ohkay so my aunts a hairstylist and she has this one costomer thats my age. he comes once every 2 weeks and shes been casually talking to him. she thinks hes a good guy and my perfect match. so she was telling me about him and he sounds perfect. so i asked a friend to fcb him so i kan see how he looks like (i don't have fcb) i saw a pik and i must say hes sooo cute. i saw that he has msn and since i do i added him. i pretended the whole i added the wrong person etc etc. and then i was like anyways my names lilly and the conversation went on. i thoughtt it was pretty descent and casual oh lets not forget when we started talking i put the best pikture of me i could find on my display pikture. and then he asked me if i had fcb. i said no and now i think he thinks i'm one of those "fakes" on msn. sum creep pretending to be the girl on my display picture because evrywun my age (16) usually has fcb.not to mention my piture had daisytang.< i was wondering what to do.. because i really wannt to havea good conversation goin with this guy so in a few weeks then maybe on the phone and then possibly meet up! how do u get sumone to msg u on msn what should i do. >.< arghhh !!
You should msn him again. And bring up that you might actually know him from some where and then mention your aunts work place. That should bring up some interest. If it doesn't bump into him at the store and be like aaaayyyy. Haha
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Hello this is my problem I have two teen boys and me and my wife are still in to love makeing but she don't like to make love because the boys are all ways around and she thinks they will hear us.I ask her all the time do you want to go to a motel she says on.Should i just go around her back and get a room at the motel and tell her i got a room i don't no what should i do?
I don't know where you are financially but a motel is ok. If you want to take her there you probly want to ask. But you know her better than I do. But if you get an nice hotel you should find a day were she's free and surprise her. Make special. I hope I helped.
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Hey, im asking for opinions here. Im not mean, just VERY old fasioned, because thats the way my family raised me. I think the man should pay for most dates, and the woman should be shorter than the man. Of course i have paid for some dates with my boyfriend, but i think its wrong to have the woman pay most times, and i have dated 2 guys that were shorter than me, and they were great guys, but i perfer to date guys who are taller than me. What do you guys think?
I think it's natural to want the man taller than the women. That makes the man seem more masculine and the women more feminine. Though there is nothing wrong with the man being shorter, I prefer taller men myself. It is the new millinium I think people should go Dutch. But I won't complain if they want to treat haha. Hoped I gave some insight.
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25 f
hey everyone i need some advice. I got engaged to my fiance about 4months ago. We were asked to go down to Mexico for a missions trip which meant me uprooting and moving in with him because we had no idea how long we would be gone and i wouldn't be able to afford my apartment. well we came back and I have been moved in. It has been very hectic because it is not just the 2 of us in the house. it is him and i, my fiance's younger brother, his girlfriend (which also just moved in), and another roommate. Now my fiance Allan and I have been together for almost 2 years but we are waiting til marriage before we have sex, It is our own choice, but we have been sleeping in the same bed for a long time. Different story w/ his younger brother though, but to each is their own.Suddenly last week his brother declared that he is going to sleep out on the couch bed in the living room so he and his girlfriend are not tempted to have sex and so they can be closer to God. Little late for that with them I think it is ridiculous because he basically booted himself out of his own room in his own house. So he is sleeping out in the living room while everyone else in the house now has to be quiet coming and going through the house.
Well on the 23rd which was my 25th BIRTHDAY Allan tells me he admires what his brother did and wants TO DO THE SAME THING!!!! Now we had discussed BEFORE I moved in if he was going to be comfortable with me moving in with sleeping arrangements. But NOW after seeing what his brother did he tells me I am too tempting and he needs to do the same. Now we have never had sex, but he tells me now he also wants to sleep out on the couch. so now him and his brother SHARE the couch bed while we are in the beds. I think that is really ridiculous because I did not move in to have this happen. It is not right. What should I do? What should I say? Should I move out?I really need ALOT of input because I have never been in this kind of situation. Thank you very much
Sit him down and tell him that you didn't move in to have this happen. If you guys trusted each other that long then you should have no problems. Tell him everything that you you wrote. Your about to get married you have to start off honest and be able to obstain everything that is about to happen.
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hey im a female and 17 years old. I am just wondering what anyone thinks of a long distance relationship? You think its not a good idea or do you think it couldnt work out? Long distance,as in 4 hours apart? but still in the same state. Because this summer I had this thing with this guy up north and we got to hang out when I took time to drive up there and stuff but I liked him and he liked me and I dont know, I just want some opinions. Please itd be great.
