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Last Update: January 18, 2009
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me and this boy have been dating on and off for over a year now.we're not going out right now though.He's cheated on me and lied to me and somehow he gets off by calling me a liar and a player and i would never do that to him and on halloween me and my friend went to his house and we we're playing around at first and then he started getting serious and he slapped me and my friend just sat there only becuz he said he would beat the f*** out of her too.he is quite abusive and i still like him.do you think i should still like him or should i tell someone that he slapped me? (link)
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Oh my goodness sweetheart. You do NOT have to put up with that crap. You may like him, but it is evident that he thinks he can control you because of that factor. You really need to end it.......for good. If ANY guy EVER hits you, you know that it needs to end. That is the first sign of abuse. And if he does it once, he'll do it again.
I dont think you need to tell anyone, since he didn't beat you up or anything like that, but to make sure that never does occur, you need to say goodbye to him.
Good luck hun!.
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I was shaving this morning and used a new razor. I didn't pay attention to it but the blades were chipped. So, it cut me while I was shaving and it was pretty bad. Not too deep but not your normal shaving cut. I cleaned it up and wrapped the cuts and everything and at school it felt fine. Now, my leg is hot and red and the cuts kind of burn. I don't think that that shoudl be happening. My mom said it isn't anything to go to the doctors for but she'd take me if I really needed to. Should I go or do you think it will go away on it's own? (link)
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Well sweetie. I hate to tell you, but you probably got shaving cream in the wounds. I've had it happen to me before. The burning sensation will go away, pour peroxide on the wounds.
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Ok well this is a little gross so sorry if u get grossed out,,,,,,,,
okay well i think i have those little worms im not sure what there called i think like pinworms or inch worms or something. I know i have them though because i saw them. They are really uncomfortable!!! Ahh its like hell. I havent told anyone yet cause its kinda embarrasing. My question is this...is it like a serious thing? should i tell someone right away? or is there something i can do to make them go away? also they only seem to bother me in the night, is that usual? well thanks for any help! (link)
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hmmm well i think you're talking about ringworm...if that's it, then you have to go to the doctor and get a simple shot that will make them go away.
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it has been going on for a while. not too long. and its usually when my mom or brother come around me. i get really parenoid and all that. I'm not sure if it has anything to do with them both being tauriens and i an aries because the dont exactly get along. what do you think? (link)
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Okay, well.... this is going to sound really really stupid, but I went through a time just like this. And no sweetheart, it's not your "sign" that is making you like this. I think that you're just going through a rough time. Seriously, last year this happened to me for about 8 months....and there was no reason for it. Everything was pretty much alright, but I just got really depressed. I'm not going to tell you to go see someone about it, but if you did, he could probably support what I'm saying. you're a teenager and we go through stages. It's nothing to worry about hun.
But if you want to get a "diagnosis" go to a doctor. And no, you're not depressed.. just not having the best time of your life at the moment. I hope you feel better hun.
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I'm in the mood to read some good books. Does anybody have any recommendations (preferably from young adult or if not from there than not too boring and old lady like). Thanks! (link)
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Hmm... well, "A Tree Grows in Brooklyn" is EXCELLENT
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hey im a freshman in highskool and ive just been asked out by a freshman and he like almost in all my classes! when he asked me out, i though i shouldnt b a heartless bi*ch so i just said yes. i mean hes cute but like a lil brother cute. i feel like an ass**le. i will not say no now n tomm. i go bak 2 skool wat will i say wats next i dunt like him! oH MY GODDD ive made a big mistake n i need help PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help me! thnxx (link)
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You need to tell him. Be like "you know what, I like you, but I like you more as a friend, and we should just be buddies, alright"
it will work
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Alright, I have a question about being popular.
Well, not exactly. You see, I'm not obsessed and crazed and having my whole life devoted to becoming popular. Its just, the popular people are all so out-going and aren't afraid to do anything and they speak their minds. How do I do this? I'm so shy in real life, but I'm actually out-going online. But in real life its just like, "woah, who's that girl? She's so shy." nobody knows me.
How do I improve this? I just wish I could be out-going and be my real self without being so scared all the time.
Please help? (link)
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Okay, well, I'm a shy person too. Seriously, do you really want to be the popular girl who is the topic of discussion everywhere. I know that you are probably thinking "YES YES YES" but really, being "popular" just means that everyone knows who you are, and that just lets people think you're a snobby biatch. So don't worry about it. Just be who you are and you'll be popular with who really matters...your friends.
