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okay well my best friend is always telling the people i like that i like them!! and she's always mean and like, yeah you have no friends, haha im just kidding! and then she says that the kid i like, matt, would never like me. and its really annoying.

And my other best friend is ALWAYS up on the guy i like. and if i stop liking them, she loses all interest. its REALLY annoying.

thats so mean! try getting some other friends, some REAL freinds. even if she is just kidding, its still mean!!

Im always here if you need anything!!

leave me one in my inbox!!

Always There-
Kels

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Okay, so! I'm 15/female and I met this guy last week and he seems pretty cool. He likes me and all, and I like him too. It's just that, I dont like him like boyfriend/girlfriend. He's a great person and all, and I'd be happy with being friends but other than that, I'm confused. See.. I'm not hott or anything, I'm average, but he sees me as beautiful. And I desperatley want a boyfriend because I havent had one in over a year and I'm getting lonely. But I dont want to go out with this guy for the wrong reasons. Should I go out with him once and see what happens or what?

well, i would say- be his friend and then see what happens! and i bet you are attractive, us girls are really critical of ourselves. lol.

No worries!!

its all gonna be okay!!

Try being friends first, and see how it works out! sometimes him as your friend is better than him as your boyfriend!

also, try praying! No one can help you more, or give better advice than God and Jesus!!!!

Hope I Helped-
Best Of Luck-
Always There=
*-KeLs-*

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Me and my girlfriend just broke up and i was kinda glad that we broke up at first but noe i miss her really bad and i am not sure if she likes me so what should i do?

tlak to her about it!!
communication is key!!!

i know exactly how you feel!!

tell her that you care!!!

just tell her everything, either on the phone or in person is best.

if its in person, look her in the eye!!!

:)

Best Of Luck!

Hope I Helped-
Always There=
*-KeLc*-

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hey what is a machine like thing to make you get abs...

crunches! and eating right!!

YOUR OWN AMAZING BODY!!!!!!!!!!!

Good Luck!!!

You're gonna look great!

Hope I helped-
*-KeLC*-

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Prom is coming up next month. I decided a few months ago that I wouldn't go because I am at a new school and don't have any 'real' friends here (like I did at my old school), but now I am starting to think that it might be fun. I love to dress up and dance. No one has asked me though, but I know I can go alone (which would suck though). Do you think I can crash someone else's table? Should I go?

go! maybe some guy likes you, and he is too scared to ask you!

there will be tuns of people there. you should "mingle"
hey some guys may even ask you to dance!

Hope I Helped-
Kels:)

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ok well whenever i go to the bathroom, i look at my underwear and theres this like clear slimy gooey discharge and i havent gotten my period yet ... what is this ? im 13/f HELP!

well, its normal, it cleans your "down there" out. use a mini or maxi daily! but not a tampon becuse if you use one w/o your paroidy ou increas the risk of TSS. your period will probably be coming soon. most girls get this before their inital peroid, and then from then on.

its okay! dont worry!

maybe talk to your mother or older sister or aunt about it, they can probably help you more!

hope i helped-
kels

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well today has been very odd for me. my face has just been so itchy! it cant be anything that i put on my face, because everything i put on is daily. well my cheeks are very itchy, as well as my forhead and chin. my eyes too! but i have allergies...any thoughts of what may cause this?

cold air?

try face lotion with an SPF!!

thats what i use and it woeks really good!

Hope I Helped-
Kels

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so today i asked a guy i really like to be my b/f and he said yes after keeping me in suspence for a few hours during the school day. hes really shy all the time so i asked him out. im afraid this relationship isnt gonna work out cuz he wont call or talk to me... should i give it some time to get comfy (if yes, how should i help him) or just tell him to forget it?

no! My bf was really shy too!! and he still is, just not around me. we talk about everthing and always have so much fun! we have been together over a year! its awesome!!

give it some time! like a few weeks!

Best Of Luck!
-*KeLs*-

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omg is it normal to have yellow discharge? i'm kinda freaked out because its kinda like.. sticky or it cums out in peices.. i'm not sexually active and it feels normal down there.. whats wrong with me??? I NEED TO NO PLEASE HELP ME

calm down! your fine! happens to me too! its all gonna be okay!!

dont worry!!

its normal, its cleaning you out down there if that makes since!

go to www.beinggirl.com

and they have a lot of stuff on periods and things like that!

Hope I helped-
Kels

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there is someone who keeps logging on to my screen name! I think its one of my friends but everytime i ask her she denies it! the last question "i" asked i think she did. u kno the acting question. That question is totally inaccurate! I stink at acting let alone boast about it. She is in my acting class too so thats why i think its her. What do you think i can do about her cuz she wont admit it???
~Dani~

change your pass word.

:)!!!

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I just found out that this girl i know is about to die because of cancer. I dont know how to handle it. someone please help me!!

well, always spend time with her. people who have people while they have cancer have a better chance of recovering. just be with her!!!

pray to God that you have found your girl and you dont want Him to take her away from you yet, and that she is too young. but once she has cancer Its in God's hands. all you can do is pray and be with her!