The main thing is that if you think it could workout. You need to believe that it will work if you don't it won't. If you feel that you can trust him and he could trust you it should be fine.
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Ok so i have a gf. Btw 14/m
I wanna hang out with her at like my house or her house. She doesn't want to hang out at her house for w/e reason in not totally sure. So she asked if she could come over sometime. I said yes. But im jw is it normal for me to not want her to come meet my parents because idk how they would act and it would be first time i had a gf over. Also i don't really like how my house looks like because idk i didn't pick out how it should look inside is this normal too?
O yeah its normal for any body to bring gf/bf over and not want them to come. Its natural. I mean she doesn't want you over her house either. Bt she is there for you not your parents nor your house.
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Okay I like this girl(big surprise) and she likes me(bigger surprise). Well here's the problem she is not in my class,shes in my cousins, and I have never talked to her but I want to but she is always with her friends I mean Always and I don't want to walk up to her while shes with her friends cause we've never talked. My question is does anyone have any advice on how to approach this problem? cause I really like her and there's another question I am 18 and she is 15 and I was wondering is this frowned upon by Adults? like I don't mind and I she doesn't either if she did she wouldn't like me! but I was just curious. Also my cousin doesn't hang out with her or talks to her he hangs out with other friends so he's no option.
No lie I know for a fact that the parents will not approve at all. And people won't think she's a skank either. In high school 3 years is a big difference. I would lay low if you do go out because you 2 will both have different ways of how a relationship will work. Compared to you she is immiture.
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im 18 my boyfriends 20..and im pregnant.
we were so careful..we used condoms and bc but we ran out of condoms and thought it would be ok. i took every pill on time but im pregnant. he wants to give the baby up for adoption and i cant, i already love it. does anyone have advice on how and can convince him to keep it? no lectures please.
Tell him that you want to keep ARE baby because I birthed tis child. This is are bundle of joy. Don't lie him. Don't tell him its going to be a piece of cake. Tell him the truth its gonna be hard. But the reward to see that child grow up and love his REAL parents is priceless. No lecture, bt pleaz know its more than saying I want to keep it. Just know that
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K im really confused and need like serious help so here goes
k so i saw this guy in the 8th grade im now in the 11th grade and ever since i saw him and talked to him maybe a few times in grade 9 but only cuz he was sitting beside me in english and we wuld jus causually talk and well i cant stop thinking about him i mean ever since grade 8 i cant think of any other guy then him i dont know why im not even close to him or know him or really talk to him and now i dont talk to him at all because i dont go to his school anymore because i moved after grade 9 to a new skool only about a half hour away from my old school and i still cant stop thinking about him i feel like im going crazy i dont know why i want to get to know him and hang out with him and i really feel crazy because i really dont think theres a such thing as love at first site and honestly i dont think he wuld be interested im not that pretty and ya but hes tall and im tall and my friends go to the same skool as him and a few know him well and stuff and the wierdist thing is he has the same last name as my brothers first name which i dont think means anything and i know this all seems confusing and crazy and makes probably no sense at all but i need help wuts going on why cant i get him out of my head plzz help me or i seriously think im gonna go crazy
First off you shouldn't refer yourself as not that preety. Because even if you wanted to go out you can't go out with no confidence. I have the same problem liking this boy without even really knowing him. To keep him off your mind stay busy with a lot of fun things. But if you want to pursue it tell 1 of your friends to ask him for his number. And if he sais no move on.
Lillian
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15/f
so around the end of august this year I started talking to a guy at my school. We talked every day after school from the bus ride to about 11pm. (usually texting, sometimes calling). I see him every day in the halls and we have every lunch shift togther throughout the week.
This continued all the way to the middle of october, then he told me he liked me and asked me if I felt the same. Which ofcourse I did.
He called me beautiful and said every romantic thing in the book and I couldn't help myself think that he REALLY cared about me.
The whole time he had a girlfriend and some of my friends told me he was a player. I didn't believe them because he was so different from all the guys I know that are.
Anyway, about a week after they broke up he stopped talking to me all togther. But the days after he started to flirt more. But then I thought he mightve been depressed but he just became totally secluded from me. He didn't talk to me in the halls when he saw me and he never picked me up from my classes either.
