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Boy drama
15/f
so around the end of august this year I started talking to a guy at my school. We talked every day after school from the bus ride to about 11pm. (usually texting, sometimes calling). I see him every day in the halls and we have every lunch shift togther throughout the week.
This continued all the way to the middle of october, then he told me he liked me and asked me if I felt the same. Which ofcourse I did.
He called me beautiful and said every romantic thing in the book and I couldn't help myself think that he REALLY cared about me.
The whole time he had a girlfriend and some of my friends told me he was a player. I didn't believe them because he was so different from all the guys I know that are.
Anyway, about a week after they broke up he stopped talking to me all togther. But the days after he started to flirt more. But then I thought he mightve been depressed but he just became totally secluded from me. He didn't talk to me in the halls when he saw me and he never picked me up from my classes either.
I suspected he liked my friend cuz they were everywhere togther after that. But about a month ago I figured out he met an 8th grader and had been talking to her and going to her house.
(I'm in 9th btw)
so I immediately got so pissed cuz this girl is prettier than me, sooo very immature, and just all around slutty.
About 3 weeks ago they got togther.
His ex asked him what I was doing with him(to help me) and he said "oh I was just joking around with her and she knew that."
when I certainly did not.
I've been wanting to confront him and I have no idea what to do.
He was pretty much a part of me already an now it's like my heart has just been put through a shredder. Nothing I do can help me feel better and everywhere I go I see couples or reminders of him at school. And it makes me sick. I find myself thinking of him although I can't stand him!
And now I've been hanging around my other friends a whole lot more and I believe I'm starting to like one of my bestfriends who is gay... So I don't know how to deal w that either.
What do I do? Should I ask him if he meant any of it? How do I deal with liking my friend? I just need to feel happy and wanted again.
I'm sorrythis is so long, but I really need some advice.
Thank you so much.
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You are 15 in 9th grade. Girl you are going to have many dudes throughout your high school carrier. So you will feel wanted again trust me. When you confront him( If you want too) don't make him think you are just waiting for him just tell him what you feel and that your glad that he left because he left space for a real man to come in. And for your gay friend your probaly just looking at him as a rebound guy that you can't have. He is just there and great for you right now. Something to love on during this break up phase.
Lillian
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Well, i think you should confront the boy that is now dating an 8th grader. Tell him why he was messing with you and just wish him best for his recent relationship(just so he don't think you liked him ALOT!) . Tell your gay friend the way you feel about him and if he doesn't feel the same way about you than just move on . "THERE ARE OTHER FISHES IN THE SEA".
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