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making him feel wanted
18 female
so i've had a good guy friend for about 4 years now. we use to be really close but ive ALWAYS had feelings for him, i'm almost positive he knows it. he knows i'm attracted to him and i know he's attracted to me. he recently just broke up with his girlfriend of three years, yeah tell me about it. but i always find myself joking around but i sound reallllly mean when it comes out. i act like i dont care, i dont know why but i will always be sarcastic, and joking. i hope he doesnt take it as me not liking him though. i'm going to try reallly hard to not be such a sarcastic person because sometimes i think it puts me in bad situations. is there anything i can do to make him feel appreciated and wanted by me? instead of maybe making him feel just "as a friend" and like i'm not interested at all. all the girls like him tooo but i know he's interested in me and of course we have a huge attraction. we tell each other alot actually. i just dont want to lose him. i panic when i try and figure out what to say and then i end up saying something stupid :(
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Hello,well ues the sarcasm may confuse him about what you really see him as.im sure he thinks you only want him as a friend right now because for some reason its harder for guy to read girls especially if you two are and ahve been friends for so long, you are now in his friend category and its hard for him to know that you may want me more. Since you two have been friends for awhile then I am sure you guys are comfortable with eachother and know a good amount about one another. Communication is very important, you have to get the courage to tell him know how you really feel because if he will never know, especially since you are acting like you dont care and are being alittle mean about it, how can he possibly see you in another way if you are throwing around all of this negative energy, you also have to know what he wants too because I mean since he has just ended a long term relationship he might not be ready to start anything else for awhile. You should just calm down and dont be negative towads him in any way it is a big turn off, I mean you guys have been friends for awhile you wont lose him. Just be more positive towards him,give little hints that you want him. Compliments are always welcomed,there is always the option of being blunt and telling him how you truly feel and you will find out how he feels in return and wont be confused. He will understand where you are coming from but I think while you guys are talking you can maybe throw in little questions every now and then like if he is ready for a relationship,are you interested in anyone currently,what do you think of me..I mean you dont have to use those I am just throwing around ideas. Those are just pre-questions to get an idea of what would be best to do about this situation.I hope this helped,if you have any further questions you can send me a privatee message if you need me to be more detailed,the best of luck to you!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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