I suspected he liked my friend cuz they were everywhere togther after that. But about a month ago I figured out he met an 8th grader and had been talking to her and going to her house.
(I'm in 9th btw)
so I immediately got so pissed cuz this girl is prettier than me, sooo very immature, and just all around slutty.
About 3 weeks ago they got togther.
His ex asked him what I was doing with him(to help me) and he said "oh I was just joking around with her and she knew that."
when I certainly did not.
I've been wanting to confront him and I have no idea what to do.
He was pretty much a part of me already an now it's like my heart has just been put through a shredder. Nothing I do can help me feel better and everywhere I go I see couples or reminders of him at school. And it makes me sick. I find myself thinking of him although I can't stand him!
And now I've been hanging around my other friends a whole lot more and I believe I'm starting to like one of my bestfriends who is gay... So I don't know how to deal w that either.
What do I do? Should I ask him if he meant any of it? How do I deal with liking my friend? I just need to feel happy and wanted again.
I'm sorrythis is so long, but I really need some advice.
Thank you so much.
You are 15 in 9th grade. Girl you are going to have many dudes throughout your high school carrier. So you will feel wanted again trust me. When you confront him( If you want too) don't make him think you are just waiting for him just tell him what you feel and that your glad that he left because he left space for a real man to come in. And for your gay friend your probaly just looking at him as a rebound guy that you can't have. He is just there and great for you right now. Something to love on during this break up phase.
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I met a guy through one of my closest friends, and we've become really close over the past few months, he's my best boy mate, and I've grown to like him as more recently. He knows how I feel about him and we've held hands before, but we agreed on friends only at the moment. He had his heart broken a few days after we met, a girl he liked a lot lead him on and used him, and she was really horrible to him for being upset about it... he said he's trying to move on and that he "just needs to get laid" but he just can't seem to forget her :( I hate that there's nothing I can do to help him and I really like him so so much, I don't know where I stand or what I should do at all... I don't wanna get my heart broken or be used but I just don't know where I am in his head :( I'm willing to wait for him but I don't wanna waste my time either..
(I'm age 16 if that helps at all!) Thanks in adcvance guys :)
Well then live your life. Don't let his sitution keep you locked up. Even if you like this person a lot you need to let the past situation resolve itself. Like you said you don't want to get used in the process. Just let him know that you'll be there when he's ready, and when he needs you help.
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I'm fourteen and i have really small arms I was wondering what work outs I should do to make them bigger because I do work out but I don't seem to be getting any bigger
If you weight train to early is can stop you growth. So go easy do curl ups and push ups every other day.
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I want a profile picture, but I don't want an actual picture of me because of the whole other people seeing me thing.
Every picture I try to upload is to big! Can someone give me a picture I can get!
You can get a picture of like your favorite character of all times and they come in all shapes and sizes. Google.com images
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My dog bit me..well, not so much a bite as a sharp snapping at me. I went to pick him up tonight to bring him upstairs for bed, and he growled (which he always does because he was already half-asleep), but then he totally freaked out and yapped at scratched and bit my ear. And he snapped pretty hard that it drew blood.
My mom didn't notice the blood though, though she checked my ear she just looked at the back.
It just freaked me out a little because my sweet little dog flipped out. Both my parents came in and yelled at him and I had screamed when he bit me so now he won't come near me. =\
My question is this: Should I be worried about the bite? It just drew a little blood. And also, if I do get it checked out will the doctor ask and then my dog will have to be put down? He's not usually like this, he's been feeling a little sick for a few days, not quite himself. =\
I want to make sure my health is okay, but I don't want to put my dog at risk in the process...
And also, is there something I can do to let him know I'm not mad at him? He knows he screwed up, I can tell, and so he's very nervous around me. Any suggestions on how I can show him I'm not upset and that I think he's a good boy?
You might find me crazy, but hey, I love the little guy like a person.
I love my baby Watson too. He is my baby. If you know your dog got his shots then you should be okay. Just treated like a regular wound. Just love him all the time. My dof does the same thing but he doesn't really mean it you can tell.
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So I'm still a virgin and it's kind of a big deal.
So, out of curiosity I was wondering when did you lose your virginity (what age you were) and how did it happen?
Give details please, not on the actual sex but on how it happened. For example, don't just say 'with my first boyfriend' or 'at a house party', say exactly how it happened.
