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Bringing Gf over
Ok so i have a gf. Btw 14/m
I wanna hang out with her at like my house or her house. She doesn't want to hang out at her house for w/e reason in not totally sure. So she asked if she could come over sometime. I said yes. But im jw is it normal for me to not want her to come meet my parents because idk how they would act and it would be first time i had a gf over. Also i don't really like how my house looks like because idk i didn't pick out how it should look inside is this normal too?
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Both of your concerns are very normal. You're 14 and it's kind of cool that you even bother to have these concerns.
It might be a good idea to let your parents know that you have this girl you like at school and you want to invite her over for dinner. See how your parents react. It would be good to see how they'd feel about it before you move on to other plans... like her coming over for a movie or whatever.
As for the house, if she's allowed to come over, show your parents you are trying to impress this young lady and try picking up around the house ;-)
Lemme know how it works out :-)
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O yeah its normal for any body to bring gf/bf over and not want them to come. Its natural. I mean she doesn't want you over her house either. Bt she is there for you not your parents nor your house.
Lillian
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She doesn't wanna hang out at her house cause she thinks her parents'll embarrass her or somethin, trust me. The reason why you don't want her to meet your parents is why she doesn't want you at her house. Haha, she's worried about the same thing.
It's totally normal. You don't want them to embarrass you or creep on ya'll the whole time. Most people your age feel the same way too.
Yeah, that's normal too. She knows you didn't pick it out. She won't care. She just wants to spend time with you.
Haha, just relax.
Hope I helped. :D
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