Hope I Helped
-*KeLs*-

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I need to get in shape for this summer-like so bad..I've tried almost everything..Dieting and crunches didn't help..eating less and less didn't help..Not eating for almost a whole day didn't help..and I couldn't really keep up with the eating healthy thing..I just want to look greeaattt in a bikini for this summer..Does anyone know any ways to get in shape? Thanks

okay, dont stop eating! that doesnt help!
keep up with those crunches and try walking around your neighborhood, bike riding, roller blading, skateboarding, ect. also playing other sports such as, football, hockey, tennis, lacross, field hockey, soccer, and baseball or softball will help!

eat 3 good sized meals a day! and make sure that they are healthy!

or 5 smaller, but healthy, meals a day!

the results take some time!

also, if you still attend school, and your school has a weight room, see if you can stay after school and work there! when i went to the weight room at my school, it helped a lot!!

:)

GOOD LUCK!
You're Gonna Look Great!

Hope I Helped-
*-KeLs-*

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ok i just moved away from my old skool and before i left, i didnt say goodbye to some ppl because i didnt have time and well i didnt like this girl back then who like me back then and well now im falling for her bad and she does like me but shes i dont kno shes kind of mad at me and i just want 2 let her know i like her and i want to go out with her, how do i do this(srry so long)

call her or something. write her. or you could ask some of the people who you are still in contact with for her screen name!!!

explain things to her, calmly and niceley! and dont get mad!!

GOOD LUCK!!

Hope I Helped-
*-KeLs-*

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Hey I realized my friend sorta WANTS to have sex and she is only 13, shes not going to have it, its just she wants to. I was on her computer and saw alot of porn websites, is this normal for a 13 year old??
I rate high!

yes, at that age people are just learning about their new bodies and things, its very normal. she is just experimenting. just thinking is okay, althugh it is a sin.

its bad when she gets to doing things tho!!

*-KeLs-*

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Are ghosts real? only if you know the answer then answer my question. only if you're sure.

no. I am a Catholic, and i do not belive they are real. believing in that stuff is against my religion.

How could someone come back after they die??

Wierd-
-*KeLs*-

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I know having bulimia,anorixia or anything like that isnt pleasing to God...but is it considered a sin?

yes, its like cutting, its harmful to your body!

*-KeLs-*

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there are these girls..Paty and jessica. okay well paty and jessica ALWAYS get mad at me for no reason. Dude, and im on these girls basketball team and I fouled one time and i said.."oh i dont rlly care." you no just because it was my first one. and paty goes to me "WELL WHAT THE FREAK...YOU SHOULD CARE." and she wouldnt pass me the ball at all. But this one time at school, i didnt get such a good grade on my socical studies test...(if was a D) & the est was on the whole book *well the stuff we covered* and Jessica comes up to me and goes " (my name) wat did you get? & paty butts in and goes I got an A+ and Jessica goes Me to"...and then they ask me again and i said "no" and then when our teacher wasnt looking they grab my paper and started making fun of me. Please helped


SOrry its so long BUT PLEASE HELP ME *


Sincerly,
crushed/MAD

Ps: there is a ton of more stuff that they have done to make my life miserable

maybe she has problems at home
alot of people who have problems at home take someone else down with them beacuse it helps them to feel better when they see someone else suffering!

dont ask, i know, it makes no since! but w/e

just try to be nice ! and ignor them, you know whats true and whats not!

Hope I Helped-
-*KeLs*-

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i sweat alot under my arms even though i put on deoderant.The docoter gave me better stuff to use but i still sweat is there anything i can do so i wont sweat there? i rate!!!

i have the same problem! i use a LOT of deoderent @ night and in the morning, adn then some @ school! Also, try useig these whipes by dove, they come in packs of 15 for around 3$ ! they like whipe of the sweat, after using it, put on more deoderent.

http://www.health911.com/remedies/rem_bodyo.htm
http://www.abchomeopathy.com/forum2.php/3559/
those have some advice

Hope I Helped-
-*KeLs*-

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i was just wondering about this with some friends the otherday:
-If a word in the dictionary were misspelled, how would we know?
--and
-If you ask someone if they're a compulsive liar and they answer yes, should you believe them?
--ohh also
-If a person with multiple personalities threatens suicide, is that a hostage situation?

thx and plz answer asap :)

you're funny!

any more??

e-mail them to me at:
kelc2204@yahoo.com

thanks!

you're a hoot!

-*KeLs*-

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15/f i'm having a party on saturday for my birth day and i would like to know ideas for games and just fun stuff to do so that this party will not be boring. there will be guys and girls. also, any tips would be great! thank you!

movies, out to eat, movies, to a concert, in your (or someone) basement w/ lights and music!! and FOOD!!

:)

HAVE FUN!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hope I helped-
-*KeLs*-

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