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My name is Devin Lindsey or Vinny as my sister calls me! I am 17 years old and go to Bethel Park High school. I loooove swimming along with dancing, singing, and playing softball. I also run varsity track with is alright i supose too.


My favorite colors are orange, pink, and blue. I love to be crazy and have a good time

I've had a job working for 15+ monthes so I can answer alot about that

and I know alot about relationships in general so I can be helpful with that sometimes

especially with parent child relationships


I am a very observant person and tend to know more and care about more than most my age


and I really believe in volunteering to help animals especially at shelters. Usually its not their fault that they have to live their and its usually horrible cercimstances that bring them there and I feel terrible that they can't speak for themselves and people are too caught up in spending like $500 on this cute little pure breed puppy from a breeder just into getting rich instead of giving one of these dogs another chance at life (there are usually a handful of dogs under a year old so the i want a puppy excuse doesn't work with me)

My baby is named Lainey Mae... we got her from a shelter about 2 hours away from us when she was 7 weeks old. she is now 2 years old and the center of our family. unfortunately someone was cruel enough to go down and drug up and shoot (but luckly not kill) most of the dogs plus rob the owner (just like someone did at the shelter where I volunteer) and its now shut down

advice

i am 15 years old, i am a virgin but i have done every thing else, i have a few questions 1. i have dis charge i know that is normal and it is always clear but some times it smells like right after my period is there somthing wrong?
2. when im not on my period i stick a lil bit of toilet paper there.. will that hurt me?
3. is sperm dead when air contacts it? idunno random quetsion but my friend said that but i wasnt sure

thanx i rate 5's

yeah thats normal. instead of using toilet paper i recommend "mini pads" they are just real tiny thin pads that you can use between periods and i think they feel better than toilet paper.

sperm does die when it hits the air within a few secs.

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hey im a guy...and no im not planning on getting an abortion. i was just wondering something: why is it that girls/women abort children instead of adopt them? i know there are plenty of reasons why, but is there one (or more) that would overshadow the case of giving birth then putting the baby up for adoption. looking for a girls point of view on this, because even if the girl didn't want the baby, would there be something wrong in giving it away instead of killing it? thanks, will rate.

well sometimes they have to abort. like if the mother is in an extreme life threatening state or whatever. some do it because they are stupid and they dont want other stupid girls to find out but i think its wrong unless the mom is in danger if dying really. or something people abort because the child is going to be like extremely deformed and like braindead and its easier not to go through that after the child is born.. like before you form and atachment. also being pregnant is expensive and some people cant affort to pay all that money just to give the baby up

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i am 15/f highschool, and i want to have sex, badly. i know that i'm ready for it. but my boyfriend and i both agree on waiting til theres a time where we dont have to worry about getting caught, and when he can actually love me after and not me have to leave, you know, well, i live in wilson. and i'm also afraid itd going to get around, but its weird cuz. i trust him. and dont think that he will tell anyone, but i dont trust myself.. kinda. i meaan, i told people when i gave my ex a handjob, and shit, but i kinda think sx, is a diff, story, you know, my mom would kill me if she found out.

confused& hatin hormones

dont do it.. trust me i have the same feelings too but i just try to get past them. try doing other things but save sex for later.. ive been told i will appriciate my decision to wait more later on

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hey im 13 and a female. i was wondering are looks an important part in a relationship? all my friends say it is but i think its a lil shallow.

**sleepiesheep**

at your age even though its kinda wrong it is.. as you get older looks will become less important to the other person but really im middle school thats all immature guys are concerned about

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im goin to mexico in feb and i dont have a decent swimsuit to wear. i was wondering if there are any sites with swimsuits this time of year...seeing its winter..thanks..by thw way im a girl...

well you would be suprised to know that it has not gotten above 40 degrees where im add since like october but the department stores are starting to get bathingsuits! i would check them out first. im sure places like american eagle and hollister will have them out in the next few weeks but if you dont see them directly on their websites i bet they have some on clearace. also try like pack sun. im dont know where you are going to find them for under like $40 though.. sorry

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My friend and I were argueing over a weird topic.

If someone has anal sex, are they still considered a virgin?
It's a type of sex, but its still not really sex cuz its anal.

I really dont know.
Are they still considered a virgin?

well teqnically in medical terms you are still a virgin but if you really ask anyone like religious leaders and what not you are not a virgin.. because its called anal SEX. its not anal making out its anal sex which means you are no longer a virgin

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k, there's this (really hott) guy in my class. I don't care what guys look like all that much, his hotness adds to it.. a lot of other girls like him, but I'm not sure if he likes me or not. Another guy in my class shouted to the class that I liked him, and he didn't say anything but my friends said he blushed more than I did. so, do you think this guy likes me? I'll rate 5's for any sensible answer! 14/f

it sure sounds like it! if you think he does he is prob to shy to make the first move.. the only way to find out is to ask him out!

