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depression
im very depressed
my good friend died of a brain tumor july 29th 07
and i misss her sooo much still
i cannot deal with it it never gets easier
i dont know what to do
everything reminds me of her .
i cry. and i miss her
.we were so much alike
we were suppose to do so much together
she was only sixteen
and its not fair
and.. i want her back
i do not know what to do
i just cant ever face it, or believe it
or..move on.
help
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I am so sorry about your friend .
It is natural that you're sad ,
anyone else would be the same .
Cry it out , hun .
Eventually , your little rememinders will cease a bit , but they'll probably never stop .
You're going to have to deal with that by yourself.
It's a tough thing , I understand , and it will take time to get over .
Just please don't do anything stupid like suicide , because life's worth more then that .
'Hope this helps , :]
Maaaaadi .
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It is natural to experience sadness when death claims someone you love. Even the perfect man Jesus “gave way to tears” when his friend Lazarus died.
You will always miss her. That will never go away. But it will get easier. And only time can help you with that. And if you have a faith, prayer is always very strengthening.
Talking to someone about how you feel and your happy memories with her will also help. Try not to keep your feelings bottled up inside.
If you ever feel you want to die and becomes increasingly worse, you should see someone right away.
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you have to face it!
Iam sorry about your friend. I know how you feel.
But putting yourself in a depressing mood is not going to help. you have to think about what your friend would have wanted.
you know she didn't want to make you sad by going a way. If you want to do something good for your friend, you have to be happy for her and for yourself. Be happy that instead of staying here and suffering each day, she went to a better place. Be thankfull that you had her as a friend and that no one will ever replace her. Becuase you and her were unique in your own special way. So instead of feeling sorry for her and yourself, believe that this is what God had paln for her and that she is in Good Hands.
Trust in God. and know that he hears your cries. And that he has something in mind for you. Believe that What he did Was for a Reason!
bye. I hope this helps.
GOOD LUCK!
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Hello,first off I am very sorry yo hear about your friend it is always hard to loose someone close because it is hard to actually meet someone that you share the same valuse with and connect with. I am sure you know that you are not alone in this situation,many many people have lost loved ones and it is ok to grieve, it is the inevitable. However as you know things happen,whether good or bad for a reason,i know it no good to simply say you have to move on because that is not fair to say. I know you are trying to move on and it is difficult. It will help to think of the good times you spent with her and when you are reminded of her appreciate all the good qualities she had to offfer. Be thankful that you had her in your life because just know that everyone,no matter how close they are to you is put in your life for some reason. I know it seems hard now but I am telling you,you will get through you will see that crying over it everytime you think of her does no good,try to smile everytime you think of her,it will do wonders. You know you obviously wont get her back but you have the memories and she is here in spirit,you know that she will never be replaced or forgotten but always in you heart and she knows that. If she could some how talk to you she wouldnt want you crying when you think of her because after all when she was here she brought you joy.Let her bring you joy even though she is not here,you can stilltalk to her in spirit,she will here you and it may be a way to cope during this difficult time.Try to think postive,negative thoughts bring you down and are what cause depression try to alter your thinking and you will be just fine:)..I hope this was helpful,being depressed is a bad state to be in and causes many problems, dont get hung up on the things you cant change,focus on the present and try new things,do thing s that make you happy,any thing big or small it will be VERY beneficial:) if you have further quesions or if you would like anymore advice on this topic or anything I am here.Just send me a private message and I will be sure to answer even if you need someone to talk to I am here to listen,those who are depressed or fell depressed often feel alone and need to let all of there negative thinking out I can help you replace these negative thoughts with positive ones:)..The best of luck to you and dont get yourself down:) :) :) :) ;) ;0 :0 =P
SINCERLY,DIAMOND
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