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NaMe : Amber

AgE : 17

StAtE : VA

BdAy: September 1

ScHoOL: SHS '06 Graduate.
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I decided to make this to help people out if they need it. I've been told I'm a good advice giver. So we'll see. =) Feel Free To Ask Me Questions About Anything! Hope I help.




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ok well my boyfriend wants to have like alot of sex you know and I'm not ready for that yet but once he pushed me when I said no and he yelled at me and just left I don't know why but I'm scared to say no to him and I'm doing sumthing with him tonight I need serious help

If your boyfriend is pressuring you into sex, you need to end the relationship NOW. You don't deserve to be treated that way and you need to stand up to him and end it. You should never feel pressured into doing anything. Its just completely wrong. If you don't want to end it, you need to talk to him and make sure you get your point across. And if it doesn't work then you should definately get rid of him. You should never feel threatened by a boyfriend, also. So take that into consideration. Hope it helps =) *Amber*

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after u eat ALOT is it bad to make ur self throw up just one time ?? i know i wont get like obsessed, but it it bad for just 1 time?

Of course it is bad! You should NEVER make yourself throw up, it isn't healthy at all. And there is always a chance of it turning into something more, a serious eating disorder for example. So never do it! hope it helps.. *amber*

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what exactly is an orgasm?..and is it posible to have one if you are still a virgin?...or do u have 2 masterbate to have one?

An orgasm is described as a level of sexual arousal that reaches a peak then subsides leaving the participant feeling elated, relaxed and sexually satisfied. It is difficult to describe an orgasm because it is different for every female. Women generally describe it as a feeling of being so aroused that you are going to explode.


For more information go here : http://www.talksexwithsue.com/femaleorgasm.html


Hope it helps =) * amber *

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What is tss? Just Wondering...

Toxic Shock Syndrome. You can get it from using tampons. I did a little research online for it and here are some things that can happen :


What Happens

TSS symptoms can rapidly affect several different organ systems, including the lungs, kidneys, and liver. The sunburnlike rash that may occur early in the illness is often followed 7 to 14 days later by scaling, peeling skin, especially on the palms of the hands and soles of the feet.

Serious life-threatening complications of TSS include:

Shock.

Acute respiratory distress syndrome (ARDS).

Disseminated intravascular coagulation (DIC).

Kidney failure.


Recurrent episodes of menstrual TSS may cause ongoing symptoms, such as memory loss, rashes, bluish fingers and toes, or an increase in allergies.

Children are less likely than adults to develop the more serious complications of TSS.

If you want to know more about TSS do an online search by typing in "Toxic Shock Syndrome Information" You should find plenty of results.

Hope it helps =) *Amber*

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I need some really great ideas for some stores to shop at for back to school shopping. I really want to look good in front of my friends and people at school and i wasn't that popular last year but people still liked me. I just need a way to get popular. And i know you're all going to say "oh just be yourself" or something but seriously people i need help with more than that!!! I don't know who the real me is anymore!!

First of all, you really shouldn't worry about being popular.. It isn't everything. Just have fun with what you wear! Go in all kinds of stores and buy anything that you like. Try different accessories or other little things to make your look stand out, maybe try new hairstyles or ways of doing your makeup. Do what you like, it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. Just you.

Hope it helps =) *Amber*

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I met this guy at the movies..we had been talkin for quite awhile on the internet. He goes to a different school and my best friend knows him. Well i think he is interested in me but i dont know..how do i find out if he likes me or not?

Well keep talking to him and look for little subtle hints or flirting to see if he does. Or, as you said, your best friend knows him so she could ask him if he likes you. Or if you're brave you can ask him yourself =) Hope it helps *amber*

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does anyone know any good sites for fitness or excercise, and how to tone up ur body and how to lose alittle weight! or if u know anything that might help me! (my main target areas are the tops of my legs and my stomache) i need to know asap! please help me! ill rate high!! thnx!

Toneteen.com has good exercises you could try =) Or you could always do a search online for exercises. Hope it helps =) *amber*

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This is 4 all the girls out there (but I guess guys could help too)! How do or did u get over ur boyfriend who just broke up w/ u? (Or if u are a boy, how do u get over ur girlfriend?) Well, it's totally draggin me down, but maybe sum ideas will help?

Don't let a guy get you down! You deserve better if he hurt you. Go out and have some fun with your friends. Maybe have a girl's night out and go shopping, or to the movies, or something else you like to do. Or have a girl's night in and watch movies, talk, pamper yourselves, eat icecream, all the stuff that makes you feel good =) In time you'll realise that you don't need him and its his loss that hes gone. Just go out and have some fun! Hope i helped =) *amber*

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How do you put a music video on xanga? wiff music

Go to sumfun4u.com. i think they have them there (and codes to use) =) hope it helps. *Amber*

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What are some good snacks? I'm trying to stay away from packaged snacks or sugary snacks.

