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I'm making an all time favorite country c.d. and i was just wondering... what are some good/classic country songs that I could put on there? Thanks in advance!

austin, walk a little straighter daddy, there goes my life, butterfly kisses, speed, the impossible, i dn just anything you like!! x0x0x

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What do I do when my anger is so built up that I feel I could hurt my friends with the pain of it all?

find a way to let your anger out. maybe get like a punching bag in your room or something, osund ssilly but hey nothing can be hurt by it. maybe write a poem or something, or i heard snapping a rubberband on ur wrist can help! x0x

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Hey Hunz! This is strawberriilova92!!

My neighbor not really a friend, but not an enemy, an aquantaince!! *Dev* has been cutting herself...and she always writes these horrid, absolutely, horrid, gruesome, poems about killing herself!! It really scares me because I've seen her cuts! And I have told her to get help, but she won't listen. Today at school she said she was gunna cut herself deep and not stop the bleeding so she can bleed to DEATH!! Or take a bottle of pills, or some other self-mutalating way to kill herself!! I'm really scared I've known her since I was in diapers..is there anyway I can stop her before it's too late?? Sorry about length!!

PS--SHE HAS NEVER CUT HERSELF DEEPLY

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you cant really stop her..shes gunna do what she wants to do...all you can do is be there for her! let her kno she has a friend in you, but dont tell her to stop because she'll just rebel and want to do it more! just listen to what she has to say and try 2 reason with her. take her somewhere really fun so she forgets about her problems and stuff!! i've dealt with alot of friends who cut so i really know what im talking about. if you need anything else feel free to IM me!

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Last year i was at my mom's friend house and her daughter, a senior at the time, wanted to put blonde highlights in my hair, my hair was dirty blonde at the time. then those started looking bad so i colored it brown. But that is wearing off and i have no idea what to do. I don't really want a big color change but i want to go back to blonde. We can't match the color i have now bc it got really bleached .. i guess you could call it.. from the sun. I'm pretty tan.. and i really want blonde hair.. like back to dirty blonde hair. But i don't want to be another fake blonde. Is being a fake blonde that bad?

ps.. looking back at pictures the color before it was sunned looks soo bad!!! o and sorry for the longness!!!

just dye it like a dark brownish color! get it professionally done and then just keep up with it when you need it! x0x

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where can u get share beauty (livestrong) bracelets? thanx

pretty much everywhere! if you look hard enough oyu could probably even buy one at school bc ppl buy like packs of them and sell them

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i like a few boys and i broke up with my bf just to look . do u think its wrong

no its not wrong! dont regret anything hun. at least ur not leading ur x bf on!

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what is a good black eyeliner? im useing mac right now and in school im in swim class and even when im not wet it seems 2 run down my face.. Does ne one know a good black eyeliner that does not run when i get wet or ne thing.. THANKS

ud have 2 get something water proof i think or just dont rub your eyes in water...but NYC is good and so is clinique! also i figured out thatif you dont put it on tht part of ur eye thts like the inside, its less likely to run bc ur eyes wont water! and DONT EVER USE NON WATERPROOF LIQUID EYELINER IF YOURE GOING TO BE GETTING WET lol tht shit runs like CRAZY! hope i helped haha x0x0x

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I really want my nose and ears pierced. The problem is Im scared of needles. I've had my ears pierced one but I took them out because I didnt like them. I was about 10 then. And Im 15 now. Does anyone here have there nose pierced? And can you tell me how bad it hurt and the proceduce. And if you're scared of needles how you delt with it? Thanks!!

if you get it done in the mall or something they dont use needles for the ears, they use the little thingys! lol i dn what theyr called but they just put the earing in this things n poke it thru ur ear! it feels like someone pinched your ear and then it just gets warm n then it feels normal! just close your eyes the WHOLE TIME even when theyr putting it al ltogether so oyu cant see anything1 about the nose im not sure but you could go to a piercing website [get one off google] and look it up! x0x0x!

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if anyone could tell me how to make $210 really fast that would be great!! thAnk yOu!!!

babysit or something or do alot of yard work for like 3 ppl..if you do a good job they pay good!