And if you're still a virgin, would you please say so too and say your age and how you feel about losing your virginity? For example, do you think you're ready to? Do you want to? Why do you want to or why do you want to wait? Do you feel pressured?
Thanks, x
I'm still a virgin! Yay! Haha. I'm 14. I'm not ready for sure. Every time I think about it, it never comes out right for some reason. Of course I want to do it, and bad!Haha. No I don't feel pressured though most of my friends aren't I feel like I have the right friends that don't tease me or anything about that.
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im a 13 year old boy who want a job so i can save up in my bank and travel around autralia im wodering where jobs are around melbourne after school hours
Melbourne, what Florida?
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16/f
i've only had two boyfriends, i went out with my ex for 2 and a half years(8th to 10th grade), he moved upstate last year and we remained friends for awhile until we got into a fight and didn't talk for a long time. i was in deep love with him, and use to cry about missing him all the time. all of a sudden we started talking as friends again.. now i'm in 11th grade & have a new boyfriend since last week, i like him & he makes me laugh. I dont understand how i feel though. Like i use to cry about my ex and now when i hear songs that remind me of him i don't anymore? Have i moved on? I can't tell. Yet i still feel like i'm sort of still in love with my ex, i told him how i feel and he said he felt the same way. Maybe i'm just young and naive and dont understand what i'm talking about? HELP PLEASE =/
Well he was your first boyfriend. You never forget your first anything. You should still have feeling because you were deeply in love with him. And you have moved on because you don't cry about him and you don't think about him to the point that you do cry. Hope you and your new boyfriend work out!
Lillian
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Okay I am a freshman and I hate being "fat" I am the girl who is nice to people, easy to get along with or talk to, but you wouldn't sit by me at a lunch table if i was alone. The one your kind of ashamed to stick up for, yet kinda feel sorry for because you know they're a good person at heart.
Well I hate being that girl. I want to go on a diet, but nothing life altering. I want excerise that is easy to stick with and not ubber time consuming.
I want a breakfest that full fills me from 5 till 11.
So please if you have anthing that will help me reply. But don't give me any excerises like { run a mile on the tredmill a day becuase I have tried that, time consuming and hard to keep up with every day }
I'm a freshman now. And though you might not believe me you will lose wight even if you don't want too, because you move around more. But that is not my point. You can eat a lot more haha. Not of bad stuff, like fruits and vegetables. And you can dance it off you don't have to do real exercise.
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OK... Here GOes... I meet this Guy... About three weeks ago... I really Liked him Fo a LONg time ANd... WE finally Exchanged Numbers... Anyway since we have been Talking... He have never paid me to much attention... He only answer his phone... when he wants to... And when I text him... He rarely text back... So Saturday nite we kinda hooked up sexually... I mean like orally so... And now I feel real bad... I did it to impress him... And he still is the same... I really can't live with myself for what I've done... And I feel real bad about it... I'm 24 And I'm a female... And for most of my life I've been in fail relationships... Domestic abuse...and I have a child but his father abandonded us when she was first born... I dont understand why I continue to let men treat me lke crap but yet... I do and no matter what I continue to choose men who treat me like nothing... I don't know what to do and righ now I can barely live with myself... Help me please
Before you get with any man you need to get yourself on track, and make sure your child is on that track with you. Though you cannot let those men dictate the rest of your life and don't let those mistakes happen again. And if they do then you need to step back think and when you know its not right and you will regret it then stop and turn away.
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For your information, I'm very plain. I never do anything to myself except tie my hair in a loose pony tail.
I hardly ever dress nice, or wear makeup or anything. I'm 16 years old, and I honestly feel like doing my hair, wearing makeup, wearing nice clothes and all that because I really think it'll help with my self-esteem issues. I've always noticed that I'm more confident whenever I wear makeup or do my hair, or dress nicely whenever I'm gone to a wedding or something.
My mother on the other hand absolutely doesn't want me wearing any makeup besides eyeliner, and lip gloss. She says that make up will ruin my skin, and that I'll become too accustomed to wearing it that I won't like my "real" face.
Anyways..
Do you think I should wear makeup, or should I not?
Share your personal experiences, and opinions. It'd help alot!
Go ahead and wear make up. But your mom is right on some levels. You wear to much make up, and when you take it off you will look like a whole different person. Though if you put on light make up you will look really pretty and when you take it off you wont look at your face and say " where did the other person go". haha
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