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okay, well just recently i entered highschool. i love it every way. but the only problem is that my friends, my old ones from middle school. they bareally talk to me. we all used to hangout every single weekend. and now they are all interested about being popular and hanging out with the right croud. and it gets me really upset because they all hangout together and im home alone and they dont even ask me to hangout when they know im sitting home all alone. my best friend still even hangs out with them and i ask her to hangout and shes like i cant im sorry and this is an every weekend thing. (link)
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I'm sorry to say this sweetie, but they've moved on. People change so much when they enter highschool. Some may move onto new groups. But that doesn't mean that they hate you! You shouldn't worry about it, just find a new group that loves you for who you are. As for those other girls, just forget about them.
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Yes Pills. Me and My two closest friends pop in and outta school. Cough Drops are all we take though. And yes its wrong but we actually are sick and use them just a little more than the suggested dose. I probably take 20 a day for the past week. Is this harmful and should we stop? (link)
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Wow. Yes... You should not be eating those like candy. They could make you extremley sick. The ingredients are to make you better. And you could get addicted to them. Yeah, I know how dumb that sounds, but you really can get addicted! Choose something else, like gum.
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Okay so theres this new guy to our school and hes a Junior and Im a sophmore and hes the classic bad boy he's been in trouble with the law, hes not a virgin (i am)he parties ALL the time. But hes really sweet and i truly try and stop myself from getting wrapped up in him bc to him im probably just another "girl" well whenever i get online hes the first screen name i look for and in the hallways i always look for him. But hes a major flirt and i know you guys are gonna tell me to just forget about him and i know IM TRYING. =/ basically, what im trying to say is should i even give him a chance to see me for who i really am or just give up while my hearts all mine? Like and sometimes i think hes too bad for me. He asked me this weekend to go with him to street racing with him and he doesnt have his license or permit it got taken away and i made up an excuse. Should i hang out with him? (link)
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Okay, well honey, I know this is going to sound like the same old "don't get involved" but you really shouldn't. I mean, sure, talking to him is fine, but don't get involved in a realtionship. I know a guy JUST LIKE THIS. Exactly identical.
But I didn't have anyone to go to for advice, and I ended up....really hating it. Please don't take this in a bad way, but you probably are one of many girls. I was, but I just didn't see it for a while.
So my advice is to stay clear of him relationshipwise....but friends....sure.
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is there a way you can make your shirts tighter as in shrinking them to fit? (link)
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Put them in the dryer, but other then that...there's really no way to shrink them other then taking out the hem in the bottom, cutting it, and re sewing it.
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I don't know what's wrong with me but i always feel like i have to cry. I don't think its depression. Then again it could be. Maybe it's just that something's missing. I get annoyed fast, when i would just let it pass before. And eveybody seems to be agitating me. Maybe it's that i'm lonely, or that im just sad. Can someone help me?
sad and falling down* (link)
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Hmmm.....well, this is really a question for your question, so you'll have to write me back. How long have you been like this? What starts it up? Does it happen when you're around certain people?
Write back and i'll try to help
xo
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what do i wear? the invite says "dressy casual"?
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A pair of comfy jeans, a nice t-shirt, and some shoes that you absolutley adore. It's casual, if they wanted you to look like you're trying to look nice, they would put "casual/formal" So go for the jeans..
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I am in the 10th grade and I have been thinking about what I want to be when I leave college. I now have discovered that I might look into being a psychologist. Can anyone help me find like websites that will help me research more about this. Thank you (link)
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Well, that sounds like it would be a fun career, and here's what I think you should do. It might take a lot of work though, but if you're really interested in researching this, then do it. You should call up a local psychiatrist, and ask to do an intership. Some might refuse you, but others would probably let you sit in on the sessions as long as the patient says alright.
This would be a hands on way to research it.
Good luck!
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i got my belly button peirced like 2 months a week ago, and after 4-6 weeks you can change the ring, so i changed mine. but the banana bar i put in has like a little lift kind of on the bottom and so i changed back to my old ring, but its sore, only a little bit though, not like hugely sore. i dont know if its infected .. its not pusing or anything its just red and a little sore. i dont know how to tell if its infected or prevent it from getting infected. What do i do if it is infected? any special cleaning or product thing??
and someone told me that if it gets bad enough it will just fall out?! is that true .. they also said if that happens u wont be able to have kids later in life ... :-/ .. is that true too?