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I want to get Windows XP and i was just wondering where i can get it? how much is the average cost? and is there anyone i can get it online?

its a program tht u download on ur computer, so u need 2 like buy the stuff @ best buy or something. i dn how much it costs but you can go to www.bestbuy.com and price it. x0x

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well its weird im 12 and my gf is 14 and she asks if i want to have sex wut should i say

if you're ready, say yes, if you're not, say no.

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ok, well, i was babysitting the other night for these people and they were each going off to do their own thing. well, the mom left first, and the dad was supposedly leaving pretty quickly after, but instead he hung around for awhile. i was like, ok, um..why am i here if youre gonna sit around? well, i soon found out. he wasnt going anywhere. he put his kids in thier bedroom while i was cleaning something up, and he came up behind me and started grabbing me. he told me that if i yelled, hed kill me. well, i punched him where the sun dont shine and he let me go, but im sure that if i hadnt got away, he would have attacked me. but now i dont know what to do. he didnt rape me or anything, so should i really tell someone about it? all he did was grab me. they cant put you in jail for that, can they? im just wondering what i need to do about him....im supposed to go babysit again next week, and i cant exactly tell her why i dont wanna do it..so...HELP PLEASE

just tell her you cant do it. unfortunatly, you have no proof that he did what he did, so if you do call the cops theyll "check it out" but they can't throw him in jail or anything. maybe you actually SHOULD babysit again next week, and maybe keep a small tape recorder on you where he cant see it, and record everything that happens. try 2 get him to admitt what he did or something then take the tape to the cops or something because what he did is harassment!! if you do decide to do that, have an family member or trusted friend stand outside the door or something while you're in there and have some sort of signal so if something happens your friend can come in and protect you!! but if you REALLY dont wanna do it..the only thing you could probly do is stay away from him. srry tht hpnd!! x0x0x

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What does it mean if somebody says "your hair is nappy"?

its like nasty, looks like it hasnt been brushed in a year, frizzy...if you've ever seen the princess diaries the girls hair in the beggining -- thats nappy!!

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I have a friend that I've known since like 3rd grade. I'm a sophomore now and lately she's been driving me crazzy. She's my bestfriend and I don't have another bestfriend, i have other friends but I dunno she's always been my bestfriend. So, yeah.. she's been reallly annoying me. Suggestions?

that happens to people sometimes. just try spending some time paprt from her for a while. in a few days everything will be back to normal! x0

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Omg i really need help with how to set up an html code for aim for make those nice color designs! I don't understand how to set up the things and everything! Please Help!

http://www.coloryourprofyle.com

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I need someone who will help tell me something that can help depression I need someone or something to help me I HATE MY LIFE SOMEONE HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!

tell your parents tht u think youre depressed and ask to see a shrink, and then the shrink will see if youre really depressed and if she thinks its not depression but youre sad she'll prolly just work with you every now and then in sessions, but if you are she'll put you on anti-depressants and give you some books to read about depression and she'll probably meet with you once a week! gl

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k well i am havin thi huge halloween party tomorrow night and i was wonderin if ne one knew ne good costume ideas (like cute &sexy not like disgustin)
thnx and if it help 13/f

anything like a bunny or a cute lil mouse or something lol or catwoman! or you could be like a superstar or something haha like jessica simpson, something fun!! x0x0x

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what's a good brand for a hair straightener, and what's a good product to put on before you straighten it (that thermal care stuff, not the shampoo kind... bah, i wish i knew the name!)

any straightener you get at a hair salon thats over like $40 is deff. a really good one! and boisilk works really really good! x0x

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I'm interesting in pursuing a career in Psycology in the future. Are there any good psycology schools in or near by New York City?

new york university!! jus do a google search on nyc colleges and stuff and look around! im headed there too as soon as i graduate...good luck with it! x0x0x lemme know what you find lol

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I am a major in French Spanish and English in my high school. I want to take that farther. What kind of jobs are offered that pay well to people who speak languages really well? What colleges offer such a thing?

i think just about all colleges fofer it..and you could be a translator or something! like when a company has to work with foriegn people they hire a translator to tell them what theyr saying to each other! it would probably pay very well because everywhere needs people like that! x0x0x

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