soemone i kno died and im really bad at dealing with it its been awhile and i still get thoose days that i just miss them so much is there anyway i can cope better?has this happened to you?if so howd u deal?
i know exactly what you mean. my grandma passed away years ago, and sometimes ill start thinking about her and times, and ill just cry. same thing with my dad. or soemtimes ill just get really sad and zone out for a couple days. i was told this is normal, but if you find out that theres a better way. drop one in my inbox
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My puppies (two small breed, one male one female) are so newspaper-trained that they won't go outside! Every time we come in from a walk they go straight to the newspaper and do their business. What should I do?
i would think that you should move the newspaper outside. so when you come back from a walk, take them out and they will see the newspaper and go out there. eventually take the newspaper away. it make take them a little while to figure it out, but leave them outside until you see them go. then give them treats and play with them and tell them good dog and what-not.
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is it normal to get really down during the winter time as opposed to summer?
just curious.
its funny that you ask that because i was just talking about it today. apparently its some kind of proven fact, that people become more depressed in the winter months because its normally darker and the way the cold dry weather is, or dark cold rainy weather is, is brings you down and makes you feel somewhat empty. its shown that theres more suicides in the winter and in places that are always cold. its called S.A.D. (seasonal affective disorder) its happens to a lot of people. something like three fourths of the people who get it are women. to get rid of it you can get this thing called "light therapy" or "phototherapy" with some kind of flourescent light. you should look it up, itd be a lot more helpful. you could also take anit-depressants, but that should always be a last resort if ever an option in anything.
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Wow,
I just found out my dad smokes pot!
I'm gob smacked.
He didn't tell me, I found out myself.
I don't even know why I'm posting this, I'm so shocked. I had to get it out.
haha go light one up with him, thats awsome. i wish my mom smoked so she wouldnt be so damn uptight.
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When I get made at my mom because of something she said to me or something she wont let me do I get really really upset and basically start talking back to her and saying things I shouldn't then storm upstairs. After a few minutes of being unbelievably mad, I realize that I over reacted and go back down stairs and ask her if she needs help or something. It happens all the time. And because I do it alot, my mom now thinks I have mood swings. But, I don't, I just always feel sorry about the way I talked to her. I know it's something I need to change and I'm working on it because I know I shouldn't treat her that way. But, while I’m working on it, how can I convince her that I do not have mood swings?
just tell her exactly what you just said. the only way to tell someone something..is to tell them. but i do know what you mean. i get that way sometimes, so i close my eyes and count to five. you should try it, it works for me.
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my parents make fun of me. i pull my hair out (i have trich) and my parents make fun of me.
my mom knows, i have microwave food because it comes out soggy. if i eat soggy food i get sick.
so she made me mashed potatos in the microwave. and im illergic to potatos!
and then i told her that and then she said "go shave your head!"
someone please help me! please im really upset!
run away. but first set fire to the house, while theyre in it. do it.
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I want to know how i can solve my problems like what should i do to convince my dad that he did something bad?
i think you need to sit down and have a serious talk with your dad. just because you saw them so great together, doesnt mean they didnt have secrets and hide problems they were having from you. after my parents split up it was about two years before i found out the truth and all the secrets, and i still dont know the whole story. even if this isnt the case with your parents, the only thing you can do is talk to your dad. tell him exactly whats on your mind, and how you feel. maybe talk to him about getting a therapist or something. i hope everthing works out for you
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what POSITIVE effects come from birthcontrol? i heard it lightens your period and helps you lose weight. can you take it even if your not/dont think you are pregnant?
i think that one of the side effects of birth control is that you actually gain weight, not lose it. but you dont take birth control when you think you are or when you are pregnant. you take it to prevent becoming pregnant, i think thats the positive effect right there, is the "to prevent becoming pregnant" part. but dont take my word for the weight thing, you should just google birth control, itd be a lot more helpful.
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heyy wats ur s/n? juss so i cn get sum ideas of wat you have for ur poem ;) thnx!
my screen name is beani027
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ok well i have a boyfrend n i wanna find a cute way to put i
i have this in my aim profile at my bestfriends house, it was also an icon i had (but for no one special):
I
want
need
totally adore
think fondly of
am very very attracted to
cant stop thinking about
immensely appreciate
really really like
am crazy about
would travel the world
madly desire
want nothing more than to be with
am drawn to
just plain love
you
but since its in my profile its all colorful and some things are underlined and others bold or in different fonts. you could even change "you" at the bottom to say your bf's name. it might not be what your looking for or you might not have space, but i thought it was really cute anyway and thought id share. plus if you have a livejournal or anything you can IM me and i can give you the actual icon, its very pretty :)
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I recently just started dating someone that I like soooo much but my friend is pissed off at me!i did tell her that if he asked me out then id say no bc of how he acts but when he asked me out i just couldnt say no!shes now saying..."how could you choose him over me?"when i never did that!shes acting like i ditched her but i would never do that!!!what do i do?