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Why does everyone think you HAVE to believe in something? Do you feel it's wrong to not put faith in a religion? I'm not religious in the tiniest bit. I know some people think that you never know what you're missing out on until you try it. However, I've never even cared or have been concerned with trying to find religion in my life. Why is religion so important?

you dont have to believe in a religion but i think it is somewhat improtant.. i mean dont you want something to live for after life. and i think things like god sents good examples like wanting you to help people and stuff. i think religion helps sets your morals and helps you find people with common beliefs to.. even if you dont believe in everything yuo hear at your church or whatever

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I think i may have OCD. (obsessive compulsive disorder). I seem to have like scary and gross thoughts and images in my head that I cant make go away and i get like obsessed over it and I cant concentrate. Another thing is I wont eat food thats over 4 days old even if it doesnt get old for another month. No madder what. Another thing is everything has to be clean. As in washed. Like my bes sheats. If they're not I cant sleep in them. Like ill obeses and I cant even sleep, or I wont sleep at all. There are so many things that I obsess over, and I get stressed over. Its so weird. I can name other things but does this seem like OCD to you?

that doesnt sound like ocd to me.. maybe something else but not ocd.. ocd is like you have to wash your hands t the same time everyday the same amount of times or you will have a panic atack. it has nothing to do with like washing sheets or eatly food that a few days old. you might have some sort of disorder like ocd but its def not ocd

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Does anybody know where I can buy leggins? Like to wear under my skirts in the wintertime? Any kind or anything.

Thanks for helping.

:0)

i think they sell them at hollister. also you can get them at like any cheerleading/dance store or fitness stores.

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how much does it cost to get your hair back to its natural color..i don't know how to spell the word...someone please help

it depends on where you go. i know they have stuff to strip the color out of your hair at eckerd.. im not sure if it works or not but i believe its only like $10 but you ahve to do everything yourself

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i'm having a baby girl and i don't know what to name her..i am 6 months..can somebody give me a site or some names to name her..please help

well my favorite names are Alivia and Aleia (a Lie A)

i think exotic but normal names are cute.. do you know what i mean? like names that are really girly but still unique.. like i really like Alyanna. (alie ona) try looking through name books and try to find meanings that make alot to you or have to do with your babys origin (german, french etc)

just please dont name your baby something really odd like LaFawnDuh or my name (Devin) i hate my name because everyone either asumes im a boy or they are like that is the prettiest name for a girl its so unique and it drives me insane!

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what is the best mp3 player to get. peopl keep saying ipod but others r cheaper.

ive heard tons of bad things about ipods. i know they freeze ALOT and apple doesnt do anything to help you.. a few of my friends have irivers and they are very happy with them. i just know they go through batteries alot but so do all mp3 players

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can you get stds from giving oral sex? and if you do have oral sex, even if your sex partner doesnt have stds, can you still get them??

yes you can get stds and he might have them and not know it. if he is 100% sure he has nothing then i dont think you can get them

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I brought some trousers for yoga in the sales. They're really comfy and I'd like to keep them, but they're white and a little on the see through side - not what I have in mind for exercise clothes. The fabric is 47% cotton, but the rest is synthetic fibres (49% viscose and 4% elastane) - would dyeing them work, or is the synthetic content too high for that? Thanks in advance.

you can dye then but chances are they they would look kinda pastelly.. and the color make not last that long and it make look kinda spotted. i would recomend like tie dying them so that you dont have to worry about the uneven spots or maybe try dying them in like airbrush paint. it will take alot more work but you will prob get better results

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okay. i love to be fashionable. and im 13 and pretty petite. i can fit into aeropostale and places liek that wearing a 00. i live in louisiana and theres not many stores with fashionable clothes like the celebrities wear. someone who lives in a small town, help! tell me where i can find cute clothes.

ps. i love jeans. and tshirts. also, logo tshirts with bands and brands are cute. thanks!

try places on line like hollister, ambercrombie, pac sun, american eagle and wet seal

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does anyone know if AIM is coming out with a new version of aim??

thanks!!

i thought it just did not to long ago.. well the version that is now has alot of bugs in it and it is prob going to take them a while to get a new version out. ive noticed they get a new one like every 6 monthes or so so they are due to have one come out pretty soon but who nos?

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I have a 2 GB Nano Ipod, and I've been uploading music from CDs onto it. My problem is, that I only have about 49 songs on it and it's almost full! Why is this? Also, if you upload a song from a CD, does it take up more space than a song you upload from, say, Itunes? Thanks!

well its because if you get it from the comp its in mp3 form which is a smaller file. try getting your music from like limewire if you dont want to pay from itues because you will get alot more songs. i think if you save the cds onto your comp you can convert them to mp3 form but im not exactly sure how

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Ohkay, my winter dance is coming up soon. I've been trying to lose weight for it. Let's just say at the time of the dance, I'll be 160 pounds and 5'5. Does anyone know any dresses that would look cute on a girl that size? links to specifc sites would be apprectiated.

*THIS IS AN OPINION QUESTION. ALL ANSWERS THAT PEOPLE PUT EVEN SOME DEGREE OF THOUGHT INTO WILL GET 5'S.*

i would try something black and sparkly.. that is wat i wore to homecoming and i think dresses like that look good on everyone. the more intriget it is the better it will hide curves and stuff to try to get something maybe with like ruffles and like a halter top or something. also low cut dresses will take away from your waiste and stuff if that is what you are worried about.. the will bring the focus up

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I'm trying out for the play The Sound of Music, and I'm going for the part of Leisel(the oldest VonTrapp child) For the audition, I must sing. What I need is the sheet music(piano)to bring with me. Does anyone know where I can get that online for the song "Sixteen Going On Seventeen" ?

5's for everyone who helps

im not sure of a place online but try your local music store im sure they have something or even like walmart. if you have to just try typing in like piano music on yahoo and see what happens.. or talk to one of your friends or a piano teacher you might know. im sure its a fairly common song to play on the piano.

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