that you so put a towel down for what you want, how embarassing or awkward would it be to have a cum stain on the carpet,bed,couch or someplace and your parents find it,Do what you think is best. hmmm well you grasp your hand around the penis and go move your hand up and down, make sure your grip is firm,some kind of lubricant makes it pleasureable, you can use lubricant or e4ven saliva makes the guy feel good:). How do you know when to start?well you are having him come over for that reason so just take his pants down and begin lol it is best that he sit and if your confident and seem like you know what you are doing it is a big turn on for guys..I hope this was of some help if I wasnt specific enough tell me and I can answer more specific questions..goodluck
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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ok well i might be giving my bf a hj this friday and if i do i was wondering a couple things. mainly what do i do when he cums? and is it hard to clean up? it'll be at my house. please help. i need to know how this works lol (link)
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Hello, well he can cum basically anywhere,most likely maybe in some tissue,in on a bag,anything disposable,if you were comfortable with him cumming in your mouth,but if it is your first time that would be fairly awkward so I dont recommend this...just throwing out options,If you have any other questions or comments regrding this or anything else I am here.I hope this was helpful!!do you havd any previous experience with sex by chance?If you wat to discuss this more you can send me a private message,looking forward to speaking with you.i wish you the best of luck! SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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okay so i have this bff that well call katie we were really close and stuff but during the summer she met a guy that she started liking and according to her he liked her to the only problem was that her already had a girlfirend so he ended up dumping hes gf for her. well one day they went out and she was too nervous to go out with him so she asked our friend carlos to go with her. im her bff and she didnt even ask me to come along and she never introduced me to the guy she liked instead she took carlos who shes always complaining about saying hes dumb a pussy and everything else am i blowing this out of porportion or should i be consern about this why did she do it and what should i do (link)
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Hello, If you guys are close like you say you are there is nothing to worry about. I am sure the only reason she took Carlos instead of you was because she wanted a guy to be there to ease the nervousness, I know you are her bff b ut people need others for different situations, no matte how much she hates him she obviously saw something in him that made her think he was the best choice for this situiation. You can always ask her what made her take Carlos I am pretty sure there is a good reason, don't worry Carlos is not going to replace you or become "Katie's" best friend now,after all she complains about him.Communication is important just ask her about it, she hasn't done anything else out of the ordinary has she?If you have any further questions I would be glad to answer them with a smile just send me a private message or an email:) I hope this helped, the best of luck to you.
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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is a box of chocolate and a card enough to give my boyfriend for valentine day? (link)
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Hello, It's always great to be original and do something that you think he will like. I am sure you know quite a bit about him to know what he may or may not like on valentines, but I am sure he will love anything you give him because it is the count that counts. When it comes to chocolate maybe get his favorite kind of chocalte, maybe eminems, kisses..they have funner things than boxes that are pretty cost effective, I seen a hallow chocolate kiss filled with other kisses it was pretty adorable. When it comes to the teddy bear maybe he has a favorite color or favorite character like for example maybe say he likes spongebob, they have tons of valentines characters.You can play with these ideas if you like it is always nice to do something different, the normal is nice but not always the best. I hope this was helpduf..the best of luck to you and I hope you have an awesome Valentines Day!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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