it sounds like your friend thinks shes being abandoned for a guy. if this isnt the case and your sure you havent blown her off at all, then just talk to her about it. tell her that you would never ditch her for anyone and then plan a date with her, go to the mall or something and just hang out, just the two of you. prove to her that your not letting your new bf take away yalls friendship.
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Okay so I was on the phone with my best friend right cause she wanted me to go over. Well my mom said no because I got off the computer at 10:00 last nigth even though she asked me to get off at 9:30! Well i really got off at ten but she said i didn't get off til' midnight! Its was a school night and she lied when I was on the phone! HELP! WHat should I say to her!
♥Staci♥
your mom said no because you didnt get off the copmuter when she told you too. even if you got off at 10 and not 12. you still didnt listen. so you ARE the one in the wrong.
by the way, just because its not what you want to hear doesnt mean its bad advice.
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I have been going out with a guy i've liked forever as of yesterday. He is already saying I love you and I said it back. Are we both just saying it or what?
if you have to ask you cant honestly mean it
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I've been researching cell phone plans for my brother and I.
I don't want to base my decision only on price but also on service.
So my question is what cell phone company has the best service?
you dumb bitch. i hope your cell phone gives you brain cancer.
:) love ya weenie
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How soon can a female go into heat after having puppies?
maybe you should just get her fixed so that she doesnt have any more puppies. if you want puppies, why dont you adopt some that are in a shelter and save their lives? or do you prefer giving puppies bad homes or getting them killed?
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ok well a guy is switching schools on friday so i wrote him a letter about how i feel but i signed it as anonymous. it tells exactly how i feel about him. shouldi leave it how it is or put my actual name on it plaese help. i rate high
well if you dont write your name, how is he supposed to respond to anonymous? unless you have him write back and drop a note somewhere. is this what you plan on doing? plus, even if you tell him, its too late to get him to stay, but never to late to tell him how you feel. "its up to you if you will just let it pass you by..or end up regretting that you let it slip away from you.."
i dunno who said that, but it was good.
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My boyfriend and me are totaly different and I don't think that he minds but i do. I don't want to break up with him because i was the one that wanted to go out. He tells me now that he just got out of jail and that he drinks. I don't get him because at the begining of the relationship he promist me that he would'nt do that shit. I don't think that hes getting the fact that i'm starting to get unconfortable with him.how can i break up with him without hurting his feelings.
well i dont think theres any real way to break up with someone, without hurting theyre feelings. unless you make them break up with you, by like farting when you two are alone, always sucking up snot and spitting, make up random stories that dont make any sence and tell them that it happened to you that way he thinks your an idiot, and everyday tell him you think something about him is stupid. mostly just gross him out and piss him off. otherwise..just simply do whats right, and tell him how you feel. good luck (by the way all the nasty stuff i explained first should completely be last resort)
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We look eye to eye, and I'm swept away.- Rufio
what rufio song is that??
i think your talking about the song called "Slow Dance"
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Ok, my eyes are light blue, and they stand out ALOT. Like i mean when you first see me, that's what you notice. I want to dye my hair another color, & i know dark colors make them stand out more, so i was thinking Dark Auburn. But i was wondering.. If i dyed it dark with the reddish tint to it... would it drain out my eyes? and make them not stand out as much? Or do you think you`d still be able to notice them just as well?
i think you should either go like a platinum blond cause itd make you gorgeous, or go with just a dark dark brown cause thats more of a mysterious beauty. i think those are the two colors that would make your eyes stand out best. i also honestly think that even though red and auburn are cool colors, they would drown out the color of your eyes more. hope it turns out great.
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What is the curse of Eve????? sorry i need to know fast.............. thanks
well the bibles says that god put some trees in the garden of eden, and one of them an was apple tree. and he was all "dont eat the apples cause theyre poisoned" or something. but this snake came along and was all like "hey eve eat an apple because god lied and the apples really make you cool" so she did and then god got mad and kicked them out of the garden. so then she had to have babies all the time or something like that. i think the moral of the story is peer pressure. just say no. the snake is some bully and the apple is crack. then she had to have babies all the time cause she became a crack whore and was always getting knocked up.
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