Can Anyone Help PLEASE!! i dont want to have to take it out .. (link)
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Okay, well, first off... I think you should have waited a little longer to take out the original one. You should put the old one back in and leave it. It's only infected if you can't touch it without yelling in pain, and it will start to pus. So don't pull on it. and it will NOT fall out or cause you to not have kids....whoever told you that needs to check their information....
Form what you said, it's not infected, but put the old ring back in, and don't go swimming for at least another month
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My back hurts really bad. I mean when I sit at my desk it hurts right in the spine of it! What can i do to make it stop hurting?? Thanks! (link)
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Okay, well this may sound really stupid, but you should see your doctor and have him check you for scoliosis. If you get checked, and he catches it early enough, he can fix it. Seriously. So you need to get into the doctor hun.
And until then, sit up straight!!!!
But seriously, check with the doctor because he can give you a brace to wear at night that will "straighten out" your problem.
Good luck hun.
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This question has probably been asked a million times.. it's one of those "do you think he likes me" questions. lol. There's this guy in my math class & I think he might like me but I'm not sure. He gives me a hug almost everyday & he's very sweet to me. He calls me babe and doll. He gave me his phone number and also said he wanted to take me out sometime. And one day he took one of my ponytail holders from my wrist & told me he was going to wear it that night during the game (he plays football) & he did. He also told me he saw me at the game. He also just looks at me for no reason & tries to make me laugh. He's sending all the right signals it seems like but I don't know.. I went though some of this with the last guy I liked and it turned out he didn't like me. So I really don't know what to think & I needed someone else's opinion. Thanks. =) (link)
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Okay honey, wow, wake up! He is totally digging you! You just need to realize it. And if you're still not sure, then ask him... Seriously, he's not going to shoot you down. and if he does say that he likes you..ACT ON IT! I've had this happen before, and I was in this position, I thought he didn't like me, though he wouldn't stop flirting with me, and i waited for 8 months! We are dating now! So WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?!?!
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Hello. . .19/f here with a problem...
I met this guy about 2 months ago. We've already had sex, and we act like a couple to an extent. . spending a lot of time with each other, kissing/cuddling/ect, talking on the phone for hours... He has told me that he cares for me and loves me.
He's afraid to be in a relationship, though, because his last (very serious) girlfriend cheated on him with his brother and is now pregnant with his brother's baby. He doesn't trust anyone. He has admitted to me, though, that he holds back some of his feelings for me.
Some days, he's very sweet to me and wants to be around and is very affectionate. Other days, he's kind of cold and shuts me out a little bit. Either way, he wants to hang out; it's just the way he acts around me that varies.
He has bi-polar disorder. I'm begining to think that maybe this disorder, although medicated, is making him act this way.
So these are my questions.
1. Does anyone have manic depression/bi-polar disorder? If you do, can you tell me how this disorder effects your social skills?
2. I want to be in a relationship with him, but I don't know how to help him take that extra step to trust me. He says "I love you, but i'm not in love with you. I don't think I could be in love with anyone." How can I help him stop holding back?
I'll rate you highly if you at least try to help.
Thanks. (link)
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Okay, I know how to help you here. I recently got out of a relationship with a guy that was bi-polar and yes, it does affect your social life...very much so. At the time, I didn't know that he was bi-polar, I just thought he was being an ass. But seriously, this guy loves you, and if you are really commited to him, you're going to have to "pur up with it".
He may get short with you sometimes, but really hon, he doesn't mean it. I am positive that his being bi-polar is the reason for this. So don't worry about it hun, if you really love each other as much as you do, you can work it out.
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i need a polo shirt, for a party. i dont have any, not the preppy type. where can i buy the shirts? how much are they? easy 5's (link)
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Dickies all the way baby.
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there is this girl that i've liked since 2nd grade and i like her even more.i am now in 9th grade and i think she is the one but i am afraid to ask her out because i am afraid she will say no. so what should i do?i am a male. (link)
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YOU NEED TO GO FOR IT BABE! Seriously, if you don't talk to her on a regular basis, get her number and start talking, after a few weeks, ask her to hang out, then, tell her how you feel! 7 years honey, you need to go for it
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