Try fruits and vegetables such as : grapes, raisons, apples (w/ peanut butter), celery or carrots (w/ fun dip) or stuff like granola bars and rice cakes. They are all healthy and come in good flavors. Hope i helped =) *Amber*

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ok, im a 17 yr old female, and i have been "seeing" this guy. not really dating, because he doesnt think he's "boyfriend material" i dont understand this, but i know he cares about me the same way i care about him.

i wrote him a 3 page long letter telling him how i felt. he told me he liked it and he reads it often.

we hang out alot (many times for 10 or more hours or untill like 1 am!) and every time, we hold hands and cuddle and hold each other close the whole time, even around our parents. my family loves him and his family thinks i am just the sweetest thing to walk the planet.

but...alwayz a but...he and i have dated before. and he ask me out both times. so now i think it is my turn to ask him out, to show him how much i care. but, i dont want to scare him off.

so i ask you guyz, does a girl askign a guy out kind of freak him out, or do they like it? and i also would like to know if anyone has any ideas what he meant by "i dont think i'm boyfriend material". please help me out!

To a lot guys it defiantely shows a lot when your gonna make the move and ask them out, or even tell them how you feel first. It shows you care and that you definately want to be with them. As far as "i don't think i'm boyfriend material" he's probably afraid he is going to mess stuff up or something and doesn't want anyone hurt. But you should prolly try your luck at making the first move and see where things go =) hope it helps. *amber*

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How can i make a website that is for free?? I use 2 have aol but i don't have aol anymore so i wanted to make a new website...anybody kno what i can do??

geocities.com is pretty good & you have a lot of freedom to do what you want with your website, I have a geocities website. If you don't want to completely build your own you have th eoption to start with templates and what not. But if you looking for somethin else you can try freewebs.com thats pretty good too, or myspace.com. Hope it helps =) *amber*

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Im a 16 year old girl and ive been dating this girl for 3 months I want to make a move but dont know how, what do I do?

Ask her how she feels and where she stands, talk to her about how you've wanted to do stuff with her but you weren't sure how to make your move, most likely she'll be up for it and once you know what shes thinking everything will be that much easier. hope it helps =) *Amber*

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i started my period a few months ago...and my mom gave me pads....i want tampons soo i can go swimming etc....soo i decided to ask her...i cant get the guts up to ask her...how should i ask her?

Just ask her! Its no big deal really, shes your mom- shes been there herself. Its a woman to woman thing, she'll understand. So don't worry and just tell her you want them =) Hope it helps *amber*

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Okay, I have only had my period twice now, well 2 weeks of it. I don`t think that made since, but ok. I`m only use pad because i`m scared to use a tampon. Do they hurt? How does it feel when you stick it in. lol sorry that sounded sooo wrong. =/

Don't be afraid to use tampons, trust me once you use them, you'll never wanna go back to pads because tampons are SO much better. It might take a little time to put it in the first time, and there may be a little discomfort.. but no real pain. honestly. But after the first time, its really easy. hope I helped =) *Amber*

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okay so i met this guy when i went to mexico and he was really nice and we talked alot and made out once... but n e ways i haven't talked to him in a year! and i got his sn from my cuzin so finnally he came online and i sent him and i.m saying..."hey sexy wuts up? do you knoe who this is?" and he hasn't answered for over like 10 minutes! y wont he talk to me!! should i tell him who i am? or just wait for him to send me sumthing back cuz i don't wanna be all like hello? hello? hello? hello? cuz then ill sound dessperate and annoying! so help me asap before he signs off!

Well you should prolly just tell him who it is, otherwise he might just think you're a random person he doesn't know. Especially since you haven't talked to him in a year! People are bound to forget things in that amount of time.. So just tell him and see if he talks then, remind him of who you are and junk. Hope It Helps =) Amber

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hey! i was just wondering if anyone who's willing would give me ONE sentence on what the best part of being a teenager is for them cuz i want to make a list and i think it would be really cute!! thanks

You have more opportunities to do what you want =P lol.

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i'm 16 and a girl. i have never had a boyfriend and i'm tired of it. it's not like i can't get one i have boys ask me out and stuff it's just that i always say no. then they get mad at me and don't speak to me. i like them and stuff it's just that i always say no. wat should i do.

Why do you say no if you like them? You should say yes! lol. Do you have some kind of worries about it not working out or something? Because you always have to take those risks and see where things go. Hope it helps =) *amber*

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how do you heal a sprained wrist?

Well my wrist is sprained right now so I suppose I could help, lol. I've had them a few times and all I really do is put ice on it and wrap it in ace bandage and try not to bend it alot. It'll heal. Or if it seems like a bad sprain you should go to the doctors. Hope I helped =) *amber*

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hey i was jw....whats an orgasm and what does ejacuating mean? whats the difference between the 2?

Orgasm- The highest point of sexual excitement, marked by strong feelings of pleasure and marked normally by ejaculation of semen by the male and by vaginal contractions within the female. Also called climax.

Ejaculation- The expulsion of seminal fluid from the urethra of the penis during orgasm.

Hope It helps =) *Amber*

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