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so, so, so hectic.
my life is crazy when it comes to guys. i can't seem to settle down with just one, so i feel the need to talk to many. ive been talking to one of the guys for over 6 months, he really likes me. and i like him too. but then again i think im falling for my best friend. also, there's new guys that come into my life. im out of control. i dont really go on dates with them, or hook up with them much. i just talk to them constantly. sometimes i hang out with them. and they do kiss me or so, but its nothing big. i think im like this because my past relationship really scarred me. i dont trust guys. but i dont know what to do anymore. help? thank you <3
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Hello,well yes you are right,your past realtionships have a big effect on the way you are now, I think you talk to all of these guys and dont fully open up simply because you are afraid of getting hurt. You use all these other guys as a safety net so you wont get hurt again in anyway. The big question here is do you honestly want to change because if you do and you dont at the same time this wont work you have to be fully commited and know what you want. I am sure you do want a relationship but you arent giving the guys a chance to really get to know you or maybe yoiu just havent found that right guy that you really want to open up to and get to know. If you really want to stop then you should dimply say hey what do I want and go from there. You have to be truthful and honest with yourself, you do not need a guy to make you feel good, you have to feel good about yourself and learn that you can be independent without the constant need of attention. A girl cab get attention from any guy, sure it is enjoyable to know that you are wanted but you are past this stage, you know guys want you but now its time to know that having attention from a guy that really cares and has a general interest in you is way more fulfilling than just any guy. It is time to choose who might be potential relationship material it is either from what you say, the guy that you have been talking to for 6 months or your bestfriend and once you are not afraid to open up and accept what they have to offer you wont crave that attention from a number of other guys. What you need is one guy to show you all the attention you need and more:) I hope this was helpful and the best of luck to you,if I was not detailed enough or if you have any further questions you can send me a private message I am open to here and listen.
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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Hi,
well at least you know why you're doing it. I say go for it. You're young, you're not looking to get married. If you feel like you want a change, do it. Make sure you try to tell whoever you're dealing with that you're not looking for anything serious. You're just trying to figure things out. That ways no one gets hurt.
Good luck,
Ediemarie
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